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"Why wont people stop looking at pics and read the profile This is a sex site and in fairness most people are quite detailed on what they are looking fir so i find it diffucult to understand why so many people a. D9nt read. And b. Get hump when you say not for us " Don't bother telling them 'not for us'. Just block. You avoid SO much hassle. | |||
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"The ones that are like an essay I never read. Yet at the beginning they'll almost demand you read it word for word then at the bottom state a code word to put in a message title to confirm you've read it. Then, a pop quiz to answer during said messages, each related to the profile, with a minimum pass rate of 95% "And therein lies the reason you get blocked. If you can't be bothered to spend 2 mins reading a profile why should we think you'll put the effort in the bedroom? | |||
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"I don’t bother replying to people who haven’t read my profile. It’s the men who message saying ‘wow I loved your profile...’ not enough to read it though?" Yup. Then they rush to this forum to whinge about not getting replies. | |||
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"I don’t bother replying to people who haven’t read my profile. It’s the men who message saying ‘wow I loved your profile...’ not enough to read it though? Yup. Then they rush to this forum to whinge about not getting replies." Exactly!!! Another favourite is when men message saying ‘I’m from ... but I work up your way!’ And where is my ‘way’ exactly? | |||
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"Why do people put up pics if they don't want people to look at them? Everyone knows that naked or scantily clad pics are for wanking over "That'll come as a disappointment to the librarian at the Royal College of Nursing. | |||
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"Why do people put up pics if they don't want people to look at them? Everyone knows that naked or scantily clad pics are for wanking over
That'll come as a disappointment to the librarian at the Royal College of Nursing."Do sick people pose on all fours with a cucumber in their arse?  | |||
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"I don’t bother replying to people who haven’t read my profile. It’s the men who message saying ‘wow I loved your profile...’ not enough to read it though? Yup. Then they rush to this forum to whinge about not getting replies." That's gold. | |||
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"Why do people put up pics if they don't want people to look at them? Everyone knows that naked or scantily clad pics are for wanking over
That'll come as a disappointment to the librarian at the Royal College of Nursing.
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"If profiles are read it saves wasted time on both sides. " Exactly. 
We find that most are just too lazy to read a profile but will spend hours using the scatter gun tactic of sending the same copy and paste message as many profiles as they can.
We've never really liked using the block button but we seem to be using it a lot more often than we ever have in all the years on here.
They complain about long profiles (I think ours is about medium BTW) but would moan like hell if we all put up a one liner then just knocked them back without explanation.
Tip: If you get a knock back then the reason is usually in the profile, if you bother to read it.
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"I don’t bother replying to people who haven’t read my profile. It’s the men who message saying ‘wow I loved your profile...’ not enough to read it though?" LOL.
We get that one regularly, then they ask us if we want to meet in Blackpool.  
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"Why wont people stop looking at pics and read the profile This is a sex site and in fairness most people are quite detailed on what they are looking fir so i find it diffucult to understand why so many people a. D9nt read. And b. Get hump when you say not for us " We know this is very annoying, but manners cost nothing and a simple 'pleased read our profile'or a 'no Thanks' tends to work for us. We try to reply to all messages unless people are abusive, ignorant or pushy then just delete and block | |||
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"Why wont people stop looking at pics and read the profile This is a sex site and in fairness most people are quite detailed on what they are looking fir so i find it diffucult to understand why so many people a. D9nt read. And b. Get hump when you say not for us Don't bother telling them 'not for us'. Just block. You avoid SO much hassle." Agree | |||
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"Why do people put up pics if they don't want people to look at them? Everyone knows that naked or scantily clad pics are for wanking over
That'll come as a disappointment to the librarian at the Royal College of Nursing.
Do sick people pose on all fours with a cucumber in their arse?
I don't know. Ask a nurse"Plenty of them on here | |||
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"Why do people put up pics if they don't want people to look at them? Everyone knows that naked or scantily clad pics are for wanking over
That'll come as a disappointment to the librarian at the Royal College of Nursing.
Do sick people pose on all fours with a cucumber in their arse?
I don't know. Ask a nurse
Plenty of them on here "I once was ‘faced’ with this but it was a cooking apple not a cucumber. That was an interesting shift! | |||
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"Why wont people stop looking at pics and read the profile This is a sex site and in fairness most people are quite detailed on what they are looking fir so i find it diffucult to understand why so many people a. D9nt read. And b. Get hump when you say not for us " Oh nah they do read them honest they just must have missed that important part.
