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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

where are you ??? lol

seem to be a lack of guys in the southwest that want this as well as a lack of guys who seem to not understand this .... most guys see hot wife and just think free fuck and think the woman is single ?? erm hot wife ello we are married lol and dont get me started on the cuck side of things because most guys view it as a script to a porn film and again think its just a free fuck and nothing to do with us as a couple ??.

when we started swinging (20yrs ago ) people seem to understand a lot more than now ..... its seems that the hole is the goal and nothing else matters or you end up meeting the clingly guy who wants sex and a relationship/or mummy ... some where are all you so called confident guys who like real hotwifes or bulls that like cuckolds.

or are we the only ones thinking like this ??? and no not knocking single guys as we have over the years met some brill ones just they seem to be fading out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an interesting and fun dynamic. I enjoy getting to understand what it is both the husband and wife want from a meet with an extra guy. Are they into cuckolding or a hotwife meet, what is it about the different scenarios they like it don't like. For me the intellectual stimulation makes these meets mind blowing when you get them spot on.

Always worth taking your time and selecting the right guys who get this.

Eddie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not the only ones thinking like that as we have the same problem and have been on and off of here a few years now. We find guys much more easier to find in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always on the look out for a nice cuck couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it's a numbers game, there is less population out West than in London area so you have less chance of finding that right guy who gets you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The trouble with single guys is,they don't have a wife or partner to show them they are constantly wrong

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

South London


"where are you ??? lol

seem to be a lack of guys in the southwest that want this as well as a lack of guys who seem to not understand this .... most guys see hot wife and just think free fuck and think the woman is single ?? erm hot wife ello we are married lol and dont get me started on the cuck side of things because most guys view it as a script to a porn film and again think its just a free fuck and nothing to do with us as a couple ??.

when we started swinging (20yrs ago ) people seem to understand a lot more than now ..... its seems that the hole is the goal and nothing else matters or you end up meeting the clingly guy who wants sex and a relationship/or mummy ... some where are all you so called confident guys who like real hotwifes or bulls that like cuckolds.

or are we the only ones thinking like this ??? and no not knocking single guys as we have over the years met some brill ones just they seem to be fading out... "

Can relate to this ourselves! It’s very rare we get a message/stumble upon a profile that matches what we’re seeking and like the look of.

We always say, it’s easy finding a guy to meet us but hard finding a guy we want to meet. Many just don’t seem to get it.

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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago

south west !

I like both, hubby doesn’t mind me having a quick fuck whilst he’s at work.

He also doesn’t mind a couple of guys, I know take me out for the evening.

It’s s matter of what your likes are

Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like both, hubby doesn’t mind me having a quick fuck whilst he’s at work.

He also doesn’t mind a couple of guys, I know take me out for the evening.

It’s s matter of what your likes are

Happy fabbing "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be hard for the guy to ( pun intended)

I am in message conversation with two couples, who message for a week or so, get quite detailed in what we all want, then nothing for a month or so.

I know cold feet are kicking in as a meet is on the horizon, should I have lots more couples on the go? I'd rather have one, maybe two, and not mess other people about

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By *tuartsCelloCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Definitely not the only ones thinking like that as we have the same problem and have been on and off of here a few years now. We find guys much more easier to find in clubs. "

We totally agree - we find guys in clubs much easier and willing to do what Eva likes and wants (a bit of interesting convo for starters!) and we do really enjoy the hotwife lifestyle x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here if my profile interests any couples with a hot wife

Kyle

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By *thletic Fella!!Man
over a year ago

Wigan

Meeting a hotwife is the primary reason I'm on this site. I've met a couple and it was fantastic and cuckolding someones husband is defo on my to do list!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like both, hubby doesn’t mind me having a quick fuck whilst he’s at work.

He also doesn’t mind a couple of guys, I know take me out for the evening.

It’s s matter of what your likes are

Happy fabbing "

Ready to wine and dine you

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee


"where are you ??? lol

seem to be a lack of guys in the southwest that want this as well as a lack of guys who seem to not understand this .... most guys see hot wife and just think free fuck and think the woman is single ?? erm hot wife ello we are married lol and dont get me started on the cuck side of things because most guys view it as a script to a porn film and again think its just a free fuck and nothing to do with us as a couple ??.

when we started swinging (20yrs ago ) people seem to understand a lot more than now ..... its seems that the hole is the goal and nothing else matters or you end up meeting the clingly guy who wants sex and a relationship/or mummy ... some where are all you so called confident guys who like real hotwifes or bulls that like cuckolds.

or are we the only ones thinking like this ??? and no not knocking single guys as we have over the years met some brill ones just they seem to be fading out... "

We are a stag n vixen couple and its amazing how many dont grasp what that or hotwife means.

