FabSwingers.com forum: Is true NSA sex possible or even desirable?

By *agermeister OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Are people really after NSA sex?

What is NSA?

Just a Fuck and Go?

I like to make connections and friends with those I meet but I respect their freedom and independence. So 'good' strings not 'bad' strings.

Would people be happy never to see or hear from play partners again? (I know there are some you wouldnt but what about the decent ones?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im the same as you. Fuck and go does nothing for me.

I dont want a serious relationship with anyone but a casual friendship with occasional extras is perfect.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think it's entirely possible to have NSA AND a connection/chemistry with someone - for me the difference comes down to when "feelings" become involved. If they are kept out of it then it remains NSA it's when they're not that the strings appear

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By *ensualcouple99Couple
over a year ago

Colchester

We like connection that we get in private meets but we also play in clubs and whilst the connection is there on the night, otherwise we wouldn't play, it is basically nsa sex as you may never see that person again.

So yes nsa sex does happen and can be horny and the fact that you never know if you'll see them again can in fact make it more intense as you make the most of the playtime you have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NSA to me means no questioning and no drama if I want to see more than one person at a time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's entirely possible to have NSA AND a connection/chemistry with someone - for me the difference comes down to when "feelings" become involved. If they are kept out of it then it remains NSA it's when they're not that the strings appear

I've been having no strings sex for 8 years with someone. Him telling me he loves me hasn't changed anything between us. The sex got better though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes I believe it's possible and in some cases desirable.

We're taught from birth that sex should be "meaningful" and you are somehow a lesser being if every sexual encounter doesn't include a connection beyond the physical. I don't buy in to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nsa can mean many things we use it as we get fed up with guys who get very clingy and then think one fuck is ownership of mrs or exclusive rights and we are a married couple cant imagine how single women find it ....

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

"Yes I believe it's possible and in some cases desirable.

We're taught from birth that sex should be "meaningful" and you are somehow a lesser being if every sexual encounter doesn't include a connection beyond the physical. I don't buy in to that."

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Are people really after NSA sex?

What is NSA?

Just a Fuck and Go?

I like to make connections and friends with those I meet but I respect their freedom and independence. So 'good' strings not 'bad' strings.

Would people be happy never to see or hear from play partners again? (I know there are some you wouldnt but what about the decent ones?)"

You can still have a connection with someone even if you meet them only once for sex.

I think the problem is many people seem to think there is only a "don't speak , open your legs, deed done, person gone" type of meet to talking to someone for weeks on end , meeting up for a meal , then deciding whether to meet again type of meet. There are lots more scenario's inbetween

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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NSA for us is finding someone you get on with for the chat between the sex, meet up at a neutral place, decide if we still want to have sex, go have sex.

If we all want a repeat at another time then the only time we are in contact is when we are arranging the next meet.

It stays a fantasy then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think fuck and go meets are for couples that already have a connection with their partner.

I've had fuck and go meets and they do nothing for me.

I'd rather have a wank than have some random in my vagina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think fuck and go meets are for couples that already have a connection with their partner.

I've had fuck and go meets and they do nothing for me.

I'd rather have a wank than have some random in my vagina

Agree

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