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Is MMF a trade off for FFM

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering from a straight couples perspective... Does the guy allow the woman to have her fantasy MMF before he can suggest his FFM?

You know the old say “Yes that’s fine, but I’m going first?!”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think so, from my point of view my former FWB suggested mmf before mff when we first started meeting XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think so, from my point of view my former FWB suggested mmf before mff when we first started meeting XXX"

Both straight at the time? I still think it’s a case of I’ll give you what you want first... Then it’s my turn

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By *wansfeetCouple
over a year ago

Guisborough

We had multiple mff's before I found guys I was comfortable with for a Mmf. Seemed much easier to find women I was comfortable with.

Mrs S x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just wondering from a straight couples perspective... Does the guy allow the woman to have her fantasy MMF before he can suggest his FFM?

You know the old say “Yes that’s fine, but I’m going first?!”"

Mr N isn't interested in FFM

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I think so but that's just my opinion x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think so, from my point of view my former FWB suggested mmf before mff when we first started meeting XXX

Both straight at the time? I still think it’s a case of I’ll give you what you want first... Then it’s my turn "

Why ask for others opinion, when you are so certain you are right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (mr Badcherry) have never wanted a MFF and ive been offered it plenty of times, does nothing for me at all. So in answer to your question its no trade off for me! We’ve done MFM plenty of times and our fav is MFMF.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

I'm not in a couple but I have enjoyed both (on a good number of occasions) and I can tell you that, from my perspective, MMF wins hands down!!

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By *xycpl699Couple
over a year ago

kilmarnock

we had mmf couple times never lucky enough to find female for ffm still looking. hollie

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton


"Just wondering from a straight couples perspective... Does the guy allow the woman to have her fantasy MMF before he can suggest his FFM?

You know the old say “Yes that’s fine, but I’m going first?!”

Mr N isn't interested in FFM"

Same here mmf always good

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By *hatterley64Couple
over a year ago

Hertford

We’ve never been interested in MFF and not likely to work well with a straight couple really.

Always MMF for us.

Or MMMF ...

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"We’ve never been interested in MFF and not likely to work well with a straight couple really.

Always MMF for us.

Or MMMF ... "

I would love to join you for an mmf or mmmf.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Just wondering from a straight couples perspective... Does the guy allow the woman to have her fantasy MMF before he can suggest his FFM?

You know the old say “Yes that’s fine, but I’m going first?!”"

Allow?

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Just wondering from a straight couples perspective... Does the guy allow the woman to have her fantasy MMF before he can suggest his FFM?

You know the old say “Yes that’s fine, but I’m going first?!”

Allow?"

Lol, it seems that taking turns is the new fad. Seems like a winning formula to a long lasting relationship

Ed

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Just wondering from a straight couples perspective... Does the guy allow the woman to have her fantasy MMF before he can suggest his FFM?

You know the old say “Yes that’s fine, but I’m going first?!”

Allow?

Lol, it seems that taking turns is the new fad. Seems like a winning formula to a long lasting relationship

Ed"

Blimey, must mean we won't last as no we didn't get turns, we just did the MFM's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering from a straight couples perspective... Does the guy allow the woman to have her fantasy MMF before he can suggest his FFM?

You know the old say “Yes that’s fine, but I’m going first?!”"

Am single now,but when I was swinging with my ex we mainly did MMF/MMMF/MMMMF/MMMMMF.I loved to see her enjoy herself with other men,the more the better as far as I was concerned amd she loved having the attention of more than one man.We had a few MFF,but we mainly played with men,even after she discovered her bi side.

It was never a case of allowing her her fantasy before asking for mine,we started swinging because we wanted to swap with other couples and because we wanted extra men for her to enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely mff only works well if the ladies are bi?

Mff doesn't interest me in the slightest, I've had mmf on my bucket list for a while

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Hubby not interested in FFM so not case here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MFF has always appealed to me, for longer than I can remember, two men have not had the same appeal. What does that make us?

Ginger

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"MFF has always appealed to me, for longer than I can remember, two men have not had the same appeal. What does that make us?

Ginger "

I’m pretty sure there is no link between sexual preference and being ginger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think so, from my point of view my former FWB suggested mmf before mff when we first started meeting XXX

Both straight at the time? I still think it’s a case of I’ll give you what you want first... Then it’s my turn "

Not sure that’s the sort of thing one can take turns with, given that MFM is easy to find and MFF is almost impossible. Although we have done both, and both prefer MFM.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely mff only works well if the ladies are bi?

Mff doesn't interest me in the slightest, I've had mmf on my bucket list for a while "

Straight MFF worked well for me and the ex,I had the undivided attention of two ladies and I'm more than capable of multitasking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s more the trade off for the single guy than a couple. Lots of single guys looking for women to play whether 1-to-1 or as a threesome with 2 women, but will play with an MF couple if that’s all he can get.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MFF is lots of females fantasy too, or just FFF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MMF only for us as that is his thing too and MFF doesn't interest him.

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By *ft4TallGuyMan
over a year ago

London and Amsterdam

Absolutely

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Just wondering from a straight couples perspective... Does the guy allow the woman to have her fantasy MMF before he can suggest his FFM?

You know the old say “Yes that’s fine, but I’m going first?!”

Allow?

Lol, it seems that taking turns is the new fad. Seems like a winning formula to a long lasting relationship

Ed

Blimey, must mean we won't last as no we didn't get turns, we just did the MFM's "

And as we’ve only had MFF so far I assume Ed means we will arrange MMF next time. Ed???

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bf says can have mfm once have mff, but more chance of a mfm. Think hes gunna have to settle for whatever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what we did the first time and have a couples meet MMFF, that way you don't have to decide who is first

Following that we have stuck with MMF sessions as love to see Mrs at the centre of attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MMF always works well!

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