FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

a solution to unwarranted winks...

Jump to newest
 

By *uckscouple2007 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

if it is clear they've not read your profile then just wink them back THEN block them !

Especially if they have email notifications set up that'll confuse them

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aaLaaWoman
over a year ago

Pontesbury

I just ignore all winks - is that wrong?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Did it work?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I like receiving unsolicited winks....

I just think of it as getting a little pat on the bum from stranger.......

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

doesnt bother me,if i like the person i wink back if i dont i delete,no big deal

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iandsylviaCouple
over a year ago

Ely


"But I like receiving unsolicited winks....

I just think of it as getting a little pat on the bum from stranger....... "

Ah but such a nice bum to pat xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *vor Bigun 69!Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Yet another couple who hate the dreaded wink!! Get over yourselves will ya!! Just cos a person winks does that mean they aint read ya profile. Take it as what its meant, a compliment, a sign of interest!! Oh yeh winking back and blocking sum1 - so very mature!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"doesnt bother me,if i like the person i wink back if i dont i delete,no big deal"

Ditto

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet another couple who hate the dreaded wink!! Get over yourselves will ya!! Just cos a person winks does that mean they aint read ya profile. Take it as what its meant, a compliment, a sign of interest!! Oh yeh winking back and blocking sum1 - so very mature!"

You are so right.....a wink shows that the sender has interest alright....in themselves! They need to expend no effort or creativity in messaging someone to create a favorable impression. They simply expect all the work to be done by the recipient to save them the trouble. That is why we find them rude and arrogant.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"doesnt bother me,if i like the person i wink back if i dont i delete,no big deal

Ditto "
ditto +1

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

friend invites and the ones who dont ask.... i just delete unless they ask

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i like them i'll wink back to see if it prompts them to going the whole hog and actually message me with something interesting!

but if they're really nice, i'll respond with a message... after all they may just be a bit shy and need a little friendly nudge to break the ice...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"But I like receiving unsolicited winks....

I just think of it as getting a little pat on the bum from stranger.......

Ah but such a nice bum to pat xx"

Can I come round and pat your bum then

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

'Unwarranted' winks.

God forbid anyone actually smiled at another human being in the street.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just ignore all winks - is that wrong?"

Not wrong at all and far better than getting your hair off over stuff you can mass delete anyway.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"'Unwarranted' winks.

God forbid anyone actually smiled at another human being in the street."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Getting winks doesn't bother us at all....we just forget to check them that often. So do prefer people to email us if interested.

Now random friends invites from those we have never chatted with, they bug us!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"if it is clear they've not read your profile then just wink them back THEN block them !

Especially if they have email notifications set up that'll confuse them "

Could you really be arsed?

Just ignore and delete.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God forbid anyone actually smiled at another human being in the street."

Dontcha just hate the cheeky bastards that do that!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"'Unwarranted' winks.

God forbid anyone actually smiled at another human being in the street."

lol

I will smile at most people when walking out and about....always amazed at how many look at you as if your mad or just scowl.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"'Unwarranted' winks.

God forbid anyone actually smiled at another human being in the street.

lol

I will smile at most people when walking out and about....always amazed at how many look at you as if your mad or just scowl."

+1

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Wink at you? How very dare they. Lol.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Unwarranted' winks.

God forbid anyone actually smiled at another human being in the street."

What an excellent point….!. nowt wrong with a bit of random smiling

I’m from the school of thought, which believes you can always tell a genuine smile from a fake, by the person’s eyes who’s giving it….!.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I take it a step further.

I SPEAK to people in the Supermarket.

I've nearly been punched a couple of times.

(Though, in fairness, asking her what she was doing with Loserboy when she could be sliding joyfully on my lovepole MAY have been a little forward)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Wink at you? How very dare they. Lol. "

I know! Members of a swinger site using the facilities provided for them to contact like minded people? The nerve!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

(In my defence, she was fucking fit. And he was a complete prick)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take it a step further.

I SPEAK to people in the Supermarket.

I've nearly been punched a couple of times.

(Though, in fairness, asking her what she was doing with Loserboy when she could be sliding joyfully on my lovepole MAY have been a little forward)"

Yeah but did you introduce yourself first with a crafty wink

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I take it a step further.

I SPEAK to people in the Supermarket.

I've nearly been punched a couple of times.

(Though, in fairness, asking her what she was doing with Loserboy when she could be sliding joyfully on my lovepole MAY have been a little forward)

Yeah but did you introduce yourself first with a crafty wink "

No. I asked if she was straight, or just saying it to get meets.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"doesnt bother me,if i like the person i wink back if i dont i delete,no big deal"

exactly, I can never understand why folks get so worked up and stressed over a wink, what's it there for if not to, erm, well .... wink

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WOW, i surely didn't actualise that a wink is deemed as both rude and arrogant...wow i learn something every day

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wink !!

