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By *ustfun009 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

I have been on for somtime but only get the attention of the boys!

Where am i going wrong I am kind and considerate and dont pester as i know how annoying some single guys are

Please let me know where i am going wrong

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By *ixFoot2nFun4UMan
over a year ago

gosport

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Welcome to fab. Where the sky the limit and a free for all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me... Be funny. Send a message when I'm online so it's at the top of my inbox. Make the title intriguing and give me something to respond to.. A conversation I want to engage in!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

You've been here 6 weeks OP which is no time at all in Fab terms - it does take time and patience to establish connections on here.

Reading your profile your approach seems to be to wink and only message if you get a wink back - a lot of people on here, especially ladies, don't pay a great deal of attention to winks so perhaps rethink that method. Try constructing a well worded opening message that draws on the person you are writing to's profile and invites them to take a look at yours.

Bear in mind though, people will often look at a profile before reading a message so make sure yours is well written, tells readers something about you and what you are looking for, as well as what you think you can offer.

Get more involved in the forums, which is a great way of getting to know people and sparking conversations or consider getting along to clubs or organised socials

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By *ustfun009 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

Thanks for the good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get a lot of messages that are obviously copy and paste to anyone and everyone they'd like to bed, it's obvious because it tells me a lot about what they want and who they are, but absolutely nothing about us. So many people address Jane, telling her how hot she is etc etc, when our profile quite specifically says you'll be talking to someone called David, it's just another sign they don't read or care.

We aren't currently looking for single male guys, but that doesn't stop the messages, some yes, but still lots of single men messaging Jane.

Don't be like those guys, target your audience, be polite, be witty, be original, but most of all make the person or couple feel like you give a shit about who they are. Don't be too submissive either, extreme cap doffing sounds a bit weak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wave your willy around they love that.

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By *ustfun009 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

Still forever hopefull ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them you know me

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