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 But to put my fears to rest I usually speak right up. I just say, I've had a look at your past meets and I think you might have made a grave error in judgement, haha. I say it in a lighthearted way but still serious enough for him to understand that I've big boobs, butt and a soft tummy* 
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"Honestly it’s never bothered me. I figure I’m worth meeting on my own merit. " Spot on  | |||
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"Sorry if this has already done before But, Am I the only person who gets a teeny bit but off meeting someone (again) if I see on their verifications that they've only met slimmer women? Especially if on the verifications they leave for those women comment on how they have the perfect body etc Don't get me wrong I'm not insecure in the slightest but it always makes me wonder " Not really, I like men that look very different, sometimes their bodies are beautiful and sometimes they are not, in the traditional sense, it doesn't make those ones that are larger any less sexy! I used to feel that men that liked slimmer ladies, or that are slim themselves, couldn't like a bigger woman but I took a look at my own likes and told myself not to be so stupid. I have met some gorgeous men that think I am equally as gorgeous, whether I am fat, older or whatever other things I think may put them off. Plus, if they were turned off by women that weren't slim then attempting sex would be pretty pointless, wouldn't it? Bad sex is not better than none, surely?!  | |||
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"No, you're certainly not on your own. I've declined a meet with a couple because of this. She was super hot and slim. My confidence really wouldn't have coped. And thoughts of 'why would they want to meet me when they've already met a slimmer woman' goes through your head... Surely I'd squash them
"Just because a woman is slimmer doesn’t mean she’s more attractive or even better in bed! You have every reason to feel confident with your looks, as should every woman Beauty is very much in the eye of the beholder and someone may look at you very differently to how you look at yourself, so even if your not feeling your sexiest ..... someone is thinking that you are | |||
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"No, I think it's possible to be attracted to more than one type " Exactly. I'm fat and a lot older than my partner. He has much younger slim and fat women. He likes a mix of ages and body shapes. | |||
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"No, you're certainly not on your own. I've declined a meet with a couple because of this. She was super hot and slim. My confidence really wouldn't have coped. And thoughts of 'why would they want to meet me when they've already met a slimmer woman' goes through your head... Surely I'd squash them
"This is how I feel. I look at their former meets and if they're all slim and hot, I think 'Am I just plan B? Or C? Or even D because nobody else hotter than me was available??' When I describe myself to them, I almost go all out to put them off and even over-exaggerate my flaws just to make sure they can't say they were duped into meeting a fattie. Insecurity at its worst I guess...  | |||
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"No, you're certainly not on your own. I've declined a meet with a couple because of this. She was super hot and slim. My confidence really wouldn't have coped. And thoughts of 'why would they want to meet me when they've already met a slimmer woman' goes through your head... Surely I'd squash them
Just because a woman is slimmer doesn’t mean she’s more attractive or even better in bed! You have every reason to feel confident with your looks, as should every woman
Beauty is very much in the eye of the beholder and someone may look at you very differently to how you look at yourself, so even if your not feeling your sexiest ..... someone is thinking that you are "Totally agree here. And it’s not just physical appearance that’s attractive a persons personality can be just as if not even more attractive. It’s the spark and connection that is equally an attraction. Every one has their hang ups and things that make them self conscious. But jut be your self i think that’s the biggest attraction if some one likes the way you look or the way you come across then embrace it. And if the feeling is mutual then run with it, I think some times we can be far to judgemental of ourselves, My self being guilty of this, Nerves and being anxious some times is a good thing. Mark xx | |||
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"No, you're certainly not on your own. I've declined a meet with a couple because of this. She was super hot and slim. My confidence really wouldn't have coped. And thoughts of 'why would they want to meet me when they've already met a slimmer woman' goes through your head... Surely I'd squash them
This is how I feel. I look at their former meets and if they're all slim and hot, I think 'Am I just plan B? Or C? Or even D because nobody else hotter than me was available??'
