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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am fairly new here and have had various reactions/opinions on my profile. Most have been very welcome and nicely phrased. Some have been extremely critical of the reasons why I am on here, thats fine and I accept that,and then one or two downright outrageously rude and abusive. Those last one or two have been blocked but what I am curious about is why do people seem to think it is alright to be rude and abusive to someone they have never met and never will do. That to me is just odd. One lovely welcome example is someone messaged to welcome me onto the site, gave me massive encouragement and wished me well. I shan't quote anything as I know it's not permitted. That one message in particular made my day. I haven't managed to meet anyone yet but hopefully will do soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am fairly new here and have had various reactions/opinions on my profile. Most have been very welcome and nicely phrased. Some have been extremely critical of the reasons why I am on here, thats fine and I accept that,and then one or two downright outrageously rude and abusive. Those last one or two have been blocked but what I am curious about is why do people seem to think it is alright to be rude and abusive to someone they have never met and never will do. That to me is just odd. One lovely welcome example is someone messaged to welcome me onto the site, gave me massive encouragement and wished me well. I shan't quote anything as I know it's not permitted. That one message in particular made my day. I haven't managed to meet anyone yet but hopefully will do soon. "

Without specific detail, how were they 'rude and abusive'? Presume they weren't random communications and were replies to communication you had sent them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am fairly new here and have had various reactions/opinions on my profile. Most have been very welcome and nicely phrased. Some have been extremely critical of the reasons why I am on here, thats fine and I accept that,and then one or two downright outrageously rude and abusive. Those last one or two have been blocked but what I am curious about is why do people seem to think it is alright to be rude and abusive to someone they have never met and never will do. That to me is just odd. One lovely welcome example is someone messaged to welcome me onto the site, gave me massive encouragement and wished me well. I shan't quote anything as I know it's not permitted. That one message in particular made my day. I haven't managed to meet anyone yet but hopefully will do soon.

Without specific detail, how were they 'rude and abusive'? Presume they weren't random communications and were replies to communication you had sent them. "

I had simply fabbed some of their pictures. The vitriol followed. Didnt upset me and I didnt bother replying. Just blocked them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am fairly new here and have had various reactions/opinions on my profile. Most have been very welcome and nicely phrased. Some have been extremely critical of the reasons why I am on here, thats fine and I accept that,and then one or two downright outrageously rude and abusive. Those last one or two have been blocked but what I am curious about is why do people seem to think it is alright to be rude and abusive to someone they have never met and never will do. That to me is just odd. One lovely welcome example is someone messaged to welcome me onto the site, gave me massive encouragement and wished me well. I shan't quote anything as I know it's not permitted. That one message in particular made my day. I haven't managed to meet anyone yet but hopefully will do soon.

Without specific detail, how were they 'rude and abusive'? Presume they weren't random communications and were replies to communication you had sent them.

I had simply fabbed some of their pictures. The vitriol followed. Didnt upset me and I didnt bother replying. Just blocked them. "

That seems somewhat over the top if you hadn't messaged them, can't see why they would go to the trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably because it's the internet and a few people think they can be as rude and abusive as they like. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report them OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am fairly new here and have had various reactions/opinions on my profile. Most have been very welcome and nicely phrased. Some have been extremely critical of the reasons why I am on here, thats fine and I accept that,and then one or two downright outrageously rude and abusive. Those last one or two have been blocked but what I am curious about is why do people seem to think it is alright to be rude and abusive to someone they have never met and never will do. That to me is just odd. One lovely welcome example is someone messaged to welcome me onto the site, gave me massive encouragement and wished me well. I shan't quote anything as I know it's not permitted. That one message in particular made my day. I haven't managed to meet anyone yet but hopefully will do soon. "

No one has the right to read your profile and then message you to 'chew you out' for the reason you are on here. Have you found the 'report and block' button? I suggest you do report the keyboard heroes and do the whole site a favour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am fairly new here and have had various reactions/opinions on my profile. Most have been very welcome and nicely phrased. Some have been extremely critical of the reasons why I am on here, thats fine and I accept that,and then one or two downright outrageously rude and abusive. Those last one or two have been blocked but what I am curious about is why do people seem to think it is alright to be rude and abusive to someone they have never met and never will do. That to me is just odd. One lovely welcome example is someone messaged to welcome me onto the site, gave me massive encouragement and wished me well. I shan't quote anything as I know it's not permitted. That one message in particular made my day. I haven't managed to meet anyone yet but hopefully will do soon.

No one has the right to read your profile and then message you to 'chew you out' for the reason you are on here. Have you found the 'report and block' button? I suggest you do report the keyboard heroes and do the whole site a favour. "

Just blocked them. Thank you to all who replied here and those who PM'd me in support. I now know that 99.95% of people here are nice genuine folks, long may it continue to be so. 100% would be nice but hey the vast majority rule?????

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Would I be right in assuming the pics you fabbed were of single "straight" guys OP? If so there are some on here that object to being fabbed by other guys (especially bi ones) and take it as a sign you're trying to "turn" them somehow!!

Yeah crazy I know!!

As others have said best thing to do is ignore and block or if it's really bad report it

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