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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Why send them if we haven't even communicated? Men do not do themselves any favours on here!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chancers ? Women and couples do it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why send them if we haven't even communicated? Men do not do themselves any favours on here!!!"

Nor do couples.. or women I get that occasionally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it's more other couples that are the biggest culprits for it tbh.. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chancers ? Women and couples do it too."

You beat me lol

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

It’s clearly there in our profile.

We delete them if we haven’t spoken before.

Just more proof that they don’t look past the pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait til they go offline, accept it and look at friends only photos then delete them off friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s clearly there in our profile.

We delete them if we haven’t spoken before.

Just more proof that they don’t look past the pictures."

Just leave them there, they can't send another for 60 days or whatever it is then !

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"We find it's more other couples that are the biggest culprits for it tbh.. X"

Really? It is annoying, think they only wanna perv over friend pics?

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By *ibertine_mindsCouple
over a year ago

Staffs/ Derbys/ Peak District

Often seems to be a clumsy use of the friend request by new members. We also get them from members that have no pics, no interests listed and even some with hidden profiles . . .

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

I have only had men do it to me?

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Wait til they go offline, accept it and look at friends only photos then delete them off friends list

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Crafty, but I like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They wanna wank over your dirty pics

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Wait til they go offline, accept it and look at friends only photos then delete them off friends list

Crafty, but I like it."

Feel like deleting all friend pics so they don't bother lol

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Why send them if we haven't even communicated? Men do not do themselves any favours on here!!!"

Nor do couples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We find it's more other couples that are the biggest culprits for it tbh.. X

Really? It is annoying, think they only wanna perv over friend pics?"

Of course they do, I delete straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait til they go offline, accept it and look at friends only photos then delete them off friends list

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We've done that before now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They wanna see yer vag'. Plain n simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just a private pics thing, you get them whether you've got private pics or not. There are a lot of shallow types and some look to legitimise their accounts by having you on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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What if it's done by an experienced, verified couple? I got an unsolicited friend request which I ignored, two days later I got the second. So I replied, explaining why I'd ignored the first.

I never did get a message, perhaps I'm not worthy, which is kind of why I ignored the first request.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get random ones now and again off women and couples who I've never communicated with. I'll accept them if they have friends pics to share and I like the look of them. One such request resulted in a meet so I can't complain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i occasionally add when they are offline look and unfriend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i occasionally add when they are offline look and unfriend "

Haha sneaky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How often do you tolerate repeated friend requests with no messages before blocking the sender?

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"Why send them if we haven't even communicated? Men do not do themselves any favours on here!!!"

Men and couples usually.

Straight in the bin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i occasionally add when they are offline look and unfriend

Haha sneaky "

life is often unfair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How often do you tolerate repeated friend requests with no messages before blocking the sender?"

I think two did me.. I can't remember if I blocked or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i leave them in the list to be added as they cant re request for 30 days same as winks

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By *entleman Caller GlasgowMan
over a year ago

Bellshill

I must be doing something wrong, as I do not have this issue ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i leave them in the list to be added as they cant re request for 30 days same as winks "

Can they if you delete them? If they can't, I may have fucked up and not deleted what I thought was the 1st, but in fact, the only request.. in which case my message would have seemed a little bizarre, so no wonder it wasn't replied to Oh well.. first/only was still unsolicited.

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"How often do you tolerate repeated friend requests with no messages before blocking the sender?"
i don’t delete them do they can’t resend ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We find it's more other couples that are the biggest culprits for it tbh.. X

Really? It is annoying, think they only wanna perv over friend pics?"

Thing is: they can't if you don't add them.

Or, do what we do, wait till they're off-line, add them as friends, check out all their pics, then de-friend them afterwards.

*shrugs*

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

We have had them of couples and single females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i leave them in the list to be added as they cant re request for 30 days same as winks

Can they if you delete them? If they can't, I may have fucked up and not deleted what I thought was the 1st, but in fact, the only request.. in which case my message would have seemed a little bizarre, so no wonder it wasn't replied to Oh well.. first/only was still unsolicited."

try now with me and we will see LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i occasionally add when they are offline look and unfriend "

Oops, I should have read to the end

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"They wanna see yer vag'. Plain n simple. "

Love that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They wanna see yer vag'. Plain n simple.

