FabSwingers.com forum: Online dating

By *ure fucking naughty OP Man
over a year ago

St Albans

How many of you are on the likes of Pof and tinder etc looking for someone?

Happy to raise my hand and say I am, but I find most people I meet there are too, plain in bed I suppose is the best way to describe it. Anyone else find the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried them all and more without luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup I’m on both too but there’s more idiots and timewasters on there as there is here I’ve found

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many of you are on the likes of Pof and tinder etc looking for someone?

Happy to raise my hand and say I am, but I find most people I meet there are too, plain in bed I suppose is the best way to describe it. Anyone else find the same?"

Hard to find another kinkster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been on Tinder and pof for about 4 and 6 years respectively. In that time, ive had no meets on Tinder and just the 1 on pof.

It's painful

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Tried it before (and occasionally during) fab and got nowhere!

I found most fell into 2 categories

1) Just wanted a shag (I can get that in abundance on here - with far hotter guys who are more open about friendship too!)

2) Were obviously desperate to settle down (probably due to a mounting pile of washing up and ironing) and didn’t seem to care who with!

Maybe I’ll try them again eventually, but I’m in no hurry!

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

There is nothing good about online dating sites. Ive had the same experiences as the ladies above and its just dire.

Fab is so much more my cup of tea with the added bonus of having awesome sex and meeting like minded men...just need that kinkster prince to come sweep me off my feet and id be a happy lass

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By *aughtyLittleMissWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

It's amazing the amount of guys you see on here who are looking for a relationship or someone to marry on pof!

I think fab is more honest, I find it easier to tell someone on here what I do and don't like sexually than after dating for weeks

I used to be scared to tell vanilla guys I was into certain acts in case they thought it was perverted, whereas on fab I think guys are much more open minded

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Im looking..... but no one yet ...

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By *art123Man
over a year ago

Stoke

Yes I am.. I find meeting on the ‘vanilla’ sites much much easier than on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just come off it since finding Fab and going to my first swingers party few weeks back! Like other posters have commented! You know what you’re getting into on here, plus it’s gonna be kinky... Most women on POF bore me to death, probably why I’ve never settled down with any of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m on badoo but find most just want sex. I joined to look for a relationship but gave up. I have an account on POF and e harmony but never use them and have forgotten the log in details.

I prefer Fab XXX

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

I was but it became clear that as I was being honest about being a bisexual man seeking a relationship with a woman that I was just going to get me a vast amount of abuse so I have closed my profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv been on pof before but found i had better socials on here and was treated far better by the men on here then any man from pof

The majority of pof men want a fuck but wont be honest about it or respect the woman

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I've been on and off POF and even match a few times over the years.

I've found most of the men who contacted me to be dull and unlikely to hold my attention long enough over a drink never mind anything more.

Then there's the ones who appear desperate or in need of a good wash if their pictures are anything to go by.

I've met more people here, they are interesting and in general more fun.

I get far more interest on here too. That could be down to the fact my face is hidden though

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By *rs Robinson999Woman
over a year ago

bristol

"Tried it before (and occasionally during) fab and got nowhere!

I found most fell into 2 categories

1) Just wanted a shag (I can get that in abundance on here - with far hotter guys who are more open about friendship too!)

2) Were obviously desperate to settle down (probably due to a mounting pile of washing up and ironing) and didn’t seem to care who with!

Maybe I’ll try them again eventually, but I’m in no hurry! "

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried practically every dating site you care to name in my time and haven't noticed a difference (I realise this is probably because I am the one who is "plain" in bed)!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I've been on and off POF and even match a few times over the years.

I've found most of the men who contacted me to be dull and unlikely to hold my attention long enough over a drink never mind anything more.

Then there's the ones who appear desperate or in need of a good wash if their pictures are anything to go by.

I've met more people here, they are interesting and in general more fun.

Yes, I would say that too. I am also far more stringent when considering someone for a relationship, and tend to be very cynical on dating sites, so many cheats and liars.

