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"i let it all hang out And u look good on it!! " ahhh fanks | |||
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"i agree with u my wife is on the site with me and is a proud bigger girl ,with pics on site " Good on the pair of you and thought she looked great. | |||
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"I like to tease " You do it so well. Look what happened to me when I looked at your profile. | |||
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"Well i am loving all the bbw's that are on here but wish they would show their bodies off more in their pics? " aww arnt u nice. its hard though for some women | |||
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"Well i am loving all the bbw's that are on here but wish they would show their bodies off more in their pics? " There are many gorgeous BBWs on this site, and some have public photos showing how beautiful they are. Others have such well written profiles that you can tell they're lovely people as well. Make contact, be polite, friendly, and curteous and enjoy what the site has to offer. | |||
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"I (nylons) am a bigger chubby/fat girl but for some reason I really hate the term BBW. I'm not even sure why but when ppl message saying they love BBW's it puts me off . Im maybe just being weird about it , think I'm also alone in my thinking." Your not alone in your thinking. I hate the term BBW. | |||
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"I am a cynic.. I know very few men outside of here that like bigger ladies... So when I get told on here.. oh I love a bigger lady.. I just think they are saying it because their are more of us bigger ladies than slimmer ones. Had a few that after I have said no have turned too.. and said.. I cant really be picky being a fat cow etc... Cali " +1 | |||
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"I am a cynic.. I know very few men outside of here that like bigger ladies... So when I get told on here.. oh I love a bigger lady.. I just think they are saying it because their are more of us bigger ladies than slimmer ones. Had a few that after I have said no have turned too.. and said.. I cant really be picky being a fat cow etc... Cali " Dont put yourself down. They are probably annoyed when you say no, because you are a really pretty girl. I havnt had anyone calling me a fat cow. Not yet anyway. | |||
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"I am a cynic.. I know very few men outside of here that like bigger ladies... So when I get told on here.. oh I love a bigger lady.. I just think they are saying it because their are more of us bigger ladies than slimmer ones. Had a few that after I have said no have turned too.. and said.. I cant really be picky being a fat cow etc... Cali +1" +1 | |||
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"im gonna say something here so im going to expect to get slated or hounded I am a size 20-22 i am fiesty confident and im usually always in trouble on here and off here as mischief is my middle name. i have never classed myself as a bbw as i am ME im not here to be labelled im unique and im all me. when i go out i dont dress all covered up i show my curves and im not afraid of it i get more respect here and outside the the real world as im im stick insect who does what they are supposed to. i dont sit in the corner thinking "im too shy to do that" im usually the one doing it. so bbw skinny or whatever just BE YOU " I agree totally, I am well aware of my size but I am not fond of people tryin to pigeon hole me, who really cares after all. | |||
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"I (nylons) am a bigger chubby/fat girl but for some reason I really hate the term BBW. I'm not even sure why but when ppl message saying they love BBW's it puts me off . Im maybe just being weird about it , think I'm also alone in my thinking. Your not alone in your thinking. I hate the term BBW. " Same here... I actually feel offended when I have been called a BBW seeing as I'm an average size for the UK. | |||
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"I am a cynic.. I know very few men outside of here that like bigger ladies... So when I get told on here.. oh I love a bigger lady.. I just think they are saying it because their are more of us bigger ladies than slimmer ones. Had a few that after I have said no have turned too.. and said.. I cant really be picky being a fat cow etc... Cali Dont put yourself down. They are probably annoyed when you say no, because you are a really pretty girl. I havnt had anyone calling me a fat cow. Not yet anyway. " oh no.. I dont have any issues really but I just tend to look at bigger pictures..but just none of my outside swinging male contacts would go mmmmm at a bigger girl.. just call her fat.. and then tell me I dont count as I am a mate and I am pretty lol... I was just saying that all the bigger girl lovers on here to me just seems odd.. lol I will tell you what happens when I am back down to a 10/12 see if I get the same men telling me how they love slimmer ladies.. lol Cali x | |||
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"just wondering what size BBW's are? Probably stupid question I know, but Im a size 16-18 but have never thought of myself as one. Nat" For me it's 20+... but that's only for me. | |||
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"When I was down to a size 18 I was told I didn't class as a bbw anymore. I don't really like the term, and I also find some of the bbw obsessions on here a bit surprising. But it is useful as a description to be sure that the man/couple your meeting isn't going to be put off by all the curves!" I agree its a simple and easy way to describe yourself to any potential meets, but I prefer to just have a body shot on our profile so that people can decide from that, people do have such varying ideas of whats attractive, I just hate to put labels on anything, does seem very restrictive. Ive also seen women who couldnt be more than a size 12 be referred to as BBW so it really must be just subjective. | |||