Love that lol"

I'd rather see a face to be honest

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"How often do you tolerate repeated friend requests with no messages before blocking the sender?"

I ignore so they can't send again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They wanna see yer vag'. Plain n simple.

Love that lol

I'd rather see a face to be honest"

my arse is better than my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They wanna see yer vag'. Plain n simple.

Love that lol

I'd rather see a face to be honest

my arse is better than my face "

I can't comment as I haven't seen either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They wanna see yer vag'. Plain n simple.

Love that lol

I'd rather see a face to be honest

my arse is better than my face

I can't comment as I haven't seen either "

or fact i am an arse ha ha

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

We get them off couples all the time, i just wait til they are offine, add them, look at their pic then delete them from friends list.

Had one from a couple in USA today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've just learned something new If you don't delete the request and you don't accept it. They cannot resend for 30 days. But if you do delete it... they can resend immideatly.

Thankyou very much MaybeTomorrow Smooooooth as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait til they go offline, accept it and look at friends only photos then delete them off friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I've just learned something new If you don't delete the request and you don't accept it. They cannot resend for 30 days. But if you do delete it... they can resend immideatly.

Thankyou very much MaybeTomorrow Smooooooth as fuck "

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham


"Wait til they go offline, accept it and look at friends only photos then delete them off friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we get friends requests from people randomly ads normally sends them a message, normally involves that our friends pics are just his cock etc lol.

Geeky x

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By *eziahWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Well I've just learned something new If you don't delete the request and you don't accept it. They cannot resend for 30 days. But if you do delete it... they can resend immideatly.

Thankyou very much MaybeTomorrow Smooooooth as fuck "

But what difference does that make if you don't accept anyway? It just still sits there in a dusty corner of your internet that you don't have to look at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooo I've had 4 single women request me and yes I've only been here 2 weeks so it's not just men I've accepted them with open arms it's not just men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Noooo I've had 4 single women request me and yes I've only been here 2 weeks so it's not just men I've accepted them with open arms it's not just men "

Oh and I'm incredibly happy and proud about it x

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I've had some from women, if I find them attractive I'll accept, if not then I won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the marketing strategy, send 200 expect a 1% hit rate and bingo 2 extra set of pics to perve at.

Or blokes trying to gauge interest by sending them, but given the disparity in males to females you still need to differentiate yourself with a decent message so you can actually speak to people.

(Says someone that as a newbie may have tried the scattergun approach, I've been learned now). X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U wanna add lol

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By *queekyCheesyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Instant block here. No questions asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't go into your friends request. I don't think I've ever pressed that button the whole time I've been on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Appareantly I don't send mine fast enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait til they go offline, accept it and look at friends only photos then delete them off friends list

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Sneaky but great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just don't go into your friends request. I don't think I've ever pressed that button the whole time I've been on here x"

If everyone did that, what would there be to complain about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I've just learned something new If you don't delete the request and you don't accept it. They cannot resend for 30 days. But if you do delete it... they can resend immideatly.

Thankyou very much MaybeTomorrow Smooooooth as fuck

But what difference does that make if you don't accept anyway? It just still sits there in a dusty corner of your internet that you don't have to look at. "

None really You van hold them off for 30 days if they're a serial requester.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Appareantly I don't send mine fast enough "

Best tactic my friend, make them come you you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why send them if we haven't even communicated? Men do not do themselves any favours on here!!!"

Preaching to the choir Sister!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why send them if we haven't even communicated? Men do not do themselves any favours on here!!!"
men are the pits

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Why send them if we haven't even communicated? Men do not do themselves any favours on here!!!"

In our experience all do this, I guess for some it works. We always send a message to the effect that unless we meet we won't accept the friends request. 9 times out of 10 that message is ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I've just learned something new If you don't delete the request and you don't accept it. They cannot resend for 30 days. But if you do delete it... they can resend immideatly.

