FabSwingers.com forum: Still learning

By *offee with Milk OP Couple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

We joined the swinging community almost a year ago. In that time we like to think we have developed and adapted. So what have we learned?

Jealousy doesn't exist between us.

"You can't claim to love someone then have sex with someone else" is a narrow minded and outdated concept.

Swingers are mostly honest, intelligent, decent people who seek to enjoy life.

Some of our preferences change over time.

The best fun is experienced when everyone involved voice their likes and boundaries in advance of play.

We're sure we have a lot more to learn. School was never this much fun.

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

every day is a learning day eh! especially on fab

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By *offee with Milk OP Couple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

Very true. We are hoping that others will share their own discoveries

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"You can't claim to love someone then have sex with someone else" is a narrow minded and outdated concept.

I agree with most of what you say but for many people part of loving someone is remaining monogamous. That shouldn't be called a narrow minded or outdated concept.

I have learned that swingers are just like everyone else and you can't spot who they are from outward appearances

That loads of people are in denial about how much they can knock off their age and get away with

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By *dultcoupleCouple
over a year ago

beaulieu

You are so right we find we grow closer sharing our fun and we always talk about our meetings .we have set up like so many a 3 point contact. .1 text and always reply politely.

2 chat as a couple with other couple. .3 social with a view to play..

Having sex should always be fun and together its fantastic together we make love..happy swinging

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By *offee with Milk OP Couple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

"You can't claim to love someone then have sex with someone else" is a narrow minded and outdated concept.

I agree with most of what you say but for many people part of loving someone is remaining monogamous. That shouldn't be called a narrow minded or outdated concept.

I have learned that swingers are just like everyone else and you can't spot who they are from outward appearances

That loads of people are in denial about how much they can knock off their age and get away with

Sorry. What we meant was that we dont think swingers see love and sex the same way as monogamous couples would. As a married couple we love each other very much but still play with others. And we're both happy with this.

You'll get no argument from us regarding your other two observations.

For the record, our ages are correct

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By *urious couple22Couple
over a year ago

Derby

"We joined the swinging community almost a year ago. In that time we like to think we have developed and adapted. So what have we learned?

Jealousy doesn't exist between us.

"You can't claim to love someone then have sex with someone else" is a narrow minded and outdated concept.

Swingers are mostly honest, intelligent, decent people who seek to enjoy life.

Some of our preferences change over time.

The best fun is experienced when everyone involved voice their likes and boundaries in advance of play.

We're sure we have a lot more to learn. School was never this much fun.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"You can't claim to love someone then have sex with someone else" is a narrow minded and outdated concept.

I agree with most of what you say but for many people part of loving someone is remaining monogamous. That shouldn't be called a narrow minded or outdated concept.

I have learned that swingers are just like everyone else and you can't spot who they are from outward appearances

That loads of people are in denial about how much they can knock off their age and get away with

You'll get no argument from us regarding your other two observations.

For the record, our ages are correct

Yes, I wasn't implying that they weren't

. Ours are correct to within a couple of months, we'd never put our correct date of birth on the net.

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

"You can't claim to love someone then have sex with someone else" is a narrow minded and outdated concept.

I agree with most of what you say but for many people part of loving someone is remaining monogamous. That shouldn't be called a narrow minded or outdated concept.

I have learned that swingers are just like everyone else and you can't spot who they are from outward appearances

That loads of people are in denial about how much they can knock off their age and get away with

You'll get no argument from us regarding your other two observations.

For the record, our ages are correct

Yes, I wasn't implying that they weren't

. Ours are correct to within a couple of months, we'd never put our correct date of birth on the net."

Now I've reached one of those zero numbers I am wondering if I should do what everyone else on here seems to do and knock 5 off..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"You can't claim to love someone then have sex with someone else" is a narrow minded and outdated concept.

I agree with most of what you say but for many people part of loving someone is remaining monogamous. That shouldn't be called a narrow minded or outdated concept.

I have learned that swingers are just like everyone else and you can't spot who they are from outward appearances

That loads of people are in denial about how much they can knock off their age and get away with

You'll get no argument from us regarding your other two observations.

For the record, our ages are correct

Yes, I wasn't implying that they weren't

. Ours are correct to within a couple of months, we'd never put our correct date of birth on the net.

Now I've reached one of those zero numbers I am wondering if I should do what everyone else on here seems to do and knock 5 off.."

Not everyone does. It's your choice of course but I'd rather people think I look ok for my age than think I'd had a hard life

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By *offee with Milk OP Couple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

Yes, I wasn't implying that they weren't

. Ours are correct to within a couple of months, we'd never put our correct date of birth on the net."

We never thought for a moment that you were. We just wanted to "throw it out there". You do have a good point of varying your actual birthday slightly.

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