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The man's orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all. We are a new couple to fab and we have now had a couple of great 4somes.

With everyone of these (which have all been amazing experiences) the man has either not cum at all during the 4some or it has always been with there own partner.

The only rule we have is that my man does not cum in the lady even with a condom on, we feel that this is a very intimate experience. But anything else fair game.

Our question is what are your rules, preferences towards this.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not part of a couple but that seems fair to me.

As long as the couples you want to play with are happy with that, then it shouldn't be a problem.

I'd much prefer that than the no kissing rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if your personal choice is for the man never to cum in you, he would only be able to cum in his partner, or not at all ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not part of a couple but that seems fair to me.

As long as the couples you want to play with are happy with that, then it shouldn't be a problem.

I'd much prefer that than the no kissing rules. "

I don't think we would meet couples that did not allow kissing. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started out very similar and then after a while started to relax the rule that guys cumming was with their own partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well they are probably saving that for the post 4some shag at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer to meet with people that have no boundaries like those ones. We feel we can't relax if there's a no go activity that we have to consciously avoid doing.

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

Thought men climaxed and woman orgasmed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought men climaxed and woman orgasmed lol "

I don't even do that. It's urgh.....uh.........oh.......splat......that's never happened to me before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your rules so whatever works for you. I'd feel a bit put out if I'd got the sex but not the man's orgasm I think,but that is my favourite part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all. We are a new couple to fab and we have now had a couple of great 4somes.

With everyone of these (which have all been amazing experiences) the man has either not cum at all during the 4some or it has always been with there own partner.

The only rule we have is that my man does not cum in the lady even with a condom on, we feel that this is a very intimate experience. But anything else fair game.

Our question is what are your rules, preferences towards this.

Xx"

I respect your preferences, but from my perspective the woman's orgasm is the ultimate goal..

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By *onnnie72Man
over a year ago

west bromwich

Sorry it just snook up on me its cause you are so sexy tho

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Hard for the man!!

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By *ouplenewmkCouple
over a year ago

milton keynes

Our rules are we are happy to fully play with others. Oral etc but we only have intercourse with each other full stop. We are happy with this and still have lots of fun x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Personally, we put no extra importance on any particular element of play. As long as everyone involved is happy with the situation as it is happening then everything is good.

The bit that we keep strictly for each other is the love and affection.

Cal

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Having said that, we have no issues with other peoples own rules and preferences and are happy to play within them.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But if your personal choice is for the man never to cum in you, he would only be able to cum in his partner, or not at all ?"

My man is allowed to cum wherever he likes ON the other lady...face, boobs, arse, in her skilful hands/mouth...just as long as he reserves cumming inside a pussy for me as that is a level of intimacy that I enjoy with him - can't explain it any better than that! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if your personal choice is for the man never to cum in you, he would only be able to cum in his partner, or not at all ?

My man is allowed to cum wherever he likes ON the other lady...face, boobs, arse, in her skilful hands/mouth...just as long as he reserves cumming inside a pussy for me as that is a level of intimacy that I enjoy with him - can't explain it any better than that! X"

Yet you (the female) can quite happily cum on another mans cock! But he can’t cum with another woman’s pussy! This Seems a little one sided if you ask us!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Prefer to meet with people that have no boundaries like those ones. We feel we can't relax if there's a no go activity that we have to consciously avoid doing. "

I’d agree!

When I had an FB on here our only ‘rule’ was that we didn’t spend the whole night with the meet (ie actually sleeping together/morning sex etc) as that’s what we considered to be the most intimate! That was just for us!

It worked pretty well for us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their own rules and limits and acts in the way they feel.

For me it's always more about the woman's orgasms and ensuring her satisfaction but given the choice I would always prefer to cum where we are biologically designed to....

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