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ARE YOU APPREHENSIVE ABOUT MEETING PEOPLE WITHOUT VERIS?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just curious to hear your views?

Of course each to there own, but what about chatting or potentially meeting someone without verifications?

Do you totally ignore them and not entertain them one bit?

Any advice for those who are new and haven't had a meet veri yet?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We meet people without verifications, no problem.

By the way this isn't a criticism but using upper case can be construed as shouting on the net

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Someone has to do it or anyone joining would get nowhere. A lot of people flat out refuse and want others to take the risk for them.

Have met 3 unverified ladies. 2 for socials. 1 err less social . All 3 showed up. I was not verified either for any of those meets. So they all took a risk with me I guess.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I note it when I’m first deciding whether to answer a mail or not but after that it doesn't have a bearing on my attitude towards them - it’s more about whether we’ve clicked than whether someone else has met them first.

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By *atlufcMan
over a year ago

Leeds

It’s like Fort Knox trying to get a meet and verified

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon

If they are reasonably local then I will meet someone that's not verified. If they involve a bit of travelling then I will arrange to meet at a club or not at all. I was caught out a few years ago and vowed never to travel again for a first meet

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASUREMan
over a year ago

plymouth

As a couple no as for my wife by herself yes

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'd meet someone who wasn't verified - but then I tend to spend some time getting to know people before meeting and through that have a reasonable level of comfort that they're not likely timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met several men without verifications xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes i've noted that.

that's what happens when you have been off fab for a while.

thanks for the feedback

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By *razycoupleniCouple
over a year ago

belfast

For us you need to be at least photo verified before we would meet people. Meet verified we are need to look to see who verified you. If it’s a couple who have been verified by a single guy and that’s both there only meet that puts red flags up for us.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Yes and I'm also not keen on meeting someone that hasn't met a TV before, I don't want to have to deal with their possible after orgasm guilt or shame for a first timer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I shake uncontrollably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We meet people without verifications, no problem.

By the way this isn't a criticism but using upper case can be construed as shouting on the net "

Not true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We meet people without verifications, no problem.

By the way this isn't a criticism but using upper case can be construed as shouting on the net "
I don't construe it as shouting......just so you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was exchanging messages with someone quite a few months ago, to the point of arranging something and she questioned why I hadn't got any meet veris, at the time. I joked with her that at least if I met her she might verify me.

She didn't like that because she stopped reply to my messages thereafter

People are weird!

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We like to see a green flag verification. It’s a very simple and safe process and we’re always anxious when people refuse to have one. Yes, we may be missing out on some opportunities but hey, we’re in no rush or desperate need to play with anyone/everyone. Basically we would like a green flag first, a quick chat to ascertain any vibe, face pic swap and then a social meet before any play. Call us old fashioned and boring but we’re cautious and picky but by no means pretentious.

Ed

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"We meet people without verifications, no problem.

By the way this isn't a criticism but using upper case can be construed as shouting on the net I don't construe it as shouting......just so you know "

It's considered as such in the online community. Certainly i've nosted people resort to it as they get madder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We meet people without verifications, no problem.

By the way this isn't a criticism but using upper case can be construed as shouting on the net I don't construe it as shouting......just so you know

It's considered as such in the online community. Certainly i've nosted people resort to it as they get madder "
well if it upsets you you're far too sensitive to be here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i did chat to a woman who was green flag verified but still turned out to be a fake?

clearly had nothing better to do that try convince people she was real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i did chat to a woman who was green flag verified but still turned out to be a fake?

clearly had nothing better to do that try convince people she was real. "

Exactly. Verifications can be faked.

I just use my common sense. I don't need a babysitter.

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I don’t place a great deal of trust in verifications - everyone seems to perform like a porn star if you read them literally! And, as has been pointed out, they can be faked.

Providing there’s photo verification I’m happy to chance it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't bother me, everyone has to start somewhere.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"It wouldn't bother me, everyone has to start somewhere."

Exactly - everyone here was unverified to start with...

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