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"We get this a lot, usually presume it's so they can meet women who state they won't meet bi guys. We tend to avoid them, honesty is a big thing for us" Also, they may just be saying they are bi to get with women/couples whom only meet bi guys | |||
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"How many of you are hit by the , my profile says straight but really i am bi guy ! no judgement but it seems every single straight guy on here is really bi." well the catch phrase is ' straight as a bi ' ![]() | |||
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"it seems every single straight guy on here is really bi." Nope, totally straight. | |||
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" Also, they may just be saying they are bi to get with women/couples whom only meet bi guys" I think this is often the case...lots of guys who are very keen to get laid but also perhaps considering experimenting with a potential bi side, especially if this might guarantee the former | |||
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"How many of you are hit by the , my profile says straight but really i am bi guy ! no judgement but it seems every single straight guy on here is really bi." Not at all , we have met lots of straight guys who are straight . | |||
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"We get this all day, every day! " ..well, I'm not entirely surprised you get lots of attention ![]() | |||
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"to be honest all men on here should be bi maybe they will have better luck ![]() I must try that to see if it works better for me. ![]() | |||
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"to be honest all men on here should be bi maybe they will have better luck ![]() ![]() I think it probably would...but be careful what you wish for ![]() ![]() | |||
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"How many of you are hit by the , my profile says straight but really i am bi guy ! no judgement but it seems every single straight guy on here is really bi." If there's no judgement then what exactly are you posting about? | |||
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"We get this all day, every day! ..well, I'm not entirely surprised you get lots of attention ![]() ![]() | |||
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"How many of you are hit by the , my profile says straight but really i am bi guy ! no judgement but it seems every single straight guy on here is really bi." Ive seen a couple profile where he's listed as straight, but in the body of the profile wants to suck cock in front of her! | |||
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"I find it really annoying if a straight man tells me he's actually bi. It puts me off, not because he may be attracted to guys but the fact that he's not man enough to own his sexuality. " Same could be said for bi women ! | |||
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"I find it really annoying if a straight man tells me he's actually bi. It puts me off, not because he may be attracted to guys but the fact that he's not man enough to own his sexuality. Same could be said for bi women !" Well obviously it works both ways!! | |||
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"to be honest all men on here should be bi maybe they will have better luck ![]() ![]() Willing participant to show you the ropes over here ha ![]() | |||
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"My reason for the original post is that straight guys do not read the profile. When you point out you do not play with straight single guys they then reply, well my profile says straight but really i am bi ! At the end of the day its about being honest. If the profile says one thing and they are something else then its most definitely a no. Why did we post this? To see if its not just us." Perhaps honesty is a rare commodity on fab ![]() | |||
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"to be honest all men on here should be bi maybe they will have better luck ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I wouldn't have the time nor inclination ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm definitely straight...... which means i like women.... so was getting a bit confused to why men and bi men kept on asking to suck me off. " Because you’re a handsome guy with a nice cock - probably | |||
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"On Monday someone could be straight, Tuesday they coukd be Bi, Wednesday gay, Thursday straight again And FAB straight over the weekend. How would they label themselves? Sometimes guys list themselves as straight because they want to be but over time may become "fab straight" or even really bi. Sexual fluidity = no labels." Not straight anyway... beyond that it may be fluid. Simple | |||
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"Alas many bi men hide their sexuality due to the judgment of others. Which is a massive shame, especially on a Swinging site. Do you, own it, more likely to attract those who match up" Every male been judge on this site if they do not fit the bill then they do not stand a chances on here ![]() | |||
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"I find it odd that couples won’t meet bi men. Because there’s something very bisexual about a man being turned on by seeing another guy having sex with his wife." I'm struggling to find the correlation there. If you enjoy watching a woman being pleasured by another man, you are a voyeur. If you wish you were in her place, I suspect you are a minimum bi curious. Not all cuckolds are bi. | |||