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"Why do people put up pics if they don't want people to look at them? Everyone knows that naked or scantily clad pics are for wanking over
That'll come as a disappointment to the librarian at the Royal College of Nursing.
Do sick people pose on all fours with a cucumber in their arse? "I saw one such photo the other day, and one of a bottle up their arse. I wouldn't exactly call it sick, if they are poking it up their own arse that's up to them. I wouldn't meet an individual with such a photo though. XXX | |||
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"The ones that are like an essay I never read. Yet at the beginning they'll almost demand you read it word for word then at the bottom state a code word to put in a message title to confirm you've read it. Then, a pop quiz to answer during said messages, each related to the profile, with a minimum pass rate of 95%
And therein lies the reason you get blocked.
If you can't be bothered to spend 2 mins reading a profile why should we think you'll put the effort in the bedroom?" | |||
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"Why do people put up pics if they don't want people to look at them? Everyone knows that naked or scantily clad pics are for wanking over
That'll come as a disappointment to the librarian at the Royal College of Nursing.
Do sick people pose on all fours with a cucumber in their arse?
I don't know. Ask a nurse
Plenty of them on here
I once was ‘faced’ with this but it was a cooking apple not a cucumber. That was an interesting shift!"What on Earth inspires someone to put a cooking apple in their arse?? | |||
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"We hate copy and paste messages, I have had the guy copy and paste the same message three times in one day. I will always read someone's profile before messaging back,yeah some can be long winded bit it saves time in the long run. We state we can only ever do evening meets and don't meet smokers so what do we get smokers who want to meet in the middle of the day. They wonder why they get no where. " You are reason enough for someone to give up smoking.xxxxx?? | |||
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"Why do people put up pics if they don't want people to look at them? Everyone knows that naked or scantily clad pics are for wanking over
That'll come as a disappointment to the librarian at the Royal College of Nursing.
Do sick people pose on all fours with a cucumber in their arse?
I don't know. Ask a nurse
Plenty of them on here
I once was ‘faced’ with this but it was a cooking apple not a cucumber. That was an interesting shift!
What on Earth inspires someone to put a cooking apple in their arse??"It was midway between the Satsuma and the Pineapple | |||
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"Why wont people stop looking at pics and read the profile This is a sex site and in fairness most people are quite detailed on what they are looking fir so i find it diffucult to understand why so many people a. D9nt read. And b. Get hump when you say not for us " Reading? Sounds exhausting 
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"We hate copy and paste messages, I have had the guy copy and paste the same message three times in one day. I will always read someone's profile before messaging back,yeah some can be long winded bit it saves time in the long run. We state we can only ever do evening meets and don't meet smokers so what do we get smokers who want to meet in the middle of the day. They wonder why they get no where. You are reason enough for someone to give up smoking.xxxxx??" I would hope your health would be reason enough but thank you xx | |||
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Or they are
straight and contact you
cant accom and cant travel ?????
send you a message and when you reply they have BLOCKED YOUR SEX
send a message and next day USER NO LONGER ON SITE
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"Its like the being viewed by the proverbial Sun reader. Lots of pictures with very little text, its what they are used to I suppose. "A pretty good summation. | |||
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"Why do people put up pics if they don't want people to look at them? Everyone knows that naked or scantily clad pics are for wanking over
That'll come as a disappointment to the librarian at the Royal College of Nursing.
Do sick people pose on all fours with a cucumber in their arse?
I don't know. Ask a nurse
Plenty of them on here
I once was ‘faced’ with this but it was a cooking apple not a cucumber. That was an interesting shift!
What on Earth inspires someone to put a cooking apple in their arse??
It was midway between the Satsuma and the Pineapple "The lengths shoplifters go to. | |||
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"Why do people put up pics if they don't want people to look at them? Everyone knows that naked or scantily clad pics are for wanking over
That'll come as a disappointment to the librarian at the Royal College of Nursing.
Do sick people pose on all fours with a cucumber in their arse?
I don't know. Ask a nurse
Plenty of them on here
I once was ‘faced’ with this but it was a cooking apple not a cucumber. That was an interesting shift!
What on Earth inspires someone to put a cooking apple in their arse??
