FabSwingers.com forum: What women want !

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay Girls,, ,time to throw us guys a bone, cause there seems to be quite a bit of

"I wanna be respected, and meet for social coffee " but if Guys are over nice it's like "boring bastard, I'm here to fuck yer know? "

Guys feel free to throw in on this one?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I want to be treated like an equal, not a commodity here for someone else's pleasure

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

We're not all the same! We're individuals, you have to find out from each one what she wants. There is no secret message we can impart to you for you to use to get laid.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Chocolate pot noodles and a wand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat me how you would treat a relative.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I think being a gentleman with that certain glint in the eye works....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has individual preferences as to how they like to be treated, there will never be a one size fits all response to this I’m sfraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't wanna be seen as a piece of meat here purely to pleasure women

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

"Chocolate pot noodles and a wand "

OMG I need this in my life!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shall be really obtuse and say if I have to say what I want, you probably havn't got it

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

"Okay Girls,, ,time to throw us guys a bone, cause there seems to be quite a bit of

"I wanna be respected, and meet for social coffee " but if Guys are over nice it's like "boring bastard, I'm here to fuck yer know? "

Guys feel free to throw in on this one? "

Don’t most people put what they want on their profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just talk to and treat ladies on here in a way I want to be spoken to and treated. Yes my Inbox isn't the fullest but what's in it is quality and damn sexy mentally and physically!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't wanna be seen as a piece of meat here purely to pleasure women

Damm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chocolate pot noodles and a wand

OMG I need this in my life!!

Ooh is this chocolate noodles or chocolate over noodles

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

"Chocolate pot noodles and a wand

OMG I need this in my life!!

Ooh is this chocolate noodles or chocolate over noodles "

Both, everything, all of it, damn I’m greedy

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

To eat without getting fat and abs and my wand and spooned and hot hard-core sex and treated like an equal and no lies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chocolate pot noodles and a wand

OMG I need this in my life!!

Ooh is this chocolate noodles or chocolate over noodles

Both, everything, all of it, damn I’m greedy

i could slurp up a made of chocolate noodle right now too

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

"Chocolate pot noodles and a wand

OMG I need this in my life!!

Ooh is this chocolate noodles or chocolate over noodles

Both, everything, all of it, damn I’m greedy

i could slurp up a made of chocolate noodle right now too"

Can I join you? I’m stuck at work and that sounds better than this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to be treated like an equal, not a commodity here for someone else's pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't be a knob head!

I think Yoda or Bhudda said something similar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What women want??? To be able to eat as much as we want and yet never gain an ounce.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Treat me how you would treat a relative. "

You fuck your relatives?..

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

Wine and pizza

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chocolate pot noodles and a wand

OMG I need this in my life!!

Ooh is this chocolate noodles or chocolate over noodles

Both, everything, all of it, damn I’m greedy

i could slurp up a made of chocolate noodle right now too

Can I join you? I’m stuck at work and that sounds better than this

A fork each or one each end of a noodle and suck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chocolate pot noodles and a wand

OMG I need this in my life!!

Ooh is this chocolate noodles or chocolate over noodles

Both, everything, all of it, damn I’m greedy

i could slurp up a made of chocolate noodle right now too

Can I join you? I’m stuck at work and that sounds better than this

A fork each or one each end of a noodle and suck

That's why the Lady is a tramp...

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By *thwiltsmMan
over a year ago

salisbury

They only want to be sent loads of dick pics and nothing else

Don’t believe em if they say otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a good movie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When will there be a thread for what men want When?!

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By *thwiltsmMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"When will there be a thread for what men want When?!"

Men just want a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chocolate pot noodles and a wand

OMG I need this in my life!!

Ooh is this chocolate noodles or chocolate over noodles

Both, everything, all of it, damn I’m greedy

i could slurp up a made of chocolate noodle right now too

Can I join you? I’m stuck at work and that sounds better than this

A fork each or one each end of a noodle and suck

That's why the Lady is a tramp...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Treat me how you would treat a relative. "

I think that depends on which of my relatives it is....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to be treated like an equal, not a commodity here for someone else's pleasure

i would agree but not everyone is treated like equal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to be treated like an equal, not a commodity here for someone else's pleasure

I think we're more equal than you realise, as we're all here for someone else's pleasure (as well as our own, of course).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Treat me how you would treat a relative.

You fuck your relatives?..

Must be from Redruth...

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By *lean and hygienic 69Man
over a year ago

preston

What women want?

They say read my profile so you read their profile and your message just gets deleted,a lot of single men seem to be tarnished with the same brush and I feel there is a major trust issue, I got told to f""k o"f the other night and I dont know what I did wrong,I prefer to meet at clubs in person obviously a lot of weirdos out there harassing women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember reading one woman's experience of intimate partners and dating. This was on a BDSM site and she knew how to play hard, very much in touch with her own sexuality and desires, she was nobody's fool. She was delicious, could pick and choose her partners, attracting the very best mandom had to offer, so when she spoke about her experiences and desires it as worth my time to read about it. She was erudite, clever and could write a story as well as the best of them, and read everything, but the one thing that stuck with me was that in all her lovers and partners there was only ever one man she gave all of herself to. I was reminded of the Bruce Speingsteen song Secret Garden, and it's worth reading the lyrics if you're interested. The one man she gave everything to was the man that expected none of it, the man who saw her as his equal, he respected her like no other man had, and she gave him everything and didn't regret a single thing she ever did with him.