When I describe myself to them, I almost go all out to put them off and even over-exaggerate my flaws just to make sure they can't say they were duped into meeting a fattie. Insecurity at its worst I guess... "Ah see I never ever give that "I'm a bigger girl" disclaimer because you can see that from my pics. | |||
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"I prefer to see that he has been with hotties regardless of shap/size cause then I know he has high standards where as if I see women who are not hot shall we say I get the impression that he will fuck anything so he won't be fucking me. " This is a good way of looking at it although beauty is in the eye of the beholder lol | |||
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"I prefer to see that he has been with hotties regardless of shap/size cause then I know he has high standards where as if I see women who are not hot shall we say I get the impression that he will fuck anything so he won't be fucking me. This is a good way of looking at it although beauty is in the eye of the beholder lol" It's is indeed but I'm going off what I think is beautiful | |||
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"No, I think it's possible to be attracted to more than one type Exactly. I'm fat and a lot older than my partner. He has much younger slim and fat women. He likes a mix of ages and body shapes. " Variety is the spice, after all! | |||
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"I prefer to see that he has been with hotties regardless of shap/size cause then I know he has high standards where as if I see women who are not hot shall we say I get the impression that he will fuck anything so he won't be fucking me. This is a good way of looking at it although beauty is in the eye of the beholder lol It's is indeed but I'm going off what I think is beautiful "How would you feel if someone turned down a man because he'd fucked you? | |||
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"This is the main reason I don't like the verification system. People may have fucked 1 or 1,000 people- their past has nothing to do with me. Yet if it's there as some sort of fuck list (verifications) it affects people's perceptions. If they've only have veris of fat women it's a 'disgusting fetish'. If they only have veris of slim women they 'only want to fuck a fat woman because they're desperate'. If they have no veris they are a 'lesser human being'. If they have more than 3 veris 'they'll fuck anything'. It's fucking mental. " Hahaha see I don't usually use the verifications system like this I just check out of curiosity really. Although I have taken my verifications off my profile because guys always do it to me | |||
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"Sorry if this has already done before But, Am I the only person who gets a teeny bit but off meeting someone (again) if I see on their verifications that they've only met slimmer women? Especially if on the verifications they leave for those women comment on how they have the perfect body etc Don't get me wrong I'm not insecure in the slightest but it always makes me wonder " I think you look lovely x | |||
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"Also it's worth noting that I have nothing whatsoever against slimmer ladies "Me neither - I wish I WAS one! | |||
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"Also it's worth noting that I have nothing whatsoever against slimmer ladies "It didn't sound like you did. | |||
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"I prefer to see that he has been with hotties regardless of shap/size cause then I know he has high standards where as if I see women who are not hot shall we say I get the impression that he will fuck anything so he won't be fucking me. This is a good way of looking at it although beauty is in the eye of the beholder lol It's is indeed but I'm going off what I think is beautiful
How would you feel if someone turned down a man because he'd fucked you?"From what I've seen in the forums I'm sure it's happened we all have a System about how we choose who to fuck so I don't feel anything about it, I couldn't give a shit. | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. " Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? | |||
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"I prefer to see that he has been with hotties regardless of shap/size cause then I know he has high standards where as if I see women who are not hot shall we say I get the impression that he will fuck anything so he won't be fucking me. This is a good way of looking at it although beauty is in the eye of the beholder lol It's is indeed but I'm going off what I think is beautiful
How would you feel if someone turned down a man because he'd fucked you?
From what I've seen in the forums I'm sure it's happened we all have a System about how we choose who to fuck so I don't feel anything about it, I couldn't give a shit. "I might offer the guy another fuck though for him losing out | |||
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"Sorry if this has already done before But, Am I the only person who gets a teeny bit but off meeting someone (again) if I see on their verifications that they've only met slimmer women? Especially if on the verifications they leave for those women comment on how they have the perfect body etc Don't get me wrong I'm not insecure in the slightest but it always makes me wonder " So...if you met a bald guy and said he was drop dead gorgeous and then met me who has a full head of hair...would I be right to get paranoid that you just wanna get your muff filled??? I love sweet things but I also love savoury just as much???? P.s. anyone who denies they're insecure, usually are, nothing wrong with that either. | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. " Your pictures are all gorgeous. sexy mouth sexy legs bum and boobs that would be my motive x | |||
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"Sorry if this has already done before But, Am I the only person who gets a teeny bit but off meeting someone (again) if I see on their verifications that they've only met slimmer women? Especially if on the verifications they leave for those women comment on how they have the perfect body etc Don't get me wrong I'm not insecure in the slightest but it always makes me wonder So...if you met a bald guy and said he was drop dead gorgeous and then met me who has a full head of hair...would I be right to get paranoid that you just wanna get your muff filled??? I love sweet things but I also love savoury just as much???? P.s. anyone who denies they're insecure, usually are, nothing wrong with that either." But you already know that I wouldn't meet you? | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? " There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like | |||
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"Sorry if this has already done before But, Am I the only person who gets a teeny bit but off meeting someone (again) if I see on their verifications that they've only met slimmer women? Especially if on the verifications they leave for those women comment on how they have the perfect body etc Don't get me wrong I'm not insecure in the slightest but it always makes me wonder So...if you met a bald guy and said he was drop dead gorgeous and then met me who has a full head of hair...would I be right to get paranoid that you just wanna get your muff filled??? I love sweet things but I also love savoury just as much???? P.s. anyone who denies they're insecure, usually are, nothing wrong with that either. But you already know that I wouldn't meet you?" Why ... WHY...WHY do women seem to think I want to fucking meet them??? I commented on your post, you've took your ball home and presumed I wanted to meet you.... wrong?? You were blocked weeks ago?? | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like " Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me??" He did actually say that though?. | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?." No...he didnt | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt" Yes he did, it wasn't in the original post but he said it and I even quoted it lol | |||
