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"I have seen at least a couple of discussions regarding men who have 'straight' on their profile but are actually at least bi-curious. Is the same applicable with women? And why? I have a few suspicions of my own, but let's see what my fellow swingers think." Not come across that yet - though I think it may have something to do with the antipathy that many bisexual males on here face as well - many straight men in couples aren’t happy with ‘crossing swords’ with a male that might get excited about it plus that pernicious idea that bi-males are somehow less sexually safe than straight males. On the other hand, bisexual women are prized on here instead. Add to that, that most couples looking to meet a woman in an ffm are more likely to be looking for a woman who is happy playing with the female, whereas most couples looking to meet a man for an mmf are not likely to be looking for a guy to play with the male but to play with the female instead...and you have a recipe for men saying they are straight when they are actually bi or bicurious (to avoid being judged or to widen their target pool), whereas women are more likely to state their sexuality plainly. I could be wrong, of course. ![]() | |||
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"I have seen at least a couple of discussions regarding men who have 'straight' on their profile but are actually at least bi-curious. Is the same applicable with women? And why? I have a few suspicions of my own, but let's see what my fellow swingers think. Not come across that yet - though I think it may have something to do with the antipathy that many bisexual males on here face as well - many straight men in couples aren’t happy with ‘crossing swords’ with a male that might get excited about it plus that pernicious idea that bi-males are somehow less sexually safe than straight males. On the other hand, bisexual women are prized on here instead. Add to that, that most couples looking to meet a woman in an ffm are more likely to be looking for a woman who is happy playing with the female, whereas most couples looking to meet a man for an mmf are not likely to be looking for a guy to play with the male but to play with the female instead...and you have a recipe for men saying they are straight when they are actually bi or bicurious (to avoid being judged or to widen their target pool), whereas women are more likely to state their sexuality plainly. I could be wrong, of course. ![]() I would say you are probably right XXX | |||
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"I would not go any near a woman... I am completely straight... I wouldn't even do a woman for a million quid ![]() I'm bi, I'll do it for free ![]() | |||
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"I have seen at least a couple of discussions regarding men who have 'straight' on their profile but are actually at least bi-curious. Is the same applicable with women? And why? I have a few suspicions of my own, but let's see what my fellow swingers think. Not come across that yet - though I think it may have something to do with the antipathy that many bisexual males on here face as well - many straight men in couples aren’t happy with ‘crossing swords’ with a male that might get excited about it plus that pernicious idea that bi-males are somehow less sexually safe than straight males. On the other hand, bisexual women are prized on here instead. Add to that, that most couples looking to meet a woman in an ffm are more likely to be looking for a woman who is happy playing with the female, whereas most couples looking to meet a man for an mmf are not likely to be looking for a guy to play with the male but to play with the female instead...and you have a recipe for men saying they are straight when they are actually bi or bicurious (to avoid being judged or to widen their target pool), whereas women are more likely to state their sexuality plainly. I could be wrong, of course. ![]() You? Be wrong? I highly doubt that... I'd say you're spot on! ![]() | |||
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"You gotta love when bi people claim that everyone else is bi. It's not only wrong, it's arrogant beyond belief." Usually men. | |||
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"I have seen at least a couple of discussions regarding men who have 'straight' on their profile but are actually at least bi-curious. Is the same applicable with women? And why? I have a few suspicions of my own, but let's see what my fellow swingers think." I think many women pretend to be bi but aren't. Draws the men in. | |||
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"I have seen at least a couple of discussions regarding men who have 'straight' on their profile but are actually at least bi-curious. Is the same applicable with women? And why? I have a few suspicions of my own, but let's see what my fellow swingers think. I think many women pretend to be bi but aren't. Draws the men in." And pleases their husband ![]() | |||
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"You gotta love when bi people claim that everyone else is bi. It's not only wrong, it's arrogant beyond belief. Usually men." Both statements very true lol | |||
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"I have seen at least a couple of discussions regarding men who have 'straight' on their profile but are actually at least bi-curious. Is the same applicable with women? And why? I have a few suspicions of my own, but let's see what my fellow swingers think. I think many women pretend to be bi but aren't. Draws the men in." We have had a couple of meets where they say the female is Bi but when it comes down to IT, female turns out straight and only got Bi on profile as its the males fantasy. Lots of chat before meet and they can talk the talk. Meets like that never goes well we have found and leaves us feeling fooled. | |||
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"I have seen at least a couple of discussions regarding men who have 'straight' on their profile but are actually at least bi-curious. Is the same applicable with women? And why? I have a few suspicions of my own, but let's see what my fellow swingers think. I think many women pretend to be bi but aren't. Draws the men in. We have had a couple of meets where they say the female is Bi but when it comes down to IT, female turns out straight and only got Bi on profile as its the males fantasy. Lots of chat before meet and they can talk the talk. Meets like that never goes well we have found and leaves us feeling fooled. " Yep, we get this all the time. Bi for their fella. I'm pan, but expect the lady to give back. | |||
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