FabSwingers.com forum: Question for the lads...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Which you going to go for?

1, £25 to get in a swingers club and have the 'chance' of sleeping with someone who's not the best aesthetically

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2, £50 for a smoking hot prostitute to service you

Let's say for arguments sake they're both amazing shags

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Club every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say 25 for the swingers club coz you can still have a great time without a shag... even though I've never been to one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club every time.

I've no idea if the prostitute is doing it out of choice or being forced. That, and having a spare £50 here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for the club. Even if you don't end up playing on one occasion you never know who you will meet and what friendships you may make. Those friendships could always lead to some exciting and sexy times down the road you never know.

Of course at a club you could also end up playing with more then one person, you never know what may happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club. Some of us don't need to pay for sex and just go for the social experience. If sex happens it happens, it's not a deal breaker.

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By *nickers pants guyMan
over a year ago

Cork killkenny laois Limerick Offaly kildare carlow Dublin Waterford and everywhere else

Definitely swingers club as you will make lots of new connections as well as lots of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though I’m a club virgin, I would always go for that! you want the person to be fucking you because she wants to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to the club twice for £50 and make a lot of new friends rather than having a fake fuck as that’s what the prostitute does everyday as a living people in the club do it for pleasure of meeting different people from all walks of life and if play happens then that’s an added bonus

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Can you get smoking hot sex workers for £50?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not as there should be chemistry between them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

By the way I've been to a couple of clubs and played most the time. Just got talking to a guy in a club on sat and he put the question to me. I answered club but then he explained that it was his local club and even though he goes most weeks he's never had any action. He had about 20 years on me and said he might do ok if there wasn't loads of younger lads like me poaching all the women. Made me think hard about what I'd do if I was him. End of the day most people don't want anything but sex on a swinging site so surely not much difference if more money changes hands

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Even though I’m a club virgin, I would always go for that! you want the person to be fucking you because she wants to

Let's presume it's a perfect world where the prostitute likes her work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha even if that’s the case, she’s still getting paid. If she did it for free then that’s different

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ha even if that’s the case, she’s still getting paid. If she did it for free then that’s different

What about if there's a video camera in the room?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you get smoking hot sex workers for £50?"

Apparently there are a few on here charging £50 for 30 mins pleasure (according to another forum post I've seen).

It used to be 50 Euros for a 15 min "Suck & Fuck" in Amsterdam and yes some of them are smoking hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The club, plus then I've got another £25 for some gins while I'm there

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

id go to a club for sure

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

How about put in some leg work, find a meet and book a hotel room instead. Far more fun for your money that way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How about put in some leg work, find a meet and book a hotel room instead. Far more fun for your money that way

I have and do. I mean no offence but that is a very female answer on here. I'm no oil painting but always done well with women. And I've sent loads of messages, literally hundreds, and that scenario has only happened once. And even then she looked nothing like the pics and I had the moral dilemma of telling her that she was too unattractive for me to want to shag, or do the deed and feel dirty because of the lack of attraction.

My point is that most on here and in clubs don't want attachment, just a quicky with no strings. So there's nothing deep or loving about it. Would it be that morally wrong to just do the same with a prostitute?

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By *eek2findMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Club.

The club is entry/membership. A prostitute is paying not only with money but your dignity. I love the thrill of the chase, the excitement of getting to know that person, and the reward of being able to please them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club every time! And never go in expecting a shag... it if happens then a bonus... but won't spoil the night of its just social with like minded friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club and see what happens..if a prostitute is a viable alternative it means you're in the wrong place with regards to fab, its not just about the sex..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Club.

Dignity? Do you watch porn? Would it be more dignified if there was a camera in the room?

As I said: it's a perfect scenario. So the pro wants to fuck you and is willing to chat after... like a good time girl instead of pro.

I'm no advocate for prostitution by the way... never shagged one. Just when asked the question it really made me think hard and sympathise with guy's situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about put in some leg work, find a meet and book a hotel room instead. Far more fun for your money that way

There's plenty of people on here like myself though who while not seeking a relationship or anything serious still need to connect with people on some kind of personal level.

