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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was thinking about the numerous status updates that we see from single guys regarding the "lack of action" and I asked myself (male half) if we were not a couple would I be on fab?

I came to the conclusion that actually as much as we sometimes look for single guys and fab is a great and easy way to do that, as a single guy I do not think I would be on here.

Swinging to me is bringing someone else into our sexual play in order to expand horizons and experience different pleasures that just the two of us can not achieve.

I wouldn't feel that as a single male I would be swinging.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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It doesn't matter. People are here for many reasons. It isn't a simple thing to describe what swinging is nowadays anyway. The best thing to do is look at it as a meeting people hobby. Sometimes with nookie thrown in. We should really stop the arguments of sex vs swinging site etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This post has nothing to do with the sex vs swinging debate.

The post was a reflection on my own personal opinions regarding whether the site would be for me if I were single

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"I was thinking about the numerous status updates that we see from single guys regarding the "lack of action" and I asked myself (male half) if we were not a couple would I be on fab?

I came to the conclusion that actually as much as we sometimes look for single guys and fab is a great and easy way to do that, as a single guy I do not think I would be on here.

Swinging to me is bringing someone else into our sexual play in order to expand horizons and experience different pleasures that just the two of us can not achieve.

I wouldn't feel that as a single male I would be swinging."

Totally agree.

NSA sex between singles is simply that. It's not swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was thinking about the numerous status updates that we see from single guys regarding the "lack of action" and I asked myself (male half) if we were not a couple would I be on fab?

I came to the conclusion that actually as much as we sometimes look for single guys and fab is a great and easy way to do that, as a single guy I do not think I would be on here.

Swinging to me is bringing someone else into our sexual play in order to expand horizons and experience different pleasures that just the two of us can not achieve.

I wouldn't feel that as a single male I would be swinging."

Right so how do you expect to introduce third person into the situation, when at the same time you’re saying men shouldn’t be on here?

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"This post has nothing to do with the sex vs swinging debate.

The post was a reflection on my own personal opinions regarding whether the site would be for me if I were single"

Yes i understand that. And I gave my personal reflection back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I never once said that single males shouldn't be on here. I said that we benefit from single males being on here but if I were to become single, I would chose not to remain.

Was my spelling bad or something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was thinking about the numerous status updates that we see from single guys regarding the "lack of action" and I asked myself (male half) if we were not a couple would I be on fab?

I came to the conclusion that actually as much as we sometimes look for single guys and fab is a great and easy way to do that, as a single guy I do not think I would be on here.

Swinging to me is bringing someone else into our sexual play in order to expand horizons and experience different pleasures that just the two of us can not achieve.

I wouldn't feel that as a single male I would be swinging."
not sure what your point is ,whether you see yourself as a swinger or not all this place is is a meeting point a meeting of minds then potentially a meeting of bodies ,its real ,its life and we are real people living real lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was thinking about the numerous status updates that we see from single guys regarding the "lack of action" and I asked myself (male half) if we were not a couple would I be on fab?

I came to the conclusion that actually as much as we sometimes look for single guys and fab is a great and easy way to do that, as a single guy I do not think I would be on here.

Swinging to me is bringing someone else into our sexual play in order to expand horizons and experience different pleasures that just the two of us can not achieve.

I wouldn't feel that as a single male I would be swinging.

Right so how do you expect to introduce third person into the situation, when at the same time you’re saying men shouldn’t be on here?"

Did you actually read the OP?

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"I was thinking about the numerous status updates that we see from single guys regarding the "lack of action" and I asked myself (male half) if we were not a couple would I be on fab?

I came to the conclusion that actually as much as we sometimes look for single guys and fab is a great and easy way to do that, as a single guy I do not think I would be on here.

Swinging to me is bringing someone else into our sexual play in order to expand horizons and experience different pleasures that just the two of us can not achieve.

I wouldn't feel that as a single male I would be swinging.

Totally agree.

NSA sex between singles is simply that. It's not swinging."

For the op's benefit. This kind of reply is what I was getting at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never once said that single males shouldn't be on here. I said that we benefit from single males being on here but if I were to become single, I would chose not to remain.

Was my spelling bad or something?"

You said you wouldn't be on here because it wouldn't be swinging. Do you have to call having sex swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was thrown with the sex vs swinging comment as there were no other posts to reference other than my initial post. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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You said you wouldn't be on here because it wouldn't be swinging. Do you have to call having sex swinging? "

No I call sex, sex.

