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Shrinkage with nerves at the club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anybody (guys) suffer from the nerves and shrinking of the little man when visiting a swingers club? Can you wear a towel in those moments? I have never been to a swingers club and would like someone to take me to one, or me take them? Just a bit bothered as am a grower not a shower.

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASUREMan
over a year ago

plymouth

You need to learn and relax and remember all shapes and sized go to clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wish I could learn to master the art of relaxing at will. I would bottle it and sell it if I could.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get some Viagra if nervous? I think from this year you can get it from the pharmacist direct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it makes you feel better stage fright has happened to many of us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get some Viagra if nervous? I think from this year you can get it from the pharmacist direct"

Yes, that is an option, so entering the club with a boner sticking out of the top of your trousers is okay hahaha. I was thinking it would be a relaxing place at times when having a drink and chat so thought many guys would let it be flaccid too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not tried it personally, but I'd imagine on a light dose you'd still retain control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your worried pick a club that you don't need to dress down for. I wouldn't recommend Viagra for nerves as it can hamper rather than help. Plus it may not work if your not able to relax anyway.

Just go and chat in the bar areas.. Don't worry about the sex bit at all.

And nerves are a common thing..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to learn and relax and remember all shapes and sized go to clubs "

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Does anybody (guys) suffer from the nerves and shrinking of the little man when visiting a swingers club? Can you wear a towel in those moments? I have never been to a swingers club and would like someone to take me to one, or me take them? Just a bit bothered as am a grower not a shower. "

It's normal. Normal, normal, normal. You are human, not robot and the vast majority of men in clubs do not have erections.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Towel usually the order of the day for dress down clubs. I was more worried about the bugger saluting at inappropiate monents due to the number of sexy ladies about lol.

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASUREMan
over a year ago

plymouth

Many times you attend and junior dosnot want to work just one of those things

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By *iercedItMan
over a year ago

North West

I think towels are fine for the most part either way, but lots of clubs aren't dress down in the bar area, others dress down later, so can relax early on in those.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Most men aren’t erect in clubs so wearing a towel is fine and being in the jacuzzi without an erection is also fine - it’ll give you time to chill and relax and let the nerves go before doing anything

And viagra/sildenafil if you do try it strengthens an erection that would’ve happened anyway - it won’t randomly cause one when you’re just walking it doesn’t work like that!

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