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"Alas many bi men hide their sexuality due to the judgment of others. Which is a massive shame, especially on a Swinging site. Do you, own it, more likely to attract those who match up Every male been judge on this site if they do not fit the bill then they do not stand a chances on here ![]() I notice it being mostly directed at straight guys from the male bi community here on the forums and in personal messages, a group which shouts about wanting to be accepted in public society with such silly comments about if you don't try then you'll never know etc etc. Well I've not tried I can see that it doesn't interest me for one second and so wont be trying, yet that doesn't seem to suffice for them. | |||
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"How many of you are hit by the , my profile says straight but really i am bi guy ! no judgement but it seems every single straight guy on here is really bi." Yes sexuality is a continuum not easily described by the limitations of the fabs profile. We pick the nearest pigeon hole and try and describe ourselves better in the profile description | |||
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"We get this a lot, usually presume it's so they can meet women who state they won't meet bi guys. We tend to avoid them, honesty is a big thing for us Also, they may just be saying they are bi to get with women/couples whom only meet bi guys" This is what we find ![]() | |||
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"We get this all the time, usually with the reply that they haven’t updated their profile for a while. We’ve even put on our profile we won’t meet anyone who says straight on their profile but tells us they are bi! Our take on it is that if you can’t be honest on a swinging site what you are really in to, then we’re not the couple for you! " ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Alas many bi men hide their sexuality due to the judgment of others. Which is a massive shame, especially on a Swinging site. Do you, own it, more likely to attract those who match up" For the first year on here, in an old profile, I was guilty of hiding my true sexuality, in fact we both did. But when we came back we said fuck it and decided to be open and honest. What we have found is that is has made zero difference to our success in swinging and, now, can't understand why we were worried... | |||
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"How many of you are hit by the , my profile says straight but really i am bi guy ! no judgement but it seems every single straight guy on here is really bi." A "straight guy" that contacted me recently explained his status by saying "I don't consider getting a bj being bi or if I fucked your ass i see it as gender neutral" After several more messages each asking for a picture of my cock he ended by saying I was obviously a fake because I wouldn't send one. So you get all sorts on here and what is on the label may not be what is in the box. All I know is he won't be on my valentine card list! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Alas many bi men hide their sexuality due to the judgment of others. Which is a massive shame, especially on a Swinging site. Do you, own it, more likely to attract those who match up For the first year on here, in an old profile, I was guilty of hiding my true sexuality, in fact we both did. But when we came back we said fuck it and decided to be open and honest. What we have found is that is has made zero difference to our success in swinging and, now, can't understand why we were worried..." That last paragraph sums it up completely - the guys that hide their sexuality in the mistaken belief that it stands them a better chance with people who won't meet bi men are actually closing the door on just as many people who actively look for them and won't meet "Fab straight" men so it balances out over all. I'm openly bisexual and have been since joining the site pretty much, and I've not once been turned down because of my sexuality - in fact I've actually been told by some that it's a plus that I am ![]() | |||
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"How many of you are hit by the , my profile says straight but really i am bi guy ! no judgement but it seems every single straight guy on here is really bi." maybe they say there bi just to get the meet | |||
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"Sadly, I also think that the reality is that there are probably more profiles for couples and single women that state they will not meet bi or bi-curious men than there are for bi couples seeking bi/bi-curious men. This means that in terms of 'collateral damage', it simply works out better in a numbers game for many bi or bi-curious men to simply leave this information off their profiles. To be open about it would just limit there opportunities too much ![]() Exactly, it's based on getting meets rather than honesty. Lots on here as " straight" yet on the guys site also as bi, or change their profile on here to suit who they are targeting. | |||
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"Perhaps I should also add that I have met at least two couples where it has transpired that the male is actually bi or bi-curious, although not stated on their profiles. This has never been a problem, but I believe that it is also omitted because these couples do not want to put off people who they are attracted to who might be uncomfortable with the male's bisexuality." ![]() | |||
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"100% dead straight here......." Lol wearing pink boxers and a pony tail #bless | |||
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"Who cares? If you fancy some hanky panky with someone, crack on and let other people worry about labels." It would be kind of awkward for you if you couldn’t identify yourself properly. If there were no choices but to go with the majority, you’d be a straight man getting hounded by pussy. Labels aren’t so terrible ![]() | |||
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"Single guy here and a straight as they come. " Pity ![]() | |||
