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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been here for over a year i request friends wink message as we all do

I have friends on here but never met anyone at all of here since I joined

What's a single guy gotta do these days to get laid lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take his pants off and lie down XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice pal is keep your profile modest

Always send a nice face pic with your first message to a girl you like

Works for me

I never send a cock pic!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes keep trying and never give up and yes don’t send a cock pic face pics all the time and you will hit the jackpot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been here for over a year i request friends wink message as we all do

I have friends on here but never met anyone at all of here since I joined

What's a single guy gotta do these days to get laid lol"

Shag another guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put up some public picks, how will people know if they want to message you if they carnt see you

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

The reality is; the longer you are on here without a single verification, then the less seriously people will take you. If you are serious about getting to meet people then get yourself to a club or a social of some kind and get your first verification.....it will help immeasurably!

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"I've been here for over a year i request friends wink message as we all do

I have friends on here but never met anyone at all of here since I joined

What's a single guy gotta do these days to get laid lol"

So, giving you advice here.

If I got a message from you in my inbox, you would be a read and delete.

You have a cock picture as a profile pic and there is no information about you at all in your profile.

And I'm betting most of your 12 private pictures are cock ones.

Smarten your profile up, put a few pictures of yourself up (of your body if you don't want to do face ones, only one or two tasteful cock pictures).

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By *ccasionalfunCouple
over a year ago

hereandthere

You need public pics

99 percent will never reply to a profile with no pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need public pics

99 percent will never reply to a profile with no pics"

Yep, public pics. Even my profile, as strewn with cock pics as it is (something I know a lot of people don’t like) manages to get some interest from time to time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reality is; the longer you are on here without a single verification, then the less seriously people will take you. If you are serious about getting to meet people then get yourself to a club or a social of some kind and get your first verification.....it will help immeasurably! "

Oooooh hello youre cute I could change for you

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"The reality is; the longer you are on here without a single verification, then the less seriously people will take you. If you are serious about getting to meet people then get yourself to a club or a social of some kind and get your first verification.....it will help immeasurably!

Oooooh hello youre cute I could change for you "

Change??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stand out from the rest? Once you can do that, you should get more success... I can't give profile advice as you didn't ask... But that would be a great place to start looking, in regards to giving a little tweaking. Good luck lovely

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden


"I've been here for over a year i request friends wink message as we all do

I have friends on here but never met anyone at all of here since I joined

What's a single guy gotta do these days to get laid lol"

That’s your problem you want to get laid.

This is a swinging site. There is a small but significant difference.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP it is difficult to give advice because we don't know what you are doing (I.e we don't see the messages you are sending).

As a general rule I read someone's profile before I look at any message they send me. If there is nothing on the profile to pique my interest I will delete the message without bothering to read it. If there is something interesting in the profile (good pictures and interesting/entertaining text etc) I will read the message and decide if I want to reply. If the message is a generic copy and paste message, a "hi how are you" or "want to meet today" type I will not reply.

Even if the profile interests me and the message does too I don't always reply. I don't chat to too many people at once so sometimes the timing just isn't right. I do sometimes add them to my hotlist and message them at a later date when I have more time to chat.

If someone sends me an unsolicited friend request I usually block them, even if we have exchanged a few messages. If they ask me first i don't block but it is rude and presumptuous to just do it without asking.

I only add people to my friends list if we have actually met or are planning to meet, I don't add random strangers who just want a nosy at my friends only pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably just like all the others that ask this question, nothing will change

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By *halky90Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Go a club and meet people. Least then you can get some social veris so people know you're genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been here for over a year i request friends wink message as we all do

I have friends on here but never met anyone at all of here since I joined

"

No, we don't all send vacuous friends requests or inane winks.

Lovely that you've got so many virtual friends that you've never even met but fundamentally pretty pointless and a bit lame put politely.

The 'math' is easily done...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you looking for advice on your profile?

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