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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve been trying to date in the vanilla world, using another well known dating app.

I can’t find what I’m looking for. I want to have a relationship where I get to share my partner with other guys, of course in the vanilla world no one gets this but I understand that.

Has anyone ever met a long term partner from here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion cant date and swing on different sites .Have too date and give that person the attention .

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By *issyme555TV/TS
over a year ago

Motherwell

People have and do meet hear all the time. I wish you all the best it's not easy in this world or the vanilla world. I'd love to meet some one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I was like this. In the end I deleted the swipy one as I know in my mind that I can’t do monogamy so am never gonna find my ideal in the vanilla world.

I was once in a relationship with a guy I met on here. Was great whilst it lasted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never understand why people ask this.

Why does it matter what others do?

Surely it only matters what you're looking for and who you meet? If they're compatible and you click then you'll date. If not you won't. The fact others have met here is not related.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m just wondering if people actually want more than just random fucks

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I’m just wondering if people actually want more than just random fucks "

A lot of us do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m just wondering if people actually want more than just random fucks "

Yes i dont do random fucks .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m just wondering if people actually want more than just random fucks "

I want the same as you do. I’m not here for random fucks, they do nothing for me. I want much more with a special person. I just don’t want a ‘vanilla’ type relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m just wondering if people actually want more than just random fucks

I want the same as you do. I’m not here for random fucks, they do nothing for me. I want much more with a special person. I just don’t want a ‘vanilla’ type relationship. "

I third this, I've tried dating vanilla girls.. I even tried opening up about all of this and it just scared them off so now I feel my next plan is to find somebody already interested!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good to know it’s not just me, I want the full relationship thing with all the vanilla world good stuff but also with someone as open minded and experimental as me, someone who is a little greedy and a little kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good to know it’s not just me, I want the full relationship thing with all the vanilla world good stuff but also with someone as open minded and experimental as me, someone who is a little greedy and a little kinky "

That sounds perfect. I’m keeping my options open between here and other apps but I’m no rush as understand it’s not that easy to find and won’t settle x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m on the one with fish in....not short of offers of dates and by no means am I being creepy or Percy when speaking to them but I have to be honest and tell them. It wouldn’t work otherwise.

I’m just not having much luck finding my “dream”

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and


"I’ve been trying to date in the vanilla world, using another well known dating app.

I can’t find what I’m looking for. I want to have a relationship where I get to share my partner with other guys, of course in the vanilla world no one gets this but I understand that.

Has anyone ever met a long term partner from here?"

We met on a Vanilla dating site so dont rule it out

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I met someone from another swinging site and we had a relationship ... was bloody perfect

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I’m just wondering if people actually want more than just random fucks "

I do,I'm bored of random fucks now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand. I would wan tmy partner to still do that but with me involved someway

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By *iverpool 2Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I was very very lucky, before I met Mrs L2 I had been on fab for a number of years as a single guy, as most single guys can confirm it’s very very hard work!

When I first met Mrs L2 I told her about swinging etc and expected her to run a mile only for her to confess she was bi curious and the thought of swinging turned her on...I took her to Townhouse on her birthday and she instantly loved it, we’ve not looked back since

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m encouraged and there are some like minded single ladies here too....things are looking up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s been mentioned, in another thread, about a dating page for those looking for a little bit more. Maybe a good idea?!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I never understand why people ask this.

Why does it matter what others do?

Surely it only matters what you're looking for and who you meet? If they're compatible and you click then you'll date. If not you won't. The fact others have met here is not related. "

There are lots of questions like this plus the verification system.

Some won't meet unless ten total strangers have validated you have one head and four limbs...heaven forbid you actually find out something yourself.

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

We met on here & are getting married this year. There are many others like us

B x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I've had a relationship with someone, from meeting on here

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By *isionofdignityWoman
over a year ago

reading

I’ve met a guy on Pof who I have been dating a few months , at the very beginning I told him about fab, it’s not his thing really but he still wants to see me . Hardest thing is decision of I tell him I’ve had a meet . He presumes (wrongly a lot of the time ) if I can’t see him it’s because of fab but I totally understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never understand why people ask this.

Why does it matter what others do?

Surely it only matters what you're looking for and who you meet? If they're compatible and you click then you'll date. If not you won't. The fact others have met here is not related. "

Think tbe OP is just looking for help. He is obviously inexperienced in this area.

Good luck OP, I hope you do find that special person on Fab, it sounds like you have a lot to offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely not what your looking for...

But your partner?...

On a single guys profile.

That may take some explaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a lady who's a bit older we have decided to give the relationship thing a try and see how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m just wondering if people actually want more than just random fucks

I want the same as you do. I’m not here for random fucks, they do nothing for me. I want much more with a special person. I just don’t want a ‘vanilla’ type relationship. "

I am sure this lady is not the only one out there looking for a relationship outside the norm.

Good luck to her as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met the most amazing woman on a vanilla dating site a few years ago. We had our struggles because of a number of vanilla world things. Then we found swinging and it was for a time perfect. We had our separate bits - kids and homes. But when we were us and in the clubs it was fantastic. I miss it. I miss her and I doubt i’ll ever be able go be vanilla again now. I wouldn’t want to but I know i’ll Miss the wrapping our feet round each other at the end of the night when we got home from an adventure. Maybe a separate dating area for like minded people wanting more is a good idea. Maybe a swingles page.

Good luck though all of you. I’m sure you’ll all find that thing we all want. Perfect balance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for your replies and support.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been trying to date in the vanilla world, using another well known dating app.

I can’t find what I’m looking for. I want to have a relationship where I get to share my partner with other guys, of course in the vanilla world no one gets this but I understand that

Has anyone ever met a long term partner from here?"

You’re not alone in looking for that.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve been trying to date in the vanilla world, using another well known dating app.

I can’t find what I’m looking for. I want to have a relationship where I get to share my partner with other guys, of course in the vanilla world no one gets this but I understand that

Has anyone ever met a long term partner from here?

You’re not alone in looking for that....."

Lets meet then foxy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been trying to date in the vanilla world, using another well known dating app.

I can’t find what I’m looking for. I want to have a relationship where I get to share my partner with other guys, of course in the vanilla world no one gets this but I understand that

Has anyone ever met a long term partner from here?

You’re not alone in looking for that.....

Lets meet then foxy"

Ok then......!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never understand why people ask this.

Why does it matter what others do?

Surely it only matters what you're looking for and who you meet? If they're compatible and you click then you'll date. If not you won't. The fact others have met here is not related. "

Because it gives people hope. If no-one had ever met a partner on here the chances would be low so they could look elsewhere instead.

Good luck OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good to know it’s not just me, I want the full relationship thing with all the vanilla world good stuff but also with someone as open minded and experimental as me, someone who is a little greedy and a little kinky "

This !!!!! Yes please

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I have found many things from meeting people through fab. I met a man and had a 3 year relationship. I also have a few people I’d now consider real friends (as opposed to fab friends). I’ve met men who want relationships (funnily enough the majority of those I’ve met want the relationship without any hint of kink) so that’s no good

If I bumped into the right guy on here then who knows what might happen

V x

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Good to know it’s not just me, I want the full relationship thing with all the vanilla world good stuff but also with someone as open minded and experimental as me, someone who is a little greedy and a little kinky

This !!!!! Yes please "

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