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By *astRider600 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton

So, I have an ultimate fantasy that I am really keen on trying to achieve but unfortunately, it’s a specific look that I’m seeking, so obviously that can dwindle down the opportunities as well as the fact that they may not be seeking the same sort of thing! So, if I was to get lucky and find the perfect woman, but they live a fair few miles away, would it still be worth chasing? If I found the right person, I would willingly travel around the country for the one night, minimum aha has anyone else travelled a long distance for a meet and if so, was it worth it? Or am I better off continuing search locally? Take care, R x

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I’d go for whatever you’re comfortable with. Sounds like a crap answer but it’s the best we can do!

If you don’t mind travelling across the country for a meet then by all means go for it, especially if you find your miss right. I don’t think it’s fair to expect her to necessarily do the same though so just bear in mind that if things get more serious you’re going to be travelling a lot.

If the thought fills you with dread then nip it in the bud so to speak and keep your search local.

We travel a lot and met when living on opposite sides of the world, so have absolutely no issues with distance. Nowhere’s more than a few hours away anymore so why keep yourself from somebody you want to spend time with.

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By *astRider600 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton


"I’d go for whatever you’re comfortable with. Sounds like a crap answer but it’s the best we can do!

If you don’t mind travelling across the country for a meet then by all means go for it, especially if you find your miss right. I don’t think it’s fair to expect her to necessarily do the same though so just bear in mind that if things get more serious you’re going to be travelling a lot.

If the thought fills you with dread then nip it in the bud so to speak and keep your search local.

We travel a lot and met when living on opposite sides of the world, so have absolutely no issues with distance. Nowhere’s more than a few hours away anymore so why keep yourself from somebody you want to spend time with. "

Aha not at all! Makes complete sense! Yeah wouldn’t expect her to make the distance, it’d most likely be me who initiated it I’d happily travel the distance as long as I don’t get ditched when I finally get there! I think that’s my biggest worry aha

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Just make sure you’re sensible and get to know her before you make any arrangements I suppose.

It can sometimes be a minefield on here though, so if it’s a fair distance maybe book yourself a night or two at a spa hotel type thing in a city near to her so that worst case you can have a bit of a holiday if she turns out to be a 6ft trucker named Frank. (Unless that’s your kink in which case you’re winning)

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By *astRider600 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton


"Just make sure you’re sensible and get to know her before you make any arrangements I suppose.

It can sometimes be a minefield on here though, so if it’s a fair distance maybe book yourself a night or two at a spa hotel type thing in a city near to her so that worst case you can have a bit of a holiday if she turns out to be a 6ft trucker named Frank. (Unless that’s your kink in which case you’re winning) "

Yeah, I think the key here is not to rush it! But yeah, the spa type thing is a good shout! Would be better if there was a club close, just in case aha could always head there with Frank then aha

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