FabSwingers.com forum: Your pet hate

By *khot1 OP Couple
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow

It literally winds me up when single men send messages addressed solely to me and ignore the fact that its a couples profile.

Men of fab, please for the love of god why do you do this

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it’s your pants they want to get into not his! I know it’s counter-productive as by doing so you’ll never meet them, but c’mon they don’t want anyone thinking they’ve caught the ghey like!?

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By *khot1 OP Couple
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow

"Because it’s your pants they want to get into not his! I know it’s counter-productive as by doing so you’ll never meet them, but c’mon they don’t want anyone thinking they’ve caught the ghey like!?

Very counter productive. Delete, delete,delete, ahhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I appear to be having a nice friendly, forward going conversation with someone, generally a couple, agreeing what we would like to do on a meet and then...... silence!

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By *uriousincheshireCouple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

Message filters are wonderful thing!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

My pet hate.

Cats that poo in my garden.

Oh and elephants that leave footprints in the butter, in the fridge.

Just good there are not many pet elephants.

Wouldn’t want that much hate....

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By *o and paulCouple
over a year ago

skegness

When you think you are talking to a couple and then suprise the wife is away but we can still meet up

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By *khot1 OP Couple
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow

"When you think you are talking to a couple and then suprise the wife is away but we can still meet up

Oh god yea theres plenty of them

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By *ex mad ladMan
over a year ago

Sussex

People

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What he said

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Yes! I accommodate! I can definitely accommodate. Well, like nearly almost all the time. Except during the daytime. And evenings aren't great. Weekends are hard....

OMG fuck all the way off

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Self service checkouts.

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By *ex mad ladMan
over a year ago

Sussex

"Self service checkouts."

There fucking awsome

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Self service checkouts.

There fucking awsome"

Well they're not self service for a start. There's always something unexpected in the bagging area.

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By *017chesterladMan
over a year ago

chester

People who say they’ll meet but don’t. Why??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys that think it's a cattle market ,we are all human beings and deserve some respect each way to be fair ,it's a swinging site not a "fucking"site , this is by no means aimed at all guys ,just the odd ..so many oh an the messages "meet now" .....,umm " noowwwa "

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By *r and Mrs A HornyCouple
over a year ago

coventry

"My pet hate.

Cats that poo in my garden.

Oh and elephants that leave footprints in the butter, in the fridge.

Just good there are not many pet elephants.

Wouldn’t want that much hate...."

We agree to the cats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photos of people with dirty finger nails... Puke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What he said but not everything works right for most

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"I'm in a hotel near you. Fancy popping by?"

Dream on loser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my pics getting more fabs from males than females.

not such much a pet hate, more like a disappointment.

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Pics with either a toilet or a dirty coffee table

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you say they aren't your type so you don't want to meet and they reply with "well girls shouldn't go for looks so meet me and get to know me and my personality and you will change your mind"

Or the ones who offer you money to sleep/meet with them! This isn't rent a prostitute site!!

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By *ogisticalBigManMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

The term "a women"

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By *hy_guy89Man
over a year ago

birmingham

When people talk down to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pics with either a toilet or a dirty coffee table "

Haha I was going to say dick pics with a toilet in the background...

Oh and passive aggressive rant status' about timewasters because they aren't getting laid after a one line message...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pics with either a toilet or a dirty coffee table "

Haha yes! A dick pic taken while you’re sat in the loo is just all of the no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cats can’t stand them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U on kik?

Ugh.

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

When women complain men dont put the toilet seat back down. If we can be bothered out of courtesy to lift the seatthen you lovely ladies should have the energy at least to put the seat back down lol..never heard a guy moan about a seat not being lifted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"U on kik?

Ugh."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll send you a face pic before we meet"

So erm what if after i've seen the pic there's no attraction?

A waste of time I think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people who, when sent a message just to say "liked your photos, thanks for sharing" don't have the manners to reply with a simple thank you

thank you......there you are, took me less than one second to type and I have fingers like a pound of pork sausages !!

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By *andys manMan
over a year ago

colchester

The hoops guys have to jump through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people who, when sent a message just to say "liked your photos, thanks for sharing" don't have the manners to reply with a simple thank you

thank you......there you are, took me less than one second to type and I have fingers like a pound of pork sausages !! "

Not replying is nothing to do with not having manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people who, when sent a message just to say "liked your photos, thanks for sharing" don't have the manners to reply with a simple thank you

thank you......there you are, took me less than one second to type and I have fingers like a pound of pork sausages !!

Not replying is nothing to do with not having manners."

what is it then?

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By *nsatiable Needy BratWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Pet hate on here is when a guy sends a well thought out message yet there isn't an attraction for me so I send a polite reply saying thank you but I'm not getting that spark rather than just delete straight away and they then get arsey and rude in a nasty message back. This is why I tend to just delete messages rather than reply with a no thanks.