For example I'd prefer to meet people from Fab that I can enjoy both the sexual and purely social side of things with.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

I go to club to socialize rather than for sex, even though the women wouldn't leave me alone not complaining just saying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" There's plenty of people on here like myself though who while not seeking a relationship or anything serious still need to connect with people on some kind of personal level.

For example I'd prefer to meet people from Fab that I can enjoy both the sexual and purely social side of things with. "

What if she's a nice person, but a prostitute and only sleeps with guys she connects with?

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

"Which you going to go for?

1, £25 to get in a swingers club and have the 'chance' of sleeping with someone who's not the best aesthetically

Or...

2, £50 for a smoking hot prostitute to service you

Let's say for arguments sake they're both amazing shags"

You see this demonstrates the inaccurate idea of swinging.

Swinging is NOT just a shag. Swinging is an attitude and approach to sexual freedom in many forms.

If all your after is a quick shag go to a Pro.

With a question like it’s shows you have no idea how the swinging world works.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

" There's plenty of people on here like myself though who while not seeking a relationship or anything serious still need to connect with people on some kind of personal level.

For example I'd prefer to meet people from Fab that I can enjoy both the sexual and purely social side of things with.

What if she's a nice person, but a prostitute and only sleeps with guys she connects with?

It would still be a club....hours of fun, often with multiple people...there's no comparison.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Which you going to go for?

1, £25 to get in a swingers club and have the 'chance' of sleeping with someone who's not the best aesthetically

Or...

2, £50 for a smoking hot prostitute to service you

Let's say for arguments sake they're both amazing shags

You see this demonstrates the inaccurate idea of swinging.

Swinging is NOT just a shag. Swinging is an attitude and approach to sexual freedom in many forms.

If all your after is a quick shag go to a Pro.

With a question like it’s shows you have no idea how the swinging world works.

Yawn!... read the thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" There's plenty of people on here like myself though who while not seeking a relationship or anything serious still need to connect with people on some kind of personal level.

For example I'd prefer to meet people from Fab that I can enjoy both the sexual and purely social side of things with.

What if she's a nice person, but a prostitute and only sleeps with guys she connects with?

It would still be a club....hours of fun, often with multiple people...there's no comparison."

For you as a couple.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

" There's plenty of people on here like myself though who while not seeking a relationship or anything serious still need to connect with people on some kind of personal level.

For example I'd prefer to meet people from Fab that I can enjoy both the sexual and purely social side of things with.

What if she's a nice person, but a prostitute and only sleeps with guys she connects with?

It would still be a club....hours of fun, often with multiple people...there's no comparison.

For you as a couple."

Or as a single, from pre couple days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paid £55 for the Bi-fun club. A few working girls were OK and I shagged 3 of them. Got sucked by another two women and by 7 or 8 guys. Got invited to have sex with a TS but it was towards the end and I was running on fumes as i had been there 3 hours. Much better than a 10 minute £40 quickie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" There's plenty of people on here like myself though who while not seeking a relationship or anything serious still need to connect with people on some kind of personal level.

For example I'd prefer to meet people from Fab that I can enjoy both the sexual and purely social side of things with.

What if she's a nice person, but a prostitute and only sleeps with guys she connects with?

It would still be a club....hours of fun, often with multiple people...there's no comparison.

For you as a couple."

For single blokes too. Get yourself along to a gangbang or greedy girls night at a club.

Put the effort in and stop making excuses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long would you get these days for 50 quid with a smoking hot pro ? 20 mins max maybe ?

I would pay my 25 quid at a swingers club and hope my charming personality gets me some action.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" There's plenty of people on here like myself though who while not seeking a relationship or anything serious still need to connect with people on some kind of personal level.

For example I'd prefer to meet people from Fab that I can enjoy both the sexual and purely social side of things with.

What if she's a nice person, but a prostitute and only sleeps with guys she connects with?

It would still be a club....hours of fun, often with multiple people...there's no comparison.

For you as a couple.

For single blokes too. Get yourself along to a gangbang or greedy girls night at a club.

Put the effort in and stop making excuses

I have no issues. More of a question to look at ethics and why there is such a negative stigma surrounding the oldest trade. Plus the state of most women at greedy girls nights is questionable. And as I said earlier the question was put to me and I said club until the guy explained his situation.

