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By *pal2 OP   Man
over a year ago

cumbria

Lots of single males on here chasing relatively few single females, but is this swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we just shag around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And lots of them aren't single at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a swinger. I'm here for leisurely encounters of a sexual nature. Some people may call that swinging; I don't.

I have had a few 3 some too. That's not swinging either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, we just shag around "

Oi, speak for yourself

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By *pal2 OP   Man
over a year ago

cumbria

yeah i was going to put 'single'

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By *pal2 OP   Man
over a year ago

cumbria

So if you go to a swingers club as a 'single' you're a swinger but on here a 'shagger'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, we just shag around

Oi, speak for yourself "
I know lol

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By *ustaceSmithMan
over a year ago

Woodbridge

I regard swinging as a lifestyle thing. As a single guy, sometimes I engage with couples and sometimes with single women, but the basic principle is the same. Couples see me as a swinger.

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By *pal2 OP   Man
over a year ago

cumbria


"I regard swinging as a lifestyle thing. As a single guy, sometimes I engage with couples and sometimes with single women, but the basic principle is the same. Couples see me as a swinger."

'Lifestyle and how others see you'. Good Answer!

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

If a single is looking for another single for nsa sex, that ain't swinging. If it was, every randy teenager and 20-something would be a 'swinger' as they hit the nightclubs on a Saturday.

As would every divorcee or hen party / stag night flying off to Spain thinking they might get a lucky shag.

As would every band member / fan hoping for a backstage knee trembler.

Sorry folks, but singles looking for singles for nsa sex ain't swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of single males on here chasing relatively few single females, but is this swinging?"
I personally believe swingers are married/attached couples who swap eachother. The rest is just free sex which is nothing wrong with it before anyone starts an arguement lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are couples swingers if they only fuck another woman??

Or are they just 'threesomers"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are couples swingers if they only fuck another woman??

Or are they just 'threesomers""
just sex.

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By *ustaceSmithMan
over a year ago

Woodbridge

I am single and seek out single women and also couples. The latter defines me as a swinger even in one-to-one encounters because swinging with couples is within my boundaries. I agree that if I were only seeking out single women then I couldn't regard myself as a swinger.

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By *pal2 OP   Man
over a year ago

cumbria


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Sorry folks, but singles looking for singles for nsa sex ain't swinging."

Yeah personally even if youre a single i think couples have to be involved ie MMF or other combination of group sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Sorry folks, but singles looking for singles for nsa sex ain't swinging.

Yeah personally even if youre a single i think couples have to be involved ie MMF or other combination of group sex"
but that's just 3sums. I think it has to be 2 couples swapping to be classified as swingers. That's my opinion anyway.

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By *pal2 OP   Man
over a year ago

cumbria


" I think it has to be 2 couples swapping to be classified as swingers. That's my opinion anyway. "

Yes I see your point about 3 somes. So really do singles have a place on here even if a lifestyle swinger or former couple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I think it has to be 2 couples swapping to be classified as swingers. That's my opinion anyway.

Yes I see your point about 3 somes. So really do singles have a place on here even if a lifestyle swinger or former couple?"
of course they do. It's a sex site. It's not just for swingers. X

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

As I understand it, 'swinging' was traditionally a couples activity with other couples. I think now, it's evolved more as being 'sex positive' has become more acceptable.

So perhaps 'swinging' is the same as having a more liberated approach to sex, nudity, multiple partners, exhibitionism, kink etc? More along the lines of 'free love'.

I do think the term 'swingers' still conjures the image of the stereotypical 'keys in the bowl' parties among the vanilla folk. So maybe that's the true definition? And everything else is just an exploration and expression of being 'sex positive'?

It's bloody fun, whatever it is

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By *pal2 OP   Man
over a year ago

cumbria


" of course they do. It's a sex site. It's not just for swingers. X"

Yes I agree although the name may imply otherwise x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I understand it, 'swinging' was traditionally a couples activity with other couples. I think now, it's evolved more as being 'sex positive' has become more acceptable.

So perhaps 'swinging' is the same as having a more liberated approach to sex, nudity, multiple partners, exhibitionism, kink etc? More along the lines of 'free love'.

I do think the term 'swingers' still conjures the image of the stereotypical 'keys in the bowl' parties among the vanilla folk. So maybe that's the true definition? And everything else is just an exploration and expression of being 'sex positive'?