It was midway between the Satsuma and the Pineapple
The lengths shoplifters go to."Or in this case Widths | |||
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"We hate copy and paste messages, I have had the guy copy and paste the same message three times in one day. I will always read someone's profile before messaging back,yeah some can be long winded bit it saves time in the long run. We state we can only ever do evening meets and don't meet smokers so what do we get smokers who want to meet in the middle of the day. They wonder why they get no where. " On the other side of that coin we are smokers and get shit loads of messages from profiles that say "won't meet smokers". | |||
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"We hate copy and paste messages, I have had the guy copy and paste the same message three times in one day. I will always read someone's profile before messaging back,yeah some can be long winded bit it saves time in the long run. We state we can only ever do evening meets and don't meet smokers so what do we get smokers who want to meet in the middle of the day. They wonder why they get no where. On the other side of that coin we are smokers and get shit loads of messages from profiles that say "won't meet smokers". "But when you point that out, they all seem to have clicked that option accidentally  | |||
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"We hate copy and paste messages, I have had the guy copy and paste the same message three times in one day. I will always read someone's profile before messaging back,yeah some can be long winded bit it saves time in the long run. We state we can only ever do evening meets and don't meet smokers so what do we get smokers who want to meet in the middle of the day. They wonder why they get no where. On the other side of that coin we are smokers and get shit loads of messages from profiles that say "won't meet smokers". "I once read a profile of a smoker that wouldn't meet smokers which we thought was very odd | |||
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"We hate copy and paste messages, I have had the guy copy and paste the same message three times in one day. I will always read someone's profile before messaging back,yeah some can be long winded bit it saves time in the long run. We state we can only ever do evening meets and don't meet smokers so what do we get smokers who want to meet in the middle of the day. They wonder why they get no where. On the other side of that coin we are smokers and get shit loads of messages from profiles that say "won't meet smokers".
But when you point that out, they all seem to have clicked that option accidentally "Or they quit yesterday. Like you wouldn't smell it when they came round. One couple who smoked told us they would clean their teeth when we declined, I would hope you would do that before a meet anyway | |||
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"Its like the being viewed by the proverbial Sun reader. Lots of pictures with very little text, its what they are used to I suppose. "Same folks that ask questions on here which could be easily searched ie where's the nearest adult cinema ? Instead of out of the 3 adult cinemas I have found near Walsall which is the nicest to take a lady friend ? (Angels) | |||
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"Why do people put up pics if they don't want people to look at them? Everyone knows that naked or scantily clad pics are for wanking over
That'll come as a disappointment to the librarian at the Royal College of Nursing.
Do sick people pose on all fours with a cucumber in their arse?
I don't know. Ask a nurse
Plenty of them on here
I once was ‘faced’ with this but it was a cooking apple not a cucumber. That was an interesting shift!
What on Earth inspires someone to put a cooking apple in their arse??" | |||
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"I love not reading profiles, then messaging. Works for me. " is that why you are straight and verified by a man on cam then | |||
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"I love not reading profiles, then messaging. Works for me. is that why you are straight and verified by a man on cam then " | |||
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"The ones that are like an essay I never read. Yet at the beginning they'll almost demand you read it word for word then at the bottom state a code word to put in a message title to confirm you've read it. Then, a pop quiz to answer during said messages, each related to the profile, with a minimum pass rate of 95%
And therein lies the reason you get blocked.
If you can't be bothered to spend 2 mins reading a profile why should we think you'll put the effort in the bedroom?"YESSSSSSS!!!! That is what I always say!! I mean, how fucking lazy can you be? Read for 2 mins and increase your chances of meeting up hugely. Nope, too much work | |||
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"The ones that are like an essay I never read. Yet at the beginning they'll almost demand you read it word for word then at the bottom state a code word to put in a message title to confirm you've read it. Then, a pop quiz to answer during said messages, each related to the profile, with a minimum pass rate of 95%
And therein lies the reason you get blocked.
If you can't be bothered to spend 2 mins reading a profile why should we think you'll put the effort in the bedroom?"Yes, great comparison... Let me clarify, I have no problem with people having a big profile. It's the attention seeking demanding ones telling you to put code words in messages to prove you've read it that I find quite creepy and sinister. I don't want to improve my chances of meeting someone, I'll meet someone that suits my personality and vice versa. Forcing someone to read an enormous essay and basically attach a CV to a message is not going to be on my agenda | |||
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"The ones that are like an essay I never read. Yet at the beginning they'll almost demand you read it word for word then at the bottom state a code word to put in a message title to confirm you've read it. Then, a pop quiz to answer during said messages, each related to the profile, with a minimum pass rate of 95% "And that just gets you shortlisted | |||
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"The ones that are like an essay I never read. Yet at the beginning they'll almost demand you read it word for word then at the bottom state a code word to put in a message title to confirm you've read it. Then, a pop quiz to answer during said messages, each related to the profile, with a minimum pass rate of 95%
And therein lies the reason you get blocked.