Should prob keep questions like this to myself as I knew most would just start giving me their definition of what swinging is.

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

"Which you going to go for?

1, £25 to get in a swingers club and have the 'chance' of sleeping with someone who's not the best aesthetically

Or...

2, £50 for a smoking hot prostitute to service you

Let's say for arguments sake they're both amazing shags

You see this demonstrates the inaccurate idea of swinging.

Swinging is NOT just a shag. Swinging is an attitude and approach to sexual freedom in many forms.

If all your after is a quick shag go to a Pro.

With a question like it’s shows you have no idea how the swinging world works.

Yawn!... read the thread"

I read the thread..

My comment still stands and is still valid

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Which you going to go for?

1, £25 to get in a swingers club and have the 'chance' of sleeping with someone who's not the best aesthetically

Or...

2, £50 for a smoking hot prostitute to service you

Let's say for arguments sake they're both amazing shags

You see this demonstrates the inaccurate idea of swinging.

Swinging is NOT just a shag. Swinging is an attitude and approach to sexual freedom in many forms.

If all your after is a quick shag go to a Pro.

With a question like it’s shows you have no idea how the swinging world works.

Yawn!... read the thread

I read the thread..

My comment still stands and is still valid"

So I have no idea how the swinging world works?... Whilst being in a swingers club being asked this question? You sure you can read?

Also you presume that people don't communicate or have positive relationships with pros. On that very British brothel they all looked pretty friendly and the punters popped in for a chat or cup of tea without it going any further. We're all people after all, just because a women sells her body doesn't make her some cold soulless vessel. She might enjoy it and be a right laugh.

As I pointed out earlier my main question comes from the fact that most people are ok with porn but as soon as you take the camera out the room it's immoral? Seems we're pretty fucked up if you ask me

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

"Which you going to go for?

1, £25 to get in a swingers club and have the 'chance' of sleeping with someone who's not the best aesthetically

Or...

2, £50 for a smoking hot prostitute to service you

Let's say for arguments sake they're both amazing shags

You see this demonstrates the inaccurate idea of swinging.

Swinging is NOT just a shag. Swinging is an attitude and approach to sexual freedom in many forms.

If all your after is a quick shag go to a Pro.

With a question like it’s shows you have no idea how the swinging world works.

Yawn!... read the thread

I read the thread..

My comment still stands and is still valid

So I have no idea how the swinging world works?... Whilst being in a swingers club being asked this question? You sure you can read?

Have nothing against Prositution. In fact think it should be legalised as per Other European countries.

Your initial question asked swinging club or prostitute? I replied to indicate they are very different things.

I read the thread but replied to your initial question.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry my mistake. I do understand how different they are but at the same time they are quite similar. it's an easy answer to my original question if you do ok in clubs. I genuinely felt for this bloke because he wasn't ugly, just surrounded by younger people. And he also explained how he used to do really well with the ladies when younger... got me thinking about what I would do in his shoes and as I'm not morally against prostitution I thought: maybe I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which you going to go for?

1, £25 to get in a swingers club and have the 'chance' of sleeping with someone who's not the best aesthetically

Or...

2, £50 for a smoking hot prostitute to service you

Let's say for arguments sake they're both amazing shags"

Pay £75 and take the hot prostitute to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you get smoking hot sex workers for £50?"

When he says smoking hot, he means really skinny and on crack. Whatever floats his biat though

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Going to butt in here

Really really refreshing to hear guys views on this and grasping exactly what swinging is about

Yes it’s about sex but the social is fantastic too

Oh and OP just out of worry ... if you can have a prostitute for only £50 it won’t just be a service she’s likely to give you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

25 GBP ffs no question. A prostitute is more dangerous than a swinger without guaranteeing better sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going to butt in here

Really really refreshing to hear guys views on this and grasping exactly what swinging is about

Yes it’s about sex but the social is fantastic too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and for the record most swing clubs for a single male entrance isnt 25.00

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people questioning the level of service you'd get for £50 no one seems to considered he may be referring to a 'quickie' a lot of extremely beautiful high class working girls offer this service..

So £50 for half hour with a 'professional' leaves you 27minutes to sip a coffee afterwards.