It's bloody fun, whatever it is "
totally agree with everything you said x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" of course they do. It's a sex site. It's not just for swingers. X

Yes I agree although the name may imply otherwise x"
yeah but obviously it's not just aimed at "swingers" lol. X

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm just here for the sex!

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By *pal2 OP   Man
over a year ago

cumbria


"I'm just here for the sex!"

Amen to that! I guess I'm not a swinger after all. I do go in pubs but im not an alcoholic either! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us the term swingers relates to couples who swap. However the term is outdated, and we prefer sexually enlightened . I do always laugh a bit when I see single guys call themselves swingers because 95% of the time they don't have a clue about the scene. There are some single guys who I would call swingers but few and far between

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By *ream3.14159Man
over a year ago

Here & there

I'm not after single women, if it happens it happens. But I do like the dynamic of threesome with couples, I guess that makes me a swinger in away! And always thought if I have a partner would be nice if she enjoys this lifestyle too.

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By *LFB.Woman
over a year ago

Farnborough.

But if there were no singles how would you all have your 3somes, so yes i think singles are swingers. But it may mean something different to others.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

Swinging has evolved into incorporating a lot of different scenarios. Singles are very much part of that. It's a lifestyle and attitude that is more than just casual sex with multiple partner's. Singles solely seeking singles for NSA sex isn't swinging. Threesomes and upwards is swinging in my opinion regardless of the relationship status of those involved. The day is gone where swinging was a select activity solely among couple's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging has evolved into incorporating a lot of different scenarios. Singles are very much part of that. It's a lifestyle and attitude that is more than just casual sex with multiple partner's. Singles solely seeking singles for NSA sex isn't swinging. Threesomes and upwards is swinging in my opinion regardless of the relationship status of those involved. The day is gone where swinging was a select activity solely among couple's. "

Hello Red

much as I alwsys respect your opinions I wonder if any if these threads the nerd to label peolle and the inference that if you not doing it to my rules your not doing it right are ever helpful.

If some feel the need to identify sepersyly ftom others for whstever reason aren't we just doing what happens in the real world... And trying to put people in boxes to fit our own preconceptions xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

* sorry for the typos. Autocockup!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If one is to regard one-to-one sex in private as the norm, then I think it’s useful to have a word to describe sex that is a bit outside the norm, ie involving more than 2 people where others may of may not be watching. So to me that’s what swinging is.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*******************************

SALE SALE SALE

Get your labels here, we have a label for everyone!

Are you a guy who likes guys? Get into your box and get your ghey on.

If your taste is a sexy frock for the weekend? Well Sir, I have a label for you too. You have to be a HPW unless you have a figure like Cher astride a large cannon (ooer missus).

Ladies? There are labels here for you too!

Like your coffee on the Dark Side? I'm sure I have a Tattoo or two that will make the boys wink.

Or maybe you like to be a couples plaything? Strap on your horn, shimmy your rainbow sparkles ans declare yourself a fab unicorn.

Remember, we have labels for everyone, get them in any store. NOW

*Not all labels are suitable for everyone. Some labels will result in a reduction in Fab activity and may cause a allergic reaction in others. Single guys will be allocated as required. Wearer of labels may have labels changed without prior notice.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*******************************

SALE SALE SALE

Get your labels here, we have a label for everyone!

Are you a guy who likes guys? Get into your box and get your ghey on.

If your taste is a sexy frock for the weekend? Well Sir, I have a label for you too. You have to be a HPW unless you have a figure like Cher astride a large cannon (ooer missus).

Ladies? There are labels here for you too!

Like your coffee on the Dark Side? I'm sure I have a Tattoo or two that will make the boys wink.

Or maybe you like to be a couples plaything? Strap on your horn, shimmy your rainbow sparkles ans declare yourself a fab unicorn.

Remember, we have labels for everyone, get them in any store. NOW

*Not all labels are suitable for everyone. Some labels will result in a reduction in Fab activity and may cause a allergic reaction in others. Single guys will be allocated as required. Wearer of labels may have labels changed without prior notice."

I like labels. Labels are nouns which are an integral part of language. I find it easier to describe myself as a swinger or a hotwife, than have to use a combination of numerous adjectives, verbs, and nouns, when one noun will suffice. And likewise it’s easier to ask for jam than ask for preserved fruit in sugar.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I think it has to be 2 couples swapping to be classified as swingers. That's my opinion anyway.

