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By *ony 529 OP   Man
over a year ago

coventry

Maybe its just me ... But why is it so hard to find couples Who enjoy having a man between them who likes to wear sexy underwear , I find it hard to find both parties who enjoy this little fetish , or is it just the men out there who like it the most and persuade their partners to join in . I would be interested in the feedback from men women or couples on this subject , just to see if I need to hang my own stockings up

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

When push comes to shove, most people's tastes are really quite vanilla.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only my opinion but I would not let a single man play with me and my wife or just my wife. Most men want something out of it too. I would not let anyone have sex with my wife unless I could have sex with theirs. Only my opinion

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Only my opinion but I would not let a single man play with me and my wife or just my wife. Most men want something out of it too. I would not let anyone have sex with my wife unless I could have sex with theirs. Only my opinion "

Why the single man profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this thread was going to be about why ur cock is so hard. Imagine my disappointment

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Only my opinion but I would not let a single man play with me and my wife or just my wife. Most men want something out of it too. I would not let anyone have sex with my wife unless I could have sex with theirs. Only my opinion "

I think you have just describe the difference between those men who just want sex... and those who get it and understand swinging...

mindset... for me if i am playing... i am turning on the person i am playing with, i am being turned on by watching the situation, it doesn't have to be me having to play to make it work....

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Maybe its just me ... But why is it so hard to find couples Who enjoy having a man between them who likes to wear sexy underwear , I find it hard to find both parties who enjoy this little fetish , or is it just the men out there who like it the most and persuade their partners to join in . I would be interested in the feedback from men women or couples on this subject , just to see if I need to hang my own stockings up "

Personally I have only ever played as a single male, however I have met with and played with lots of couples and in many different scenarios. Despite this I have yet to encounter any couples myself where the man has this fetish, nor do I. I would imagine it as simple as the fact that for many (most), seeing a man in female underwear is simply not sexy. I do not regard myself as remotely 'vanilla', but if playing in a threesome I would be positively turned off if the other man were dressed in this manner. All just my feelings on the matter.

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By *ony 529 OP   Man
over a year ago

coventry


"Maybe its just me ... But why is it so hard to find couples Who enjoy having a man between them who likes to wear sexy underwear , I find it hard to find both parties who enjoy this little fetish , or is it just the men out there who like it the most and persuade their partners to join in . I would be interested in the feedback from men women or couples on this subject , just to see if I need to hang my own stockings up

Personally I have only ever played as a single male, however I have met with and played with lots of couples and in many different scenarios. Despite this I have yet to encounter any couples myself where the man has this fetish, nor do I. I would imagine it as simple as the fact that for many (most), seeing a man in female underwear is simply not sexy. I do not regard myself as remotely 'vanilla', but if playing in a threesome I would be positively turned off if the other man were dressed in this manner. All just my feelings on the matter."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe its just me ... But why is it so hard to find couples Who enjoy having a man between them who likes to wear sexy underwear , I find it hard to find both parties who enjoy this little fetish , or is it just the men out there who like it the most and persuade their partners to join in . I would be interested in the feedback from men women or couples on this subject , just to see if I need to hang my own stockings up "

We don't mind...met a guy once for a threesome who dressed up in hold-up and knickers...very erotic.

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By *ony 529 OP   Man
over a year ago

coventry


"Maybe its just me ... But why is it so hard to find couples Who enjoy having a man between them who likes to wear sexy underwear , I find it hard to find both parties who enjoy this little fetish , or is it just the men out there who like it the most and persuade their partners to join in . I would be interested in the feedback from men women or couples on this subject , just to see if I need to hang my own stockings up

We don't mind...met a guy once for a threesome who dressed up in hold-up and knickers...very erotic."
thank you that's so nice to hear I was nearly giving up hope of someone saying something nice seem to be ridiculed most of the time thank you

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By *ony 529 OP   Man
over a year ago

coventry


"Maybe its just me ... But why is it so hard to find couples Who enjoy having a man between them who likes to wear sexy underwear , I find it hard to find both parties who enjoy this little fetish , or is it just the men out there who like it the most and persuade their partners to join in . I would be interested in the feedback from men women or couples on this subject , just to see if I need to hang my own stockings up

We don't mind...met a guy once for a threesome who dressed up in hold-up and knickers...very erotic."
Thank you for the fabs xx I would've sent you a message but I can't so thank you here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only my opinion but I would not let a single man play with me and my wife or just my wife. Most men want something out of it too. I would not let anyone have sex with my wife unless I could have sex with theirs. Only my opinion "

Sort of like a trading agreement?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only my opinion but I would not let a single man play with me and my wife or just my wife. Most men want something out of it too. I would not let anyone have sex with my wife unless I could have sex with theirs. Only my opinion "

You can do your own thing but your wife cant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not search for couples that are looking for tv's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe its just me ... But why is it so hard to find couples Who enjoy having a man between them who likes to wear sexy underwear , I find it hard to find both parties who enjoy this little fetish , or is it just the men out there who like it the most and persuade their partners to join in . I would be interested in the feedback from men women or couples on this subject , just to see if I need to hang my own stockings up "

Well first you have to find the couples that play with single men, and that will be only a percentage of couples on the swing scene. Then out of those couples you will need to narrow it down to your particular kink. Leaving not many couple who like singke men in sexy underwear.

Mrs

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By *razycoupleniCouple
over a year ago

belfast

It’s a very easy answer. It’s a numbers game and you have fair bit going against you unfortunately. Couples looking single men have a lot options and the more things you would like to try further reduces the amount couples available for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would meet a man in female underwear but I don't have a partner to make a couple up XXX

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Maybe its just me ... But why is it so hard to find couples Who enjoy having a man between them who likes to wear sexy underwear , I find it hard to find both parties who enjoy this little fetish , or is it just the men out there who like it the most and persuade their partners to join in . I would be interested in the feedback from men women or couples on this subject , just to see if I need to hang my own stockings up "

simple, some folk are turned off by men in ladies underwear, just as there are things that Will turn you off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" When push comes to shove, most people's tastes are really quite vanilla. "

Swingers are so boring.

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By *ony 529 OP   Man
over a year ago

coventry


"I would meet a man in female underwear but I don't have a partner to make a couple up XXX"
I'm still looking for that understanding beautiful one !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would meet a man in female underwear but I don't have a partner to make a couple up XXX I'm still looking for that understanding beautiful one !!!! "

Maybe you should try some of the clubs that run fetish nights. Clubs section on Fab might be a place to start. Good luck!

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Only my opinion but I would not let a single man play with me and my wife or just my wife. Most men want something out of it too. I would not let anyone have sex with my wife unless I could have sex with theirs. Only my opinion

I think you have just describe the difference between those men who just want sex... and those who get it and understand swinging...

mindset... for me if i am playing... i am turning on the person i am playing with, i am being turned on by watching the situation, it doesn't have to be me having to play to make it work...."

Exactly.

I notice he's UNLOS. Looks like this swinging thing scared him off. Another one who thinks this is just a free sex site.

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