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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve recently started to talk to someone who wants to explore his sub side.

Any ideas for tasks I can set him?

Atm I have him on a no cumming for 5 days and getting him to wear women’s underwear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done OP .....

you sound as if you have it sorted - speaking as a Bi sexual male who as within last 6 months gone from being Dom top guy , to a switching Sub on occasions, I think there is a fine line between controlling your Sub to over stepping and abusing his/her trust. Be mindful that ultimately you are giving and hopefully receiving pleasure

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your reply. Everything he has done so far are from his suggestions and when we’ve broken character, he tells me he enjoys it.

He’s looking to do more and I need inspiration!

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASUREMan
over a year ago

plymouth

Cock cage him op and make him wear it in public

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, can confirm being on day 4 of 5 being caged in chastity, it's a very effective form of control!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Purple Shadow if I had more time I'd fab every one of your pics. Some great BDSM sights and equipment on display

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Princess

You could get him to spend time with weight attached to his nipples or balls.

Also you could get him to train his ass

Then send him to by something of an embarrassing nature so he can feel a degree of humiliation (if that is his thing as there are lots of different flavours to submission)

As long as you both get enjoyment it's going to be positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Purple Shadow if I had more time I'd fab every one of your pics. Some great BDSM sights and equipment on display"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Purple Shadow if I had more time I'd fab every one of your pics. Some great BDSM sights and equipment on display

Thanks "

Your very welcome. Just wish I was in your criteria.

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By *ibertine_mindsCouple
over a year ago

Staffs/ Derbys/ Peak District

Send him shopping for only three items:

A large cucumber

A packet of condoms

A tube of lubrication

Nothing else.

And he needs to pay for them at a manned checkout.

Ask for a photo of the items and receipt . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send him shopping for only three items:

A large cucumber

A packet of condoms

A tube of lubrication

Nothing else.

And he needs to pay for them at a manned checkout.

Ask for a photo of the items and receipt . . .

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This reminds me of when I worked in Tescos years ago. A man came through the checkout with a pot of vasaline, some condoms and a Cadbury’s cream egg.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Brill idea! Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Weights sound good! Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send him shopping for only three items:

A large cucumber

A packet of condoms

A tube of lubrication

Nothing else.

And he needs to pay for them at a manned checkout.

Ask for a photo of the items and receipt . . .

This reminds me of when I worked in Tescos years ago. A man came through the checkout with a pot of vasaline, some condoms and a Cadbury’s cream egg. "

An online Domme made me and wife eat Cadbury creme eggs out of each others arses once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to him, ask questions, the more you communicate before hand, the less you will have to "break character" for want of a better phrase, find out his limits and more importantly his hard limits, and build scenarios around what you have talked about.

And don't forget after care, it's the best time to debrief your sub about what they did or didn’t enjoy.

You might know all this but the question seems fitting for the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have him explore his sexuality with men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a sub doesn't always have to be about punishing them or pain.

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By *pacer2009Man
over a year ago

burnham

Make him cum and eat it

He might get a taste for it as I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having a sub doesn't always have to be about punishing them or pain. "

This I got two loads of washing and ironing done last week, it was difficult watching someone else do my washing but it was kind of worth it, not gonna lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having a sub doesn't always have to be about punishing them or pain. "

Thumbs up for this

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

OP rather than accepting random ideas from people on a forum that don't know either of you - might be an idea to find a BDSM questionnaire on-line that you BOTH complete independently and then find mutual interests from that.

Some of the good ones will cover vast areas of BDSM that you may never have thought of and will certainly provide grounds for further discussion between you, as well as ideas around directions to take your play in.

Might also help you to read books like Screw The Roses and SM101 that may help shape your views on the whole BDSM scene

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