FabSwingers.com forum: what would you do????

By *eadytoplay. OP Man
over a year ago

all over

hello all ! I have a question for everyone here , I'm a straight man and I took place in gangbangs,couples swap,group fun etc and I was sure that I wouldnt wanna try nothing with another male(no problem having fun with women and them) but lately I'm getting really turned on by the idea of another man giving me a head or me to him! that happen cause I was invited from a couple to play with them and when I was doing his wife and I was about to cum the woman went on her knees by her husband so when I started cumming on her face her husband went down to and I covered him too. I was shocked but it was a huge turn on to me..... what's happening? thank u for taking time to read this !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ur bi-curious I reckon, which I guess means u need to try it before you know if your straight or bi? Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like you were going with the flow and if you are happy with it why not? I remember a fella who was in a group all having fun and was getting a blow job while he got busy with one of the ladies, he glanced down to see it was a male giving him head. If he hadn't looked he wouldn't have known, so he just closed it eyes and got back to being busy

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

time to reconsider the '100% straight' on your profile, take your time to think if it is something you want to take further.. if so, look for a guy/couple who is/are prepared to give only and will take his/their time and be prepared to stop if you change your mind at the last minute...

good luck and hope it works out for you.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

LOL you turning gay ... hahaha

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By *eadytoplay. OP Man
over a year ago

all over

lol no way !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is about what you find interesting... it could be that you need to experiment to resolve the feelings you have. We all go through 'phases' - no exceptions.

Take a dive into the unknown, and see what you find. You may surprise yourself. You should try everything once, and if you don't like it, you don't have to do it again...

Good luck

Wolf

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By *eadytoplay. OP Man
over a year ago

all over

thank u wolf ! that was helpful !

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

If there is ever a place where you're able to experiment with all forms of sexual experiences then this is the place

If you find that you're curious to try new things then try them out,you may find new aspects of sex that you love or it could be the total opposite and you may hate it

You will never know unless you try

Good luck in exploring more

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if you wear a black belt and brown shoes at the same time and something just doesn't feel right.....

you is bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get up on ma feet n let go of every excuse, cuz i wouldnt want ma babeh to go thru what i went thru

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

If there were never anything new to try imagine how boring life would be

As honeypot says you are in the best place to explore your fantasies,don't get hung up on labels just take it at a pace yo are comfortable with.

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By *uud 4-funMan
over a year ago

Dartford

From reading all of these posts and my own experiences, it looks as though once anyone is that aroused one mouth or hand feels very like another and partners are beyond caring who they are with.

If you're having threesomes and groups then male-male sexual contact is bound to happen. Just go with the flow doing what turns them on.

Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just enjoy the moment and like others have said, its great when you can explore and experience different things.

What happens during a meet for a few hours does not define your sexuality, you are not now suddenly bisexual, you've just enjoyed the moment. Let's hope you have many more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There must be something wrong with me. I have no fantasy, desire or wish to do anything with another woman. I cannot envisage any situation where I would be so out of control I didn't care who touched me.

Yet all these "100%" straight people become temporarily bi for a few hours, cum and hey voila...they're "100" straight again.

Hmmm...sits back and waits for the "I'm in denial" comments.

I'M in denial?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There must be something wrong with me. I have no fantasy, desire or wish to do anything with another woman. I cannot envisage any situation where I would be so out of control I didn't care who touched me.

Yet all these "100%" straight people become temporarily bi for a few hours, cum and hey voila...they're "100" straight again.

Hmmm...sits back and waits for the "I'm in denial" comments.

I'M in denial?!!

Its a careless assumption, that anyone doesn`t care once aroused...

To the OP..sounds like yer exploring yer sexuality....nothing wrong in that..have fun, on yer own terms...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said...dont get hung up on labels otherwise you may find urself questioning yourself all the time!

We all play differently, and its true 'some of us' do lose ourselves during a very horny session and do things we assumed our sexuality would prevent happening.

Just enjoy urself, experiment, and go with the flow. That way u can work out what you do enjoy, and what u dont. Also you may find you dont want to explore on every meet, but just feel 'safe' with certain people. Its all good!

There are no rules to this game (ok apart from staying within the law, decency,pain and consent!!)so dont feel you have to constrict yourself to a 'label'

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet all these "100%" straight people become temporarily bi for a few hours, cum and hey voila...they're "100" straight again.

Hmmm...sits back and waits for the "I'm in denial" comments.

I'M in denial?!!

Its a careless assumption, that anyone doesn`t care once aroused...

To the OP..sounds like yer exploring yer sexuality....nothing wrong in that..have fun, on yer own terms..."

I don't think it's careless as my interpretation from reading threads like these is posters don't care. They claim to be "bi playful" and "bi flexible" whilst in the throes of passion but wouldn't entertain same sex interaction one on one...ergo, to me...don't care!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're having threesomes and groups then male-male sexual contact is bound to happen."

Sorry... I mean I'm really sorry... but you are completely way off the scale with that statement.

I have had plenty of threesome MMF's with my hubby and a single guy and there has never ever been male-male sexual contact in any way shape or form.

There has been male-male contact... but trust me... it wasn't sexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet all these "100%" straight people become temporarily bi for a few hours, cum and hey voila...they're "100" straight again.

Hmmm...sits back and waits for the "I'm in denial" comments.

I'M in denial?!!

Its a careless assumption, that anyone doesn`t care once aroused...

To the OP..sounds like yer exploring yer sexuality....nothing wrong in that..have fun, on yer own terms...

Ah !!! ..My qoute was poorly written....

I was agreeing with you %*

I ought to have said..." I agree " or " I was thinking the same "

Seems to be an attitude within some threads, whereby ..those who are flexible in group situations...assume its ok fer everyone....