Or 3 amazing 10 minute sessions.

Must admit, it's a tough call...some clubs are horrendous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair your probably never gonna get a smoking hot prostitute for £50 the smoking hot girls are usually escorts and charge more like £125/£150 an hour give or take

Sex with an amazingly gorgeous Escort is obviously gonna be amazing but at the end of it when shes fckin off with £150 I'd be a bit gutted knowing I could have had a good night in a club with women that genuinely want to be there xxx

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

"Sorry my mistake. I do understand how different they are but at the same time they are quite similar. it's an easy answer to my original question if you do ok in clubs. I genuinely felt for this bloke because he wasn't ugly, just surrounded by younger people. And he also explained how he used to do really well with the ladies when younger... got me thinking about what I would do in his shoes and as I'm not morally against prostitution I thought: maybe I would"

Quite similar !

WTF. are you out of your mind ?

They are about as sunilar as lying in a bath at home and being a drift in the Pacific Ocean. Both involve water but that’s it.

Swinging and prostitution are just TOTALLY different approaches to sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say save yourself the money and fuck a smoking hot bird for free!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you can have a prostitute for only £50 it won’t just be a service she’s likely to give you

This is true. Up Attercliffe, for £50 I reckon they'd throw in a kebab & a bottle of VK too for that amount

We love going to clubs even when we just end up shagging each other, they're so much more than just sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me neither as both examples mean I have to pay definitely wouldn't pay to get in a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3) night on the piss with a chance to cop off anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me neither as both examples mean I have to pay definitely wouldn't pay to get in a club "

Everyone pays to get into a club.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd pocket the 75 quid and go home for a wank. Both options really turn me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite similar !

WTF. are you out of your mind ?

They are about as sunilar as lying in a bath at home and being a drift in the Pacific Ocean. Both involve water but that’s it.

Swinging and prostitution are just TOTALLY different approaches to sex. "

Yes but, you can pay your money to get in a club and have sex. Money changes hands-sex happens. You might even get a better conversation from a prostitute, if she's doing it to find her degree in biochemistry

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

" There's plenty of people on here like myself though who while not seeking a relationship or anything serious still need to connect with people on some kind of personal level.

For example I'd prefer to meet people from Fab that I can enjoy both the sexual and purely social side of things with.

What if she's a nice person, but a prostitute and only sleeps with guys she connects with?

You keep changing the parameters... next it'll be 'what if she's a prostitute who is smoking hot but is really nice, has a coffee date first, chats after sex and only shags men she has a connection with'... take the money out of the equation and what do you have? A smoking hot swinger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My take on the original post will depend what you’re after.

If it’s a good social night out with the potential, but no guarantee (of course) of any sex then without doubt the club option would be favoured.

But if I was desperate for a sexual release with a lady (ie a wank wasn’t enough

), then the prostitute pretty much guarantees that with minimal effort, whereas at a club you have to put a lot of effort in with absolutely no guarantee of success.

So it all depends on what you’re after. Sometimes it’s just a quick no-nonsense knee-trembler you need!

The only caveat, obviously, is that any paid professional was willingly partaking in it and not forced or coerced into it against their wishes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club is safer bet and more social aspects of sex dating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither for me. There needs to be chemistry or it won't happen. £25 for socialising at a club... That's a couple good bottles of wine around with friends.

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

Quite similar !

WTF. are you out of your mind ?

They are about as sunilar as lying in a bath at home and being a drift in the Pacific Ocean. Both involve water but that’s it.

Swinging and prostitution are just TOTALLY different approaches to sex.

The BIG difference is your paying to enter a Private club not to have sex. The sex happens if someone finds you and you them attractive or fits their / your criteria.

The sex in the club is an emotional / physically transaction.

With prositution your paying for the sex. It’s a business transaction. Anything after that is secondary.

As I said they are not even remotely the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite similar !

WTF. are you out of your mind ?

They are about as sunilar as lying in a bath at home and being a drift in the Pacific Ocean. Both involve water but that’s it.

Swinging and prostitution are just TOTALLY different approaches to sex.

The BIG difference is your paying to enter a Private club not to have sex. The sex happens if someone finds you and you them attractive or fits their / your criteria.

