FabSwingers.com forum: Only one half...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

.. of a couple finds another couple attractive to meet.

So, do you meet them alone if your partner allows it?

Don't meet them out of respect for your partner even if they do allow it?

If you're a couple and was told the above reason why only one half of a couple wanted to meet you.. How would you feel?

It's hypothetical as we haven't faced that situation, but interesting to hear how others would deal with it.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've always said that if we're planning a meet as a couple, and for whatever reason there's one who isn't into another, then we don't play at all.

By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Its the main reason we hardly ever meet couples, the dynamic is too difficult and my Mr isn't interested in playing with others so its a big ask.

We find it far easier at a club.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've always said that if we're planning a meet as a couple, and for whatever reason there's one who isn't into another, then we don't play at all.

This

totally agree this would be the same for us when we play together if one of us isn’t feeling it or if one half of the couple isnt feeling it then we walk away completely.

We do play separately and hubby has a single profile, but I only play with single guys not couples.

MrsK x

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

".. of a couple finds another couple attractive to meet.

So, do you meet them alone if your partner allows it?

Don't meet them out of respect for your partner even if they do allow it?

If you're a couple and was told the above reason why only one half of a couple wanted to meet you.. How would you feel?

It's hypothetical as we haven't faced that situation, but interesting to hear how others would deal with it."

We don't meet alone but as said above we agreed before we started this lark if one of us wasn't interested then the meet wouldn't happen.

If another couple told us they didn't want to meet because they found one of us unattractive we wouldn't be too bothered. Not sure why they'd need to say that when simply saying "no thanks" would suffice.