If you can't be bothered to spend 2 mins reading a profile why should we think you'll put the effort in the bedroom?"And if they can't be bothered to put in any effort why should you? Works both ways. | |||
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"The ones that are like an essay I never read. Yet at the beginning they'll almost demand you read it word for word then at the bottom state a code word to put in a message title to confirm you've read it. Then, a pop quiz to answer during said messages, each related to the profile, with a minimum pass rate of 95%
And therein lies the reason you get blocked.
If you can't be bothered to spend 2 mins reading a profile why should we think you'll put the effort in the bedroom?
And if they can't be bothered to put in any effort why should you?
Works both ways." | |||
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"Why wont people stop looking at pics and read the profile This is a sex site and in fairness most people are quite detailed on what they are looking fir so i find it diffucult to understand why so many people a. D9nt read. And b. Get hump when you say not for us Don't bother telling them 'not for us'. Just block. You avoid SO much hassle." We've started doing this if you don't block you they will just keep messaging like your going to change your mind or somethink. | |||
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"Because what you say in your profile doesn't apply to them,that's only for other people. Fab is all about them. I thought everyone knew that "
Probably true!
It is the biggest and most instant turn off when you receive a "hi" or "How's you" or "How u finding the site"
It is an almost guaranteed instant delete (unless they are really that much of a looker! - Kidding - it is a turn off!! | |||
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"Because what you say in your profile doesn't apply to them,that's only for other people. Fab is all about them. I thought everyone knew that "Oh my goodness!! It's all so clear now! | |||
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"We hate copy and paste messages, I have had the guy copy and paste the same message three times in one day. I will always read someone's profile before messaging back,yeah some can be long winded bit it saves time in the long run. We state we can only ever do evening meets and don't meet smokers so what do we get smokers who want to meet in the middle of the day. They wonder why they get no where. On the other side of that coin we are smokers and get shit loads of messages from profiles that say "won't meet smokers". "aye that really gets on my tits as we both smokers. hollie | |||
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"We use a.. lets call it a code word... To realise if the potential meet has bothered their A to read the profile. I consider it my responsibility to keep my partner safe & there is no chance I would arrange our meets with a potential if I am not sure they will be respectful. So to all the single hard done to guys in this thread.. Take note, you might just improve your chances of meeting couples.. That's if you dont bottle it at last minute that is!! ( next doors dog has died etc etc BS ) " This | |||
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"To be honest with you all most profile are an echo of me me me me me me me me me... when it’s supposed to be about mutual fun "But a profile is supposed to be about the person. Their interests, their preferences, their limitations. It's a snap shot of what they need and want. I think the mutual fun thing comes in after the profiles are read and people have decided if they are interested in more than a snap shot. | |||
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"To be honest with you all most profile are an echo of me me me me me me me me me... when it’s supposed to be about mutual fun
But a profile is supposed to be about the person. Their interests, their preferences, their limitations. It's a snap shot of what they need and want. I think the mutual fun thing comes in after the profiles are read and people have decided if they are interested in more than a snap shot. "Sorry but your paragraph is too long | |||
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"To be honest with you all most profile are an echo of me me me me me me me me me... when it’s supposed to be about mutual fun
But a profile is supposed to be about the person. Their interests, their preferences, their limitations. It's a snap shot of what they need and want. I think the mutual fun thing comes in after the profiles are read and people have decided if they are interested in more than a snap shot.
Sorry but your paragraph is too long "Hahaha! I'm used to that response | |||
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"To be honest with you all most profile are an echo of me me me me me me me me me... when it’s supposed to be about mutual fun
But a profile is supposed to be about the person. Their interests, their preferences, their limitations. It's a snap shot of what they need and want. I think the mutual fun thing comes in after the profiles are read and people have decided if they are interested in more than a snap shot. "Spot on - could not said it better myself. How can I even imagine having sex with somebody if I know nothing about the person. I am not talking about their personal details but more about their personality. Without that... sex becomes very mechanical and dull, does nt it? | |||
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