Thankyou very much MaybeTomorrow Smooooooth as fuck

But what difference does that make if you don't accept anyway? It just still sits there in a dusty corner of your internet that you don't have to look at.

None really You van hold them off for 30 days if they're a serial requester."

Or just block and sent a clear message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such angst over something so trivial.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met everyone of my fab friends at a club recently and I still messaged them beforehand, if it would be ok to add them as a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Such angst over something so trivial."
exactly my thought some do it because they can't see pics ,it cuts to the chase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Such angst over something so trivial.exactly my thought some do it because they can't see pics ,it cuts to the chase "

And they think the recipient does get that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Such angst over something so trivial.exactly my thought some do it because they can't see pics ,it cuts to the chase

And they think the recipient does get that... "
just saying why some do it ,I wouldn't but hey its not a major crime is it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I've just learned something new If you don't delete the request and you don't accept it. They cannot resend for 30 days. But if you do delete it... they can resend immideatly.

Thankyou very much MaybeTomorrow Smooooooth as fuck

But what difference does that make if you don't accept anyway? It just still sits there in a dusty corner of your internet that you don't have to look at.

None really You van hold them off for 30 days if they're a serial requester.

Or just block and sent a clear message "

I reserve the block button for special occasions usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be doing something wrong...i dont get any..ever...ill just go and cry in the corner...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Such angst over something so trivial."

It may sound trivial, I guess it may be, but it's just another case of lack of respect for someone isn't it?

It makes me feel like I'm not worthy to talk to, unless I pass a rigid inspection first. That doesn't bother me much, because I know I am to those who matter.

Manners cost nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be doing something wrong...i dont get any..ever...ill just go and cry in the corner..."

It'll be Ok Nick, you'll get one at some point, if you hang around long enough There there *Offers you a Pringle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only add friends after I have met them, and then I send the friend request to them. I say this on my profile and I still have about 9000 requests just sat there being ignored since I just don’t look at it...same with winks if I’m honest x

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We get a few per day off couples, they've never even communicates - so random

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be doing something wrong...i dont get any..ever...ill just go and cry in the corner...

It'll be Ok Nick, you'll get one at some point, if you hang around long enough There there *Offers you a Pringle"

Ooh what flavour?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Such angst over something so trivial.

It may sound trivial, I guess it may be, but it's just another case of lack of respect for someone isn't it?

It makes me feel like I'm not worthy to talk to, unless I pass a rigid inspection first. That doesn't bother me much, because I know I am to those who matter.

Manners cost nothing."
its a tool of the site as are the block and delete button ,some block you for your comments in the forums they judge you ,some might not appreciate people perving their pics and fabbing them especially if they've blocked you but its a tool a click of a button ,some view it as rude to call someone babe others don't ,we are all different and its probably good that we have the forums to debate these differences in opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i leave them in the list to be added as they cant re request for 30 days same as winks "

I did not know this. Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hoping to see some ruder pictures, perhaps. I have 10 on my friends. I'm not going to add randomers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hoping to see some ruder pictures, perhaps. I have 10 on my friends. I'm not going to add randomers "
add me add me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just got a wink and a friends request from Wales. We have never spoken and even though we like to travel away at weekends would prefer to chat first before becoming friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hoping to see some ruder pictures, perhaps. I have 10 on my friends. I'm not going to add randomers "

We could be friends but have to meet first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not send any friends request or mail lately so those who do are trying to hard i think.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Wait til they go offline, accept it and look at friends only photos then delete them off friends list

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Why look at their friends only photo’s if you don’t want them as friends in the first place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait til they go offline, accept it and look at friends only photos then delete them off friends list

Why look at their friends only photo’s if you don’t want them as friends in the first place? "

No idea, I don't do it, my fuck buddy on here does. I'm guessing looking at them she can decide whether she wants to accept them as a friend or not based on if she likes what she sees.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Wait til they go offline, accept it and look at friends only photos then delete them off friends list

Why look at their friends only photo’s if you don’t want them as friends in the first place?