Wink back !!

Game on ..

Artless affinity %*

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *TUNNAWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

i ignore winks

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its only a wink. get over it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just ignore, it isn't hard.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if it is clear they've not read your profile then just wink them back THEN block them !

Especially if they have email notifications set up that'll confuse them "

he he he, gotta laugh, they wink cos they fancy ya's, so it's warranted.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just ignore, it isn't hard. "

oooo bet it is when they see that bum.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok reasons for winking on my part -

you take the time and think about the person the profile etc etc type a well worded and well thought out message , you attach any relevant pictures etc etc and then its straight into the delete box , so for me saves time and effort , its my way of saying im interested . if i get one ill look read the profile and send a message if its sometone im interested in .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok reasons for winking on my part -

you take the time and think about the person the profile etc etc type a well worded and well thought out message , you attach any relevant pictures etc etc and then its straight into the delete box , so for me saves time and effort , its my way of saying im interested . if i get one ill look read the profile and send a message if its sometone im interested in ."

aye, I do the same when I am feeling a bit lazy.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just think its sad...its only an introduction, wink back if u like and maybe getta chat...FFS... fucking always something to complain at, such a small gesture such a small issue...does my tits in... then maybe complain at a lack of meets etc etc...all for a simple block any wink that comes by ya...

sorry OP, I do mean it in general to all non-winkable sorts..is it THAT fuckin bad???

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

I love winks

sending them

getting them

replacing the I with an A

you name it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Poor winkers

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet another couple who hate the dreaded wink!! Get over yourselves will ya!! Just cos a person winks does that mean they aint read ya profile. Take it as what its meant, a compliment, a sign of interest!! Oh yeh winking back and blocking sum1 - so very mature!

You are so right.....a wink shows that the sender has interest alright....in themselves! They need to expend no effort or creativity in messaging someone to create a favorable impression. They simply expect all the work to be done by the recipient to save them the trouble. That is why we find them rude and arrogant."

rude and arrogant to wink back then start dialogue??-yeahhh...can see ur point, sakes lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

I'm looking forward to getting a shag out of this thread at some point.

last time someone whinged about winks in the forums, I winked one of the posters, she winked back, messages ensued, followed by a rather spectacular meet.

so if there are any tall, slim yet curvy redheaded brewery heiresses reading this thread and wondering whether to post or not, dont bother - just skip to sending me a message.

but don't forget to attach a pic .......... of the brewery

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

and your tits

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm looking forward to getting a shag out of this thread at some point.

last time someone whinged about winks in the forums, I winked one of the posters, she winked back, messages ensued, followed by a rather spectacular meet.

so if there are any tall, slim yet curvy redheaded brewery heiresses reading this thread and wondering whether to post or not, dont bother - just skip to sending me a message.

but don't forget to attach a pic .......... of the brewery"

Quo erat demonstrandum..

Energy flowing in rushes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ano01Man
over a year ago

London

What's a WARRENTED wink then? Is there ever such a thing?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a WARRENTED wink then? Is there ever such a thing?"

See anyone yer wana get fruity with ?

Think they warrant a wink ?

Send a fucker %*

Its not summat I would ever do. not my style, but can`t fer the life of me see the harm, or understand the angst at getting one..

On a sex site and people wink at yer..( sigh )..Broken Britain..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aughtyangieCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"if i like them i'll wink back to see if it prompts them to going the whole hog and actually message me with something interesting!

but if they're really nice, i'll respond with a message... after all they may just be a bit shy and need a little friendly nudge to break the ice...

"

this is way we wink

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Unwarranted' winks.

God forbid anyone actually smiled at another human being in the street."

+1

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wink at you? How very dare they. Lol.

I know! Members of a swinger site using the facilities provided for them to contact like minded people? The nerve!!"

Brilliant.

No offence OP but the person sending the wink meant no harm and wanted to get to know you better. No need to get worked up. Just move on.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winking....at people?

whatever next - raspberry blowing?

Goodness Gracious Me!

Wolf

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet another couple who hate the dreaded wink!! Get over yourselves will ya!! Just cos a person winks does that mean they aint read ya profile. Take it as what its meant, a compliment, a sign of interest!! Oh yeh winking back and blocking sum1 - so very mature!

You are so right.....a wink shows that the sender has interest alright....in themselves! They need to expend no effort or creativity in messaging someone to create a favorable impression. They simply expect all the work to be done by the recipient to save them the trouble. That is why we find them rude and arrogant.

rude and arrogant to wink back then start dialogue??-yeahhh...can see ur point, sakes lol"

Glad I wasn't the only one confused...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

profile:"we get so many messages we cant deal with them all"

wink:"look at me, I think ur nice"

profile:"I've time to look at a profile,I'm a perv after all.."

profile,"well I will wink back"

wink:"Oh that's nice they winked at me back, doesn't really mean too much does it, but I CAN say hya and see what happens"

after that the profile and the wink lived happily ever after sucking cock and licking fannys....until the next wink came..............

