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Discovering your kink

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By *allDarkStrangr OP   Man
over a year ago

chertsey

I was chatting to a friend recently who shares my love of BDSM.

We talked about how we first discovered our interest in it, got me thinking. When as a kid I always loved seeing Penelope Pitstop tied to the train tracks, gave me a funny feeling in my tummy that I never understood why until many years later.

Anyone else want to share how they discovered their kink?

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

I went to a munch got tied up and realised I like it a lot still learning about other stuff

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By *allDarkStrangr OP   Man
over a year ago

chertsey


"I went to a munch got tied up and realised I like it a lot still learning about other stuff "

Haha nothing like diving in at the deep end lol

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over a year ago

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

I won't say how I discovered it but I really enjoy being touched whilst I'm asleep/pretending to be asleep.

I'd like to add that this is with my full consent and only with my husband/trusted partners.

Katie.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"I went to a munch got tied up and realised I like it a lot still learning about other stuff

Haha nothing like diving in at the deep end lol"

No she only did my legs really

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By *allDarkStrangr OP   Man
over a year ago

chertsey


"I won't say how I discovered it but I really enjoy being touched whilst I'm asleep/pretending to be asleep.

I'd like to add that this is with my full consent and only with my husband/trusted partners.

Katie."

and whoever said sleep was boring haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was sexually active from about age 13, but first had full penetrative sex at age 15, and even though I wasn't short of sexual partners I guess I was quite selfish, other than that I was pretty good at cunnilingus, or so my partners told me. When I was pursuing a woman, and when I was between the sheets I was always happy to lead, I really wasn't a fan of a woman being on top, I didn't like not controlling how things went, although I was always happy to see a woman really get into it. I met a woman and got married some years later. During the time I was married I was diagnosed with a brain tumour and had completely lost my sex drive. Following surgery and the right mix of drugs I got my mojo back, but not for my wife . We'd grown distant and didn't really connect that way, I later realised it was because she didn't want to go where I wanted to go sexually, I really wanted to push boundaries, she didn't. Eventually we separated and divorced and I pursued my sexual desire. BDSM Fetishism and all manner of extremes. They don't define me or my sexual desires, bith if there's anything I learned from that, nothing, at least for me, beats the feeling of being passionately in synch with someone, mentally and physically connected in the moment is incredible. I'd give everything else up for those moments alone.

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By *allDarkStrangr OP   Man
over a year ago

chertsey


"I was sexually active from about age 13, but first had full penetrative sex at age 15, and even though I wasn't short of sexual partners I guess I was quite selfish, other than that I was pretty good at cunnilingus, or so my partners told me. When I was pursuing a woman, and when I was between the sheets I was always happy to lead, I really wasn't a fan of a woman being on top, I didn't like not controlling how things went, although I was always happy to see a woman really get into it. I met a woman and got married some years later. During the time I was married I was diagnosed with a brain tumour and had completely lost my sex drive. Following surgery and the right mix of drugs I got my mojo back, but not for my wife . We'd grown distant and didn't really connect that way, I later realised it was because she didn't want to go where I wanted to go sexually, I really wanted to push boundaries, she didn't. Eventually we separated and divorced and I pursued my sexual desire. BDSM Fetishism and all manner of extremes. They don't define me or my sexual desires, bith if there's anything I learned from that, nothing, at least for me, beats the feeling of being passionately in synch with someone, mentally and physically connected in the moment is incredible. I'd give everything else up for those moments alone."

I couldnt agree more about developing that understanding and being perfectly in synch with someone

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By *ibertine_mindsCouple
over a year ago

Staffs/ Derbys/ Peak District

I guess at the age of eleven, finding my father's copy of 'The 120 Days of Sodom' may have influenced my kink a little . . .

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I met a Dom on here and he introduced me to alot of things I had never tried before.

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By *allDarkStrangr OP   Man
over a year ago

chertsey


"I guess at the age of eleven, finding my father's copy of 'The 120 Days of Sodom' may have influenced my kink a little . . .

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That no doubt has a lot to answer for lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't discovered mine yet

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By *allDarkStrangr OP   Man
over a year ago

chertsey


"Haven't discovered mine yet "

Discovering it is half the fun haha

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By *ibertine_mindsCouple
over a year ago

Staffs/ Derbys/ Peak District


"Haven't discovered mine yet "

Applications accepted for inquisitive female explorers . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven't discovered mine yet

Applications accepted for inquisitive female explorers . . . "

Oh like the sounds of this

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By *ocks99Man
over a year ago

Reading


"I guess at the age of eleven, finding my father's copy of 'The 120 Days of Sodom' may have influenced my kink a little . . .

"

Man With A Maid for me....

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