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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you think of these profiles that come across aggressive and just bombard people with rules?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought this site was a fun site and not like being back at school with rules everywhere

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We stop reading and move on to a profile we like the look and general feel of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its tricky. We try to stay positive but after receiving the same thing over and over we try to give people a warning of what will get them ignored. Though do agree some can go a bit overboard we just dont bother messaging them and move on. Big up on reading profiles, would put you in the minority apparently

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't really think anything.

I can understand why people put rules on their profile, its very tempting.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

As someone with one of those, here is your answer. Not everyone wants to meet everyone else. Not everyone wants 300 messages a day. Some people prefer being comfortable in what they will or will not do rather than advertise themselves to a big crowd of people. By all means, pass them by. It will be better for you and also for the owner of the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their profile. Their business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think about them. They aren't for me.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I know what you mean.

Profiles that bark at you.

Easier, I think, just to ignore or decline any inappropriate messages, than to make all sorts of assertions about what people must do or not to comply with your standards. It often comes across as pompous and sometimes rude.

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

If I see a profile I don't like the look of, I just move on. Pretty simple.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"If I see a profile I don't like the look of, I just move on. Pretty simple. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people probably view profiles that clearly state preferences and what they are looking for as a list of rules. I don't think it's automatically a bad thing depending on how it is worded.

But as others have said if you don't like the profile just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We stop reading and move on to a profile we like the look and general feel of. "

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I think some people probably view profiles that clearly state preferences and what they are looking for as a list of rules. I don't think it's automatically a bad thing depending on how it is worded.

But as others have said if you don't like the profile just move on"

True!

To (almost) quote Bananarama and Fun Boy Three - it ain’t what you say, it’s the way that you say it!

I’m as fussy as they come - but I like to think I put it across in as nice a way as possible!

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By *ophleeCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

We find it's better to say as much in our profile so people know what to expect and decide if they wish to chat, but not aggressive. We do know the ones you mean and could maybe be worded better, but each profile is personal and therefore they should be what works for each person

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