While we get plenty messages for meets, most are not for us and lack of effort and understanding plays its part in that.

I think maybe 20 years ago and this is just a guess as i wasnt involved then is that then it was mostly people who where genuine and knew whst they wanted, and now with easy access to sites such as this you get plenty signing up thinking it a easy fuck. G

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London

My former incarnation as a Bull was very often just as frustrating. The world of cuckolding is very much a specialization and it wasn't just the single males that didn't get it.

As much as the vast majority of single males don't truly understand the role of the Bull and fail to appreciate the importance of role played by the cuckold. Couples are often just as guilty. Its a three way dynamic and all concerned have to be prepared to put in the time and effort.

When the planets aligned they were some of the most mind blowing experiences. They made the patience and hard work feel worth the effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can be hard for the guy to ( pun intended)

I am in message conversation with two couples, who message for a week or so, get quite detailed in what we all want, then nothing for a month or so.

I know cold feet are kicking in as a meet is on the horizon, should I have lots more couples on the go? I'd rather have one, maybe two, and not mess other people about "

Very common. Couple time wasters and dreamers . Usually the guy from the couple messaging. Would I like to meet again, what scenario do I want. Etc etc.

We've met several times, so they are a real couple but each time it's the same process, half a dozen messages about what I'd like to do to his wife.

Think He gets off on the porn before the meet goes ahead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have the same problem, finding the right people to join us takes such a lot of time and effort, but it's worth it when we find the right people. A lot of guys try their best to say all the right things, but it's easy to see through the ones who are just after a quick fuck. The men who are serious about joining us as a couple or entertaining me with the knowledge of my husband (him being in the bar of a hotel while we're upstairs etc), are prepared to put the time in to get to know us, and give us the chance to get to know them. It's important that everyone understands what we're all hoping to get from the time we spend together and what we all enjoy (or more importantly, don't enjoy). Building trust between the three of us is key to everything, and that can only be done with openness, honesty and time spent getting to know each other.

V x

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By *urious_couple_2015Couple
over a year ago

North West

We find the exact same thing for our particular kink - hot wife reversed.

It technically puts him as another single man on fab, which is difficult anyway. When we do find a lady who would be interested in seeing him they majority of the time don’t get the kink and why I enjoy him going out playing.

Would be interested in talking to any cucks or hot wives around the kink

Mrs C

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I've been fortunate in meeting and playing with couples in both hotwife and cuckold situations over the years - and having been invited back by and made return visits to some, guess I must be doing something right!

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast


"We have the same problem, finding the right people to join us takes such a lot of time and effort, but it's worth it when we find the right people. A lot of guys try their best to say all the right things, but it's easy to see through the ones who are just after a quick fuck. The men who are serious about joining us as a couple or entertaining me with the knowledge of my husband (him being in the bar of a hotel while we're upstairs etc), are prepared to put the time in to get to know us, and give us the chance to get to know them. It's important that everyone understands what we're all hoping to get from the time we spend together and what we all enjoy (or more importantly, don't enjoy). Building trust between the three of us is key to everything, and that can only be done with openness, honesty and time spent getting to know each other.

V x"

Perfectly said......

Enjoyed 2 fantastic years of exactly this....dam the down side of taking a new job the other side of the country is trying to find that new elusive couple or hot wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"where are you ??? lol

seem to be a lack of guys in the southwest that want this as well as a lack of guys who seem to not understand this .... most guys see hot wife and just think free fuck and think the woman is single ?? erm hot wife ello we are married lol and dont get me started on the cuck side of things because most guys view it as a script to a porn film and again think its just a free fuck and nothing to do with us as a couple ??.

when we started swinging (20yrs ago ) people seem to understand a lot more than now ..... its seems that the hole is the goal and nothing else matters or you end up meeting the clingly guy who wants sex and a relationship/or mummy ... some where are all you so called confident guys who like real hotwifes or bulls that like cuckolds.

or are we the only ones thinking like this ??? and no not knocking single guys as we have over the years met some brill ones just they seem to be fading out... "

Completely agree!! If you find a good one near Taunton do please pass him along lol

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London


"We have the same problem, finding the right people to join us takes such a lot of time and effort, but it's worth it when we find the right people. A lot of guys try their best to say all the right things, but it's easy to see through the ones who are just after a quick fuck. The men who are serious about joining us as a couple or entertaining me with the knowledge of my husband (him being in the bar of a hotel while we're upstairs etc), are prepared to put the time in to get to know us, and give us the chance to get to know them. It's important that everyone understands what we're all hoping to get from the time we spend together and what we all enjoy (or more importantly, don't enjoy). Building trust between the three of us is key to everything, and that can only be done with openness, honesty and time spent getting to know each other.