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"I must say I am puzzled. This is a site for people who want non committed sex with other people. It's extremely unlikely that any of us are number one on anyone's theoretical list of people they would most like to have sex with. So if someone wants to have sex with you at any given mom, why is it a problem that they fancy someone else more? " I think OP has answered that And you are missing the point, a tad | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt" Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me??" I think he did mention something about wanting to know what it was like but you're right, the whole thing was taken out of context. The poor bloke only wanted to know if there was any advice on things that he might want to avoid - I'm guessing to save any embarrassment or awkwardness with the bigger lady (who he DID say he fancied). If I'd answered on the post (which I didn't) I'd have said something along the lines of 'take it easy if you want to get her legs up over your shoulders as big bellies and boobs sometimes get in the way of breathing' but by that time the thread had become quite nasty so I opted out. | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... " I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that | |||
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"I must say I am puzzled. This is a site for people who want non committed sex with other people. It's extremely unlikely that any of us are number one on anyone's theoretical list of people they would most like to have sex with. So if someone wants to have sex with you at any given mom, why is it a problem that they fancy someone else more? I think OP has answered that And you are missing the point, a tad" Well yes, there is an issue of fetishiation, but the tenor I get from most of the messages on here is that lots of women don't like thinking that men might prefer a different body shape to theirs, other things being equal. I think that's a curious stance on a site like this. | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that " "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation??? | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation???" Omg you're acting as if I said something completely different, it was along the same lines as what I said so what's your problem? | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation??? Omg you're acting as if I said something completely different, it was along the same lines as what I said so what's your problem? " You did rather over the egg the pudding in suggesting he was only meeting her as an experiment. | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation??? Omg you're acting as if I said something completely different, it was along the same lines as what I said so what's your problem? You did rather over the egg the pudding in suggesting he was only meeting her as an experiment. " This | |||
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"I must say I am puzzled. This is a site for people who want non committed sex with other people. It's extremely unlikely that any of us are number one on anyone's theoretical list of people they would most like to have sex with. So if someone wants to have sex with you at any given mom, why is it a problem that they fancy someone else more? I think OP has answered that And you are missing the point, a tad Well yes, there is an issue of fetishiation, but the tenor I get from most of the messages on here is that lots of women don't like thinking that men might prefer a different body shape to theirs, other things being equal. I think that's a curious stance on a site like this. " I would refer you to OP's elaboration and further comments | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation??? Omg you're acting as if I said something completely different, it was along the same lines as what I said so what's your problem? You did rather over the egg the pudding in suggesting he was only meeting her as an experiment. " Well it wasn't my intention. I'd only remembered that part because like I said I had quoted him on it. But I wasn't completely far off either way | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation??? Omg you're acting as if I said something completely different, it was along the same lines as what I said so what's your problem? You did rather over the egg the pudding in suggesting he was only meeting her as an experiment. Well it wasn't my intention. I'd only remembered that part because like I said I had quoted him on it. But I wasn't completely far off either way " Please don't consider a career in law | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation??? Omg you're acting as if I said something completely different, it was along the same lines as what I said so what's your problem? You did rather over the egg the pudding in suggesting he was only meeting her as an experiment. Well it wasn't my intention. I'd only remembered that part because like I said I had quoted him on it. But I wasn't completely far off either way " It was an insensitive thread to start, but reading the whole thread I think it's clear he did fancy the woman in question, so I think it was a tad unfair suggesting he saw her as an experiment
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"Sorry if this has already done before But, Am I the only person who gets a teeny bit but off meeting someone (again) if I see on their verifications that they've only met slimmer women? Especially if on the verifications they leave for those women comment on how they have the perfect body etc Don't get me wrong I'm not insecure in the slightest but it always makes me wonder " Yes... totally puts me off. Especially when they messages saying how much they love bbw etc and how amazing our bodies are. I’m like, so how comes all your meets have been with size 12 or under. | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation??? Omg you're acting as if I said something completely different, it was along the same lines as what I said so what's your problem? You did rather over the egg the pudding in suggesting he was only meeting her as an experiment. Well it wasn't my intention. I'd only remembered that part because like I said I had quoted him on it. But I wasn't completely far off either way Please don't consider a career in law or any professional profession " Because I misquoted a thread on fab LMAO Sorry too late I already have a professional profession | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation??? Omg you're acting as if I said something completely different, it was along the same lines as what I said so what's your problem? You did rather over the egg the pudding in suggesting he was only meeting her as an experiment. Well it wasn't my intention. I'd only remembered that part because like I said I had quoted him on it. But I wasn't completely far off either way Please