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By *astRider600 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Advice on this, if a couple/female show interest in one or two messages and then read and leave a message, is it rude to message again? If not, what’s the minimum time you’d leave it to give them a chance? Only I don’t want to be the pushy one but I also respect the fact that these guys are stunning, so have probably got cocks flying at them from the left and right aha all over the goddamn place on here aha gotta try and stand out but when you’re an average but lovely guy, how’d ya do that? just trying to learn the ropes without annoying people! Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My personal view is that if they want to reply, they will reply. If they've stopped responding, just move on, they've lost interest.

I know some people were saying in another thread recently, that it's ok to send a follow up message a couple of weeks later, but for me, I'd just let it go.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

What have you got to lose by repeatedly messaging them until they block you?

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

If they don't delete my message(s), then I hope it means they're interested - if they've answered the first few, then stop, I wait a couple of weeks then follow up with an 'are you still interested?' type message....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What have you got to lose by repeatedly messaging them until they block you? "

Haha...seriously..?

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Leave it op.

They've read the message and chosen not to reply or to reply when they have more time. Assume it's gone cold and they've moved on, if they reply it's a bonus but don't expect it to happen anytime soon. As they say, 'there's plenty more.;er., probably not wise to finish that sentence, lol, but you get the idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't delete messages so that we can keep track of who we are talking too. Not because we are interested. If they become annoying then block them.

Sometimes it's not the right time to message or follow up that chat. But if they leave it a week or month you never know. Things change and an opportunity to play might come up.

That's just us. Not every couple

Englbert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What have you got to lose by repeatedly messaging them until they block you? "

Only his dignity and self respect

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By *astRider600 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Ok, so I’ve got a majority of single opinions here pointing towards the fact I’m screwed aha but shall persist on anyway, fuck it thanks for your input guys, appreciate it and yeah, it’s men like that who give every other single Male a bad name but as the same time you carry in, will just be one less competitor lol

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