FabSwingers.com forum: What made you start swinging?

By *983RC OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hi all, just thought it would be interesting on this cold and dreary Monday to see what made us all choose to be swingers... we’ll go first and if anyone else has a tale to tell we’d be all ears

We started by being on a vanilla holiday (in Playa Del Ingles of all places) when we passed a few clubs both gay and straight. We had no idea that was they type of resort we were going to! Anyway after lubricating our morals with much G&T we had some very sexy d*unken conversations on the balcony. Over the next 12 months numerous d*unken conversations became sober ones and then next thing I know she has registered us on here while I was at work!!

In the last few months we’ve swapped some filthy pics and vids, live cammed and had our first hotel meet which became a full swap. Loving life so far and can’t wait to keep exploring this new side of our sexuality

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By *983RC OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

What an odd word for the system to censor?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D*unk threesome which we loved and carried on from there

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By *983RC OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"D*unk threesome which we loved and carried on from there "

Love this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were both out of relationships, looking for some NSA fun; K more after women after getting sick of guys apparently

Turns out that we click pretty well together, and we fell madly in love

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

No sex after a relationship. Bored. Horny. Discovered this malarkey. Wayhey!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our love of kinky fuckery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"D*unk threesome which we loved and carried on from there

Love this!"

Yeh opened up a whole new world for us

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We had both been married before and neither of us had been faithful to our exes. We accepted that both of us were going to want sex outside our relationship and thought swinging would provide what we both needed without deceit.

It has worked very well for us, one big bonus over having affairs is that we get to see the other one fucking with others, which is a massive turn on for us both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were always dirty fuckers on our own, and during sex often got each other off by talking about anonymous others joining in. Then on a long weekend in Paris we paid a spontaneous visit to a twinkly little swingers club, and before long I was fucking Annie from behind as she licked a lovely French woman's pussy. That was 15 years ago and since then we've dabbled a fair bit

These days we like just an occasional dabble.

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By *immCouple
over a year ago

Stourport on Severn

27 years married, we had tried everything else. We had used various fantasy talks to spice things up. Was going to visit a good mate for a weekend and jokingly said that mrs will only come with me if we spit roast her. He said yes and mrs spent the weekend as a sex slave to us both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was seduced by a friends wife at a social function.

She was extremely flirtatious and was being very forward, I expected her husband to tell her to calm down or start an argument, especially when she said out loud that she’d love to “try my cock”.

I was very surprised when he said that was a good idea, and offered for her to stay the night with me.

A very surprising but enjoyable introduction to swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An uncle and auntie who got me going but i know it harder for single men to have fun. happy swinging to all

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Before the internet, I used phone chatlines, and occasionally a late-night horny chat turned into jumping into the car and jumping into a woman's bed...

....one night, I'd been chatting a woman who invited me to visit her the next night - and it wasn't until the very end of the conversation that she mentioned she was married...

...nothing unusual about that - a few of my late-night trips had been to married women with hubby away, or at work...

....except this time, she asked if it would be OK if he watched! Threw me, wasn't anything I'd ever even thought about - but said yes...

....got more and more nervous on the drive there, didn't know if I'd be able to 'perform' - but they were great and put me at ease, I did, and haven't looked back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife lost interest in sex several years ago. She doesn't mind me getting it else where & swinging seemed a good way of having sex & making new friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Divorced,no female friend,high sex drive.Where else,all the women I meet off site are Vanilla

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I like sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanted sex without a relationship. I thought I'd be getting laid by lovely guys that would make sure I was satisfied and who would still respect me because they'd be enlightened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it was the thought of chatting someone up and excitment of sex with people i dont know. Takes meback to my teenage years.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I was seeing someone from work briefly and we got to talking about fantasies. I wanted to play with another woman and so he introduced me to another site. We didn't last but 12 years later, here I still am.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We were always vocal and chatty during sex, and often would wind each other up by saying things, which soon turned to being about having a third involved. The sex was always intense after, and sometimes we would talk about it "in the cold light of day" as it were.

Fast forward a few years, and the fantasies got more involved, and Jayne (and I lol)would get super-horny if we talked about another woman joining us, to the point that, after one intense session that lasted a weekend off and on, we decided to put words into action, and got on the internet to see what we could do about getting Jayne a "lady friend". We found a swingers site, and without hesitation signed up, and from there after a few false starts we had our first full swap couples meet, which included loads of bi fun for Jayne. We soon found Fab, and haven't looked back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, just thought it would be interesting on this cold and dreary Monday to see what made us all choose to be swingers... we’ll go first and if anyone else has a tale to tell we’d be all ears

Couples like you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wanted sex without a relationship. I thought I'd be getting laid by lovely guys that would make sure I was satisfied and who would still respect me because they'd be enlightened.