don't consider a career in law" You've clearly got a problem with me so it wouldn't have matter either way what I would have said you'd have found a problem with it | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation??? Omg you're acting as if I said something completely different, it was along the same lines as what I said so what's your problem? You did rather over the egg the pudding in suggesting he was only meeting her as an experiment. Well it wasn't my intention. I'd only remembered that part because like I said I had quoted him on it. But I wasn't completely far off either way Please don't consider a career in law You've clearly got a problem with me so it wouldn't have matter either way what I would have said you'd have found a problem with it " I don't know you, therefore I can't have a problem with you, I do on the other hand have a problem with people who misquote others and presume me adding an opinion means I want to meet them, it's a forum...people add opinions | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation??? Omg you're acting as if I said something completely different, it was along the same lines as what I said so what's your problem? You did rather over the egg the pudding in suggesting he was only meeting her as an experiment. Well it wasn't my intention. I'd only remembered that part because like I said I had quoted him on it. But I wasn't completely far off either way It was an insensitive thread to start, but reading the whole thread I think it's clear he did fancy the woman in question, so I think it was a tad unfair suggesting he saw her as an experiment
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"I would look and chew it over for all of 5 seconds then arrange to fuck the guy who fucks other hotties and sit back and smile at what a fucking awesome life this is and how diverse folk can be and that my sexual confidence is the reason he chose me rather than my body shape. If hes a hottie too then bonus! If hes actually an arse and just wants to fuck a big lass as an experiment then im sure it will shine through way before bumping uglies Stop overthinking it and go with it ladies! Leave those self doubts on the floor with your knickers! X" | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation??? Omg you're acting as if I said something completely different, it was along the same lines as what I said so what's your problem? You did rather over the egg the pudding in suggesting he was only meeting her as an experiment. Well it wasn't my intention. I'd only remembered that part because like I said I had quoted him on it. But I wasn't completely far off either way Please don't consider a career in law You've clearly got a problem with me so it wouldn't have matter either way what I would have said you'd have found a problem with it I don't know you, therefore I can't have a problem with you, I do on the other hand have a problem with people who misquote others and presume me adding an opinion means I want to meet them, it's a forum...people add opinions" Ok sweetie pie xxxxx | |||
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"I would look and chew it over for all of 5 seconds then arrange to fuck the guy who fucks other hotties and sit back and smile at what a fucking awesome life this is and how diverse folk can be and that my sexual confidence is the reason he chose me rather than my body shape. If hes a hottie too then bonus! If hes actually an arse and just wants to fuck a big lass as an experiment then im sure it will shine through way before bumping uglies Stop overthinking it and go with it ladies! Leave those self doubts on the floor with your knickers! X" This is a mantra | |||
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 but no i would oly explain my experience on the lady and how they were. To me a womans body should not come into anything its the womans personality and how the meet went etc that should be put onto verifications not how she looked. | |||
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"Does it work both ways round? I've only ever really slept with bigger ladies pretty much (one on one anyway)...would it put a slim lass off? Like they'd be a novelty to me or something? " Some may think you will fuck "anything" and they are too good for you. | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation??? Omg you're acting as if I said something completely different, it was along the same lines as what I said so what's your problem? You did rather over the egg the pudding in suggesting he was only meeting her as an experiment. Well it wasn't my intention. I'd only remembered that part because like I said I had quoted him on it. But I wasn't completely far off either way It was an insensitive thread to start, but reading the whole thread I think it's clear he did fancy the woman in question, so I think it was a tad unfair suggesting he saw her as an experiment
In all fairness for him to say he had never tried it and was curious to say the least ... was still insulting.
Curious about what exactly... we are still female, we have vaginas and boobs like every other woman and just like every other woman we are individual. "As I say, it's insensitive, but I can't see that it's fundamentally incorrect to say that having sex with someone very overweight - male or female. - may pose some logistical issues. | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... " I've just read it too I read it in its entirety on Sunday The OP was quite clear that he saw the lady in question as some kind of ' curiosity' And many women replied accordingly | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation??? Omg you're acting as if I said something completely different, it was along the same lines as what I said so what's your problem? You did rather over the egg the pudding in suggesting he was only meeting her as an experiment. Well it wasn't my intention. I'd only remembered that part because like I said I had quoted him on it. But I wasn't completely far off either way Please don't consider a career in law You've clearly got a problem with me so it wouldn't have matter either way what I would have said you'd have found a problem with it " Please can the two of you ignore each others posts from now on. You both know airing personal grievances on the forum is against the rules. Thanks | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I've just read it too I read it in its entirety on Sunday The OP was quite clear that he saw the lady in question as some kind of ' curiosity' And many women replied accordingly" I have just read it again. The bit I quoted was the most offensive thing and he kept repeating he fancied her and got on well with her and just wanted advice on whether there would be any physical issues. I agree he was insensitive, but I think many people put words into his mouth that weren't there. | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation??? Omg you're acting as if I said something completely different, it was along the same lines as what I said so what's your problem? You did rather over the egg the pudding in suggesting he was only meeting her as an experiment. Well it wasn't my intention. I'd only remembered that part because like I said I had quoted him on it. But I wasn't completely far off either way It was an insensitive thread to start, but reading the whole thread I think it's clear he did fancy the woman in question, so I think it was a tad unfair suggesting he saw her as an experiment
In all fairness for him to say he had never tried it and was curious to say the least ... was still insulting.
