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"'sex' Clubs or Swingers Clubs?" Either..I just mean adult fun clubs | |||
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"So come on everyone.. Are 'sex' clubs just a place to fast track yourself to the latest disease or are they great places to meet like minded liberated people? " Can't it be both? | |||
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"Disease pit? " Wot they said Never go to one! | |||
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"Never set foot in one. Most likely full of dodgy sorts " And here we go again. "Never been but" if you have never been how can you speak from experience, we like to attend just to express our exhibitionist sides, so I guess we must just be dodgy sorts, | |||
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"I know a lot of people here like them so they can’t all be that bad. I went to one in London near angel/kings cross because curiosity got the better of me. It stank of piss, everyone stared at me and made unwelcome advances, and I didn’t find anyone attractive. I’m sure there are better ones and I probably just chose a shit one, but it’s put me off for life." That might have actually just been a public toilet, not a club, did it only cost 10p to get in. | |||
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"I know a lot of people here like them so they can’t all be that bad. I went to one in London near angel/kings cross because curiosity got the better of me. It stank of piss, everyone stared at me and made unwelcome advances, and I didn’t find anyone attractive. I’m sure there are better ones and I probably just chose a shit one, but it’s put me off for life. That might have actually just been a public toilet, not a club, did it only cost 10p to get in. " I’ve been in ordinary pubs in London that sound just like that!! | |||
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"Never set foot in one. Most likely full of dodgy sorts " It would appear the OP has also never set foot in one? | |||
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"Never set foot in one. Most likely full of dodgy sorts It would appear the OP has also never set foot in one?" Certainly people are full of it, people make it up as they go along !All the clubs I been were clean and I never had unwanted advances ! People are nice and respectful ! As regarding to swinging club Being a sex club , that couldn't be more wrong , I visit chameleons or xtasia and use the facilities many times and sometimes I don't have sex! As the clubs are a pit of dies eases another fat lie , actually chams has a drop up gum clinic ! | |||
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"I've been to several in Manchester,London,Bradford Liverpool,and never found them to be anything other than well run,clean and extremely health conscious by even supplying condom's free at some establishments, as for the user's they are always well turned out clean and smell wonderful. I think those that knock them have never actually been to a proper swing club or Adult club. " I could not agree more !!!fantasists ! | |||
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"So come on everyone.. Are 'sex' clubs just a place to fast track yourself to the latest disease or are they great places to meet like minded liberated people? Does it depend on the club itself or on when you go; daytime midweek versus weekend evening? I'm interested to know your thoughts. Please discuss!" Seedy disease pits. | |||
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"Never set foot in one. Most likely full of dodgy sorts It would appear the OP has also never set foot in one?" I have actually been to two over the years with mixed experiences hence the thread.. Interested in what others think | |||
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"Never set foot in one. Most likely full of dodgy sorts It would appear the OP has also never set foot in one? Certainly people are full of it, people make it up as they go along !All the clubs I been were clean and I never had unwanted advances ! People are nice and respectful ! As regarding to swinging club Being a sex club , that couldn't be more wrong , I visit chameleons or xtasia and use the facilities many times and sometimes I don't have sex! As the clubs are a pit of dies eases another fat lie , actually chams has a drop up gum clinic ! " Genuinely thanks for the input. This is the sort of conversation I wanted. Not the type.. Never been but here's my strong opinion on the matter!! | |||
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"'sex' Clubs or Swingers Clubs? Either..I just mean adult fun clubs" This post shows your total ignorance for the whole scene. Maybe best if you continue thinking they are disease pits and please stay away. We dont need people with that attitude in clubs thanks. | |||
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"'sex' Clubs or Swingers Clubs? Either..I just mean adult fun clubs" Amazing that people don't understand the difference! Go ahead and alienate all the FabSwingers members who enjoy visiting Swingers Clubs week after week and play safely. Perhaps if those who share this opinion actually visited a Swingers Club they might see the reality. | |||
