FabSwingers.com forum: Re messaging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Was just wanting to get peoples' thoughts on this. I have quite a large hotlist on here and one evening decided to re message a couple I had messaged previously but had had a deleted with no reply. I don't make a habit of re messaging as I understand I'm not to everyone's wants/tastes. However this time, I found got a very positive reply!

Since then, I have tried my luck a second time with a select few and have had some success... (god loves a trier and all that!)

I reiterate, I don't make a habit of this pesty behaviour but was just wondering what everyone thinks about this. Think it's sometimes worth a second punt or just to take the hint and leave alone?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

It’s worth a try after a few weeks. Unless the restraining order kicks in or her husband is an assassin

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

What's the worst that could happen? You get blocked which is no big deal. Leave it a few wks and try again

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"What's the worst that could happen? You get blocked which is no big deal. Leave it a few wks and try again

Cool, thanks

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By *weetlips1000Woman
over a year ago

Sleaford

I definitely would try again .....you only live once and like someone said they have the block option ....which is what it is there loss that's what I would think ....

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

If there is some distance, I don't mind. Sometimes you just don't spot someone properly for whatever reason.

But when it's within a couple of days, it's a bit irritating and on the same day it's annoying. Oh, and never the same message!

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

"If there is some distance, I don't mind. Sometimes you just don't spot someone properly for whatever reason.

But when it's within a couple of days, it's a bit irritating and on the same day it's annoying. Oh, and never the same message!"

The copy n paste give away when you send the same one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of meets are down to luck amd timing. Amd while personally I'd think months rather than weeks was a suitable time to chance your arm a second time I don't think there's any harm in it

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Never any harm in chancing your arm at times. Can certainly be worth it at times.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"If there is some distance, I don't mind. Sometimes you just don't spot someone properly for whatever reason.

But when it's within a couple of days, it's a bit irritating and on the same day it's annoying. Oh, and never the same message!

The copy n paste give away when you send the same one

Yes! Hmm deja vu...

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By *ibertine_mindsCouple
over a year ago

Staffs/ Derbys/ Peak District

Although we always respond to every message, it’s possible to miss one or two for a few days due to other activities and priorities at the time. A second try can only help to prompt a response - positive or not . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somtimes its a def no and sometimes not what im

Looking for at this time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah agree with all points so far to be fair!

Sometimes your opinion or decision can be swayed day by day!

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