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford


"i just think its sad...its only an introduction, wink back if u like and maybe getta chat...FFS... fucking always something to complain at, such a small gesture such a small issue...does my tits in... then maybe complain at a lack of meets etc etc...all for a simple block any wink that comes by ya...

sorry OP, I do mean it in general to all non-winkable sorts..is it THAT fuckin bad???"

Absolutely right!

This topic comes up soooooo many times, but I can never understand why some people see it as 'rude' and 'arrogant'???? It's there to expresss interest and to make first contact. If you like what you se then you can wink back and illicit a proper message or response?

Surely it's more rude and arrogant to expect everyone who's interested in you to write the equivalent of War and Peace only to have their messages ignored, or worst still deleted?

The most irritating thing about all of this is it usually comes from people who complain about getting too many messages, and not having time to respond to them all.

Dumb!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Unwarranted' winks.

God forbid anyone actually smiled at another human being in the street."

made me giggle to myself

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can i offer an alternative solution ?

look at the profile of who's winked

if you like the look, message them

if you don't like the look, ignore the wink

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You are so right.....a wink shows that the sender has interest alright....in themselves! They need to expend no effort or creativity in messaging someone to create a favorable impression. They simply expect all the work to be done by the recipient to save them the trouble. That is why we find them rude and arrogant."

It's amazing how one post can tell you so much about the poster, that's one of the reasons these forums are so interesting.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind if people want to wink over me as long as they clean their own mess up!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eanut-butterCouple
over a year ago

Retford

Boo hoo !!!! Stop crying over a little wink lol , if your that upset buy them just go join a site that's not got winks nobodys forcing you to read them are they.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are fun

we like to checkout the profiles and sometimes wink back

but is that our mistake having fun on the site Have we been in the wrong frame of mind all these months

i will try harder to be indignant that people like us

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore

we send a wink as a way of saying thanks for looking,,dont expec a reply back,,it just ,mkes us feel bettr,,they took the time to look at us so east we can do is gie a wink back,,regardless of if we ever meet them

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

exactly what impact is there from receiving a wink from someone, in what way does it cause upset or grief.

someone has read your profile and likes it and sends a virtual thumbs up.. a compliment.

they don't send a message asking to meet? because maybe, they have read the profile and realise they don't meet your preferences.

now I appreciate some may receive the wink and then link that to possible meet, check out the senders profile and be disappointed. I kinda get the 100 of messages a day issue and having to look thro the nonsense ones to find a possible golden nugget.

But 'winks'......

people who get wound up over every little thing on here are often needy, desperate for meets and may have their priorities all wrong.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if it is clear they've not read your profile then just wink them back THEN block them !

Especially if they have email notifications set up that'll confuse them "

The fact that the site endevours to...................................

Oh feck it!!! Can`t be arsed to carry on.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"exactly what impact is there from receiving a wink from someone, in what way does it cause upset or grief.

someone has read your profile and likes it and sends a virtual thumbs up.. a compliment.

they don't send a message asking to meet? because maybe, they have read the profile and realise they don't meet your preferences.

now I appreciate some may receive the wink and then link that to possible meet, check out the senders profile and be disappointed. I kinda get the 100 of messages a day issue and having to look thro the nonsense ones to find a possible golden nugget.

But 'winks'......

people who get wound up over every little thing on here are often needy, desperate for meets and may have their priorities all wrong.

"

Thanks View.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if it is clear they've not read your profile then just wink them back THEN block them !

Especially if they have email notifications set up that'll confuse them

The fact that the site endevours to...................................

Oh feck it!!! Can`t be arsed to carry on. "

Lubricate the erstwhile wanton and libidinous members licentious longings..?

Mayhaps..its introduce people to each other

Tho some might say....its to play games...

I couldn`t possibly comment

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eeds34Man
over a year ago

leeds

Surely the wink is just a way of saying hi you can ignore or wink back i can't see the issue?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"exactly what impact is there from receiving a wink from someone, in what way does it cause upset or grief.

someone has read your profile and likes it and sends a virtual thumbs up.. a compliment.

they don't send a message asking to meet? because maybe, they have read the profile and realise they don't meet your preferences.

now I appreciate some may receive the wink and then link that to possible meet, check out the senders profile and be disappointed. I kinda get the 100 of messages a day issue and having to look thro the nonsense ones to find a possible golden nugget.

But 'winks'......

people who get wound up over every little thing on here are often needy, desperate for meets and may have their priorities all wrong.

