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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. " Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() | |||
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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() Equally, many who don't have the look will instead have big chips on their shoulders and will vent the resentment through ugly attitudes. | |||
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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() No chips here! Just pointing out that fabswingers is a place for only super sexy and slim (size 6-10 any bigger and you’re not worthy of a meet from anyone apparently) and gym fit people | |||
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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() I don’t think that is true at all many many men on here favour the larger women | |||
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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() Yep ![]() | |||
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"Do you think people who know they are attractive take better care of themselves ie .. make up , hair , gym ? " Possibly. If they're used to being found attractive they might be more motivated to maintain the look. | |||
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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() Really?! Have you not seen the squillion BBW threads on here, lots of love for the bigger woman. | |||
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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() Yes I’ve seen them ![]() ![]() | |||
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"If we’re generalising ...... I don’t think they necessarily take better care of themselves but I do think the results are more obvious to the eye. " All that glitters is not gold But how one sees beauty is not as the other is it | |||
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"Remember, beauty is only skin deep...but ugly goes right to the f***ing bone!" Exactly right ![]() | |||
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"Do you think people who know they are attractive take better care of themselves ie .. make up , hair , gym ? " I think it's chicken & egg. Maybe they take care of themselves to stay looking good ...or... maybe they look good because they take care of themselves. ![]() | |||
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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Do you think people who know they are attractive take better care of themselves ie .. make up , hair , gym ? " Surely, you would argue that people that look after themselves are therefore more attractive ss a result? If you work out you will have a better body. If you look after your hair or invest time in make up and looking good... you will naturally look better. Your perception might be that more attractive people take better care of themself because they know they are attractive: but it's more likey they are more attractive because they take better care of themself, in the first place. When I say "they" it's a "royal they". I'm fully including myself in the attractive club. Boom | |||
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"Do you think people who know they are attractive take better care of themselves ie .. make up , hair , gym ? I think it's chicken & egg. Maybe they take care of themselves to stay looking good ...or... maybe they look good because they take care of themselves. ![]() I agree with this. I also think that Making an effort to look your best, makes a person feel more attractive. So in that regard, there are a lot of attractive people out there. It's about tapping into that confidence within yourself and running with it ![]() | |||
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"Do you think people who know they are attractive take better care of themselves ie .. make up , hair , gym ? " Without a doubt ![]() | |||
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"Dunno about that! I know some very attractive people that have no idea how gorgeous they are!" ![]() | |||
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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() You realise that men say that to appeal to the mass market? They are doing it because they think large women Will be easy. | |||
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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() You do know those ones are very easy to spot and some men actually do fancy some of us fat birds right? Some very attractive men too! | |||
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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() You just proved my point! | |||
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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() One of those pretentious super sexy fab couples for ya! ![]() | |||
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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() And then be berated for telling the truth. | |||
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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() ![]() We are far from pretentious.we are just a normal couple I'm just stating that a lot of men are trying to appeal to the masses to get meets. You see posts a lot where there say what people want to hear The cam rooms are really full of it,even more than the forum | |||
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"I think it all starts from within, if you feel confident and comfortable with yourself it'll come naturally. " Absolutely!! I always look for personality and engagement before looks. And I've found that hot sex comes in all shapes and sizes ... which I think is rather good don't you? | |||
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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() 100% incorrect. | |||
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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Do you think people who know they are attractive take better care of themselves ie .. make up , hair , gym ? " Personally I am not sure - some do for sure - perhaps they see it as something that they need to preserve for as long as possible..if you are used to being considered attractive I guess it is not nice to gradually stop having the effect that this has on others. This said, I also believe that there are lots of very attractive people who simply let themselves go. I am sure we have all bumped into people after a long passage of time, who are a far cry from the attractive people they once were. | |||
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"Everything I do, I do for me. I wear the clothes I feel nice in. I have my hair done how I like it. I go to the gym because I enjoy it. I buy Ester Lauder because I need it ![]() ![]() *Estee Lauder ![]() | |||
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"Everything I do, I do for me. I wear the clothes I feel nice in. I have my hair done how I like it. I go to the gym because I enjoy it. I buy Ester Lauder because I need it ![]() ![]() That sounds like a very 'sound' philosophy ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Yes. Must be easier with a better ‘canvas’ to start from. There’s one girl on here who is SO hot I could spit feathers. Lol" Goodnight girl I could say the same about you haha | |||
