FabSwingers.com forum: Do couples actually meet single men?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do any couples actually meet single men ? As most i message dont reply. Im verified form last time i was on. Been on 9month nearly this time and no meet.

My question is would you like to meet me ?

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Do any couples actually meet single men ? As most i message dont reply. Im verified form last time i was on. Been on 9month nearly this time and no meet.

My question is would you like to meet me ?"

Nah, never heard of on fab...its all just an unfounded rumour and not to be believed

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Have done several times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met single men as a couple with my former FWB xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As most i message dont reply. Im verified form last time i was on. Been on 9month nearly this time and no meet. "

Shock Horror, couples aren't obligated to involve you in their wants and desires.

No way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a few couples on here. Just keep looking. Rome wasnt built in a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know some couples meet single men?

Why ask something you know the answer to?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

The right one(s), yes.

The criteria is there in our profile but guys don't seem to bother reading it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of our meets are with single guys, it's what we prefer mostly.

As regards to messages, we get a lot, and only the people who've put in some effort and clearly read our profile, inspire us to respond. A lot of guys seem to think that they can send a 'hi how's you?' kind of thing and we'll make all the conversation. If the message comes across as half hearted and lazy, it doesn't bode well for how things might go if we met up for sex.

V x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Because ive got no reply or rejection after rejection just like on plenty of fish and other dating sites

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Some do and some don't I guess.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Most of our meets are with single guys, it's what we prefer mostly.

V x"

this

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Woe is me!

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

Actually, I am always just somewhat amused by this style of question, when it is perfectly obvious from viewing the profiles and verifications of others that, yes, of course, lots of couples meet with single guys...a huge number in fact!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any couples actually meet single men ? As most i message dont reply. Im verified form last time i was on. Been on 9month nearly this time and no meet.

My question is would you like to meet me ?"
No they don't is all illusion !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes of course couples meet single guys. That’s obvious from people’s verifications. But there are too many guys on Fab to go round, so some guys will never get a meet. Just for example we get about 5 messages of interest per week but only play every few months and usually with the same men, therefore we have nothing to offer over a thousand guys in 1 year. But are there a thousand couples, who meet single men, available for those guys that we don’t have time to get to know? Probably not. In short you aren’t getting interest because there are too many men on Fab.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to your question at the end of your post OP, nope.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

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By *uietlyBohemianCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

We meet singles, but the key is matching the preferences of the couple, and further than that, having a great profile.

In particular - smiling and attractive pics, nice profile pic, interesting profile text. A few verifications that are positive (and show likely a good match) are helpful too.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes we DO meet single men, but only the ones we fancy and get on with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because ive got no reply or rejection after rejection just like on plenty of fish and other dating sites"

Dating sites are usually easier for men to get a meet as the ratios are more equal.

Mrs

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Because ive got no reply or rejection after rejection just like on plenty of fish and other dating sites

Dating sites are usually easier for men to get a meet as the ratios are more equal.

Mrs"

I actually find it much easier to meet with the kind of people I am attracted to on fab than on dating sites...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have done several times"

Likewise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any couples actually meet single men ? As most i message dont reply. Im verified form last time i was on. Been on 9month nearly this time and no meet.

My question is would you like to meet me ?"

We meet switched-on guys.

In answer to your second question, no you're not our type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done several times in the past but of late ,after posting for many meets all have ended in no shows or let down so no longer searching for guys unless we go to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met a fair few couples and have always had an amazing time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any couples actually meet single men ? As most i message dont reply. Im verified form last time i was on. Been on 9month nearly this time and no meet.

My question is would you like to meet me ?"

Yes they do.....patience is key.many couples i have spoken say they dont to avoid being bombarded by messages. They then select who they like...best place is to go in chatrooms

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By *tuartsCelloCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We definitely meet single guys but only at clubs or Parties - we probably get viewed by 50 plus single guys a day sometime up to 100 so couldnt possibly keep up with demand

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By *layfulcoupleCouple
over a year ago

a kinky mood

We do as u can see from our veris but we do like to speak to them on cam first

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

"Because ive got no reply or rejection after rejection just like on plenty of fish and other dating sites"

If you get no results on all these sites,

then are they are all crap ?

maybe you should look at your selection method and messages.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We do, but not the whining, whinging ones who keep on about how couples won't meet them - we can't be bothered with moaning, insecure men!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Some do some don't simple

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By *inkCouple
over a year ago

South Staffs

We do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have met a few cracking blokes on here xxx

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

there are probably 10 single guys to every couple and probably more like 50 single guys to every couple that is interested in single men, so even without accounting for greedy single men who want to fuck more than 1 couple before everyone has had their turn you need to be in the top 2% of single men in terms of looks, profile, message etc to be chosen or wait until each couple has used up enough single guys to reach wherever you fit in the order.

