FabSwingers.com forum: How to get my shy wife into hotwifing

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok here goes. I know single men here get a bad stigma.

I'm trying my hardest to get my current gf into cuckolding or to become a hot wife. I'd love to see her with aanother man. Kiss me afterwards during etc.

I'd love ideas to make it sound like her idea or ideas to put the seed on her head in a positive light.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So basically you are trying to manipulate her to fulfil your own fantasies?

Classy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a copy of the Dawn of Sex by Christopher Ryan both read it and discuss afterwards. It is an interesting take on human sexuality, it's a book you can leave lying around the house anywhere without raising concerns.

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

"Ok here goes. I know single men here get a bad stigma.

I'm trying my hardest to get my current gf into cuckolding or to become a hot wife. I'd love to see her with aanother man. Kiss me afterwards during etc.

I'd love ideas to make it sound like her idea or ideas to put the seed on her head in a positive light. "

We got into it through chastity. Lock your cock up and you will start doting on her, doing anything to please her and she knows its not for sex. Does wonders for a woman's confidence!

Worked for us!

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

You can't force or guilt someone into doing something they don't want to do. End of discussion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok here goes. I know single men here get a bad stigma.

I'm trying my hardest to get my current gf into cuckolding or to become a hot wife. I'd love to see her with aanother man. Kiss me afterwards during etc.

I'd love ideas to make it sound like her idea or ideas to put the seed on her head in a positive light. "

Instead of trying to persude or manipulate her (which is a shitty thing to do tbh). Sit down with her, have a proper conversation about it like adults. If she still says no, then drop it! It's pretty simple. If she wants to she will, if she doesn't, she won't.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Establish good communication in all areas of your life including sexual. Once you have that you can discuss things openly and it will be normal for you both. You might find that your fantasy is a no go but it will pay dividends in the long run.

The fantasy you describe can't be achieved without great communication.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure she doesn't find your fab profile either, you'll really piss her off if she does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better the fantasy than trying it and ruining your relationship,xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A softly softly approach is best, progressively introduce things to your private play. She may have fantasies of her own that she doesn’t want to mention for fear of upsetting you. If she draws a line in the sand at any point then that’s it.

This is how me & my ex got into it, our play got more & more adventurous over time, a threesome happened, followed by meeting a couple for a birthday treat....

It wasn’t an overnight thing, actually it was a couple of years but if she says no then it’s over lol

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