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"I have been in a swingers club in Essex where 30 guys fucked a woman in her 50's. Club was disgusting, stank urine, and a cat was walking around. " Wasn’t that the yellow house club on the A13 in Barking? That was an extremely scummy club that you would wipe your feet on the way out of. It’s since shut down but was last on the news last summer being raided by the anti terror squad, as it was supposedly connected to the London Bridge terror attacks! | |||
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" Club was disgusting, stank urine, and a cat was walking around. " Nobody want's fleas. | |||
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"I have been in a swingers club in Essex where 30 guys fucked a woman in her 50's. Club was disgusting, stank urine, and a cat was walking around. " And you still stayed? | |||
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" Club was disgusting, stank urine, and a cat was walking around. Nobody want's fleas." The cat was probably leaving | |||
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"Disease pit? " Probably a direct quote from the Daily Fail. | |||
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"Disease pit? Wot they said Never go to one!" They didn't say; they were questioning the OPs term. Such places can be whatever your behaviour allows them to be. | |||
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"So come on everyone.. Are 'sex' clubs just a place to fast track yourself to the latest disease or are they great places to meet like minded liberated people? Can't it be both?" Yep. | |||
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"So come on everyone.. Are 'sex' clubs just a place to fast track yourself to the latest disease or are they great places to meet like minded liberated people? Does it depend on the club itself or on when you go; daytime midweek versus weekend evening? I'm interested to know your thoughts. Please discuss!" What or who's upset you?, share with the random strangers. | |||
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"So come on everyone.. Are 'sex' clubs just a place to fast track yourself to the latest disease or are they great places to meet like minded liberated people? Does it depend on the club itself or on when you go; daytime midweek versus weekend evening? I'm interested to know your thoughts. Please discuss!" The latter. I love clubs | |||
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"Well... Anecdotal only but I've been going to parties and clubs with my wife and friends for almost 15 years. We are all disease free. " Disease free maybe, but join the dodgy club | |||
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"Been going to clubs 12 years and never caught anything. Well I say never, but one time we both came down with a sore throat a few days later. Coincidence? Probably. Another time we both saw someone coughing without covering their mouth, some swingers needs to be more responsible " That would have more to do with the jacuzzi than the club too much chlorine x | |||
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"So come on everyone.. Are 'sex' clubs just a place to fast track yourself to the latest disease or are they great places to meet like minded liberated people? Does it depend on the club itself or on when you go; daytime midweek versus weekend evening? I'm interested to know your thoughts. Please discuss!" My thoughts... how many clubs do you know that are disease pits I think they may take objection to you calling them that.... | |||
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"I have been in a swingers club in Essex where 30 guys fucked a woman in her 50's. Club was disgusting, stank urine, and a cat was walking around. " They cleaned up their act after a while but have now closed. | |||
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"Never set foot in one. Most likely full of dodgy sorts " So of you have never been how do you know these people are dodgy? They could be your solicitor, doctor, nurse, accountant, builder, cleaner, nanny. Do you assume all these people are dodgy? | |||
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"I have been in a swingers club in Essex where 30 guys fucked a woman in her 50's. Club was disgusting, stank urine, and a cat was walking around. " The lady was probably enjoying a gangbang,so can't see nowt wrong there, as for the stink I'd have complained and asked for my money back as i was leaving, and the cat was probably there because someone ordered pussy to go | |||
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"Sex clubs are usually just 'tolerated brothels'. Adult Lifestyle clubs aren't. There are many adult lifestyle clubs that would give mainstream nightclubs and hotels a run for their money. Instead of 'asking the question' visit a few and 'give a qualified answer' instead. Cat X " Looking forward to visiting for the 1st time on your party night next month | |||
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"Sex clubs are usually just 'tolerated brothels'. Adult Lifestyle clubs aren't. There are many adult lifestyle clubs that would give mainstream nightclubs and hotels a run for their money. Instead of 'asking the question' visit a few and 'give a qualified answer' instead. Cat X Looking forward to visiting for the 1st time on your party night next month " And you will be made very very welcome. | |||