Curious about what exactly... we are still female, we have vaginas and boobs like every other woman and just like every other woman we are individual.
As I say, it's insensitive, but I can't see that it's fundamentally incorrect to say that having sex with someone very overweight - male or female. - may pose some logistical issues. "It would still be down to the individual. If you took 5 size 26 females all would be able to do different things. It would depend on a number of factors such as where they carry their weight, how tall they are in comparison to their weight, does their weight compromises their mobility ... the same weight will not have the same impact on everyone. I’m a size 22 but I’m 5ft 8 and carry my weight equally over my frame. I’m very active, I swim twice a week I and also play netball and walk everywhere and a guy could get me in any position. Now I have a friend who is a size 18/20 5ft 3 carries all her weight around her tummy and hips and can find it hard walking any distance. She admits herself that the only really comfortable position is spooning, but even then it can take its toll on her. | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I've just read it too I read it in its entirety on Sunday The OP was quite clear that he saw the lady in question as some kind of ' curiosity' And many women replied accordingly I have just read it again. The bit I quoted was the most offensive thing and he kept repeating he fancied her and got on well with her and just wanted advice on whether there would be any physical issues. I agree he was insensitive, but I think many people put words into his mouth that weren't there. " There were no mixed messages there None | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation??? Omg you're acting as if I said something completely different, it was along the same lines as what I said so what's your problem? You did rather over the egg the pudding in suggesting he was only meeting her as an experiment. Well it wasn't my intention. I'd only remembered that part because like I said I had quoted him on it. But I wasn't completely far off either way Please don't consider a career in law You've clearly got a problem with me so it wouldn't have matter either way what I would have said you'd have found a problem with it Please can the two of you ignore each others posts from now on. You both know airing personal grievances on the forum is against the rules. Thanks "Yes ma'am x | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation??? Omg you're acting as if I said something completely different, it was along the same lines as what I said so what's your problem? You did rather over the egg the pudding in suggesting he was only meeting her as an experiment. Well it wasn't my intention. I'd only remembered that part because like I said I had quoted him on it. But I wasn't completely far off either way It was an insensitive thread to start, but reading the whole thread I think it's clear he did fancy the woman in question, so I think it was a tad unfair suggesting he saw her as an experiment
In all fairness for him to say he had never tried it and was curious to say the least ... was still insulting.
Curious about what exactly... we are still female, we have vaginas and boobs like every other woman and just like every other woman we are individual.
As I say, it's insensitive, but I can't see that it's fundamentally incorrect to say that having sex with someone very overweight - male or female. - may pose some logistical issues.
It would still be down to the individual. If you took 5 size 26 females all would be able to do different things. It would depend on a number of factors such as where they carry their weight, how tall they are in comparison to their weight, does their weight compromises their mobility ... the same weight will not have the same impact on everyone. I’m a size 22 but I’m 5ft 8 and carry my weight equally over my frame. I’m very active, I swim twice a week I and also play netball and walk everywhere and a guy could get me in any position. Now I have a friend who is a size 18/20 5ft 3 carries all her weight around her tummy and hips and can find it hard walking any distance. She admits herself that the only really comfortable position is spooning, but even then it can take its toll on her.
"Well, I think that's the kind of answer he was looking for... The guy was, as I say, someone insensitive and probably not that clever, but given he said numerous times he liked and fancied the woman, I really don't see where people get this "experiment" line from. | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation??? Omg you're acting as if I said something completely different, it was along the same lines as what I said so what's your problem? You did rather over the egg the pudding in suggesting he was only meeting her as an experiment. Well it wasn't my intention. I'd only remembered that part because like I said I had quoted him on it. But I wasn't completely far off either way It was an insensitive thread to start, but reading the whole thread I think it's clear he did fancy the woman in question, so I think it was a tad unfair suggesting he saw her as an experiment
In all fairness for him to say he had never tried it and was curious to say the least ... was still insulting.
Curious about what exactly... we are still female, we have vaginas and boobs like every other woman and just like every other woman we are individual.
As I say, it's insensitive, but I can't see that it's fundamentally incorrect to say that having sex with someone very overweight - male or female. - may pose some logistical issues.
It would still be down to the individual. If you took 5 size 26 females all would be able to do different things. It would depend on a number of factors such as where they carry their weight, how tall they are in comparison to their weight, does their weight compromises their mobility ... the same weight will not have the same impact on everyone. I’m a size 22 but I’m 5ft 8 and carry my weight equally over my frame. I’m very active, I swim twice a week I and also play netball and walk everywhere and a guy could get me in any position. Now I have a friend who is a size 18/20 5ft 3 carries all her weight around her tummy and hips and can find it hard walking any distance. She admits herself that the only really comfortable position is spooning, but even then it can take its toll on her.