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"I (nylons) am a bigger chubby/fat girl but for some reason I really hate the term BBW. I'm not even sure why but when ppl message saying they love BBW's it puts me off . Im maybe just being weird about it , think I'm also alone in my thinking. Your not alone in your thinking. I hate the term BBW. Same here... I actually feel offended when I have been called a BBW seeing as I'm an average size for the UK." me too i dont see myself (at a size 16) as a BBW but guys message me saying i love a BBW....im just me im happy to be me i dont want that label .... i always think of bbw as a size 20 and above really or someone who wobbles a bit and i dont !!! | |||
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"I (nylons) am a bigger chubby/fat girl but for some reason I really hate the term BBW. I'm not even sure why but when ppl message saying they love BBW's it puts me off . Im maybe just being weird about it , think I'm also alone in my thinking. Your not alone in your thinking. I hate the term BBW. Same here... I actually feel offended when I have been called a BBW seeing as I'm an average size for the UK." me too i dont see myself (at a size 16) as a BBW but guys message me saying i love a BBW....im just me im happy to be me i dont want that label .... i always think of bbw as a size 20 and above really or someone who wobbles a bit and i dont !!! | |||
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"A lot of negativity about bigger ladies actually comes from women " It's funny cos I get loads of negativity off men about my 14" cock!! | |||
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"A lot of negativity about bigger ladies actually comes from women It's funny cos I get loads of negativity off men about my 14" cock!! " - yes I guess you get the 'its not the size but what you do with it' brigade | |||
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"A lot of negativity about bigger ladies actually comes from women " it certainly does, women can be incredibly nasty as they know all too well the weak spots lol | |||
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"A lot of negativity about bigger ladies actually comes from women " thats true that, its the main reason i dont meet couples, because i find a lot of them to judgemental | |||
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"A lot of negativity about bigger ladies actually comes from women " Maybe its because they feel we dont deserve any fun? How dare we have fun when the guy should be looking at them and not us ..cuz after all...we is big Ive heard it said at chams some years ago....one women in particular was rather nasty ..... its called jealousy | |||
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"A lot of negativity about bigger ladies actually comes from women Maybe its because they feel we dont deserve any fun? How dare we have fun when the guy should be looking at them and not us ..cuz after all...we is big Ive heard it said at chams some years ago....one women in particular was rather nasty ..... its called jealousy " ive heard nasty comments at chams too i remember one night there was a bigger lady in a open room with 4 or 5 guys all round her playing and thro the viewing window, two women, who wasnt anything special to be honest but they obviously thought they was, was bitching about her saying the guys muct be desparate to touch that and how they wouldnt come here if they looked like her etc, i listerned to their conversation till i got bored of them and as i walked off i just said Yeah but shes the one getting all the fun | |||
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" ive heard nasty comments at chams too i remember one night there was a bigger lady in a open room with 4 or 5 guys all round her playing and thro the viewing window, two women, who wasnt anything special to be honest but they obviously thought they was, was bitching about her saying the guys muct be desparate to touch that and how they wouldnt come here if they looked like her etc, i listerned to their conversation till i got bored of them and as i walked off i just said Yeah but shes the one getting all the fun " Well said you! x | |||
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"When talking to someone she asked how many messaflges I get. When I answered 50 + a day she said "I don't get as many and I'm not fat" I just replied maybe its your attutde that sucks. " Good reply | |||
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" ive heard nasty comments at chams too i remember one night there was a bigger lady in a open room with 4 or 5 guys all round her playing and thro the viewing window, two women, who wasnt anything special to be honest but they obviously thought they was, was bitching about her saying the guys muct be desparate to touch that and how they wouldnt come here if they looked like her etc, i listerned to their conversation till i got bored of them and as i walked off i just said Yeah but shes the one getting all the fun Well said you! x" I was at a bbw night at chams having some fun in the jacuzzi with a girl when some old bloke turned round and 'its like watching wwf' and everytime I think of it ibwish I had thought if something witty to say Did make me laugh that he chose to go on a bbw night if he don't like fat birds | |||
