FabSwingers.com forum: Patronising or honestly

By *ancscleanguy OP Man
over a year ago

Preston

Always thought it’s a bit cheeky saying you fancy certain types. Obviously we all have a preference but have to be careful how we put this over. I like ladies older than myself but putting this comment sounds wrong. Like your doing someone a favour.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is it cheeky? Its literally no different to me saying i dont like japanese cars

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ever say you have any kind of preference.

Most women on here get very huffy when they're excluded. Even huffier if they *are* your type, because then they just think it's a fetish!

By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

We are only looking for gym hunks for wifey.

We've yet to feel like we're patronising them.

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Always thought it’s a bit cheeky saying you fancy certain types. Obviously we all have a preference but have to be careful how we put this over. I like ladies older than myself but putting this comment sounds wrong. Like your doing someone a favour. "

Don't worry about it. It doesn't bother me being described as older, as long as I am lol. I can distinguish between a guy who genuinely finds me attractive and a guy who thinks I'll be grateful because I'm old.

Some women however will dislike being called older but you just can't keep everyone happy.

By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

We are all older than the people a day younger than us but if that’s the only reason someone wants to get naked with me, it’s a big fat no.