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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do couples indicate they are not looking for single men when their verifications are liberally sprinkled with those from single men?

Just asking for a friend

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

They don't want single men to contact them in droves and prefer to find suitable men themselves?

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By *hythmic DriverMan
over a year ago

Croydon

Because otherwise they'd receive 500 messages a day with about 5 genuine messages amongst the masses.

So they put on filters.

This isn't all couples though

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By *hythmic DriverMan
over a year ago

Croydon


"They don't want single men to contact them in droves and prefer to find suitable men themselves? "

This

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Because single men are ten a penny, I can see loads from where I’m standing. They’re looking for something more elusive like a single female or a bloke that’s not an idiot

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

The text ‘Not looking for single guys’ appears on profiles automatically when they block mail from single men. It’s a little misleading and a widely discussed defect in the site.

Consider it as “Not recieveing mail from single guys’ and it makes more sense.

Hope this helps.

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By *izzlemoonMan
over a year ago

Bath

because their experiences are their choice. i see a lot of guys profiles that are lazy and they are clearly desperate and have little interest in the lifestyle but just see an easy fuck which is kinda usery.

i can't imagine the volume of interest from these profiles make single guys appealing. imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They don't want single men to contact them in droves and prefer to find suitable men themselves? "
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because single men should have been castrated at birth

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Reasonably astute answers from the single guys. Couples may only meet guys at clubs or parties or following recommendations from trusted friends in the lifestyle which is why they might have validations. We are not averse to meeting single guys but would always prefer to meet couples. We choose not to seek on fabs and this is what works for us. As the good guys acknowledge, this is the couples choice.

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By *izzlemoonMan
over a year ago

Bath

from past experiences in life a couple have their own stuff going on as well... the dynamics of their relationship. for this reason meeting another couple makes sense because you feel your both equally sharing the fun with people who are forefilled in their relationship. single guys often are just interested in the lady which is fine but exclude her partner and try to own things for their own enjoyment.

this can be fine if it's your thing but i think most people don't like being a third wheel in an experience they are having with their partner as a couple.

this is why i prefer single ladies as a single guy and am more aware when thinking about couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They don't want single men to contact them in droves and prefer to find suitable men themselves?

This"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because single men should have been castrated at birth "

Nah some men are useful with their bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do couples indicate they are not looking for single men when their verifications are liberally sprinkled with those from single men?

Just asking for a friend "

Alot of couples look for sibgle men when they want them.

Also in our case the single men are ones we have meet at events or house parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or like me prefer to meet single men in clubs tho happier to meet couples and women outside xx

Nothing more than a preference thing xx

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes


"from past experiences in life a couple have their own stuff going on as well... the dynamics of their relationship. for this reason meeting another couple makes sense because you feel your both equally sharing the fun with people who are forefilled in their relationship. single guys often are just interested in the lady which is fine but exclude her partner and try to own things for their own enjoyment.

this can be fine if it's your thing but i think most people don't like being a third wheel in an experience they are having with their partner as a couple.

this is why i prefer single ladies as a single guy and am more aware when thinking about couples."

Actually we find the dynamic is easier with one other person than two. With two couples, there are 6 connections that have to work, with a MFF or MMF there are only 3. We rarely look for a single man which is why we block them (really don’t want to deal with lots of messages) but have been known to partake...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I like to be the one to hunt for guys, rather them messaging me.

I also prefer to randomly meet guys in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xx

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By *antonkid1955Man
over a year ago

cardiff


"Because single men should have been castrated at birth "
...class...lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"single guys often are just interested in the lady which is fine but exclude her partner and try to own things for their own enjoyment.

this can be fine if it's your thing but i think most people don't like being a third wheel in an experience they are having with their partner as a couple."

Well put. This is so true.

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By *arksjamesMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"Because single men should have been castrated at birth

Nah some men are useful with their bits "

The worm has turned.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because single men should have been castrated at birth

Nah some men are useful with their bits

The worm has turned..... "

?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""single guys often are just interested in the lady which is fine but exclude her partner and try to own things for their own enjoyment.

this can be fine if it's your thing but i think most people don't like being a third wheel in an experience they are having with their partner as a couple."

Well put. This is so true. "

This is so untrue it often the case that the male partner perceives this to be the case because he is very insecure in the relationship. It’s ok for him to have fun with other ladies or men but his female is his exclusively. So much hypocrisy !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""single guys often are just interested in the lady which is fine but exclude her partner and try to own things for their own enjoyment.

this can be fine if it's your thing but i think most people don't like being a third wheel in an experience they are having with their partner as a couple."

Well put. This is so true.

This is so untrue it often the case that the male partner perceives this to be the case because he is very insecure in the relationship. It’s ok for him to have fun with other ladies or men but his female is his exclusively. So much hypocrisy !!!!"

I would say both are true with some people but not all. We can out the people single or couples that are just after theor own kicks. But also have played with some great singles and couples where like us they are focused on everyones pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Classic example of how difficult it is for singles guys on here. In fact it is near on impossible to arrange at least a social meet with a female or couple. It appears that meeting at a club is the way forward. That is something I wouldn't do, I could imagine feeling very uncomfortable in a club by myself.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Why do couples indicate they are not looking for single men when their verifications are liberally sprinkled with those from single men?

Just asking for a friend "

Because they do their own searching.

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By *arksjamesMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"Because single men should have been castrated at birth

Nah some men are useful with their bits

The worm has turned.....

?"

Two Ronnie's sketch - showing my age!!!!

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