Pet hate off here, people who litter. There's just no need.

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By *urryfannyfuntimeWoman
over a year ago

East Devon

how's u 2day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The men who make life that much harder for a guy by being complete tools.

Seriously guys, somewhere there's trees busy making oxygen for you all day long.

I think you owe them some apologies.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

When a guy messages me saying he’s a straight curious guy and wants to know if I would helprelieve him of his curiosity . I reply I don’t meet straight or bi guys and if you’d have read my profile you will see this. Then they get all arsey with me aghhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who dont read my profile or those who do and then feel they need to quiz me about why Im not meeting. Or who want to slag me for being here and not meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people that don't like cats

the most beautiful, spiritual creatures on Earth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol... Yuk!

PMSL.... Urgh!

Babe.... Bah!

Ur... Eh?

Wot... Grrr!

Hun..right that's it, where's my baseball bat?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hanging the phone up

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By *xycpl699Couple
over a year ago

kilmarnock

ppl messaging us before reading profile really gets on my tits. hollie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people who, when sent a message just to say "liked your photos, thanks for sharing" don't have the manners to reply with a simple thank you

thank you......there you are, took me less than one second to type and I have fingers like a pound of pork sausages !!

Not replying is nothing to do with not having manners.

what is it then? "

Check the Fab Guidelines.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people who, when sent a message just to say "liked your photos, thanks for sharing" don't have the manners to reply with a simple thank you

thank you......there you are, took me less than one second to type and I have fingers like a pound of pork sausages !!

Not replying is nothing to do with not having manners.

what is it then?

Check the Fab Guidelines. "

Sorry don't buy that, if you've taken time to open and read a message how much more of your time does it take to type thankyou ........ 2 seconds tops ! Some women/couples do take the time to be courteous.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

'Have you had many meets' or 'are you having any fun this weekend?' - no one's business but mine and anyone I might be meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, I'll see you there are 7pm"

I turn up at atleast 10 to as I just can't

Be late.

Give it 20/30 mins nursing a beer, while

Looking at my phone and pretending not to be some sado waiting for somome,

Drop a text at 1/4 past enquiring on their location, blocked.

Just have some fucking balls and stop wasting my time.

Rant over, maybe lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Yeah, I'll see you there are 7pm"

I turn up at atleast 10 to as I just can't

Be late.

Give it 20/30 mins nursing a beer, while

Looking at my phone and pretending not to be some sado waiting for somome,

Drop a text at 1/4 past enquiring on their location, blocked.

Just have some fucking balls and stop wasting my time.

Rant over, maybe lol "

Its just rude & there's no need for it.

(Dude, your nipples are fabulous)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a lass who met me and had a few drinks. She then went for a fag to never return. Making me feel like a knob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Yeah, I'll see you there are 7pm"

I turn up at atleast 10 to as I just can't

Be late.

Give it 20/30 mins nursing a beer, while

Looking at my phone and pretending not to be some sado waiting for somome,

Drop a text at 1/4 past enquiring on their location, blocked.

Just have some fucking balls and stop wasting my time.

Rant over, maybe lol

Its just rude & there's no need for it.

(Dude, your nipples are fabulous)"

Haha, thanks, first time I've ever been

Told that. They are on the larger side I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pet hate is being lied to.

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By *eather_Loves_SexWoman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton

""I'm in a hotel near you. Fancy popping by?"

Dream on loser."
living near Gatwick I get this one a LOT to the

Extent I had to put something in my profile about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pet hate is being lied to. "

I dont mean for this to come out wrong but are u a lass that when a lad lies you moan and sulk and if he tells the truth you still moan and sulk

Ive had ex's like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pet hate is being lied to.

I dont mean for this to come out wrong but are u a lass that when a lad lies you moan and sulk and if he tells the truth you still moan and sulk

Ive had ex's like that"

Nice to see such a sweeping generalisation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pet hate is being lied to.

I dont mean for this to come out wrong but are u a lass that when a lad lies you moan and sulk and if he tells the truth you still moan and sulk

Ive had ex's like that

Nice to see such a sweeping generalisation. "

Ive probs been out with the wrong people lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pet hate is being lied to.

I dont mean for this to come out wrong but are u a lass that when a lad lies you moan and sulk and if he tells the truth you still moan and sulk

Ive had ex's like that

Nice to see such a sweeping generalisation.

Ive probs been out with the wrong people lol"

Clearly. Never make assumptions.