The sex in the club is an emotional / physically transaction.

With prositution your paying for the sex. It’s a business transaction. Anything after that is secondary.

As I said they are not even remotely the same. "

I know. But, it's a club where people go to have sex. If you pay your money and get sex, you're laughing. Of course, not everyone gets sex, but that's the chance you take and the difference between a club and a prostitute.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"By the way I've been to a couple of clubs and played most the time. Just got talking to a guy in a club on sat and he put the question to me. I answered club but then he explained that it was his local club and even though he goes most weeks he's never had any action. He had about 20 years on me and said he might do ok if there wasn't loads of younger lads like me poaching all the women. Made me think hard about what I'd do if I was him. End of the day most people don't want anything but sex on a swinging site so surely not much difference if more money changes hands"

I was going to clubs as a single in my early 50s and having younger lads there didn't cause me any issues....younger doesn't neccesarily equal better. There's plenty of other factors that come into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite similar !

WTF. are you out of your mind ?

They are about as sunilar as lying in a bath at home and being a drift in the Pacific Ocean. Both involve water but that’s it.

Swinging and prostitution are just TOTALLY different approaches to sex.

The BIG difference is your paying to enter a Private club not to have sex. The sex happens if someone finds you and you them attractive or fits their / your criteria.

The sex in the club is an emotional / physically transaction.

With prositution your paying for the sex. It’s a business transaction. Anything after that is secondary.

As I said they are not even remotely the same.

After all, you're not going there to play Bingo.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Quite similar !

WTF. are you out of your mind ?

They are about as sunilar as lying in a bath at home and being a drift in the Pacific Ocean. Both involve water but that’s it.

Swinging and prostitution are just TOTALLY different approaches to sex.

The BIG difference is your paying to enter a Private club not to have sex. The sex happens if someone finds you and you them attractive or fits their / your criteria.

The sex in the club is an emotional / physically transaction.

With prositution your paying for the sex. It’s a business transaction. Anything after that is secondary.

As I said they are not even remotely the same. "

Absolutely agree

A swingers club / get together does not garauntee sex

I have been to swingers parties at a house and not played and clubs where I have paid to enter and not played

And why ?

Because it’s choice .. more often than not no one I fancy but still have a fun night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and for the record most swing clubs for a single male entrance isnt 25.00 "

Nope... More like the price of the said smoking hot prostitute which may or may not be smoking hot in your eyes but only in the eyes of the supplier.

Either way money is exchanged whether one likes the idea or not being associated with what some would see as little difference. It'll get some people's backs up that some see it in the same light.

What seems to get up people's back is more about what others think rather than what they themselves believe... And her lies the problem that will make some get extremely annoyed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and for the record most swing clubs for a single male entrance isnt 25.00

Nope... More like the price of the said smoking hot prostitute which may or may not be smoking hot in your eyes but only in the eyes of the supplier.

Either way money is exchanged whether one likes the idea or not being associated with what some would see as little difference. It'll get some people's backs up that some see it in the same light.

What seems to get up people's back is more about what others think rather than what they themselves believe... And her lies the problem that will make some get extremely annoyed."

I considered going to a club once - I know why single men are charged so much (of course) but for the same money I could have seen a couple of football matches, 4 or 5 visits to the cinema, or bought a mahoosive box of Freddo’s. I opted not to go and get fleeced and don’t regret it for one minute.

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over a year ago

"and for the record most swing clubs for a single male entrance isnt 25.00

Nope... More like the price of the said smoking hot prostitute which may or may not be smoking hot in your eyes but only in the eyes of the supplier.

Either way money is exchanged whether one likes the idea or not being associated with what some would see as little difference. It'll get some people's backs up that some see it in the same light.

What seems to get up people's back is more about what others think rather than what they themselves believe... And her lies the problem that will make some get extremely annoyed.

For some it's their way of life and often their main social activities and so they view it as value for money. For others their social life is quite different and as such don't see it as value for money. It's all a matter of priorities and choices.

I do think they take the hand out of single guys, but while there's a market, it'll not change. I'll only go to socials where each person is charged the same price on principle of equality and respect. That's my choice.