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By *r and Mrs A HornyCouple
over a year ago

coventry

Not now but it how we met now nearly 3 years later, so glad I messaged her. Don’t think I ever look back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on pof .match and now on zoosk no luck not even 1 date i did put on there that i was a naturist no luck so i took that bit out still no luck i wont be renwing my subs

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Nothing from Tinder but doing well on POF.

I’m honest in stating that I’m looking to date and I’m not full on relationship material right now. Been seeing a gorgeous woman from Manchester, sexy as hell and sends me lovely erotic photos. Also met a woman in York, we got on so well she has invited me back for ‘a weekend of sex’.

Most women state not interested in ONS or NSA but nearly all want to fuck on a 2nd date.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yes I'm on Pof.

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Yes and seen a few from here on there, but just find when I look at anyone on there my thoughts are always whether we would be compatible sexually more than anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on them but my job involves traveling a lot and it helps to make new friends and get dates around the places I visit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yessss i find the same. Frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been on a date and this is as close to being on a dating site as I ever want to be!

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By *parkle......Woman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I don't do dating or relationships

Fab suits me fine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on Tinder & POF and in my experience they're as bad as each other...POF used to be quite good back in the day... actually I found out about Fab through a girl I met in POF years ago haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on Tinder.

As a general rule Tinder is about 10x as easy to hook up on than fab, and POF is about 10x easier than that.

Great resources

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I quite like Tinder. I was on POF too, but I've never met anyone sane from there.

I keep them separate from here - I'm looking to date/for a relationship on there. On here I'm not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing from Tinder but doing well on POF.

Most women state not interested in ONS or NSA but nearly all want to fuck on a 2nd date.

Why wait?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was. But when I have the time to invest in a relationship, I'd much rather meet someone in the real world, not online. Most of the ones on pof are on fab anyway, I've found.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many of these threads where we're all moaning that we're all on dating sites and want a few strings - yet everyone is still here for "NSA"

Over my time on Fab I've come to realise that most men don't want a relationship with a woman they met off a site like this ( I said most not all before anyone gets their knickers in a twist

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And then the men that are in relationships with the women they met in vanilla life are bored stupid and on here looking for the women that are only good enough for NSA.

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By *ilver_StarMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

I'm recently divorced and have used Tinder and Match.com... interestingly met more 'open minded' women via Match.com!

Decided to be open about my swinging life and bi-curiousity and in the main it's intrigued women rather than put them off (which is great).

Ultimately would really like to develop a relatuonship with someone similar minded. It's not about how 'naughty' someone is, its more about how much they want to explore.

Good thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many of you are on the likes of Pof and tinder etc looking for someone?

Happy to raise my hand and say I am, but I find most people I meet there are too, plain in bed I suppose is the best way to describe it. Anyone else find the same?"
most of pof and tinder are on here even the couples on here who are single girls on pof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm recently divorced and have used Tinder and Match.com... interestingly met more 'open minded' women via Match.com!

Decided to be open about my swinging life and bi-curiousity and in the main it's intrigued women rather than put them off (which is great).

Ultimately would really like to develop a relatuonship with someone similar minded. It's not about how 'naughty' someone is, its more about how much they want to explore.

Good thread! "

I’m exactly the same as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On pof and tinder.....very difficult to find a kinky match and not the sort of thing I want top publicide on my profile on there as there are friends, clients etc who may see it.

I have hopwever met a few nice people, had soime sexual encounters including a MFF off POF !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing from Tinder but doing well on POF.

Most women state not interested in ONS or NSA but nearly all want to fuck on a 2nd date.

Why wait?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yep, not met off them though

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By *ofia2014Woman
over a year ago

Galashiels

Met my bf on badoo..... totally chalk and cheese. Met some great people from pof too... and still friends.... I even managed to meet a couple of men from tinder...

Not sure if I was lucky or unlucky lol x

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