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"When talking to someone she asked how many messaflges I get. When I answered 50 + a day she said "I don't get as many and I'm not fat" I just replied maybe its your attutde that sucks. Good reply" do u expect anything less from me hun x | |||
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" ive heard nasty comments at chams too i remember one night there was a bigger lady in a open room with 4 or 5 guys all round her playing and thro the viewing window, two women, who wasnt anything special to be honest but they obviously thought they was, was bitching about her saying the guys muct be desparate to touch that and how they wouldnt come here if they looked like her etc, i listerned to their conversation till i got bored of them and as i walked off i just said Yeah but shes the one getting all the fun Well said you! x I was at a bbw night at chams having some fun in the jacuzzi with a girl when some old bloke turned round and 'its like watching wwf' and everytime I think of it ibwish I had thought if something witty to say Did make me laugh that he chose to go on a bbw night if he don't like fat birds " the thing is the BBW night is still open to the public and not everyone there is there for the BBW night or off this site, ive heard a few people at the BBW nights make comments as they ovbiously didnt realise what night it was | |||
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" ive heard nasty comments at chams too i remember one night there was a bigger lady in a open room with 4 or 5 guys all round her playing and thro the viewing window, two women, who wasnt anything special to be honest but they obviously thought they was, was bitching about her saying the guys muct be desparate to touch that and how they wouldnt come here if they looked like her etc, i listerned to their conversation till i got bored of them and as i walked off i just said Yeah but shes the one getting all the fun Well said you! x I was at a bbw night at chams having some fun in the jacuzzi with a girl when some old bloke turned round and 'its like watching wwf' and everytime I think of it ibwish I had thought if something witty to say Did make me laugh that he chose to go on a bbw night if he don't like fat birds the thing is the BBW night is still open to the public and not everyone there is there for the BBW night or off this site, ive heard a few people at the BBW nights make comments as they ovbiously didnt realise what night it was" oh i know and its probably what happened to him but there was no need for him to make the comments he did!! he wasnt exactly adonis himself | |||
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"in what way is it crock to say I find some big women sexy and also some fit athletic women sexy? " " I think your right to say most honest men don't like the bigger lady " and yes i saw the whole post as you decided to delete it like u was afraid to post | |||
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"I have a friend of which defines herself as BBW she wasn't confident a few years ago. Since then she has assumed this confidence, dresss so damn sexy and all manner of men are falling over themselves to have her it's amazing. Love yourself and everyone will love you as well.Thats not supposed to offend anyone just an observation." +1 | |||
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"was trying to reply to just "cali" but made a balls up " i think u made a total balls up | |||
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"So does anyone have a definition of what BBW is then?" im still waiting to hear it if i classed myself as one i would say im ballsy busty woman | |||
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"was trying to reply to just "cali" but made a balls up " i quite agree with your initial post to be fair. i dont pull in the real world when i go out, whether thats because i put up massive fuck off walls or the fact that i look like heather from eastenders but i do believe that some guys will lower their standards for a fuck!! i also believe that some gems out there are able to see past the outside and find something wonderful in everyone they see | |||
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"So does anyone have a definition of what BBW is then?" officially its big beautiful women but as sooooooooo many threads have deteriorated into a slanging match about how not all bbw's are beautiful etc i think most now just use is as a term to say 'big lass lives here, pass on by if not your type' | |||
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"So does anyone have a definition of what BBW is then? officially its big beautiful women but as sooooooooo many threads have deteriorated into a slanging match about how not all bbw's are beautiful etc i think most now just use is as a term to say 'big lass lives here, pass on by if not your type' " With big and beautiful being both subjective terms theonly objective word your left with is woman. Thus BB will mean different things to different people. | |||
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"I really don't see why its a problem to state that "most men don't like bigger women" it is not an opinion its a fact. how many times do you see big women in porn unless you specifically go looking for it. in the same way as you wouldn't expect most women to find overweight beer swilling men sexually attractive . I agree with you although i find a lot of big women atractive because they make an effort to look pretty, where as a lot of fat blokes dont bother that much. " | |||