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By *aughty_PompeyMan
over a year ago

Cosham

Club.... people are there through their own choice and sexual predelictions. They are basically there for the same reason I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Club.... people are there through their own choice and sexual predelictions. They are basically there for the same reason I am."

Professional Escort (provided legitimate and not coerced unwilling) : there through their own choice and happy to provide sexual services for commercial gain. They are basically there on the same understanding that you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A club, without a shadow of doubt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people saying that they wont go to clubs and yet many will go to a nightclub and the likes and pay entry in, i see no difference really

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over a year ago

"people saying that they wont go to clubs and yet many will go to a nightclub and the likes and pay entry in, i see no difference really"

Not at £60 a pop though!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Can you get smoking hot sex workers for £50?"

Can a single guy get in a swing club for £25? I've been to 4 different clubs, and never paid less than £40......

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over a year ago

"people saying that they wont go to clubs and yet many will go to a nightclub and the likes and pay entry in, i see no difference really

Not at £60 a pop though! "

some night clubs i have been to are 40.00 in on a certain nights. like the old school all nighters (recently)

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

" There's plenty of people on here like myself though who while not seeking a relationship or anything serious still need to connect with people on some kind of personal level.

For example I'd prefer to meet people from Fab that I can enjoy both the sexual and purely social side of things with.

What if she's a nice person, but a prostitute and only sleeps with guys she connects with?

It would still be a club....hours of fun, often with multiple people...there's no comparison."

Two hours in a club is my limit; after being ignored for that long, amazingly I lose interest and leave, thoroughly underwhelmed

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over a year ago

"and for the record most swing clubs for a single male entrance isnt 25.00

Nope... More like the price of the said smoking hot prostitute which may or may not be smoking hot in your eyes but only in the eyes of the supplier.

Either way money is exchanged whether one likes the idea or not being associated with what some would see as little difference. It'll get some people's backs up that some see it in the same light.

What seems to get up people's back is more about what others think rather than what they themselves believe... And her lies the problem that will make some get extremely annoyed."

So you pay for a hotel room then meet someone take back there and have sex does that then make it it similar to prostitution. Really some people need to think before commenting. Swinging clubs you pay to use the club (like most night clubs) for the use of the hot tube the rooms the showers towels. Not paying to have sex. A lot big couples go to clubs for the atmosphere and only play with each other does that make them like prostitutes. Nothing in the slightest are they the same

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Paid £55 for the Bi-fun club. A few working girls were OK and I shagged 3 of them. Got sucked by another two women and by 7 or 8 guys. Got invited to have sex with a TS but it was towards the end and I was running on fumes as i had been there 3 hours. Much better than a 10 minute £40 quickie."

This is probably why they call you 'Jammydave' then lol! I've been to 4 clubs as a single guy, never had so much as a hard-on in any of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to the club for experience or go somewhere like retro club or private club and enjoy the pleasure of a hostess, gangbang or greedy girl x

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over a year ago

"and for the record most swing clubs for a single male entrance isnt 25.00

Nope... More like the price of the said smoking hot prostitute which may or may not be smoking hot in your eyes but only in the eyes of the supplier.

Either way money is exchanged whether one likes the idea or not being associated with what some would see as little difference. It'll get some people's backs up that some see it in the same light.

What seems to get up people's back is more about what others think rather than what they themselves believe... And her lies the problem that will make some get extremely annoyed.

Without seeming rude maybe you should have thought before you commented. It's a shame many do not try to see that others may have a difference in opinion and it can be just as valid as ones own.

I'm trying to see your argument that paying for a hotel could be seen in the same. Are you saying it could be? If so then I'm sure there are some like yourself who think that, others may see it for what it is... a room to rent. What one does in that room is up to the individuals and in no way do the owners advertise it in any form as a venue to have sex though not guaranteed ...If they did then I could see your point that it may be seen as a legimised brothel for social and pleasure though neither aspect is guaranteed.

I think instead of getting all up tight if someone sees another's activity or preference differently than one does, it be more productive to be open that others do have a difference of opinion.

If you find it so offensive then I'd say don't comment, of if you do then be prepared to be more open minded with a different view.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Having witnessed the herd of single men following the women around various clubs. Id say if i was a single man id go to a normal bar to meet people and maybe find fun and friendship. And if i wanted a fuck id see a professional.