Wether this perspective is inferrred my myself, or the result of poorly written posts...dunno..

Tho, some posts in other threads...make clear the mindset...

I respect others sexuality...whats worrying ...is the apparent lack of respect fer mine..

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yet all these "100%" straight people become temporarily bi for a few hours, cum and hey voila...they're "100" straight again.

Hmmm...sits back and waits for the "I'm in denial" comments.

I'M in denial?!!

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Some years ago while in a relationship i was persuaded by my oh to try playing with a woman. I did so on the understanding that i couldn't guarantee i'd want to do things to her though i would (probably) be ok with her doing things to me. As it turned out she was very gifted and i thoroughly enjoyed her skills. BUT i didn't fancy her or want to reciprocate. I then tried it once more with another woman and it simply confirmed that it doesn't matter how talented someone is, without lust i don't want to play. And i have never found a woman yet who arouses lust in me. And yet i get told (by men!) that all women are bi really and i should just chill out and go with the flow! I do believe that if something seems like a good idea or really horny in the heat of action then that is the time to try it. So op, find someone who understands how new and confusing this is and give it a go. But don't let yourself be persuaded against your own judgement - cos that NEVER works!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sounds like you were going with the flow and if you are happy with it why not? I remember a fella who was in a group all having fun and was getting a blow job while he got busy with one of the ladies, he glanced down to see it was a male giving him head. If he hadn't looked he wouldn't have known, so he just closed it eyes and got back to being busy

See this to me shouldnt happen.. what if the guy was against a man doing that.. sexual contact should always be asked.. I know if someone did that to most of the men I know they would be losing their head.

cali

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

As long as you are all cool with it, go with it!

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By *isub69Man
over a year ago

Epsom

I think there needs to be consent or a the very least some understanding of the bi fun that will take place.

However if it was something that you enjoyed, then experiment and see if you like more fun with guys.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

cali "

I completely understand where you're coming from and 'asking permission' does seem the correct route to take BUT in certain situations (e.g a mini mixed gender orgy in a club) you'd have voices constantly saying 'may I touch/ lick /stroke your breast / pussy / penis?' which would interrupt the flow somewhat.

If the guy were to look down, see another guy sucking him and object then all he has to do is say 'no thanks' or gently push the other person's head / hand away. I'm sure the experience wouldn't mentally scar him for life.

I personally find someone asking my permission a bit 'cold' and awkward - especially in the throes of passion. I'd rather a subtle touch which I can then repel or accept.

Of course you'll get the 'not-so-subtle-touches' but they usually come from thoughtless pillocks who wouldn't seek permission in the first place even if that was expected.

It's an area of contention for sure ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmmmmmmm lots to think about on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally find someone asking my permission a bit 'cold' and awkward - especially in the throes of passion. I'd rather a subtle touch which I can then repel or accept.

Of course you'll get the 'not-so-subtle-touches' but they usually come from thoughtless pillocks who wouldn't seek permission in the first place even if that was expected.

It's an area of contention for sure ...

See now for the men I play with not only would a mans touch put them off it would stop play... And most likely lead to a rather nasty scene...

I however do make sure all men in a group situation state straight... And as such shouldn't then think It's ok to touch the other guys... I am also never so lost in a moment I couldn't ask or say yes.. although its master they always ask.

But I think to the op _iews that if he wants to try then try... Just if you like it be honest... As some of us ladies like our men straight.

Cali

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I personally find someone asking my permission a bit 'cold' and awkward - especially in the throes of passion. I'd rather a subtle touch which I can then repel or accept.

Of course you'll get the 'not-so-subtle-touches' but they usually come from thoughtless pillocks who wouldn't seek permission in the first place even if that was expected.

It's an area of contention for sure ...

See now for the men I play with not only would a mans touch put them off it would stop play... And most likely lead to a rather nasty scene...

But I think to the op _iews that if he wants to try then try... Just if you like it be honest... As some of us ladies like our men straight.

Cali "

You, no doubt, pre-arrange your encounters and so can specify boundaries / what's acceptable etc whereas we indulge in spontaneous play in clubs. Very different scenarios.

On straight nights, bi-men tend not to dive straight in for the very reason you stated ... that it may get nasty. So, on a normal night, it's unlikely a guy would look down and see another guy giving him a BJ (uninvited or otherwise). Bi nights are a different vibe though. In small scale encounters, a guy might say 'may I?' when offering a BJ but in a larger spontaneous group sex situation, everyone is aware that there is a high chance of a bi encounter so you won't get participants asking permission for every lick and touch.

That's what's fun about this lifestyle though - very few rules are engraved in granite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I think your right. we do however often frequent the adult cinemas.. and that we do know does have a few bi guys.. but as its all about me..( and I let them know that) we have only had one incident where I just moved a guys hand from a cock and put it on me..

That kinda set the scene..

And as we dont go to bi nights for the reason we want straight men I think it would be very unlikely that we would have that issue..

This world is all about making it right for you...

and the OP should just do what he feels happy with.. If he tried it and liked it,.. then fine.. if he tries it and hates it, then dont do it again...

its all about exploration...

Cali

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"See I think your right. we do however often frequent the adult cinemas.. and that we do know does have a few bi guys.. but as its all about me..( and I let them know that) we have only had one incident where I just moved a guys hand from a cock and put it on me..

That kinda set the scene..

And as we dont go to bi nights for the reason we want straight men I think it would be very unlikely that we would have that issue..

This world is all about making it right for you...

and the OP should just do what he feels happy with.. If he tried it and liked it,.. then fine.. if he tries it and hates it, then dont do it again...

its all about exploration...

Cali "

Well said

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