No idea, I don't do it, my fuck buddy on here does. I'm guessing looking at them she can decide whether she wants to accept them as a friend or not based on if she likes what she sees."

Oh sorry I thought you did. You were just suggesting people do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait til they go offline, accept it and look at friends only photos then delete them off friends list

Why look at their friends only photo’s if you don’t want them as friends in the first place? "

As they clearly ignore the profiles so why shouldnt i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hate this also, it doesn’t take much to send a message saying they like our profile and want to see more or are even interested in chatting first!

We ignore or delete them m, we’re pretty strict with our friends list, if there’s not a possibility of a meet or we haven’t spoken in over a month they’re off the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it just people not understanding how it works here. Other social media you can just become friends with them with them by pressing the follow button. Just a feature they see, so use it.

I don't tend to look unless someone I've been messaging has asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never done that and always block those who do it to me.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"We hate this also, it doesn’t take much to send a message saying they like our profile and want to see more or are even interested in chatting first!

We ignore or delete them m, we’re pretty strict with our friends list, if there’s not a possibility of a meet or we haven’t spoken in over a month they’re off the list "

This is a good system

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Wait til they go offline, accept it and look at friends only photos then delete them off friends list

Why look at their friends only photo’s if you don’t want them as friends in the first place?

As they clearly ignore the profiles so why shouldnt i"

Well if you’re happy to waste time doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh. It doesn't bother me. I don't look at them. I send a friend request to those I'm interested in. I don't understand why people get worked up about them. Just don't look!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not crime of the century

dosent bother me

just block and delete

worser things in life to worry about lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Meh. It doesn't bother me. I don't look at them. I send a friend request to those I'm interested in. I don't understand why people get worked up about them. Just don't look!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait til they go offline, accept it and look at friends only photos then delete them off friends list

Why look at their friends only photo’s if you don’t want them as friends in the first place?

As they clearly ignore the profiles so why shouldnt i

Well if you’re happy to waste time doing that "

Doesn’t happen often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be doing something wrong...i dont get any..ever...ill just go and cry in the corner...

It'll be Ok Nick, you'll get one at some point, if you hang around long enough There there *Offers you a Pringle

Ooh what flavour?"

What would you choose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just people not understanding how it works here. Other social media you can just become friends with them with them by pressing the follow button. Just a feature they see, so use it.

I don't tend to look unless someone I've been messaging has asked. "

I think you're right! I reckon most just see it as a way of testing the water. Or like Facebook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I let those random/blank profilefriend requests sit there. Then after a few months I’ll go through the list - often some of those random blank profiles have added “friends only” photos during the time that’s passed.

So I’ll accept months after, have a quick snoop and de-friend them.

Two can play that game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I let those random/blank profilefriend requests sit there. Then after a few months I’ll go through the list - often some of those random blank profiles have added “friends only” photos during the time that’s passed.

So I’ll accept months after, have a quick snoop and de-friend them.

Two can play that game "
you're too sneaky makes you freaky

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I let those random/blank profilefriend requests sit there. Then after a few months I’ll go through the list - often some of those random blank profiles have added “friends only” photos during the time that’s passed.

So I’ll accept months after, have a quick snoop and de-friend them.

Two can play that game "

Do you diarise ‘after a few months’ to go through the list? Possible perv at any saucy pics then de-friend?

Does it make you feel superior? I’m just trying to get the psyche of why that’s all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your assumptions say more about your psyche than mine it doesn’t make me feel anything it’s just a website

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your assumptions say more about your psyche than mine it doesn’t make me feel anything it’s just a website "
lol let's face it we're all devious at some point

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I think your assumptions say more about your psyche than mine it doesn’t make me feel anything it’s just a website "

I’m just trying to understand why you do it that’s all

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I think your assumptions say more about your psyche than mine it doesn’t make me feel anything it’s just a website lol let's face it we're all devious at some point "

Moi? Devious? Nope

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds


"I think your assumptions say more about your psyche than mine it doesn’t make me feel anything it’s just a website