Wish I wasn’t out your age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex mentioned that she’s been on here in the past. When we split up I figured I’d sign up and take a look and ended up getting sucked into the lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What an odd word for the system to censor?!!"

I noticed this the other day, of all the words to actively censor... That word in particular... I don't know it feels suspicious actually. Leads one to wonder what sort of stories or posts are being considered when they decide to disallow that word.

As for the original topic, for us, well the M half was definitely the one who got us into it in terms of suggesting it. The F half was very curious, but it took her a little longer to get her head around it. Once we had a full FFM though she was fully on the swing train.

The M half had been on the scene before though, with a previous relationship and as a single guy before that. He got into it as an aside to his foray into link, BDSM.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wanted sex without a relationship. I thought I'd be getting laid by lovely guys that would make sure I was satisfied and who would still respect me because they'd be enlightened.

Wish I wasn’t out your age range

That's sweet of you. But I think you may have misread my tone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, just thought it would be interesting on this cold and dreary Monday to see what made us all choose to be swingers... we’ll go first and if anyone else has a tale to tell we’d be all ears

Mine started in the early 90's through a friend at work who mentioned a Birmingham based chat room on the old msn network, it was run by a couple who lived near the airport and they used to hold large socials at a large pub near airport. It progressed from there socials at other pubs house parties and the joining chams however the msn group finished when msn stopped all there chat rooms however all migrated across to another site way before fab started and then just moved on from there. I will say back then it had more mystic because it wasn't as mainstream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wanted sex without a relationship. I thought I'd be getting laid by lovely guys that would make sure I was satisfied and who would still respect me because they'd be enlightened.

Wish I wasn’t out your age range

That's sweet of you. But I think you may have misread my tone."

I understand your tone and wanted to atone for your experiences x

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

I still don't consider myself a swinger. I don't actually believe that any singles on the scene can really be termed 'swingers'...but I know there are lots of different takes on this..

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

A random threesome.... being watched fucking outside and L missing female touch ... and swinging was just next natural thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chloroform

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chloroform

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

After spending a fair amount of time with a female work colleague....and hearing her and her hubby's fantasy....

Cheekily offered myself up.....next night she was in my hotel room with hubby's blessing....., the next weekend I stayed at theirs to bring mmf fantasy to life....

2 years later I was her long term bf with her hubbys full knowledge.., use fab to keep in touch after I moved away and now seeking similar with a new couple or hot wife...

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex

I'm a Randy C*#T !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wanted sex without a relationship. I thought I'd be getting laid by lovely guys that would make sure I was satisfied and who would still respect me because they'd be enlightened.

Wish I wasn’t out your age range

That's sweet of you. But I think you may have misread my tone.

I understand your tone and wanted to atone for your experiences x"

You're too young for me to marry, but thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wanted sex without a relationship. I thought I'd be getting laid by lovely guys that would make sure I was satisfied and who would still respect me because they'd be enlightened.

Same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wanted sex without a relationship. I thought I'd be getting laid by lovely guys that would make sure I was satisfied and who would still respect me because they'd be enlightened.

Same.

But it'll be our fault for not picking the right guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guessing the reality of your experiences hasn’t met with what you thought it would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was single.Horny.Knew about fab from a friend. So i joined.

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By *983RC OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

One thing we’ve been surprised by since coming on here is how many people do this, and also what a huge variety of ages there are. We assumed it would be older couples and singles who had learned to be more confident in their relationships to open up about this!

Well what we can say is we’re having a lot of fun so far and long may it continue... like most people here our main reason is we just bloody love having filthy sex

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By *ustaceSmithMan
over a year ago

Saxmundham

Coming out of a 20-year marriage, I wanted to expand my sexual horizons, but the last thing that I wanted was to enter another relationship: engaging in a threesome guaranteed this. I was extremely fortunate in finding a bi-couple to initiate me.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Sorry if this is a bit long but it covers a lot of years.

My (Mr H) first taste of this lifestyle was way back in the 1980's.

I was in a sexless marriage and was getting an occasional one night stand through the Loot ad's (remember them?

) and one day was contacted by a couple

yes at the time I was shocked.

Needless to say we eventually met, fucked, and afterwards had quite a long chat. They told me about a swinger club they used

Yep shocked again. WTF is a swinger club? I didn't know such things existed. Anyway they told me all about it (Adam & Eve Eccles BTW) and we arranged to meet there the following week.

Up until my divorce I would manage to get there a couple of times a month.

During my singleton years I was in and out of swinging depending on which GF I was with, although I had a four year relationship were we swung as a couple for most of it with many happy memories of Cupids at the time.