V x"

Couldn't have said it better myself. For me, so long as the couple was genuine, getting to know them and what made them tick really added to the pleasure.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

hello couples

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By *rbane PlayerMan
over a year ago

London

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By *rbane PlayerMan
over a year ago

London


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Totally agree with both of you-well said, thanks.

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By *otHungGuyMan
over a year ago

cardiff

It’s all about time and building trust then let the fun times roll.

I’ve met some fantastic couples each unique and some very special times have been had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single From West midlands x can travel

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

I've been the Hubby with the Hotwife and also the Extra Guy to the Hotwife Couple.

Top tip to the Extra Guy, you have to continually contect with the Hubby just as much as the Hotwife. They are both in it together. Ignoring or Sidelining Hubby whilst you have your fun just proves you don't know what you're doing and will get you cut off from future fun.

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

My hot wife loves regular meets with a couple of regular fuck buddies whilst I'm at work. Love hearing all about it when I get home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im in , dont mind a long drive either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been the Hubby with the Hotwife and also the Extra Guy to the Hotwife Couple.

Top tip to the Extra Guy, you have to continually contect with the Hubby just as much as the Hotwife. They are both in it together. Ignoring or Sidelining Hubby whilst you have your fun just proves you don't know what you're doing and will get you cut off from future fun. "

Bang on ??

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"My former incarnation as a Bull was very often just as frustrating. The world of cuckolding is very much a specialization and it wasn't just the single males that didn't get it.

As much as the vast majority of single males don't truly understand the role of the Bull and fail to appreciate the importance of role played by the cuckold. Couples are often just as guilty. Its a three way dynamic and all concerned have to be prepared to put in the time and effort.

When the planets aligned they were some of the most mind blowing experiences. They made the patience and hard work feel worth the effort "

WEll said - but when I play with couples - 99% arent so much cuck couples as hotwife couples. Only once /twice has there been a bull /cuck/hotwife dynamic. Most times, most husbands just enjoy watching their wife with another guy (me!). Its the visual thrill and the naughtiness of it all of watching their wife with another guy - all before they join in. I have only met two couples who truly wanted a bull/hotwife dynamic but they were very explicit about this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore it so any couples wanna chat pm me....

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"My former incarnation as a Bull was very often just as frustrating. The world of cuckolding is very much a specialization and it wasn't just the single males that didn't get it.

As much as the vast majority of single males don't truly understand the role of the Bull and fail to appreciate the importance of role played by the cuckold. Couples are often just as guilty. Its a three way dynamic and all concerned have to be prepared to put in the time and effort.

When the planets aligned they were some of the most mind blowing experiences. They made the patience and hard work feel worth the effort "

Having read your blog - what do you think made a particular couple a bull/cuck/hotwife couple rather than a normal swinging couple who like MFMs - is it the verbal humilitation? Or the hubby just forced to watch? Or he is in other room? Or not there at all...from my experience, most couples are stag and vixen couples - the guy loves having a wife who “sleeps around” and/or he can watch while she fucks another guy

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford


"I've been the Hubby with the Hotwife and also the Extra Guy to the Hotwife Couple.

Top tip to the Extra Guy, you have to continually contect with the Hubby just as much as the Hotwife. They are both in it together. Ignoring or Sidelining Hubby whilst you have your fun just proves you don't know what you're doing and will get you cut off from future fun. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There also don't seem to be a lot of single women interested in cuckolding on here...

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over a year ago

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

I’m on the lookout for genuine chuck old couples and hot wives.

It’s an extremely sexy scenario.

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By *awtywifeCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

As some say its not a cuck/hotwife site , why its more just about sex and meets fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am here. Sadly here is in the north east. I am open to visits though

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By *ontinentalCockMan
over a year ago

London

I would ask that question in reverse. There don’t seem to be a lot of Hotwife/cuckold couples up north.