I’m just trying to understand why you do it that’s all "

Play nicely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your assumptions say more about your psyche than mine it doesn’t make me feel anything it’s just a website lol let's face it we're all devious at some point

Moi? Devious? Nope "
c'mon give us a wee Titbit

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I think your assumptions say more about your psyche than mine it doesn’t make me feel anything it’s just a website lol let's face it we're all devious at some point

Moi? Devious? Nope c'mon give us a wee Titbit "

Throws a little treat in the air to catch in the teeth

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I think your assumptions say more about your psyche than mine it doesn’t make me feel anything it’s just a website

I’m just trying to understand why you do it that’s all

Play nicely "

Yeah right, you should know how feisty I can get....!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your assumptions say more about your psyche than mine it doesn’t make me feel anything it’s just a website lol let's face it we're all devious at some point

Moi? Devious? Nope c'mon give us a wee Titbit

Throws a little treat in the air to catch in the teeth "
a doggy biscuit .......woof woof

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I think your assumptions say more about your psyche than mine it doesn’t make me feel anything it’s just a website lol let's face it we're all devious at some point

Moi? Devious? Nope c'mon give us a wee Titbit

Throws a little treat in the air to catch in the teeth a doggy biscuit .......woof woof "

No....a fish....squeal squeal in dolphin accent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your assumptions say more about your psyche than mine it doesn’t make me feel anything it’s just a website lol let's face it we're all devious at some point

Moi? Devious? Nope c'mon give us a wee Titbit

Throws a little treat in the air to catch in the teeth a doggy biscuit .......woof woof

No....a fish....squeal squeal in dolphin accent. "
lol yea I've that sound in my head now as I send a friend request

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I think your assumptions say more about your psyche than mine it doesn’t make me feel anything it’s just a website lol let's face it we're all devious at some point

Moi? Devious? Nope c'mon give us a wee Titbit

Throws a little treat in the air to catch in the teeth a doggy biscuit .......woof woof

No....a fish....squeal squeal in dolphin accent. lol yea I've that sound in my head now as I send a friend request "

A friend request? A chuffing friend request! Gulp!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your assumptions say more about your psyche than mine it doesn’t make me feel anything it’s just a website lol let's face it we're all devious at some point

Moi? Devious? Nope c'mon give us a wee Titbit

Throws a little treat in the air to catch in the teeth a doggy biscuit .......woof woof

No....a fish....squeal squeal in dolphin accent. lol yea I've that sound in my head now as I send a friend request

A friend request? A chuffing friend request! Gulp! "
chuffing that all you got ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friend request? A chuffing friend request! Gulp! "

The important question is, has the request been accepted?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"A friend request? A chuffing friend request! Gulp!

The important question is, has the request been accepted?"

Did someone say they were sending a friend request? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did someone say they were sending a friend request? Lol "

Kneelz did, yeah.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Did someone say they were sending a friend request? Lol

Kneelz did, yeah."
m

Kneelz is too nervous to because of my feisty nature.....grrrrr!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kneelz is too nervous to because of my feisty nature.....grrrrr! "

He can't anyway! You've hidden your profile, ya meanie.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Kneelz is too nervous to because of my feisty nature.....grrrrr!

He can't anyway! You've hidden your profile, ya meanie."

I still get friend requests though!

Not a meanie, it’s my decision with good reason!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still get friend requests though!

Not a meanie, it’s my decision with good reason! "

Ah,worked it out now. Newbie error.

Using the hidden profile as a spam filter?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I still get friend requests though!

Not a meanie, it’s my decision with good reason!

Ah,worked it out now. Newbie error.

Using the hidden profile as a spam filter?"

It’s fine, worry not.

Nope....and you are inappropriate asking that in an open forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I still get friend requests though!

Not a meanie, it’s my decision with good reason! "

Most everything women do is with good reason. They adjust behaviour so quickly and correctly, esp when it comes to men, who coincidentally are both the greatest cause of necessary modifications and the slowest to modify their own.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

I still get friend requests though!

Not a meanie, it’s my decision with good reason!