My post was saying that my own personal stand point would dictate that I probably wouldn't join fab as a single because I wouldn't be looking to join in with another couples sexual adventures. I enjoy the exploration with a partner that I love more than just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was in a couple I wouldn't be on here. My partner would be enough, I wouldn't need to shag around with random men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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You said you wouldn't be on here because it wouldn't be swinging. Do you have to call having sex swinging?

No I call sex, sex.

My post was saying that my own personal stand point would dictate that I probably wouldn't join fab as a single because I wouldn't be looking to join in with another couples sexual adventures. I enjoy the exploration with a partner that I love more than just sex "

You don't have to join a couple. There are single people on here too; doing the same think you're doing now-meeting people for sex.

Would you be looking for a monogamous relationship instead?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I was in a couple I wouldn't be on here. My partner would be enough, I wouldn't need to shag around with random men. "

That's because that's what suits you and that's fine.

If you had the fantasy of two guys at once then I'm pretty sure your partner wouldn't be able to fulfill that on their own.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"I was thrown with the sex vs swinging comment as there were no other posts to reference other than my initial post. Sorry "

Yeah I apologise. I have read ny post back and it's not come across at all how I intended. With that specific comment in mind I was refering to my experience of the forum where that comes up a lot. I totally understand you were simply saying you wouldn't feel like you where swinging as a single and thus see it not your place to be here. I have a different view to that and is what I was ttying to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was in a couple I wouldn't be on here. My partner would be enough, I wouldn't need to shag around with random men.

That's because that's what suits you and that's fine.

If you had the fantasy of two guys at once then I'm pretty sure your partner wouldn't be able to fulfill that on their own."

Would you not have fantasies as a single man you would want to find on here? Is acting out fantasies swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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You don't have to join a couple. There are single people on here too; doing the same think you're doing now-meeting people for sex.

Would you be looking for a monogamous relationship instead?"

That's all cool, I'm not saying that they shouldn't be on here. I am saying that it wouldn't be what I would want to do and I am not judging anyone for thinking differently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was thrown with the sex vs swinging comment as there were no other posts to reference other than my initial post. Sorry

Yeah I apologise. I have read ny post back and it's not come across at all how I intended. With that specific comment in mind I was refering to my experience of the forum where that comes up a lot. I totally understand you were simply saying you wouldn't feel like you where swinging as a single and thus see it not your place to be here. I have a different view to that and is what I was ttying to say."

People take the website's name too literally. Although, a lot that do are only looking for single women, which wouldn't be classed as swinging either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You don't have to join a couple. There are single people on here too; doing the same think you're doing now-meeting people for sex.

Would you be looking for a monogamous relationship instead?

That's all cool, I'm not saying that they shouldn't be on here. I am saying that it wouldn't be what I would want to do and I am not judging anyone for thinking differently "

And I wasn't saying you were saying that either. If non-monogamous sex isn't your thing you won't be judged by me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was in a couple I wouldn't be on here. My partner would be enough, I wouldn't need to shag around with random men.

That's because that's what suits you and that's fine.

If you had the fantasy of two guys at once then I'm pretty sure your partner wouldn't be able to fulfill that on their own."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would've got here eventually..... even though I've never had a swinging partner.

I've always liked the lifestyle ever since i was introduced to it in germany by friends (mf couple)many years ago and asked to a party as a single guy.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"I was thrown with the sex vs swinging comment as there were no other posts to reference other than my initial post. Sorry

Yeah I apologise. I have read ny post back and it's not come across at all how I intended. With that specific comment in mind I was refering to my experience of the forum where that comes up a lot. I totally understand you were simply saying you wouldn't feel like you where swinging as a single and thus see it not your place to be here. I have a different view to that and is what I was ttying to say.

People take the website's name too literally. Although, a lot that do are only looking for single women, which wouldn't be classed as swinging either. "

Absolutely. To both points. There was a post the other day about an app called bang with friends. It's more accurate than saying swinging lol

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I know I wouldn’t be on here as a single guy .

I get my pleasure from seeing my wife seduce and fuck other guys and women , so it would be pretty pointless looking to satisfy that on my own

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"I know I wouldn’t be on here as a single guy .

I get my pleasure from seeing my wife seduce and fuck other guys and women , so it would be pretty pointless looking to satisfy that on my own "

Good point lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know I wouldn’t be on here as a single guy .

I get my pleasure from seeing my wife seduce and fuck other guys and women , so it would be pretty pointless looking to satisfy that on my own "

Exactly where I am coming from

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