When I got together with Mrs H. I made no secret of my previous adventures but she made it clear that she had no interest whatsoever so for 3 years (my longest continuous break) I did nothing.

Through that period we talked about it a few times and even went to a couple of erotic exhibitions, until one day quite out of the blue she said she wanted to go to a swinger club, just to see what it was like.

We were living in Germany and I didn't really know anything about German clubs then, but with my ex I had been to Fun4two in Holland which is only a couple of hours drive from us.

So off we went and she liked it although I will never forget the look of shock on her face when the guy of a couple we had been chatting to started playing with her tits.

That was around nine years ago and we are still here. For the first year or so we stuck to soft swing, she wasn't quite ready to (and I wasn't allowed to) fuck someone yet, but that eventually changed.

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Failed relationships throughout the the last 30 years lol...they were too vanilla for me, but I thought I was the weird one...and not normal....

Dated a guy from POF for a month and he said he was a swinger and thought I was too....

Went to Chams...and it was like a revelation! I had found myself and fitted in x

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

For years we have always sought out naturist beaches and about five years ago we found ourselves at Cap d'Agde. Our love of sex combined with exhibitionist tendencies very quickly led us to move on from simply watching the action to joining in. Since then we have met some great people and had some fantastic sex. Ì have been able to explore my bi side with some lovely women and fulfilled my fantasies with two, three, four and even five guys at a time. Best of all though is being able to watch each other enjoying the action.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Started 13yrs ago as a vanilla couple talking about fantasy’s one d*unken nite ... I found another swinging site and registered us on there ... went on to have some fab times all over the world .... then relationship ended 5yrs ago and I’m a single fem now .... bit more experienced and long in the tooth and not so naive but still havin fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D*unk 3some with wife and my mate happened a few times then met guys in Edinburgh. Now the wife is not into this anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single, bored and horny

Have to say I've very much enjoyed my time here and have met some amazing people

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We joined Infusions a long time ago and dabbled but timing wasn't right somehow. Now kids flown the nest we decided a hobby was in order, something for both of us

Booked La Mirage & literally jumped right in. Surprised how the scene has evolved and clubs so social/fun - its definately part of our lifestyle now xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wanted sex without a relationship. I thought I'd be getting laid by lovely guys that would make sure I was satisfied and who would still respect me because they'd be enlightened.

Wish I wasn’t out your age range

That's sweet of you. But I think you may have misread my tone.

I understand your tone and wanted to atone for your experiences x

You're too young for me to marry, but thanks

Age is irrelevant, it’s atractin that counts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching the film Eyes Wide Shut when I was a teenager first got me interested in it.

Then it was just a case of finding a partner who wanted to do it.

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By *av_55Man
over a year ago

Came in to it off the back of escorting,

Lost my moral compass a bit so decided to join fab and another site to see if people where the same as me,,

Guess what,, wasn’t disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends and i were out drinking and group of rugby players were trying to chat us up .one chatting to me told me the mischief he gets into and told me about fab .was year's later i decided too have a look

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I originally joined as part if a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really wanted to explore my bi curious side, and thought it would be less intimidating with a male/female couple. I have never looked back!!! I swear as I get older it gets better or I just get kinkier!!!

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

a chance remark re-ignited / reinvigorated our horniness to a new level add to this curiosity , nerve excitemeny and here we are having a great time.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Started as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wanted sex without a relationship. I thought I'd be getting laid by lovely guys that would make sure I was satisfied and who would still respect me because they'd be enlightened.

Same.

But it'll be our fault for not picking the right guys

It's always our fault. We should know our place.

Singles are evil.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wanted sex without a relationship. I thought I'd be getting laid by lovely guys that would make sure I was satisfied and who would still respect me because they'd be enlightened.

Same.

But it'll be our fault for not picking the right guys

It's always our fault. We should know our place.

Singles are evil. "

certainly not swingers anyway. Oh unless we're being fucked by a couple, then it's OK.

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

"I wanted sex without a relationship. I thought I'd be getting laid by lovely guys that would make sure I was satisfied and who would still respect me because they'd be enlightened.

you've not yet met the right guys....nudge nudge wink wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs N had a strong libido in her 40s and loved more cock than I could give her, lucky old me. Both after divorces and not wanting to settle down. Still not quite settled down yet after 17 years together. It works for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No sex after a relationship. Bored. Horny. Discovered this malarkey. Wayhey!! "

You took each work out of my mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wanted sex without a relationship. I thought I'd be getting laid by lovely guys that would make sure I was satisfied and who would still respect me because they'd be enlightened.

Same.

But it'll be our fault for not picking the right guys

It's always our fault. We should know our place.

Singles are evil.

certainly not swingers anyway. Oh unless we're being fucked by a couple, then it's OK."

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