Most everything women do is with good reason. They adjust behaviour so quickly and correctly, esp when it comes to men, who coincidentally are both the greatest cause of necessary modifications and the slowest to modify their own. "

Your words make some sense....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope....and you are inappropriate asking that in an open forum."

Oops sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I still get friend requests though!

Not a meanie, it’s my decision with good reason!

Most everything women do is with good reason. They adjust behaviour so quickly and correctly, esp when it comes to men, who coincidentally are both the greatest cause of necessary modifications and the slowest to modify their own.

Your words make some sense...."

Why thank you B.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dint understand why it’s so annoying, you don’t have to accept

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I dint understand why it’s so annoying, you don’t have to accept "

Oh I’m not shy to decline a friend request believe me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kneelz is too nervous to because of my feisty nature.....grrrrr!

He can't anyway! You've hidden your profile, ya meanie."
I am I quake in my boots every day

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I dint understand why it’s so annoying, you don’t have to accept "

Same. Login, delete friends requests, delete winks, crack on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dint understand why it’s so annoying, you don’t have to accept "

I think it’s comparable to a mosquito bite.

The first time it happens you don’t notice till it’s itchy and by then it’s too late to stop it. This happens for a while, possibly with a kill or two, till just the sound of them buzzing near your head is enough to make you flip the fuck out.

I think it’s an instinctual thing.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Kneelz is too nervous to because of my feisty nature.....grrrrr!

He can't anyway! You've hidden your profile, ya meanie.I am I quake in my boots every day "

Yeah right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kneelz is too nervous to because of my feisty nature.....grrrrr!

He can't anyway! You've hidden your profile, ya meanie.I am I quake in my boots every day

Yeah right "
I take them off at night mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd all moan if you didn't have any friends or no one asked to be your friend

Nothing better to moan about lol.

Not even like you have to accept the request ....just delete and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'd all moan if you didn't have any friends or no one asked to be your friend

Nothing better to moan about lol.

Not even like you have to accept the request ....just delete and move on "
oh damnit send me one then

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"You'd all moan if you didn't have any friends or no one asked to be your friend

Nothing better to moan about lol.

Not even like you have to accept the request ....just delete and move on oh damnit send me one then "

I’ll think about it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'd all moan if you didn't have any friends or no one asked to be your friend

Nothing better to moan about lol.

Not even like you have to accept the request ....just delete and move on oh damnit send me one then

I’ll think about it.... "
ha oooooooo getting excited now ......damn I dribbled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn I put my profile status as ' I'm too young to die ' I think someone's just got upset with me

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's bizarre, when not even those who have just joined do it imo.

If I see them and am in a 'forgiving' mind (possibly would shag), I send a wink - but 90% then don't message.

So I view them largely as opportunists who soak up anything they can get, including pics and what they may perceive as in the bag shags.

Is castration too good for some?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"It's bizarre, when not even those who have just joined do it imo.

If I see them and am in a 'forgiving' mind (possibly would shag), I send a wink - but 90% then don't message.

So I view them largely as opportunists who soak up anything they can get, including pics and what they may perceive as in the bag shags.

Is castration too good for some?"

I like your choice of vocabulary......

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

We mainly get them from couples, who obviously haven't read our profile, so just delete. We rarely get them from single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's bizarre, when not even those who have just joined do it imo.

If I see them and am in a 'forgiving' mind (possibly would shag), I send a wink - but 90% then don't message.

So I view them largely as opportunists who soak up anything they can get, including pics and what they may perceive as in the bag shags.

Is castration too good for some?"

A couple of public castrations would put a stop to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must confess we have done it a few times, but only because we haven't got naked pics on it, but have also done it by accident, pressed the wrong button and you can't take it back once done, but something we do know is, some people have a quick look before they block lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friend request is directly below wink on my tablet

Small tablet and big fingers means I've sent two friend request in recent days when I'd intended to only wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Friend request is directly below wink on my tablet

Small tablet and big fingers means I've sent two friend request in recent days when I'd intended to only wink"

Saved them an inane wink though...

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