FabSwingers.com forum: Cleaning your friends list

By *oiretblanc OP Couple
over a year ago

London

We have now been on this site for 15 months and have collected a huge list of friends!

When we first joined we would accept requests from absolutely everybody as we wanted to get established here and make contacts.

In reality I now know that most of our "friends" just wanted to get a look at our large selection of private pics and it is highly unlikely that we will ever meet them let alone be naked hot and horny in the same room!

Does anyone pleaee have any practical advice on how to manage a clean up...and how severe we should be in dumping people!!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have now been on this site for 15 months and have collected a huge list of friends!

When we first joined we would accept requests from absolutely everybody as we wanted to get established here and make contacts.

Does anyone pleaee have any practical advice on how to manage a clean up...and how severe we should be in dumping people!!??"

I did the exact same when I first started. I then deleted EVERYBODY and started from scratch. I have about 12 friends now (one being my husband

). Be as brutal as you want to be! Maybe set a rule - if you haven’t spoken to them in the past few weeks, delete them? If they haven’t been active in the past week, delete them? Just delete whoever you aren’t interested in

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By *oiretblanc OP Couple
over a year ago

London

Thanks babe - excellent advice! My only concern is that I am at a club or party one evening and I hear " Oi you, Chanel! Why did you chuck me off your friend's list you stuck up bitch?"

Or words to that effect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks babe - excellent advice! My only concern is that I am at a club or party one evening and I hear " Oi you, Chanel! Why did you chuck me off your friend's list you stuck up bitch?"

Or words to that effect!"

Haha hopefully no one would be that horrible - but just explain that you did a mass clear out, and you had either not spoken before, or you weren’t interested in meeting anyone. Or just lie and say you deleted absolutely everyone and started again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends list is really just people I communicate with, not necessarily people I meet again, but people I like catching up with every now and then to see how they’re swinging! If we’re not messaging then I just delete.

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

My friends list is for people I communicate with or meet regularly. Its short. I deleted someone from it that hadn't messaged me in weeks. They messaged me later complaining they'd been removed but I pointed out that the only reason they contacted me was because they noticed they were deleted not to actually chat. People use the friends list for different things. Just do what suits you xx

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I was the same... but very quickly realised that they were just there to perve my friend pics. I deleted all except those I actually knew or chatted with regularly.

I don't accept random friend requests anymore, and even now will periodically remove friends I've lost touch with or don't speak to regularly anymore from my friend's list. I don't think anyone's ever been offended by that... or possibly even noticed that I'd done it!

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