Well, I think that's the kind of answer he was looking for...
The guy was, as I say, someone insensitive and probably not that clever, but given he said numerous times he liked and fancied the woman, I really don't see where people get this "experiment" line from.
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation??? Omg you're acting as if I said something completely different, it was along the same lines as what I said so what's your problem? You did rather over the egg the pudding in suggesting he was only meeting her as an experiment. Well it wasn't my intention. I'd only remembered that part because like I said I had quoted him on it. But I wasn't completely far off either way It was an insensitive thread to start, but reading the whole thread I think it's clear he did fancy the woman in question, so I think it was a tad unfair suggesting he saw her as an experiment
In all fairness for him to say he had never tried it and was curious to say the least ... was still insulting.
Curious about what exactly... we are still female, we have vaginas and boobs like every other woman and just like every other woman we are individual.
As I say, it's insensitive, but I can't see that it's fundamentally incorrect to say that having sex with someone very overweight - male or female. - may pose some logistical issues.
It would still be down to the individual. If you took 5 size 26 females all would be able to do different things. It would depend on a number of factors such as where they carry their weight, how tall they are in comparison to their weight, does their weight compromises their mobility ... the same weight will not have the same impact on everyone. I’m a size 22 but I’m 5ft 8 and carry my weight equally over my frame. I’m very active, I swim twice a week I and also play netball and walk everywhere and a guy could get me in any position. Now I have a friend who is a size 18/20 5ft 3 carries all her weight around her tummy and hips and can find it hard walking any distance. She admits herself that the only really comfortable position is spooning, but even then it can take its toll on her.
Well, I think that's the kind of answer he was looking for...
The guy was, as I say, someone insensitive and probably not that clever, but given he said numerous times he liked and fancied the woman, I really don't see where people get this "experiment" line from.
I think it was the “curious to say the least” remark that got him the flack. "I agree. It's a sign of the times that one daft phrase gets you hung out to dry.. | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation??? Omg you're acting as if I said something completely different, it was along the same lines as what I said so what's your problem? You did rather over the egg the pudding in suggesting he was only meeting her as an experiment. Well it wasn't my intention. I'd only remembered that part because like I said I had quoted him on it. But I wasn't completely far off either way It was an insensitive thread to start, but reading the whole thread I think it's clear he did fancy the woman in question, so I think it was a tad unfair suggesting he saw her as an experiment
In all fairness for him to say he had never tried it and was curious to say the least ... was still insulting.
Curious about what exactly... we are still female, we have vaginas and boobs like every other woman and just like every other woman we are individual.
As I say, it's insensitive, but I can't see that it's fundamentally incorrect to say that having sex with someone very overweight - male or female. - may pose some logistical issues.
It would still be down to the individual. If you took 5 size 26 females all would be able to do different things. It would depend on a number of factors such as where they carry their weight, how tall they are in comparison to their weight, does their weight compromises their mobility ... the same weight will not have the same impact on everyone. I’m a size 22 but I’m 5ft 8 and carry my weight equally over my frame. I’m very active, I swim twice a week I and also play netball and walk everywhere and a guy could get me in any position. Now I have a friend who is a size 18/20 5ft 3 carries all her weight around her tummy and hips and can find it hard walking any distance. She admits herself that the only really comfortable position is spooning, but even then it can take its toll on her.
Well, I think that's the kind of answer he was looking for...
The guy was, as I say, someone insensitive and probably not that clever, but given he said numerous times he liked and fancied the woman, I really don't see where people get this "experiment" line from.
I think it was the “curious to say the least” remark that got him the flack.
I agree. It's a sign of the times that one daft phrase gets you hung out to dry.. "Not really, I constantly get messages stating guys are curious about being with a black woman, and it makes me feel like they want to have sex with me as some kind of experiment to see if they like it or not. When you're used to being fetishised you can spot things like that a mile away | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation??? Omg you're acting as if I said something completely different, it was along the same lines as what I said so what's your problem? You did rather over the egg the pudding in suggesting he was only meeting her as an experiment. Well it wasn't my intention. I'd only remembered that part because like I said I had quoted him on it. But I wasn't completely far off either way It was an insensitive thread to start, but reading the whole thread I think it's clear he did fancy the woman in question, so I think it was a tad unfair suggesting he saw her as an experiment
In all fairness for him to say he had never tried it and was curious to say the least ... was still insulting.
Curious about what exactly... we are still female, we have vaginas and boobs like every other woman and just like every other woman we are individual.
As I say, it's insensitive, but I can't see that it's fundamentally incorrect to say that having sex with someone very overweight - male or female. - may pose some logistical issues.
It would still be down to the individual. If you took 5 size 26 females all would be able to do different things. It would depend on a number of factors such as where they carry their weight, how tall they are in comparison to their weight, does their weight compromises their mobility ... the same weight will not have the same impact on everyone. I’m a size 22 but I’m 5ft 8 and carry my weight equally over my frame. I’m very active, I swim twice a week I and also play netball and walk everywhere and a guy could get me in any position. Now I have a friend who is a size 18/20 5ft 3 carries all her weight around her tummy and hips and can find it hard walking any distance. She admits herself that the only really comfortable position is spooning, but even then it can take its toll on her.