Yes I see your point about 3 somes. So really do singles have a place on here even if a lifestyle swinger or former couple?"

There would be lots of couples complaining if they couldn’t find the singles to play with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we not Swingles ?

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs


"Are we not Swingles ?"

Absolutely,

Agree with a previous post regarding lifestyle and how people see you.

For us, we love meeting Swingles. and the experience wouldn't be the same without them.

However if you're one of the singles that say

'I'd never let my partner do this'.

Then you're not a swinger, just a shagger.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Are we not Swingles ?

Absolutely,

Agree with a previous post regarding lifestyle and how people see you.

For us, we love meeting Swingles. and the experience wouldn't be the same without them.

However if you're one of the singles that say

'I'd never let my partner do this'.

Then you're not a swinger, just a shagger. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of single males on here chasing relatively few single females, but is this swinging?"
if they're in trees ......yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are we not Swingles ?

Absolutely,

Agree with a previous post regarding lifestyle and how people see you.

For us, we love meeting Swingles. and the experience wouldn't be the same without them.

However if you're one of the singles that say

'I'd never let my partner do this'.

Then you're not a swinger, just a shagger. "

Don't have a partner at the moment.... but i definitely see your point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter how it is defined if we’re happy and not hurting anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter how it is defined if we’re happy and not hurting anyone else? "
exactly this I'm happy and I swing to the left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a swinger, I'm just doing this to meet people who are into consensual non-monogamy

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Lots of single males on here chasing relatively few single females, but is this swinging? I personally believe swingers are married/attached couples who swap eachother. The rest is just free sex which is nothing wrong with it before anyone starts an arguement lol. "

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion and my definition of myself, no.

But others may define themselves that way.

Does it matter to anyone .....no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of single males on here chasing relatively few single females, but is this swinging? I personally believe swingers are married/attached couples who swap eachother. The rest is just free sex which is nothing wrong with it before anyone starts an arguement lol.

Agree"
can I have free sex with you please ......i said please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of single males on here chasing relatively few single females, but is this swinging?"

It is if you're emotionally mature enough to deal with couples and group sex.. not so much if you're just after 121 casual sex.

I'd consider myself a "Swinger" But I also live in hope tgat my next relationship will involve Swinging as a Couple.

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By *emel9Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

In my opinion swinging is as much a mental state as it is a physical one.

I'm a swinger. I meet people 1 on 1, I go to clubs alone. I meet couples, go to clubs with female friends, watch others, join in.

I wouldn't say a meet from here 1 to 1 isn't a swinging meet, but meeting a couple is...that doesn't make sense to me.

It's the attitude, mindset and approach to this..and for me that's the all encompassing ttitle of being a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*******************************

SALE SALE SALE

Get your labels here, we have a label for everyone!

Are you a guy who likes guys? Get into your box and get your ghey on.

If your taste is a sexy frock for the weekend? Well Sir, I have a label for you too. You have to be a HPW unless you have a figure like Cher astride a large cannon (ooer missus).

Ladies? There are labels here for you too!

Like your coffee on the Dark Side? I'm sure I have a Tattoo or two that will make the boys wink.

Or maybe you like to be a couples plaything? Strap on your horn, shimmy your rainbow sparkles ans declare yourself a fab unicorn.

Remember, we have labels for everyone, get them in any store. NOW

*Not all labels are suitable for everyone. Some labels will result in a reduction in Fab activity and may cause a allergic reaction in others. Single guys will be allocated as required. Wearer of labels may have labels changed without prior notice.

I like labels. Labels are nouns which are an integral part of language. I find it easier to describe myself as a swinger or a hotwife, than have to use a combination of numerous adjectives, verbs, and nouns, when one noun will suffice. And likewise it’s easier to ask for jam than ask for preserved fruit in sugar.

Mrs"

I wonder if you may have missed the point.

I don't think anyone has issues with labels or nouns.

It's the way they are used to create division separation and hierarchies.

E.g. you can't be a proper swinger if you are single. My personal view of that is it's total bollucks.

But then what would I know I'm just another single guy on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always thought of single males or females on here as shaggers basically, in the nicest possible way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're swingers if they do the clubs and couples and NSA without emotion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a swinger. I'm just in need of a good dose of cock now and then.

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By *r C Miss CCouple
over a year ago

llanelli

They may not be swingers, but they are part of the “swinging community” as much as anyone else that enjoys this type of lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of single males on here chasing relatively few single females, but is this swinging?