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over a year ago

"and for the record most swing clubs for a single male entrance isnt 25.00 "

But some are

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over a year ago

"and for the record most swing clubs for a single male entrance isnt 25.00

But some are"

name me some?

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Which you going to go for?

1, £25 to get in a swingers club and have the 'chance' of sleeping with someone who's not the best aesthetically

Or...

2, £50 for a smoking hot prostitute to service you

Let's say for arguments sake they're both amazing shags"

3. Keep the £75 and go to the pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done both in my time and make the following observations

1. Many prostitutes aren't really into the sex. The attitude is often get on with it, Cum quick and fucK off.

2. Many clubs have zombie guys following any woman or couple around with their cock in hand. Doesn't help the single man's general image.

3. I've certainly been with couples where the woman is just going through the motions to take one for the team. Makes the sex as pleasant as item 1.

So the answer is club. Be involved and make conversation, develop a connection before playing.

Age is no barrier. Some women like young guys but lots have an age range close to their own.

Smoking hot looks don't guarantee a great sex experience. Some of the best sex has been with people who are not exceptional in the looks department, but they are super exceptional in attitude and enthusiasm for sex.

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over a year ago

"Which you going to go for?

1, £25 to get in a swingers club and have the 'chance' of sleeping with someone who's not the best aesthetically

Or...

2, £50 for a smoking hot prostitute to service you

Let's say for arguments sake they're both amazing shags"

Is neither an option?

I did the prostitute thing a couple of times in Germany as a young soldier. Didn't like it, I felt bad after, even though it's legal and accepted in German society.

Tried a club on my own a few years ago and definately isn't the place for me on my own. If I went with a friend.. male or female so I had a wingman/woman.. I'm sure I'd have much more of a laugh. Not feel like the desperate single male that I'm not.

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over a year ago

Ok, lot going on here. Mostly people's inability to be objective and defending swinging like I said it was prostitution. But hey, a lot of the population are dopes so I guess it's to be expected.

Consider why so many of you have such a negative opinion of sex when money changes hands, but still watch porn. Or why so many have said that prostitution is dangerous without me saying where you would meet them.

I'm no advocate of prostitution but I feel it falls into the same category as drugs and should be legal and regulated.

I love to question everything and thought this was an interesting one to consider as I was in a swing club, with people fucking everywhere, but the a guy mentions money changing hands and I automatically took the moral high ground. Like I knew his situation, or the pro, or anything about it. Loads of people have done the same on here but think about why.... I know a lot are just defending something you love but I personally thought swingers would be more accepting. I'd like to think I've not been brainwashed by society and can form my own opinions but with this one question from a lonely guy I realised I'm way more institutionalised than i thought I was.

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over a year ago

"and for the record most swing clubs for a single male entrance isnt 25.00

But some are

name me some?

Klub kink... The club I was in at the time

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over a year ago

"and for the record most swing clubs for a single male entrance isnt 25.00

But some are

name me some?

Klub kink... The club I was in at the time"

you wont find many....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Which you going to go for?

1, £25 to get in a swingers club and have the 'chance' of sleeping with someone who's not the best aesthetically

Or...

2, £50 for a smoking hot prostitute to service you

Let's say for arguments sake they're both amazing shags

Is neither an option?

I did the prostitute thing a couple of times in Germany as a young soldier. Didn't like it, I felt bad after, even though it's legal and accepted in German society.

Yeah I definitely know where you're coming from.

I slept with a good time girl in Thailand. There it's accepted because the more money you make the more credible of job. Plus no fucked up western 'sex is bad' view. But I still felt a little bad.

And yeah being a guy on your own definitely makes you feel like one of the vultures waiting for a rotting corpse to drop in your lap.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

"and for the record most swing clubs for a single male entrance isnt 25.00

But some are

name me some?

Klub kink... The club I was in at the time

you wont find many....