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By *ida8780Couple
over a year ago

any town

"how's u 2day

Followed by “any fun with ye”

Short shite messages with no thought put into them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just people, in general. I can't be arsed with them most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negativity

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By *yd Charisse 10Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men in joggers

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

People that wantonly use "mmmm" or "horny" in a message. You're not Austin fucking Powers, jog on love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men in joggers "

Tucked into their socks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People that wantonly use "mmmm" or "horny" in a message. You're not Austin fucking Powers, jog on love. "

Ugh I hate 'horny'... 'that is so horny' it doesn't sound right!

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

"People that wantonly use "mmmm" or "horny" in a message. You're not Austin fucking Powers, jog on love.

Ugh I hate 'horny'... 'that is so horny' it doesn't sound right!"

Or "it'd be so horny to x, y and z"... Really, mate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phone sex. Whats the point lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People that wantonly use "mmmm" or "horny" in a message. You're not Austin fucking Powers, jog on love.

Ugh I hate 'horny'... 'that is so horny' it doesn't sound right!

Or "it'd be so horny to x, y and z"... Really, mate?"

Nope, can't have it. Horny can only be used when referring to a person...I am horny etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lady’s who say they’re up for a chat but have everyone of your sex blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It literally winds me up when single men send messages addressed solely to me and ignore the fact that its a couples profile.

Men of fab, please for the love of god why do you do this

K x "

Yes! This!!!!!!grrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Phone sex. Whats the point lol"

I love a sexy voice. Listening without seeing is a massive turn on for me. Hearing how the other person is being effected by words or sounds...that intake of breath...erotic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lady’s who say they’re up for a chat but have everyone of your sex blocked

Never happened yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And women who turn out to be MEN!!!! Don't fucking lie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feet and people who feel entitled to shit

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

We get the "im at a hotel nearby" one a lot too as we are right by Heathrow... i just ask how the room service is or how they are going to rate the hotel on Tripadvisor?

On here my biggest pet hate is people asking for snapchat, kik, whatsapp etc... we use this site so we dont need those apps.

In the real world its got to be chewing gum.

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By *yd Charisse 10Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Too too many to put on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lady’s who say they’re up for a chat but have everyone of your sex blocked

This must be frustrating...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chavs talking shit on the back of the bus really loud and listening to rave shit with some wanky mc trying to sing over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lady’s who say they’re up for a chat but have everyone of your sex blocked

This must be frustrating..."

Very much so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“I’ve always wanted to fuck a black/coloured/ebony girl”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lady’s who say they’re up for a chat but have everyone of your sex blocked

This must be frustrating...

Very much so

Did you know message filters are a thing?! Completely forgot there was such an animal...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just got “I’ll fuck you hard until you squirt”

Maybe I’m not the squirting type big shot

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By *ida8780Couple
over a year ago

any town

"We get the "im at a hotel nearby" one a lot too as we are right by Heathrow... i just ask how the room service is or how they are going to rate the hotel on Tripadvisor?

On here my biggest pet hate is people asking for snapchat, kik, whatsapp etc... we use this site so we dont need those apps.

In the real world its got to be chewing gum."

Can’t stand it also when get asked if we have kik.. we only use fab as our communication. To organise meets on a swinging site.. for swinging!!

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By *eaven and Hell 69Couple
over a year ago

HULL

Our pet hate is, men who message us saying they are bi, we look on their profile & it says they are straight. Xx

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Gerbils - pointless creatures; make rubbish pets!

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By *exy fucker bikerMan
over a year ago

kent

Bitch

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By *exy fucker bikerMan
over a year ago

kent

Fucking time waster on here if u want just say meet do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bitch"

I like a man who gives a nice succinct answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pet hates are people who are rude and judgemental which happen a lot these days

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Being accused of being fake by a single guys with no verifications, no photos and a three word profile

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

"people who, when sent a message just to say "liked your photos, thanks for sharing" don't have the manners to reply with a simple thank you

thank you......there you are, took me less than one second to type and I have fingers like a pound of pork sausages !! "

Except it doestake a second does it. It takes at least 10.

See email

Open email

Read email

Type reply

Press send.

People who send un invited messages and expect and answer.

If your sending a compliment and expect a reply your sending it for the wrong reasons.

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex

When you have read a couples profile,finding they meet single men & not we'll find you (eg. str/bi ) you send them a short polite message introducing yourself with a face photo ,

Then they reply you obviously didnt read our profile properly .

Errr actually i did , im sorry my hair might be the wrong colour

I might be slighlt shorter skinnier/ heavier & have the wrong eye colour , you dont like my shoes in a photo , but i responded because none of that detail was in your profile preference , so if i do get arsie with my reply

Its because you didnt stipulate enough detail in your F*#king perfectly written profile to let me know not to waste my time messaging you .

If you can only meet tuesfay lunch times between 1.30 & 2 27 or you have a repulsion for size 9 feet

Bloody well say so !!!

We are men not effin mind readers

Happy swinging everyone

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