It is if you're emotionally mature enough to deal with couples and group sex.. not so much if you're just after 121 casual sex.

I'd consider myself a "Swinger" But I also live in hope tgat my next relationship will involve Swinging as a Couple."

I consider myself emotionally mature...i just have no interest in meeting couples or having group sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of single males on here chasing relatively few single females, but is this swinging?

It is if you're emotionally mature enough to deal with couples and group sex.. not so much if you're just after 121 casual sex.

I'd consider myself a "Swinger" But I also live in hope tgat my next relationship will involve Swinging as a Couple.

I consider myself emotionally mature...i just have no interest in meeting couples or having group sex"

I didn't mean to imply that those who don't "Swing" Aren't emotionally mature, or those who do are. Sorry if it came across that way, I can see how reading it that way may grind, annoy or upset.

What I mean is, I have the emotional maturity to handle multiple ongoing relationships of different kinds, at the same time.

I am an emotional person, I prefer to have a mental, as well as physical connection with someone. This requires a level of emotional intelligence to stop myself from getting hurt, or confusing those I choose to "Swing with".

I can also be drawn to looms and body alone, if they're what I'd consider "Very physically desireable" And there are no negatives that draw me away from them.

Im happy with 1-2-1, MMF, FFM, Foursomes and Moresomes, provided there is attraction, mutual respect and a match of personality (with the other males involved).

I'm also quite confident that I'd be very happy "Swinging" With a long term partner im in love with and all it entails. I'd hope im now experienced enough to make that assumption, though i cant say for sure, as ive not met the right person who feels the same about me AND "Swinging".

I'm not overly fussed about being labelled. I consider myself a "Swinger" Even though others may not. I'd be interested to see what others would label me as.. I'd disagree with "Shagger" It's a little crude and I'm a little more complex than that, I'd hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I can also be drawn to looms

"

Cracking typo I have a thing for knitting too it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinger/shagger/unicorn ....im just having fun!!! Call me anyfin as long as its not vanilla

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By *DSM - CUCKOLD - COUPLECouple
over a year ago

manchester

If a tree falls in the forest but nobody hears is it a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a tree falls in the forest but nobody hears is it a swinger? "

Ooooh deeeeep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I regard swinging as a lifestyle thing. As a single guy, sometimes I engage with couples and sometimes with single women, but the basic principle is the same. Couples see me as a swinger."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you engage with couples who are swingers, technically your are swinging. but as single; no you not swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a single is looking for another single for nsa sex, that ain't swinging. If it was, every randy teenager and 20-something would be a 'swinger' as they hit the nightclubs on a Saturday.

As would every divorcee or hen party / stag night flying off to Spain thinking they might get a lucky shag.

As would every band member / fan hoping for a backstage knee trembler.

Sorry folks, but singles looking for singles for nsa sex ain't swinging."

Why are you sorry? Being a swinger isn't something to feel superior about. Your still fucking people you aren't in a relationship with. Some couples fuck indiscriminately in clubs with other couples and singles too.

I'm perfectly fine with not being labelled a swinger thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you engage with couples who are swingers, technically your are swinging. but as single; no you not swinger."

No you're not. You're fucking two people instead of one. I'm not swinging when I'm with a couple any more than I am with one.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"As I understand it, 'swinging' was traditionally a couples activity with other couples. I think now, it's evolved more as being 'sex positive' has become more acceptable.

So perhaps 'swinging' is the same as having a more liberated approach to sex, nudity, multiple partners, exhibitionism, kink etc? More along the lines of 'free love'.

I do think the term 'swingers' still conjures the image of the stereotypical 'keys in the bowl' parties among the vanilla folk. So maybe that's the true definition? And everything else is just an exploration and expression of being 'sex positive'?

It's bloody fun, whatever it is "

I’d go along with this! All I know is that I now have a great social life and I’ve had by far the best sex of my life since joining fab! In the ‘real world ‘ I’m a respectable middle aged Mum who behaves with decorum and would rarely even flirt in public - let alone pick someone up!

Fab is where I get to explore my sexuality and let my hair down - I really don’t mind what label people on here choose to give me - be it complimentary or derogatory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingle here x

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"If a tree falls in the forest but nobody hears is it a swinger? "

Only if it falls on a couple of other trees!