I don't know if that rings true for other women, but it struck a chord with me, it changed my perspective about expectation and the way I treated sexual partners, not that I treated any badly, but that I expected nothing, and appreciated everything. That belief has seen me in some amazing situations, I know I'd never have gotten there without the appreciation of the toxic effect of expectation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody knows what women want. Pickled onions smothered in whipped cream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Treat me how you would treat a relative. "

I axe murdered my dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When will there be a thread for what men want When?!

Men just want a reply

And a shag after a 3 word message and no face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I remember reading one woman's experience of intimate partners and dating. This was on a BDSM site and she knew how to play hard, very much in touch with her own sexuality and desires, she was nobody's fool. She was delicious, could pick and choose her partners, attracting the very best mandom had to offer, so when she spoke about her experiences and desires it as worth my time to read about it. She was erudite, clever and could write a story as well as the best of them, and read everything, but the one thing that stuck with me was that in all her lovers and partners there was only ever one man she gave all of herself to. I was reminded of the Bruce Speingsteen song Secret Garden, and it's worth reading the lyrics if you're interested. The one man she gave everything to was the man that expected none of it, the man who saw her as his equal, he respected her like no other man had, and she gave him everything and didn't regret a single thing she ever did with him.

Love that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've watched many women go for the type of guy that gets their pulse racing but let's them down again and again.

Meanwhile they ignore the nice reliable guy, 'cause he doesn't set their pulse racing but would turn up and give them a good time.

In conclusion, I think most women want the unattainable: a reliable bad guy that acts nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No great insight into what women want

But from 90% of the interest we get, men ain't got two ideas to rub together

Most just ask how we're are doing

A few are brave enough to say they up for anything

None seem able to understand that tells us nothing about the kind of sex they might generate with us

We take it as a clue that they are desperate

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"I don't wanna be seen as a piece of meat here purely to pleasure women

I do sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay Girls,, ,time to throw us guys a bone, cause there seems to be quite a bit of

"I wanna be respected, and meet for social coffee " but if Guys are over nice it's like "boring bastard, I'm here to fuck yer know? "

Guys feel free to throw in on this one? "
women want chocolate end of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They want the D!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They want the D! "
D........dishes?

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"We're not all the same! We're individuals, you have to find out from each one what she wants. There is no secret message we can impart to you for you to use to get laid."

This

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Quite simply, women want to indulge their fantasies - whatever they might be.

Fair enough. That's what this site is for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Pretty much sums it up from a lot of guys perspective!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yep!! Agree.

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By *ig rig hullMan
over a year ago

Hull

"I don't wanna be seen as a piece of meat here purely to pleasure women

For the record that's exactly how I want to be seen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love that.

Me too. I would add, don't insult women's intelligence. Being respected for one's brain is one of the sexiest (and rarest) experiences around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite simply, women want to indulge their fantasies - whatever they might be.

Fair enough. That's what this site is for."

Not all women. I hate being treated like an object/porn-site fantasy. Just here to meet attractive like-minded people for friendship and great real-life sex.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fantastic,, here's to more girls like you being honest about what they REALLY want.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"When will there be a thread for what men want When?!

Men just want a reply

Men just want someone with a pulse.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When will there be a thread for what men want When?!

Men just want a reply

Men just want someone with a pulse....."

I thought that was optional?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love that.

Me too. I would add, don't insult women's intelligence. Being respected for one's brain is one of the sexiest (and rarest) experiences around. "

I also like your quote ,I have a sir and his the most gentlemanly man I've met on fab ,I trust him 110% he just seems to get me on all levels socially and sexually and to think I nearly turned him down what a mistake that would of been .......

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Chocolate pot noodles and a wand

OMG I need this in my life!!

Ooh is this chocolate noodles or chocolate over noodles "

No idea but I'm breaking out the orange matchmakers as we speak lol

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

We dont know what we want

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"We dont know what we want

We want respect, well I do....

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By *lean and hygienic 69Man
over a year ago

preston

Evening ladies and gents , would any MF couples,FF couples or single Females please give feed back on my profile,i feel in my descriptive profile i certainly try XX

thanks Paul

Preston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When will there be a thread for what men want When?!

Men just want a reply

Men just want someone with a pulse....."

SOME men just want someone with a pulse.

I met my girl at a swingers club. We played, I could have shagged her but didnt as I wanted our first time to be special. 5 years later we are still together.

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

For me, I’m attracted to personality over everything else, so guys who engage my brain, make me laugh and connect with me ... if you connect mentally, that chemistry will lead to better sex than a stranger you’ve just spoken to briefly online.

That’s why my preference is to play in clubs. If you meet someone in the flesh, you can truly tell if they’re for you or not!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Evening ladies and gents , would any MF couples,FF couples or single Females please give feed back on my profile,i feel in my descriptive profile i certainly try XX

thanks Paul

Preston"

Instead of hijacking someone else’s thread, start your own.

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By *zamiWoman
over a year ago

LONDON

"We're not all the same! We're individuals, you have to find out from each one what she wants. There is no secret message we can impart to you for you to use to get laid."

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By *zamiWoman
over a year ago

LONDON

"Treat me how you would treat a relative.

You fuck your relatives?..

Yes strange family

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I like a guy that I can chat to, have a laugh with, the rest follows x

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