Well, I think that's the kind of answer he was looking for...
The guy was, as I say, someone insensitive and probably not that clever, but given he said numerous times he liked and fancied the woman, I really don't see where people get this "experiment" line from.
I think it was the “curious to say the least” remark that got him the flack.
I agree. It's a sign of the times that one daft phrase gets you hung out to dry..
Not really, I constantly get messages stating guys are curious about being with a black woman, and it makes me feel like they want to have sex with me as some kind of experiment to see if they like it or not.
When you're used to being fetishised you can spot things like that a mile away "Yes and no he may have had a general curiosity And liked this particular woman. They are not mutually exclusive.
It just seems a bit unfair to leap on the one daft thing he said and ignore the many non daft things. As I say, it seems symptomatic to me of a rush to label, condemn and caricature that we see a lot these days. | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation??? Omg you're acting as if I said something completely different, it was along the same lines as what I said so what's your problem? You did rather over the egg the pudding in suggesting he was only meeting her as an experiment. Well it wasn't my intention. I'd only remembered that part because like I said I had quoted him on it. But I wasn't completely far off either way It was an insensitive thread to start, but reading the whole thread I think it's clear he did fancy the woman in question, so I think it was a tad unfair suggesting he saw her as an experiment
In all fairness for him to say he had never tried it and was curious to say the least ... was still insulting.
Curious about what exactly... we are still female, we have vaginas and boobs like every other woman and just like every other woman we are individual.
As I say, it's insensitive, but I can't see that it's fundamentally incorrect to say that having sex with someone very overweight - male or female. - may pose some logistical issues.
It would still be down to the individual. If you took 5 size 26 females all would be able to do different things. It would depend on a number of factors such as where they carry their weight, how tall they are in comparison to their weight, does their weight compromises their mobility ... the same weight will not have the same impact on everyone. I’m a size 22 but I’m 5ft 8 and carry my weight equally over my frame. I’m very active, I swim twice a week I and also play netball and walk everywhere and a guy could get me in any position. Now I have a friend who is a size 18/20 5ft 3 carries all her weight around her tummy and hips and can find it hard walking any distance. She admits herself that the only really comfortable position is spooning, but even then it can take its toll on her.
Well, I think that's the kind of answer he was looking for...
The guy was, as I say, someone insensitive and probably not that clever, but given he said numerous times he liked and fancied the woman, I really don't see where people get this "experiment" line from.
I think it was the “curious to say the least” remark that got him the flack.
I agree. It's a sign of the times that one daft phrase gets you hung out to dry..
Not really, I constantly get messages stating guys are curious about being with a black woman, and it makes me feel like they want to have sex with me as some kind of experiment to see if they like it or not.
When you're used to being fetishised you can spot things like that a mile away
Yes and no he may have had a general curiosity And liked this particular woman. They are not mutually exclusive.
It just seems a bit unfair to leap on the one daft thing he said and ignore the many non daft things. As I say, it seems symptomatic to me of a rush to label, condemn and caricature that we see a lot these days. "That's true but unfortunately you can say 100 good things and 1 bad and the bad one is the one people will remember. If I was that lady in question it would feel to me that he was only doing it cause he wanted to experiment regardless of whether he actually fancied me or not | |||
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"I'm the same. If someone's veris are all from slim athletic ladies, then it makes me question their motives for messaging me. Because they want to have sex with you. What other motive would there be? There was a thread not long ago a guy had started stating he had arranged a meet with a size 26 woman because he had never been with a woman that size and wanted to see what it was like lol unfortunately there are people who would meet others as some sort of experiment just to see what's it's like instead of because it's something they genuinely want/like Yet another LIE!! he actually asked for advice as he wasn't sure if it would be different, he was promptly slated!! But he NEVER said it was because he "wanted to see what it was like" some women's idea if truth terrifying me?? He did actually say that though?. No...he didnt Just looked at the thread. He said. "I find her attractive, plus I've never done it before and am curious to say the least" Mixed messages perhaps... I couldn't find the thread to find the direct quote but I knew it was something like that "Something like that" do you know how dangerous that can be to someones reputation??? Omg you're acting as if I said something completely different, it was along the same lines as what I said so what's your problem? You did rather over the egg the pudding in suggesting he was only meeting her as an experiment. Well it wasn't my intention. I'd only remembered that part because like I said I had quoted him on it. But I wasn't completely far off either way It was an insensitive thread to start, but reading the whole thread I think it's clear he did fancy the woman in question, so I think it was a tad unfair suggesting he saw her as an experiment
In all fairness for him to say he had never tried it and was curious to say the least ... was still insulting.
