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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, so ive been sat with the girls this weekend and like us girls do we chat. A good freind of mine has issues within her sexual relationship with her fella and she asked my advice but to be honest I didnt really know what to say. Because I come on here I thought it would be a good idea to post this and get other girls advice, boys feel free to chip in lol.

Ok she has been with her fella for a little while id say 9 months and she is the opposit to the kinda girls hes fucked before, i.e. she is slim and younger than him and his ex parteners are a fuller figured girl and quite some years older. Now, when they have sex he dont cum he can fuck her and make her cum but she never gets an end result from him BUT when he has sex with other girls he always cums. She seems to think that she aint doing something right. I wanted to say yes thats what I thought but thought I would get other peoples opinions.

cheers ladies

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I bet a pound to a penny it is nothing to do with her not doing something right.

Why on earth would he be in a relationship with her if it was that?

She needs to talk to him and find out what is behind this.... what she says next depends on his reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ta chick

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

communication is the only way to solve this. Only HE knows. He is either willing to share this information candidly and honestly or the relationship may well be doomed. Not necessarily because of the sex either. I would pick a nice relaxed eve, sit him down... and ask him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does she know he always orgasms with other women?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Because hes told her lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because hes told her lol"

That sounds like he's blaming her and saying it as a stick to beat her with.

On the other hand, she must turn him on for him to be able to fuck her.

I know if I wasn't turned on by a woman it'd be no go.

They have to talk. R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because hes told her lol"

I may seem a little daft asking such an obvious question, but the reason for the question is a little deeper.

If he's told her then they've obviously already discussed it, if they've already discussed it then she or he has obviously intimated there is a problem, has she not shared with you the outcome of the rest of their discussion?

The conversation must have been quite detailed because it's a hell of a thing to tell the women your with that's she's the only one in your life that cannot help you to orgasm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh so he has basically told her he can cum with others but not her, so is he saying he isn't getting real satisfaction with her??? Is that right?

I have to admit if both sides dont 'fully enjoy' the experience I do worry and I do know someone that wont climax everytime, which I find un-nerving personally, but he doesnt seem bothered by it, and does 'finish' sometimes...

Has she tried to get him to the end?

Or is she really passive?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks people xxxxxx

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

I'd have said that i didn't cum cos i wanted on keep on fucking her.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Can I just ask you to clarify something...

Is it he always cums with other women he has (now) or with other women he's had in the past?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

slim and yonger...well that means fuck all...sorry but really doent matter, she mght just be different for him? maybe he is used to other methods of sex.Theres too many questions that wont be answered here, but love the way things can be turned around to blame the guy without knowing a full story.Just like a guy might not sexually float ones boat, it can be the same for us guys- or maybe he should just fake it.............

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whos blaming a guy here ?? what she is trying to establish is if she is not doing something right. I couldnt give her an answer because I am unsure myself so thought i'd ask people's opinions on here and as for him faking it ?? how can a guy fake it? he either shoots his load or not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust me, guys can fake it!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

probably now too much pressure on both sides .... time to relax and if it happens, it happens

bet it does...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whos blaming a guy here ?? what she is trying to establish is if she is not doing something right. I couldnt give her an answer because I am unsure myself so thought i'd ask people's opinions on here and as for him faking it ?? how can a guy fake it? he either shoots his load or not lol"

sorry OP I wasnt meaning it sound the way it did, but the roles can be reversed I'd say for when its women who cant orgasm etc- due to so many different variables,all I was suggesting really maybe theres more techniques he might have to recieve.

Us guys can be as complex as the ladies is all I'm saying, we dont all eats shoots and leaves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he is so in to her he is trying so hard to please her and that's the problem. Your friend should simply chat to him about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have often been to clubs and had sex and didn't cum, even faked it a cpl times, reason for me was no emotional connection with the ppl i was having sex with.

i think probably they have talked about it, but someone is holding back something to protect the other, i wud tell ur friend be honest and be prepared to accept him being honest.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I've known a couple of guys who have said if they hold it off for too long they just can't get back to the edge.

They have no problem dumping a load when it's just a shag, but if they are trying really hard to put the woman first, the jizz biz goes off the boil.

It don't mean they are not enjoying it.

I've heard a wide variety of other reasons, some physical some psychosomatic... and even the odd one relating to personal choice.

I'm still not sure if this guy is cumming with other women now or has just said he has cum with other women in the past.

May be he can, may be he just says he has.

The important thing is they talk.... and not to jump to any conclusions/assumptions and not to look for who is at fault.

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