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"I really don't see why its a problem to state that "most men don't like bigger women" it is not an opinion its a fact. how many times do you see big women in porn unless you specifically go looking for it. in the same way as you wouldn't expect most women to find overweight beer swilling men sexually attractive . I agree with you although i find a lot of big women atractive because they make an effort to look pretty, where as a lot of fat blokes dont bother that much. " Lol "Big" woman "Fat" bloke the terms seem a little biased lol | |||
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"I really don't see why its a problem to state that "most men don't like bigger women" it is not an opinion its a fact. how many times do you see big women in porn unless you specifically go looking for it. in the same way as you wouldn't expect most women to find overweight beer swilling men sexually attractive . I agree with you although i find a lot of big women atractive because they make an effort to look pretty, where as a lot of fat blokes dont bother that much. Lol "Big" woman "Fat" bloke the terms seem a little biased lol" Sorry, meant to say fat women. | |||
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"I really don't see why its a problem to state that "most men don't like bigger women" it is not an opinion its a fact. how many times do you see big women in porn unless you specifically go looking for it. in the same way as you wouldn't expect most women to find overweight beer swilling men sexually attractive . I agree with you although i find a lot of big women atractive because they make an effort to look pretty, where as a lot of fat blokes dont bother that much. Lol "Big" woman "Fat" bloke the terms seem a little biased lol" wecome to the fab forums...i'm guessing you missed the welcome party where all the rules were explained??? | |||
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"So does anyone have a definition of what BBW is then?" i think thats subjectional to what you like If you like slim women a size 16 will be big to you, if you like big ladies a size 16 wont seem big You as 10 people what size they class a BBW from and you'll get several different sizes To me its anyone over weight, im a size 14/16 is at the moment and i class myself as a BBW, because im over weight, i have saggy bits etc and to me all me saying im a BBW means is im not a size 8, it dont mean im 20 stone Yet i got so many people tell me to take BBW off my profile i did just to shut people up, tho to be honest i do not feel comfy not having it there as now every time someone mails me im interested in i feel i have to point out im fat where as i didnt before as i had it on my profile so to me all having BBW on your profile really means is, hey im not perfect | |||
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"When i say, fat bloke, i am thinking of harry enfield, sorry to offend." I think it wasn't taken with offence was just interesting to see how it was used lol. I suppose there isn't a term for an overweight guy is there funny that besides fat lol maybe we can use BHM | |||
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"i agree with u my wife is on the site with me and is a proud bigger girl ,with pics on site " And very sexy she is to. I love bbw's. Can't get enough of them,ladies come and get me please, before some one in a white coat does xxx | |||
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"I ADORE larger ladies or BBW.S i only start looking at WOMEN 18 to 30 and i mean size not age i love big bums large breasts nipples like bath plugs and everyone knows that they give you the best sex there is to be had 100% love each and every BBW WELL DONE GIRLS " In ypour opinion that is, i would dissagree. :o)im talking about the best sex bit btw. | |||
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"I had a guy message me recently who had on his profile that he didn't mind BBWs except if they were unhealthy overweight, I pointed out that as my profile states I am a size 20 so I would not be what he was looking for, he replied I mean women that are borderline obese, what the hell did he think a BBW was? As for the question posed about what do BBW women like in a man, we all have different likes just as slim women do, mine is for muscular athletic toned guys" That's an interesting thought though. Does BBW imply obese? I mean a size 18 5 foot 4 woman compared to a size 18 6 foot 3 woman. Are they both BBW's or is one obese and one is not?? | |||
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"I had a guy message me recently who had on his profile that he didn't mind BBWs except if they were unhealthy overweight, I pointed out that as my profile states I am a size 20 so I would not be what he was looking for, he replied I mean women that are borderline obese, what the hell did he think a BBW was? As for the question posed about what do BBW women like in a man, we all have different likes just as slim women do, mine is for muscular athletic toned guys" your pics are absolutely stunning,and im sure you get inundated,and although im not a bbw i can fully understand why men are attracted to them...especially when they look as you do..xx | |||
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"I had a guy message me recently who had on his profile that he didn't mind BBWs except if they were unhealthy overweight, I pointed out that as my profile states I am a size 20 so I would not be what he was looking for, he replied I mean women that are borderline obese, what the hell did he think a BBW was? As for the question posed about what do BBW women like in a man, we all have different likes just as slim women do, mine is for muscular athletic toned guys your pics are absolutely stunning,and im sure you get inundated,and although im not a bbw i can fully understand why men are attracted to them...especially when they look as you do..xx" Thank you | |||
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