FabSwingers.com forum: Report to the police

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would you hesitate to contact police if it meant that you would be revealing that you're on fab?

What is serious enough for you to risk your privacy to report?

What's not serious enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I need to ask myself that question it's already serious enough.

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

Half the coppers round here already know I do This hahha

I very well looked after lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Half the coppers round here already know I do This hahha

I very well looked after lol"

I second this. Many emergency services represented

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

I have had to disclose my membership here... they were lovely about it.... i was mortified

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By *itch and TwatCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rushden Lakes

I wouldn’t hesitate if it was serious enough, particularly being a witness to a serious crime. If it was a minor assault, abuse, or theft from me only, I would think about the pros and cons.

Twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's had a stalker, twice been to the police and is the reason she won't use fab now leaves it all to me. Some people ruin the concept of Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you hesitate to contact police if it meant that you would be revealing that you're on fab?

What is serious enough for you to risk your privacy to report?

What's not serious enough?"
nothing that could happen here with the exception of serious violence and I had a sub friend who was really badly abused by a couple she met blood and the R word involved ,I told her to report them but she wouldn't because of her job

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Why should anyone be embarrassed about being a sexually active individual?

It's not the morality police you're thinking of visiting - it's the crime police.

No brainer.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Oh, and I believe if you are the victim of a sexual offence, you're identity cannot be made public if the case went to a prosecution.

Non-sexual and I think you can use a c/o local police station as your address.

Perhaps someone knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they'll splatter your name head ' sex pests involved in swinging scene at local dogging site '

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No they'll splatter your name head ' sex pests involved in swinging scene at local dogging site '

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headlines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you hesitate to contact police if it meant that you would be revealing that you're on fab?

What is serious enough for you to risk your privacy to report?

What's not serious enough?"

Any crime that effected me personally.. I can handle Hate Speech.. If it were physical, I'd have no problem personally. Was listening to something on Radio4 that got me imagining that conversation earlier. Possibly having to deal with judgemental officers.. i'd enjoy that i think.. but the circumstances would obviously take any fun out of my situation I guess.

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

" Half the coppers round here already know I do This hahha

I very well looked after lol

I second this. Many emergency services represented"

Yep.... this is a very popular past time for the 999 family lol

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I was once stopped for a routine check at 3.00am just after leaving a meet way out of my area (while my wife was away) - got the "where have you been, where are you going" question...

....answered I'd been on a date, of sorts, which prompted a "long way from home" comment - I didn't mention Fab by name, but said it was a meet via an internet site...

....at which the very pretty female officer smiled knowingly, said she hoped I'd had fun, and let me on my way...

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By *he incognito twoCouple
over a year ago

near you

"If I need to ask myself that question it's already serious enough."

Absolutely right

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I'm keeping a close eye on a situation, and if I think that person starts posing a threat to someone mentally or physically then yes I'd go to the police about it.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Don't put allegations of wrong doing between fab members onto the forum as you are breaking rules.

To the OP, I suppose it depends on your definition of serious, but yes we would go to the police for something that the site wouldn't be able to deal with, ie something that happened away from the site.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I wouldn't hesitate to go to the police if I felt something was serious enough to report.

I was on the verge of contacting the police because of stalker issues, the threat of that and me exposing him on fb was enough to make him back off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not think twice if I had witnessed something, the police asked me for help while out somewhere (I have had to used trucks to pull cars out of ditches or off crash barriers after accidents to help out in the past) so what is someone know I'm on here maybe it will make this more normal to most people and less taboo if they realise we are normal humans just going about our lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don’t think the police would batt an eyelid about the prospect of someone being on Fab & reporting a crime, unless of course it’s somehow connected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you hesitate to contact police if it meant that you would be revealing that you're on fab?

What is serious enough for you to risk your privacy to report?

What's not serious enough?"

Aren't you 'risking your privacy' anytime you report a crime to the police?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Would you hesitate to contact police if it meant that you would be revealing that you're on fab?

What is serious enough for you to risk your privacy to report?

What's not serious enough?"

Having had a stalker and 2 guys trying to get into my house at 2 am (all from fab, not on here anymore) I no longer accommodate anyone in my house. If I ever felt threatened again on here or off site I would have no problem with contacting the police in future. My only regret is not doing it at the time.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Would you hesitate to contact police if it meant that you would be revealing that you're on fab?

What is serious enough for you to risk your privacy to report?

What's not serious enough?"

We were outed on Facebook recently and the police are involved. They don't give a monkeys that we are on here.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I really don’t think the police would batt an eyelid about the prospect of someone being on Fab & reporting a crime, unless of course it’s somehow connected.

I had a male friend who did this, the police said it was a common occurrence and not to worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a very persistent Fab stalker, a previous FB from a couple of years ago. 25+ profiles to get round blocks. He just never gives up. He's a policeman. If he ever comes to my house I will definitely report him down my local Nick.XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about a fantasy of getting a wife d*unk to have a gangbang? I was a bit worried when being invited to this, as what if the wife wasn’t aware of the situation.

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Would you hesitate to contact police if it meant that you would be revealing that you're on fab?

What is serious enough for you to risk your privacy to report?

What's not serious enough?"

I reported to the police. They were brill and non judgemental

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"How about a fantasy of getting a wife d*unk to have a gangbang? I was a bit worried when being invited to this, as what if the wife wasn’t aware of the situation.

Report to this site please

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I have in the past, many years ago.

An ex stalked me and found out I was on another site. He tried to use it against me, hacked into various social media sites to 'update' my details with it and also sent screenshots of my profile to my parents - including a follow up phone call to my dad. The police were fantastic, arrested him and it stopped immediately after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's had a stalker, twice been to the police and is the reason she won't use fab now leaves it all to me. Some people ruin the concept of Fab"

At there lies the reason I won't accommodate...

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