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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() Quite agree! I’m not a gym fit women I have jiggly bits I’d rathet didn’t jiggle for quite as long as they do when slapped....however I am it short of very fit muscular guys wanting a meet. Not that this is all I’m looking for, but I do seem to attract them. I am a confident women and I believe that comes across and is what makes me attractive more so than me not being a size 10 MrsK | |||
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"Do you think people who know they are attractive take better care of themselves ie .. make up , hair , gym ? " I think it's easier for them to make the most of their looks with minimal effort. The rest of us take much longer to look nowhere near as good. I probably use the same effort as someone who's attractive... just doesn't notice! ![]() | |||
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"Do you think people who know they are attractive take better care of themselves ie .. make up , hair , gym ? " No idea. I take care of myself because I value myself. | |||
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"I go the gym etc but not to look like I go the gym but to perform better at my chosen sport. " What sport? | |||
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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() It's partly true. Some men would fuck anything no matter the size, shape or dangly bits. Some men prefer larger women. Some men prefer slimmer women. | |||
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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() Definitely not true I have plenty of meets and I don’t ‘know’ I’m attractive, in other words I’m not slim and ‘fit’ which I presume is what the op was referring to | |||
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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() So in your opinion no man in their right mind would be attracted to a larger woman? What did someone say about (allegedly) good looking on the outside????? | |||
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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() l ‘Dangly bits’? ![]() | |||
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"I think it all starts from within, if you feel confident and comfortable with yourself it'll come naturally. " Indeed x ![]() | |||
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"I know plenty of ugly people who spend fortunes on cosmetics, clothing, nails, hair, waxing and beauty treatments. I'm much more attractive than them and I don't see the point in wasting my money on frivolous things. " Woah.....not judgemental....much.... | |||
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"Everything I do, I do for me. I wear the clothes I feel nice in. I have my hair done how I like it. I go to the gym because I enjoy it. I buy Ester Lauder because I need it ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Exactly ....apart from I would choose a different perfume ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass! Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them! ![]() not true at all! I’ve never had a problem no matter what size, that said I won’t be for everyone but then neither will slim ladies x | |||
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"Everything I do, I do for me. I wear the clothes I feel nice in. I have my hair done how I like it. I go to the gym because I enjoy it. I buy Ester Lauder because I need it ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Estée Lauder is my foundation, I don’t smell of her ![]() | |||
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"Everything I do, I do for me. I wear the clothes I feel nice in. I have my hair done how I like it. I go to the gym because I enjoy it. I buy Ester Lauder because I need it ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Oops ![]() | |||
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"Well groomed makes a person more attractive end of, so there is no excuse as everyone is capable of being the best version of themselves!" I think that barring incapacity for any reason that this is true. | |||
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"I don't understand why wearing make up is classed as looking after yourself! Especially with the ridiculous fashions there are at the moment. I do wear make up, although rarely, when I feel like looking a certain way, not because it makes me look better, just different! " I disagree women that don’t wear make up usually look ill or washed out .. foundation makes your skin look dewy and mascara make your eyes look so much prettier .. | |||
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"I don't understand why wearing make up is classed as looking after yourself! Especially with the ridiculous fashions there are at the moment. I do wear make up, although rarely, when I feel like looking a certain way, not because it makes me look better, just different! I disagree women that don’t wear make up usually look ill or washed out .. foundation makes your skin look dewy and mascara make your eyes look so much prettier .. " I often wear mascara as I have blond eyelashes, but never foundation, it makes my skin look horrible! And people only think that if ya don't wear it you look ill because they are too used to seeing you wear it and forgotten what colour your skin actually is. Too many people caked in crap, and what is the deal with looking metallic these days? That is not dewy, it's horrific! I have never had anyone tell me I look ill because people have never seen me with foundation on. | |||
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"I don't understand why wearing make up is classed as looking after yourself! Especially with the ridiculous fashions there are at the moment. I do wear make up, although rarely, when I feel like looking a certain way, not because it makes me look better, just different! I disagree women that don’t wear make up usually look ill or washed out .. foundation makes your skin look dewy and mascara make your eyes look so much prettier .. " wouldn’t necessarily agree here there’s nothing wrong with a natural pretty face and some women have great natural complexions | |||
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"I don't understand why wearing make up is classed as looking after yourself! Especially with the ridiculous fashions there are at the moment. I do wear make up, although rarely, when I feel like looking a certain way, not because it makes me look better, just different! I disagree women that don’t wear make up usually look ill or washed out .. foundation makes your skin look dewy and mascara make your eyes look so much prettier .. " *some women I generally don't wear foundation but do wear blush and highlighter /bronzer. I know what you mean about looking different not wearing any make up though | |||
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"Humans are attracted to outward signs of health, regardless of if that person is in fact healthy/healthier than the average person. It's just built in to us, hence why gym bods are generally more appealing" Or wealth... Donald Trump? | |||
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"Humans are attracted to outward signs of health, regardless of if that person is in fact healthy/healthier than the average person. It's just built in to us, hence why gym bods are generally more appealing Or wealth... Donald Trump?" Wealth generally equals better living conditions, better quality food, less stress etc. All of which contribute to a healthier lifestyle (dependant on the individual) | |||
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