"

Couldn't agree more View...winks are not exactly life threatening are they?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"exactly what impact is there from receiving a wink from someone, in what way does it cause upset or grief.

someone has read your profile and likes it and sends a virtual thumbs up.. a compliment.

they don't send a message asking to meet? because maybe, they have read the profile and realise they don't meet your preferences.

now I appreciate some may receive the wink and then link that to possible meet, check out the senders profile and be disappointed. I kinda get the 100 of messages a day issue and having to look thro the nonsense ones to find a possible golden nugget.

But 'winks'......

people who get wound up over every little thing on here are often needy, desperate for meets and may have their priorities all wrong.

Couldn't agree more View...winks are not exactly life threatening are they?"

speak for urself jane..i just took a stressed out cardiac arrest cos someone winked at me,,, I was so furious my blood boiled...and I was happy sitting wanking just before the wink,then all the blood left my cock via anger into my brain....that just set me off.

no winks please anymore...just relaxing fanny shot mail pics please

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"exactly what impact is there from receiving a wink from someone, in what way does it cause upset or grief.

someone has read your profile and likes it and sends a virtual thumbs up.. a compliment.

they don't send a message asking to meet? because maybe, they have read the profile and realise they don't meet your preferences.

now I appreciate some may receive the wink and then link that to possible meet, check out the senders profile and be disappointed. I kinda get the 100 of messages a day issue and having to look thro the nonsense ones to find a possible golden nugget.

But 'winks'......

people who get wound up over every little thing on here are often needy, desperate for meets and may have their priorities all wrong.

Couldn't agree more View...winks are not exactly life threatening are they?

speak for urself jane..i just took a stressed out cardiac arrest cos someone winked at me,,, I was so furious my blood boiled...and I was happy sitting wanking just before the wink,then all the blood left my cock via anger into my brain....that just set me off.

no winks please anymore...just relaxing fanny shot mail pics please"

Love this post....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"Yet another couple who hate the dreaded wink!! Get over yourselves will ya!! Just cos a person winks does that mean they aint read ya profile. Take it as what its meant, a compliment, a sign of interest!! Oh yeh winking back and blocking sum1 - so very mature!

You are so right.....a wink shows that the sender has interest alright....in themselves! They need to expend no effort or creativity in messaging

someone to create a favorable impression. They simply expect all the work to be done by the recipient to save them the trouble. That is why

we find them rude and arrogant."

So someone winks at you in the street and by your reaction comments I bet you give them a right mouthful or at the very least a smack in the mush!

Do you not remember the occasions of catching someone's eye and giving them a wink?

Of course you're entitled to your op but really...

If the site thinks there a good idea maybe you should pull your neck in a little and just _iew it as a compliment. A little like a whistle or do you not like those either

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"exactly what impact is there from receiving a wink from someone, in what way does it cause upset or grief.

someone has read your profile and likes it and sends a virtual thumbs up.. a compliment.

they don't send a message asking to meet? because maybe, they have read the profile and realise they don't meet your preferences.

now I appreciate some may receive the wink and then link that to possible meet, check out the senders profile and be disappointed. I kinda get the 100 of messages a day issue and having to look thro the nonsense ones to find a possible golden nugget.

But 'winks'......

people who get wound up over every little thing on here are often needy, desperate for meets and may have their priorities all wrong.

"

Well said.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use a telepathic swinging site, which has been very productive. Admittedly, I have had a few mental slaps, but my thoughts tend to wander.

Love some of the replies in this thread, "do not wink at me, my pussy is made of gold and you have to EARN the right to stroke it by writing a soliloquy, with ten reasons why I would deign to talk to you"

I will be hiring out my ladder, to help anyone that needs to get over themselves......

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I will be hiring out my ladder, to help anyone that needs to get over themselves...... "

Just curious if you lend it out to people that dig themselves big holes and may not be able to get out again????

Cali

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I will be hiring out my ladder, to help anyone that needs to get over themselves......

Just curious if you lend it out to people that dig themselves big holes and may not be able to get out again????

Cali "

Aye it is a dual use ladder, but the charge varies depending on the use

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Aye it is a dual use ladder, but the charge varies depending on the use "

okay I had best put you on speed dial then lol never know when I will need it.. lol

on the OP, I just look at profiles that wink me.. if they interest me I may wink back or send a message.. if they dont I ignore it.

no biggy really.

Cali x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a swingers site, the whole point of which is for people to make contact, if you don't want contact its best to hide your profile.

We actually prefer winks to messages, if your attracted you wink back leading to a message.

With a message, if your not attracted it means sending a "thanks but no thanks" message, which is often awkward.

We wonder how the folk who complain about these little things would feel if they got no contact at all!

XXXX

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

okay I had best put you on speed dial then lol never know when I will need it.. lol

Cali x"

Now I am honoured, the only other person to have me on speed dial is my pharmacist......

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top