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I'm not a swinger. I'm just in need of a good dose of cock now and then."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My view has always been swingers are couples (I was once part of a duo)

Singles are just sex toys for couples (happy to be)

Singles meeting singles are meeting for sex with each other.... not swinging per say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My view has always been swingers are couples (I was once part of a duo)

Singles are just sex toys for couples (happy to be)

Singles meeting singles are meeting for sex with each other.... not swinging per say"

What about Singles who end up as more than just a sex toy? Let's take someone who is Polyamourous for example.

I'm more than just a sex toy. I try and avoid just being a sex toy if I'm honest.

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By *ccasionalfunCouple
over a year ago

hereandthere

If you are single you cannot be a swinger.

Swinging involves sex with others with your partner.

When ideas single I used to just fuck people.

Only when me and the wife did it with others did I become a swinger

I think the answer to this question aimed at single men would prove it

Would you let other men fuck your hypothetical girlfriend?

Most would say no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are single you cannot be a swinger.

Swinging involves sex with others with your partner.

When ideas single I used to just fuck people.

Only when me and the wife did it with others did I become a swinger

I think the answer to this question aimed at single men would prove it

Would you let other men fuck your hypothetical girlfriend?

Most would say no."

I said Yes to that hypothetical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are single you cannot be a swinger.

Swinging involves sex with others with your partner.

When ideas single I used to just fuck people.

Only when me and the wife did it with others did I become a swinger

I think the answer to this question aimed at single men would prove it

Would you let other men fuck your hypothetical girlfriend?

Most would say no."

I said Yes to that hypothetical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are Hotwives who play on their own with singles Swingers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who on earth would *want* to be a Swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who on earth would *want* to be a Swinger? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My view has always been swingers are couples (I was once part of a duo)

Singles are just sex toys for couples (happy to be)

Singles meeting singles are meeting for sex with each other.... not swinging per say"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Singles are just sex toys for couples (happy to be) not my view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are single you cannot be a swinger.

Swinging involves sex with others with your partner.

When ideas single I used to just fuck people.

Only when me and the wife did it with others did I become a swinger

I think the answer to this question aimed at single men would prove it

Would you let other men fuck your hypothetical girlfriend?

Most would say no."

But what about those guys who would be happy for their hypothetical partners to play? Those guys who move seamlessly through the swing scene as a lifestyle choice, whether or not they have a partner? Surely those guys must be swingers? Most of the guys we play with are in this camp - their approach to the lifestyle is no different from ours, even though they don’t have a partner to share it with.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are single you cannot be a swinger.

Swinging involves sex with others with your partner.

When ideas single I used to just fuck people.

Only when me and the wife did it with others did I become a swinger

I think the answer to this question aimed at single men would prove it

Would you let other men fuck your hypothetical girlfriend?

Most would say no.

But what about those guys who would be happy for their hypothetical partners to play? Those guys who move seamlessly through the swing scene as a lifestyle choice, whether or not they have a partner? Surely those guys must be swingers? Most of the guys we play with are in this camp - their approach to the lifestyle is no different from ours, even though they don’t have a partner to share it with.

Mrs"

Thankyou! Maybe you'll get an answer? I just got ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are Hotwives who play on their own with singles Swingers? "

Well I’m a swinger, but we attend swinger clubs and both play, as well as hotwifing. I don’t know if the hotwifing aspect of what we do has a right to sit under the umbrella of swinging. We think so, because 3 people are involved even if only 2 people are physically in the same room.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are Hotwives who play on their own with singles Swingers?

Well I’m a swinger, but we attend swinger clubs and both play, as well as hotwifing. I don’t know if the hotwifing aspect of what we do has a right to sit under the umbrella of swinging. We think so, because 3 people are involved even if only 2 people are physically in the same room.

Mrs"

That's exactly how I feel. Thanks for answering me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm a single female... but I've been called a unicorn not a swinger ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm a single female... but I've been called a unicorn not a swinger ????? "

I've been called a Troll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm a single female... but I've been called a unicorn not a swinger ????? "

dont get me started on that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet more labels

You can define me how you want. It matters not in the scheme of things.

I'll just carry on doing what I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there u seem to be confidently active in the scene. Could u please help or give me advice on how to start. ? I don't appear to get any response I just need a leg up lol

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"* sorry for the typos. Autocockup!"

Hey DK

I'll have what your having

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of single males on here chasing relatively few single females, but is this swinging?

It is if you're emotionally mature enough to deal with couples and group sex.. not so much if you're just after 121 casual sex.