We should all meet in the midlands and there problem solved haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to give it a try with couples it looks a lot of fun

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

Come to London and you'll be spoilt for choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to have more experiences like this - have tried before and was enjoyed by all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cuckold couple here fairly new (a year) to this but fully want the full cuckold package my hubs is full on cuck pathetic faggot with a wormy cock that only gets put in knickers while he watches me take a real guy.....

but in the short time we've been doing this we have only manage to find one guy who understands what we want most try and use it as an excuse just to get a fuck and thats not what we want i have one pathetic cock dont need another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might like to take care of someone else's wife/girlfriend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just thought would say hello.

Love a hot wife scenario and would certainly like to find a regular hotwife to please x

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Yes and hopefully meeting a hotwife next week.

Love the hotwife dynamic. Some very lucky couples in this thread.

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford


"I would ask that question in reverse. There don’t seem to be a lot of Hotwife/cuckold couples up north.

We should all meet in the midlands and there problem solved haha!"

I agree!

J.... in the midlands!

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By *ueenandlittlecuckCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

your not the only ones, its similar up north to, i think the quantity can be out there but not the quality. the search continues

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By *thwiltsmMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Definitely would love more experience with hot wife or cuckold couples, that’s why I’m here.

Much more exciting than one on ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get a lot of messages in South Wales from guys but as you say they don't seem to get or understand the scenario. Most think its an easy fuck and thats it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been wanting this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many around , loads of selfish single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhh there are some of us out here that understand x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been trying to find a regular friend for mmf and one to one with Jane whilst I'm away working, however we've found most guys just want to turn up for a one off. I find that hard to get my head around, when I was single I met a couple and enjoyed the regular dynamic, I don't understand why a lot of guys don't?

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex

Its the Game I love to play .

I just dont get the chance much .

Other Commitments take priority

at the moment.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I have found it harder to find a couple on here to have fun with either alone with the Mrs or together than in the real world where I do have a couple of couples where we have fun.

Both like different things and I am happy to go along with.

One couple I have been seeing the Mrs during the day for about 3years now and it still turns Mr on when he hears about it after.

The other couple has only been 6 months and it’s been awesome fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi guys any couples want a cuck in a cage I’m looking for a couple that want a sissy to lick pussy as u guys fuck u have the key ?? x Even clean up after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been trying to find a regular friend for mmf and one to one with Jane whilst I'm away working, however we've found most guys just want to turn up for a one off. I find that hard to get my head around, when I was single I met a couple and enjoyed the regular dynamic, I don't understand why a lot of guys don't?"

Good luck in your search. I have been a regular lover to a couple for over 3 years now and i can say that it just gets better. All about mutual respect and realising its about the couple. We have all become good friends too. Just about knowing boundaries and not over stepping them. Totally changed my view of fab and would never seek one offs again. On going regular fun is by far the best. Great when you all have that connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to meet up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys any couples want a cuck in a cage I’m looking for a couple that want a sissy to lick pussy as u guys fuck u have the key ?? x Even clean up after "

erm pretty sure you have to have a wife to be a cuck ?? you sound like you just want to be sub to a couple maybe ??

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London


"My former incarnation as a Bull was very often just as frustrating. The world of cuckolding is very much a specialization and it wasn't just the single males that didn't get it.

As much as the vast majority of single males don't truly understand the role of the Bull and fail to appreciate the importance of role played by the cuckold. Couples are often just as guilty. Its a three way dynamic and all concerned have to be prepared to put in the time and effort.

When the planets aligned they were some of the most mind blowing experiences. They made the patience and hard work feel worth the effort

Having read your blog - what do you think made a particular couple a bull/cuck/hotwife couple rather than a normal swinging couple who like MFMs - is it the verbal humilitation? Or the hubby just forced to watch? Or he is in other room? Or not there at all...from my experience, most couples are stag and vixen couples - the guy loves having a wife who “sleeps around” and/or he can watch while she fucks another guy"

Hmmm let me think. Well back when I was a single Bull I rarely encountered couples where the cuck wanted to be humiliated. Well not by me as the Bull anyway. More often than not the cuckold wanted me to help guide their wife/girlfriend into getting comfortable with the idea of verbally humiliating them. Regardless of what level of humiliation a couple felt comfortable with. Me being respectful to them both before and after the naughty stuff was key. Once they were comfortable with me and knew that I wasn’t simply a selfish or arrogant arsehole (pardon my French). They would feel free to relax and indulge in the mutual fantasy with me.

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