*this is a purely tongue in cheek response with made up numbers but you get the gist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met some lovely couples on here, just dont expect to be invited to join everyone you like the look of. Be patient. I didn't meet anyone for a while whilst i got to grips with the scene, fully involved now

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

"Do any couples actually meet single men ? As most i message dont reply. Im verified form last time i was on. Been on 9month nearly this time and no meet.

My question is would you like to meet me ?"

We wouldn't meet you to far away but we've met a few on here

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Yes, they do it

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

I think over half my meets are with couples and most have been brilliant but maybe you could do with a little more understanding of the dynamics of mmf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

It’s also just as hard for us to find a single lady by the way....

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

Yes, I can confirm this from experience

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

Obviously they do, ourselves included. We actually looking for one right now. Plenty do. Know how frustrating it can be being a single guy on here, the numbers are against you. But if the same for all. G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any couples actually meet single men ? As most i message dont reply. Im verified form last time i was on. Been on 9month nearly this time and no meet.

My question is would you like to meet me ?"

You have a Veri!!!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We play with plenty of single guys in (straight) MMF, MMMF and MMMMF combinations, but always in clubs where we can check out the single guys, and they can check out us, before committing to play. Clubs provide a safe, unpressured environment where there is no problem with no shows. Get yourself to a club, make some friends and use fab to stay in touch with them and plan further meets.

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it is just like going out to find a date,the couples have to like you and there needs to be a spark, no doubt it as happend were someone as got lucky but I think you just have to keep working at it

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

"We play with plenty of single guys in (straight) MMF, MMMF and MMMMF combinations, but always in clubs where we can check out the single guys, and they can check out us, before committing to play. Clubs provide a safe, unpressured environment where there is no problem with no shows. Get yourself to a club, make some friends and use fab to stay in touch with them and plan further meets."

Pretty much this...!

We sometimes feel single guys here are looking for exclusivity or MMF grudgingly ...not many are comfortable with MMMF MMMMF etc, especially given we can't host at home. Understandable but frustrating occasionally! Clubs so much easier!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of our meets are with single guys, it's what we prefer mostly.

V x"

Definitely agree with this. A bit of effort with messages is essential to start. We have a lot of choice and guys need to stand out.

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By *igJandTheBlondeCouple
over a year ago

Kings Hill

"The right one(s), yes.

The criteria is there in our profile but guys don't seem to bother reading it.

Exactly this, then people get negative when turned down! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have when S fancies it but not often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any couples actually meet single men ? As most i message dont reply. Im verified form last time i was on. Been on 9month nearly this time and no meet.

My question is would you like to meet me ?"

Our inbox currently has 513 unread messages. Maybe this in part answers your question.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Do any couples actually meet single men ? As most i message dont reply. Im verified form last time i was on. Been on 9month nearly this time and no meet.

My question is would you like to meet me ?"

Yes we do, unfortunately most don't read the profile so get binned off before I read message properly.

Mrs single profile is worse.

Since we have done a complete re write of her profile recently messages have almost stopped.

But some still don't read the profile and wonder why they get binned.

Advice

Read profile, don't have just dick pics, don't ask to meet immediately and expect a shag 1st meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YES thank god x

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

We do meet (and have met many) single guys but with a few caveats.

Firstly they must have read our profile and know where we are. The vast majority don't and just get either deleted or a sarcastic answer depending on our mood.

Secondly they must be able (or willing) to meet us in a swinger club. If not then goodbye. We make it very clear on our profile that we only meet in clubs but still get countless messages with "fancy meeting for a drink and see how it goes" WE DON'T.

Most importantly Mrs H must fancy them even if only a bit. She isn't a free prostitute so if there isn't any attraction then the answer will always be no.

However a well put together message from an attractive guy who knows where we are and what we want will always get a positive reply.

Oh and we don't want long term friendships, house guests, or regular fuck buddies as most of the singles on here seem to want.

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