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"There are a lot of guys who who may be bi-curious, bi-playful or even only orally bi. To put bi on a profile when only orally bi for example could be misleading for other members who see a bi profile then are the first to moan when there's no bum love going on between the guys at a meet. Everyone is entitled to put whatever they want on their profiles without question. It's down to the respective people to discuss any limits of play before meeting. " My last partner was orally bi. He put himself as bisexual and qualified in the profile text he was just orally bi. Sir is top bi. He puts himself as bisexual and we qualify he’s top in our profile. That’s important and seems to work, because he’s not up for taking it in the batty. | |||
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"How many of you are hit by the , my profile says straight but really i am bi guy ! no judgement but it seems every single straight guy on here is really bi." . I'm single bi and says it on me profile ![]() | |||
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"I'm definitely straight...... which means i like women.... so was getting a bit confused to why men and bi men kept on asking to suck me off. Because you’re a handsome guy with a nice cock - probably " And nothing ventured, nothing gained ![]() | |||
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"How many of you are hit by the , my profile says straight but really i am bi guy ! no judgement but it seems every single straight guy on here is really bi. If there's no judgement then what exactly are you posting about? " ![]() | |||
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"I want to meet women and couples. I want to share a women with her other half if it's a couple. Ergo I am straight. It's not a difficuilt concept surely?" Have you thought, thinking or ever going to contemplate touching a willy? And have you ever looked at another mans cock for more than 5 seconds ![]() | |||
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"I want to meet women and couples. I want to share a women with her other half if it's a couple. Ergo I am straight. It's not a difficuilt concept surely? Have you thought, thinking or ever going to contemplate touching a willy? And have you ever looked at another mans cock for more than 5 seconds ![]() The first no. The second yes of course. While a lady is interacting with it lol. | |||
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"How many of you are hit by the , my profile says straight but really i am bi guy ! no judgement but it seems every single straight guy on here is really bi." ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I want to meet women and couples. I want to share a women with her other half if it's a couple. Ergo I am straight. It's not a difficuilt concept surely? Have you thought, thinking or ever going to contemplate touching a willy? And have you ever looked at another mans cock for more than 5 seconds ![]() And since that happened, do you find yourself wanting to visit Dunelm more ![]() | |||
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"I want to meet women and couples. I want to share a women with her other half if it's a couple. Ergo I am straight. It's not a difficuilt concept surely? Have you thought, thinking or ever going to contemplate touching a willy? And have you ever looked at another mans cock for more than 5 seconds ![]() ![]() Do you mean the store? If yes I will be frequenting it regularly going forward if such shenanigans occur! | |||
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"I want to meet women and couples. I want to share a women with her other half if it's a couple. Ergo I am straight. It's not a difficuilt concept surely? Have you thought, thinking or ever going to contemplate touching a willy? And have you ever looked at another mans cock for more than 5 seconds ![]() ![]() You’ve caught ghey ![]() | |||
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"I want to meet women and couples. I want to share a women with her other half if it's a couple. Ergo I am straight. It's not a difficuilt concept surely? Have you thought, thinking or ever going to contemplate touching a willy? And have you ever looked at another mans cock for more than 5 seconds ![]() ![]() ![]() Ah well. I am buggered then ![]() | |||
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"I want to meet women and couples. I want to share a women with her other half if it's a couple. Ergo I am straight. It's not a difficuilt concept surely? Have you thought, thinking or ever going to contemplate touching a willy? And have you ever looked at another mans cock for more than 5 seconds ![]() ![]() I was wondering when the "soft furnishings" line was going to get trotted out ![]() | |||
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"I want to meet women and couples. I want to share a women with her other half if it's a couple. Ergo I am straight. It's not a difficuilt concept surely? Have you thought, thinking or ever going to contemplate touching a willy? And have you ever looked at another mans cock for more than 5 seconds ![]() ![]() ![]() Then I’m happy you are not disappointed. Scatter cushions anyone ![]() | |||
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"I want to meet women and couples. I want to share a women with her other half if it's a couple. Ergo I am straight. It's not a difficuilt concept surely? Have you thought, thinking or ever going to contemplate touching a willy? And have you ever looked at another mans cock for more than 5 seconds ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Only if they come with a free CD of the great show tunes sung by Judy Garland ![]() | |||
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"Reality is that if u put bi, endless men get in contact wanting to “suck me off now “ , however I’m only bi when with a couple and sufficiently relaxed to go that way. Guess I should update my profile but most guys can’t / don’t read it lol" So just block guys from messaging you and be honest instead ![]() | |||
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