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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

41 seems to be a bad age , women seem to want blokes 30-40 or 42/45- 55 . Makes it hard being 41 as no body wants you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh bless ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says your 42 anyway

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"Your profile says your 42 anyway "

The answer to life the universe and everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"41 seems to be a bad age , women seem to want blokes 30-40 or 42/45- 55 . Makes it hard being 41 as no body wants you "

I mean assuming you are talking about your fab success, maybe total lack of pics on your account isn't helping your cause?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m about to hit the big 50 so I’ll miss all those filters that say x-49

But hey hoy, there’s a bevy of beauties in their 50’s waiting for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think yourself lucky,im nearly 60.

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth

I think it's just human nature (but not very productive) to find yourself looking at the people who have effectively ruled you out and wondering what you're thus missing out on.

I just turned 56 and am suddenly very aware of how many profiles cut off at 55. No point letting it get you down though, just focus on those people who are interested in you - plenty of fun still to be had

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It keeps saying stream failed , I've tried loads of times and it tried emailing too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I must of hit wrong button., I am 41 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

41 is a distant memory for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being in a relationship with a bit of an age gap, one of us is too young and then the other is too old!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

every day above ground is a good day - so don't worry about your age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

41 is fine by me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I said this yesterday in a status and got told I'm just being stupid haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If more local I would meet sexy x

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By *hetouchablesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

41???? We're 49 and 51 and get loads of action, you wouldn't believe the amount we have to turn down!

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP there are always loads of posts on the forums from men blaming their lack of success on fab on their age/colour/body shape etc.

In many cases it has nothing to do with it. A common denominator is usually they have a very poor profile, with very little information in the blurb and few or no photos.

I can't give you specific profile advice because you haven't asked for it but I can say this - is your profile showing you in the best possible light?

It is the only thing you have on fab to attract attention so use it wisely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the advanced search and tick the box to show only profiles where you fit their age requirements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"41???? We're 49 and 51 and get loads of action, you wouldn't believe the amount we have to turn down! "

Because you’re both sexy as fuck

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