Curious about what exactly... we are still female, we have vaginas and boobs like every other woman and just like every other woman we are individual.
As I say, it's insensitive, but I can't see that it's fundamentally incorrect to say that having sex with someone very overweight - male or female. - may pose some logistical issues.
It would still be down to the individual. If you took 5 size 26 females all would be able to do different things. It would depend on a number of factors such as where they carry their weight, how tall they are in comparison to their weight, does their weight compromises their mobility ... the same weight will not have the same impact on everyone. I’m a size 22 but I’m 5ft 8 and carry my weight equally over my frame. I’m very active, I swim twice a week I and also play netball and walk everywhere and a guy could get me in any position. Now I have a friend who is a size 18/20 5ft 3 carries all her weight around her tummy and hips and can find it hard walking any distance. She admits herself that the only really comfortable position is spooning, but even then it can take its toll on her.
Well, I think that's the kind of answer he was looking for...
The guy was, as I say, someone insensitive and probably not that clever, but given he said numerous times he liked and fancied the woman, I really don't see where people get this "experiment" line from.
I think it was the “curious to say the least” remark that got him the flack.
I agree. It's a sign of the times that one daft phrase gets you hung out to dry..
Not really, I constantly get messages stating guys are curious about being with a black woman, and it makes me feel like they want to have sex with me as some kind of experiment to see if they like it or not.
When you're used to being fetishised you can spot things like that a mile away
Yes and no he may have had a general curiosity And liked this particular woman. They are not mutually exclusive.
It just seems a bit unfair to leap on the one daft thing he said and ignore the many non daft things. As I say, it seems symptomatic to me of a rush to label, condemn and caricature that we see a lot these days.
That's true but unfortunately you can say 100 good things and 1 bad and the bad one is the one people will remember.
If I was that lady in question it would feel to me that he was only doing it cause he wanted to experiment regardless of whether he actually fancied me or not "Indeed. I agree it was an insensitive and ill advised post and would no doubt have put off the woman if she read it. But I think for us outsiders, it's only fair to judge him on everything he said, not just one sentence. | |||
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"Sorry if this has already done before But, Am I the only person who gets a teeny bit but off meeting someone (again) if I see on their verifications that they've only met slimmer women? Especially if on the verifications they leave for those women comment on how they have the perfect body etc Don't get me wrong I'm not insecure in the slightest but it always makes me wonder So...if you met a bald guy and said he was drop dead gorgeous and then met me who has a full head of hair...would I be right to get paranoid that you just wanna get your muff filled??? I love sweet things but I also love savoury just as much???? P.s. anyone who denies they're insecure, usually are, nothing wrong with that either. But you already know that I wouldn't meet you? Why ... WHY...WHY do women seem to think I want to fucking meet them??? I commented on your post, you've took your ball home and presumed I wanted to meet you.... wrong?? You were blocked weeks ago??" Don’t worry darling, you have a fan somewhere!! | |||
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"Lou feels the same. I kinda understand it too. In a playing scenario, nobody wants to feel like the inferior one. Going up against the perfect body will knock quite a few people’s confidence. " This is us too. Since having babies Mrs isn’t body confident to meet those who are athletic and body perfect or have met a majority of those types from their verifications. The amount of meets we’ve turned down from couples and guys is huge but it’s about feeling comfortable to being able to have fun for us and if Mrs isn’t comfortable then we don’t meet them and accept it’s our loss. | |||
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"Lou feels the same. I kinda understand it too. In a playing scenario, nobody wants to feel like the inferior one. Going up against the perfect body will knock quite a few people’s confidence. This is us too. Since having babies Mrs isn’t body confident to meet those who are athletic and body perfect or have met a majority of those types from their verifications. The amount of meets we’ve turned down from couples and guys is huge but it’s about feeling comfortable to being able to have fun for us and if Mrs isn’t comfortable then we don’t meet them and accept it’s our loss. " Exactly this
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"Having thought about this, I think it's another example of the male female imbalance on here. If a woman has sex with me, I can be pretty sure she fancies me quite a bit as she has so many men to choose from. On the other hand, if you are a woman who doesn't fit the conventionally attractive mould, there's always the lurking suspicion that the guy is just taking you for want of anything better. The hotter the guy, the heavier the suspicion. I suggest a healthy way of viewing this is not to care about it. If the guy has an erection, you clearly arouse him and who cares if someone else might arouse him more. Just fill your boots. "Good way to explain it
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"I prefer to see that he has been with hotties regardless of shap/size cause then I know he has high standards where as if I see women who are not hot shall we say I get the impression that he will fuck anything so he won't be fucking me. This is a good way of looking at it although beauty is in the eye of the beholder lol It's is indeed but I'm going off what I think is beautiful
How would you feel if someone turned down a man because he'd fucked you?
From what I've seen in the forums I'm sure it's happened we all have a System about how we choose who to fuck so I don't feel anything about it, I couldn't give a shit.
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