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Single men - timewaster rate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are single men reliable in turning up or are they generally a bit dodgy?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

In our experience 100% reliable.

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

A friend of mine organized a social meet for shy newbies, 8 single men confirmed but only 1 turned up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My experience- about 95% reliable. Had some who arranged to meet and then disappeared off the face of the earth, only to re-appear a week or month later as if nothing happened. And trying to arrange another meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

75% reliable , some not so truthful about age or looking like their profile pictures though .

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"75% reliable , some not so truthful about age or looking like their profile pictures though ."

Ah yes. There is that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My experience- about 95% reliable. Had some who arranged to meet and then disappeared off the face of the earth, only to re-appear a week or month later as if nothing happened. And trying to arrange another meet"

Sounds about right from our experience.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

About 60% reliable. That includes many years of trying to arrange nights with several guys. Fab should issue slippers as lots get cold feet.

Of those that do turn up, I’d say 98% of guys have been great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friend of mine organized a social meet for shy newbies, 8 single men confirmed but only 1 turned up. "

Answered your own experience there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 60% reliable. That includes many years of trying to arrange nights with several guys. Fab should issue slippers as lots get cold feet.

Of those that do turn up, I’d say 98% of guys have been great. "

60% from me also XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"75% reliable , some not so truthful about age or looking like their profile pictures though ."

This

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Are single men reliable in turning up or are they generally a bit dodgy? "

Some are

Some aren't.

In my first weeks on here, I very quickly learnt how to spot the 'players'

The ones who wanted to get off on the chase etc, with no intention of ever meeting.

I think if you use common sense & a set criteria, then avoiding timewasters is easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% reliable, couples on the other hand....

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I find single men very reliable as far as turning up for a one on one goes, try to get more than one at a time is a different story. Also lots fibbing about their age, marital status, smoking etc!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s not one “grouping” of person/people who you could call 100% genuine or reliable on here or in any other walk of life. Each person is individual, some people will waste the time of others, most people will not.

Let’s not keep getting to stuck in this idea of who is and who isn’t.... let’s just enjoy ourselves, and if we come across a time waster or whatever else negative then move along and enjoy the next genuine peeps we encounter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 100 percent reliable and if I agree to meet will do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a no show

Mrs

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I’m unreliable. Don’t ever ask me to put the bins out or grab milk from the shop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In our experience 100% reliable.

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This for us also

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I think it's 50/50, some do turn up, some don't, shouldn't think of every guy the same x

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham


"My experience- about 95% reliable. Had some who arranged to meet and then disappeared off the face of the earth, only to re-appear a week or month later as if nothing happened. And trying to arrange another meet"

This seems to be very common place with single guys, cold feet perhaps.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"I think it's 50/50, some do turn up, some don't, shouldn't think of every guy the same x"

This

I also think it depends on the area you're in too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love playing with single guys,I've only had one guy who messed me about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are single men reliable in turning up or are they generally a bit dodgy? "
so so dodgy can't think why women entertain us really.....bewilders me

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Women can be the same too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women can be the same too... "
noooooo I would never say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No timewasters in 10 yrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just interested op but as you're not looking for single men surely you'd be more interested in the single women-timewaster ratio or is this just a post to have a go at single guys?

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By *illupMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"A friend of mine organized a social meet for shy newbies, 8 single men confirmed but only 1 turned up. "

Clearly they were shy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never missed a meet..... i haven't had one yet .... so 100% for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to do with single, only the person, just as many couples mess people around.

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Being here as a single guy looking for female and couples aswell as previously having a couple's profile looking for guys I think I'm well placed to say that the reputation men get on is pretty much unfounded. Never had any problems with guys while part of a couple. Now I'm single I honestly can't say the same about the female and couples

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By *ssex_VixenWoman
over a year ago

Maldon

Organised a night not so far back. 14 guys confirmed they’d attend. 1 turned up. I have found many just want wank material late at night when their Mrs isn’t putting out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

having read the thread we seem to be a reliability of 50-100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the type of meet and how much groundwork you do beforehand. I've not encountered a time waster in over 5 years so 100% reliability experienced here... but I don't organise meeting groups of guys for gang bangs which seems to attract less reliability from what people seem to be saying.

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"A friend of mine organized a social meet for shy newbies, 8 single men confirmed but only 1 turned up.

Clearly they were shy!"

So shy they couldn't walk into an empty pub & meet someone ready to be friendly? Shame for the other guys who could have attended in their place.

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Our experience over many years puts the "show up" rate for single guys at about 60%, for couples about 50% and single women much less than that.

Nowadays we stick to a first meet at a club in that way we are not wasting our time completely.

We just wish that if people have a genuine reason not to be able to make it then have the decency to say so with as much notice as possible.

For us a no-show without prior notice equals a block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are single men reliable in turning up or are they generally a bit dodgy?

Some are

Some aren't.

In my first weeks on here, I very quickly learnt how to spot the 'players'

The ones who wanted to get off on the chase etc, with no intention of ever meeting.

I think if you use common sense & a set criteria, then avoiding timewasters is easy. "

This. They're probably as reliable as any other demographic really, the only difference with couples is that there's two people who could get cold feet or have problems through no fault of their own such as illness etc, which would make them twice as likely to miss out as other demographs logically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"having read the thread we seem to be a reliability of 50-100% "

That's fab forums! Beyond me why anyone would ask a definitive question here!

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

We'd say around two thirds are unreliable/timewasters. Of the guys that have turned up all have been great people.

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