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"Sex clubs are usually just 'tolerated brothels'. Adult Lifestyle clubs aren't. There are many adult lifestyle clubs that would give mainstream nightclubs and hotels a run for their money. Instead of 'asking the question' visit a few and 'give a qualified answer' instead. Cat X " Like Atlantis toilets are spotless and clean playing areas, until we mess it up ! But we clean up the rubbish ! See you soon xx | |||
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"I know a lot of people here like them so they can’t all be that bad. I went to one in London near angel/kings cross because curiosity got the better of me. It stank of piss, everyone stared at me and made unwelcome advances, and I didn’t find anyone attractive. I’m sure there are better ones and I probably just chose a shit one, but it’s put me off for life. That might have actually just been a public toilet, not a club, did it only cost 10p to get in. " This made me literally 'LOL' | |||
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" Like Atlantis toilets are spotless and clean playing areas, until we mess it up ! But we clean up the rubbish ! See you soon xx " Lol. TY Baby. And we don't mind you messing stuff up at all - co's you do tidy up too. | |||
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"I just think of it as clubbing for adults. Jesus I have been to worse pubs and nightclubs that are real dives x" well said I think you could get a lot worst by picking someone up in a public | |||
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"Sex clubs are usually just 'tolerated brothels'. Adult Lifestyle clubs aren't. There are many adult lifestyle clubs that would give mainstream nightclubs and hotels a run for their money. Instead of 'asking the question' visit a few and 'give a qualified answer' instead. Cat X Looking forward to visiting for the 1st time on your party night next month And you will be made very very welcome. " Thank you | |||
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"Sex clubs are usually just 'tolerated brothels'. Adult Lifestyle clubs aren't. There are many adult lifestyle clubs that would give mainstream nightclubs and hotels a run for their money. Instead of 'asking the question' visit a few and 'give a qualified answer' instead. Cat X " Yep...this! Sex clubs & seedy men's 'entertainment' establishments of yore, have little in common with Lifestyle clubs. There may be one or two 'clubs', cinema clubs which straddle the two. However for the most part established swinger clubs are nothing like this! We visited our first club just over a year ago and it was our first experience of the lifestyle having never considered anything like it before! We were genuinely terrified that it might live up to the seedy image of the tabloids. So glad we took that first step because it is nothing like that and has opened a new world of experiences for us! | |||
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"Never set foot in one. Most likely full of dodgy sorts And here we go again. "Never been but" if you have never been how can you speak from experience, we like to attend just to express our exhibitionist sides, so I guess we must just be dodgy sorts, " | |||
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"I’m clearly as dodgy as they come! I love clubs! Fantastic way of meeting the reality behind the profile before you commit to getting rude - and great places to socialise! " | |||
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"I’m clearly as dodgy as they come! " Me too | |||
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"We love clubs, we've met loads of great people at clubs. We've played with single guys who have a much better personality than their fab profile would suggest. We've been jumped on by single girls, we've had threesomes, foursomes, eightsomes, and an incredible number of laughs. Also, never caught any diseases... unless you count a cold. Some people don't know what they are missing Cal " | |||
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" Seriously one doesn't catch a disease by going to a club. The clubs are not in themselves disease pits. I've never contracted anything worse than a occasional cold shoulder by attending a club of any description! You only get STI's from a lack of appropriate self protection during sexual play! " Maybe the hot tub is after a Kong orgy session lol | |||
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"Never set foot in one. Most likely full of dodgy sorts So of you have never been how do you know these people are dodgy? They could be your solicitor, doctor, nurse, accountant, builder, cleaner, nanny. Do you assume all these people are dodgy? " My comment was an ironic reply to the OP however if I need to explain the joke I plainly got it wrong. Apologies to anyone reading it as a criticism of swinger clubs. | |||
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"I know a lot of people here like them so they can’t all be that bad. I went to one in London near angel/kings cross because curiosity got the better of me. It stank of piss, everyone stared at me and made unwelcome advances, and I didn’t find anyone attractive. I’m sure there are better ones and I probably just chose a shit one, but it’s put me off for life. That might have actually just been a public toilet, not a club, did it only cost 10p to get in. " | |||
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