I'd consider myself a "Swinger" But I also live in hope tgat my next relationship will involve Swinging as a Couple.

I consider myself emotionally mature...i just have no interest in meeting couples or having group sex"
I'm going to have to like you to get jiggy with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there u seem to be confidently active in the scene. Could u please help or give me advice on how to start. ? I don't appear to get any response I just need a leg up lol "
you gotta do it all yourself my friend no leg ups here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's in a name?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the term player, that's what I am. The term swinger is a bit old fashioned now. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*******************************

SALE SALE SALE

Get your labels here, we have a label for everyone!

Are you a guy who likes guys? Get into your box and get your ghey on.

If your taste is a sexy frock for the weekend? Well Sir, I have a label for you too. You have to be a HPW unless you have a figure like Cher astride a large cannon (ooer missus).

Ladies? There are labels here for you too!

Like your coffee on the Dark Side? I'm sure I have a Tattoo or two that will make the boys wink.

Or maybe you like to be a couples plaything? Strap on your horn, shimmy your rainbow sparkles ans declare yourself a fab unicorn.

Remember, we have labels for everyone, get them in any store. NOW

*Not all labels are suitable for everyone. Some labels will result in a reduction in Fab activity and may cause a allergic reaction in others. Single guys will be allocated as required. Wearer of labels may have labels changed without prior notice."

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London


"Are we not Swingles ?

Absolutely,

Agree with a previous post regarding lifestyle and how people see you.

For us, we love meeting Swingles. and the experience wouldn't be the same without them.

However if you're one of the singles that say

'I'd never let my partner do this'.

Then you're not a swinger, just a shagger. "

That is very much along the lines of how I see things. Back when I was single I knew that if I was ever lucky enough to meet and fall in love with anyone. That person would need to have an open mind with regard to swinging if the relationship was to have any chance of lasting.

So although I didn't meet the dictionary definition of a swinger I knew that I was one.

Now that I am part of a couple the mindset of any single guys we meet has a big influence on their chances of playing with us.

We don't interrogate everyone that we encounter but any time we get that "if it was me I'd NEVER share my wife/girlfriend with anyone else vibe" chances of anything happening with us go from maybe to zero.

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By *emel9Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Dictionary definitions

noun

The definition of a swinger is slang for someone who lives an uninhibited lifestyle.

A person who engages freely in experimental sexual behavior is an example of a swinger.

Informal

a person who engages in group sex or the swapping of sexual partners.

Debate for ever, which is fun. There is no right answer as it’s top opinion based.

Definitions change overtime as society and trends change. None of the above examples exclude singles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the term player, that's what I am. The term swinger is a bit old fashioned now. XXX"
ha you're a player not many admit to that

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don’t see myself as a swinger as my other half and I don’t swing together. I call myself poly instead. It’s all just how you identify yourself though really.

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By *emel9Man
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I don’t see myself as a swinger as my other half and I don’t swing together. I call myself poly instead. It’s all just how you identify yourself though really."

And about being happy, having fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"* sorry for the typos. Autocockup!

Hey DK

I'll have what your having"

Not sure you would want that Red.

Not a drop d*unk... just a crap phone

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest


"Lots of single males on here chasing relatively few single females, but is this swinging?"

Nope its singles being singles!

I think singles bring a lot to the scene but it takes two to swing

Also ive seen quite a few singles who couple up on here and then instantly announce they are no longer meeting... WTF lol any genuine swinger who met another swinger would be over the moon because they can induldge in their 'hobby' together. What they wouldn't do is instantly stop because one or both of them are jealous.

Mr

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Lots of single males on here chasing relatively few single females, but is this swinging?"

Whats swinging? Some people are very precious about how its defined... Others just want to explore and have fun without worrying too much about any labels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I identify as a single.

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

I'm a single swinger and enjoy ethical non monogamy.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"

Also ive seen quite a few singles who couple up on here and then instantly announce they are no longer meeting... WTF lol any genuine swinger who met another swinger would be over the moon because they can induldge in their 'hobby' together. What they wouldn't do is instantly stop because one or both of them are jealous.

Mr"

Absolutely agree with this! Quite a few regular forum contributors fall in to this category……

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Lots of single males on here chasing very few single females, but is this swinging?"

It’s casual no-strings fun, with likeminded people, so swinging in the literal translation.

Couples full-swap ‘swinging’ with other couples, is wife-swapping. At what point do couples become swingers? Where does the term originate?

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