FabSwingers.com forum: Couple’s first time

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all

Say there is a couple that just decided to try threesome or foursome for a first time

They are both bi-curious and would love to satisfy that part as well as straight

She is only comfortable with another guy if he is guided by her bf

How should they arrange their first experience?

- find someone on this site and meet for coffee together first?

- craigslist?

- any club suggestions?

- any advises? Please!

(What to do and what to avoid)

They are very easy going and comfortable with their bodies;)

Thanks

By *xpatadventurerMan
over a year ago

Work Abroad / London

Good evening alina

There is no 100% answer to this scenario. Have been in this position on a number of occasions as the third party and with a new female partner who was not sure.

My suggestion is do lots of homework on Fab. Look at third party's. Check verifications and profiles.If they like what they see then make contact and engage in lots of correspondence with a view to a social meet first. It's about creating a mutual trust and the anticipation of lots of fun to come.

Once that is done a really good piece of advice is to have the first play meet in a neutral place like a hotel or club ...That way if either party are not happy then all can part ways with no uncomfortable situations .

All parties should be clear about what they like and do not and that can be ironed out in the correspondence and social.

The first meet should always be wonderful as it sets the standard for what is to come...Honesty and trust are the key !!