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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

... I think that a big majority of single men on here put in a social situation would not cope!

Going by the conversations I've encountered over the few months I've been on, some men really don't know how to talk to women...

We are not all scary monsters...

What have other people come across?

(Please don't be offended, just my opinion)

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I couldn't not disagree more strongly with the OP.

(you can nearly see her Boobies in her pic though, Tee-Heee!!!!)

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

I haven't found this.....but then I can usually tell from their initial message whether or not they will be able to hold a reasonable conversation

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Not sure if big majority is fair but certainly some may struggle. Actually I am not great, I am quite shy until I feel comfortable if meeting a larger group of people for the first time.

and if I am honest I could say the same about a small percentage of the ladies on here who would struggle if they were not being fawned over and told how fantastic they are every second of the day.

xxx

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I haven't found this.....but then I can usually tell from their initial message whether or not they will be able to hold a reasonable conversation "

I won to put ma cock up your hole am not er timwastr can my m8 Brian wotch too, or is you just a cok teees?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree with you View, I get the feeling sometimes that some guys are lost in a cyber fantasy... They love the frills of being able to be someone they are not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we presuppose these guys have not already attended a social situation, I can understand how they might perceive the occasion daunting….

But I’m fairly sure once they became comfortable with their surrounding aided by the hospitality of other attendees they would find their voice….!.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I haven't found this.....but then I can usually tell from their initial message whether or not they will be able to hold a reasonable conversation

I won to put ma cock up your hole am not er timwastr can my m8 Brian wotch too, or is you just a cok teees?"

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

A basic rule of swinging Sir taught me...if you cant pull out there you wont in here.Some,and i repeat ,some men think the reverse is true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sighs as Brush is bought out to tar single males"

There are few gooduns out here you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found all the men i have meet have coped really well and i meet young men too in there 20s and older..... all have been so lovely not just in bed but out too . We chat and smile and have loads of fun . Do all sorts and never found one who could not cope x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there’s a worthwhile point to be made remembering, although the age range of swingers goes right across the board. Quite a lot of older swingers are of a generation that never learned keyboard skills at school, or went into in occupations that required them to develop keyboard skills….!.

So it not unreasonable to expect a fair number of guys out there struggle when it comes to entering online conversations..

I’m constantly in awe with the speed some site members are able to respond to messages or reply to posts forums with word counts that would take me many times as long to type out….!.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe its just me then... A lot of guys ice chatted like the idea of swinging...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with you View, I get the feeling sometimes that some guys are lost in a cyber fantasy... They love the frills of being able to be someone they are not..."

Do you believe that is just a guy thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can sit n talk shite before whappping my cock in my meets mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I think a fair few people get rather excited when they come on here and then they can't think straight

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I think a fair few people get rather excited when they come on here and then they can't think straight "

SHOW US YOUR TITS!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I think a fair few people get rather excited when they come on here and then they can't think straight

SHOW US YOUR TITS!"

Case closed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a fair few people get rather excited when they come on here and then they can't think straight "

i just came in ur mouth , u felt it didnt u...camsex rocks babe

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I think a fair few people get rather excited when they come on here and then they can't think straight

i just came in ur mouth , u felt it didnt u...camsex rocks babe"

Erm, that was me in a wig.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a fair few people get rather excited when they come on here and then they can't think straight "
yes you could be right and like me maybe there spellings crap too and cant find the right words to put down .... but so diffrent in real life .

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

....i think there has been far too much whinging n sniping and quite obviously not enough shagging recently

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"....i think there has been far too much whinging n sniping and quite obviously not enough shagging recently "

Fuck me, baby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....i think there has been far too much whinging n sniping and quite obviously not enough shagging recently "

speak for urself!!!- im getting some at 12 lol

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a fair few people get rather excited when they come on here and then they can't think straight

i just came in ur mouth , u felt it didnt u...camsex rocks babe

Erm, that was me in a wig."

thats why ur no gettin verified, ur bjs are shit!

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I think a fair few people get rather excited when they come on here and then they can't think straight

i just came in ur mouth , u felt it didnt u...camsex rocks babe

Erm, that was me in a wig.

thats why ur no gettin verified, ur bjs are shit!"

They're good if the guy doesn't blow his load in ten seconds.

And you call THAT a load??

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"....i think there has been far too much whinging n sniping and quite obviously not enough shagging recently

speak for urself!!!- im getting some at 12 lol"
well it was the only reason i can think of for all the negativity

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"... I think that a big majority of single men on here put in a social situation would not cope!

Going by the conversations I've encountered over the few months I've been on, some men really don't know how to talk to women...

We are not all scary monsters...

What have other people come across?

(Please don't be offended, just my opinion) "

Group of guys together all with the same agenda very social ie footy match or down the pub.

However, it's very possible that when cornered or taken out of the natural habitat/comfort zone some may well struggle.

All of a sudden they have to start thinking with a part of the brain that requires thought before speaking or typing.

Now I think that saying the majority is a little un fair and I use the principle that as a species we continue to survive, flurish and for the most part prosper.

Does this not demonstrate that we do indeed know how to talk and behave. Now I realise that its possible that some have experienced the shall I say more negative aspects or communication and relationships; but to think it's the majority is a little unrealistic.

And surely both sexes can and are guilty from time to time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....i think there has been far too much whinging n sniping and quite obviously not enough shagging recently "

Guilty as charged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones who bug me are the ones who try to appear nice and say they want conversation, then talk in single sentences, trying to play me with as little effort as possible until I agree to a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its easy to be brave when sat behind a computer screen. The problem is that it's easy to forget you're talking to a real person when on the net and you end up saying things that you wouldn't do if in a real life situation as you wouldn't want the embarressment of being slapped in the face.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Think that some people can find it hard to put their feelings/thoughts down in text.

If I'm honest, I much prefer chatting face to face. I really struggle at times writing emails, using chat rooms etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everyone's points are so relevant, maybe I should of rephrased and said the majority I have come across...

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