You not gonna ask me to find a pro for £50

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over a year ago

i have no issue with men/woman/couples going to paid women or escorts.

i think some countries its acceptable but here its not, god knows why not in this day in age. (another conversation)

Swing clubs offer the time to socialise, liaise with others and maybe click and have fun and i have no issue paying my entrance to go, after all they have overheads to pay for too

Would i pay for sex, if i wasn't getting it or getting what i liked yes i would look at a paid person, if they was offering what i was looking for

just the same in kink. if i am after something and no-one i know and trust could help/assist i would glady pay for a pro domme or dom

its like anything in life, half empty half full. its your life and your morals

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over a year ago

"and for the record most swing clubs for a single male entrance isnt 25.00

But some are

name me some?

Klub kink... The club I was in at the time

you wont find many....

You not gonna ask me to find a pro for £50"

No i answered the question OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha where on earth are you going to find a smoking escort for £50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about put in some leg work, find a meet and book a hotel room instead. Far more fun for your money that way

I’m sorry mate but how can you speak for “most people” on here. Unless you have interviewed every one of them then I’d say you’re only qualified to speak for yourself. Very few people I’ve chatted to on here are solely after a quick shag.

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over a year ago

"Which you going to go for?

1, £25 to get in a swingers club and have the 'chance' of sleeping with someone who's not the best aesthetically

Or...

2, £50 for a smoking hot prostitute to service you

Let's say for arguments sake they're both amazing shags

Is neither an option?

I did the prostitute thing a couple of times in Germany as a young soldier. Didn't like it, I felt bad after, even though it's legal and accepted in German society.

Yeah I definitely know where you're coming from.

I slept with a good time girl in Thailand. There it's accepted because the more money you make the more credible of job. Plus no fucked up western 'sex is bad' view. But I still felt a little bad.

And yeah being a guy on your own definitely makes you feel like one of the vultures waiting for a rotting corpse to drop in your lap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're assuming that there won't be anyone "smoking hot" at a club. It does sometimes happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A stunning escort for 50 notes?

I'd pick the club anyday, unless it was on Tuesday afternoon full of old men walking about in groups following any women that dares stray from the bar

Then I'd rather just have a wank

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How about put in some leg work, find a meet and book a hotel room instead. Far more fun for your money that way

Do a search. Read the profiles. Think about how many couples are on here that want sex but nothing else and hey presto, you have your most. I didn't say a quick shag either I said attachment.

This is the last dopey comment I reply to about phrasing

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"and for the record most swing clubs for a single male entrance isnt 25.00

But some are

name me some?

Cougars and cubs at both Eureka and dv8 are that price for single guys

Saturdays at Eureka are £35 for single guys

My event at klubkink in March £30

All the above are exactly the same price for couples too

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over a year ago

"Which you going to go for?

1, £25 to get in a swingers club and have the 'chance' of sleeping with someone who's not the best aesthetically

Or...

2, £50 for a smoking hot prostitute to service you

Let's say for arguments sake they're both amazing shags"

Prostitute for £50?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're assuming that there won't be anyone "smoking hot" at a club. It does sometimes happen! "

When you assume you make an ass out of u and me.

Was a scenario based question and the bloke was not as kind as me when describing the swinging ladies. Was a poor night so I couldn't argue really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about put in some leg work, find a meet and book a hotel room instead. Far more fun for your money that way

Imo large majority of men are here are after a quick shag

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

Quite similar !

WTF. are you out of your mind ?

They are about as sunilar as lying in a bath at home and being a drift in the Pacific Ocean. Both involve water but that’s it.

Swinging and prostitution are just TOTALLY different approaches to sex.

The BIG difference is your paying to enter a Private club not to have sex. The sex happens if someone finds you and you them attractive or fits their / your criteria.

The sex in the club is an emotional / physically transaction.

With prositution your paying for the sex. It’s a business transaction. Anything after that is secondary.

As I said they are not even remotely the same.

No the OP said paying to get into swinging clubs and paying a prostitutte are quite similar.

I’m saying they are not. Even thinking they are close is so wrong.

They are totally different approach’s to getting sex.

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over a year ago

Quite similar !

WTF. are you out of your mind ?

They are about as sunilar as lying in a bath at home and being a drift in the Pacific Ocean. Both involve water but that’s it.

Swinging and prostitution are just TOTALLY different approaches to sex.

The BIG difference is your paying to enter a Private club not to have sex. The sex happens if someone finds you and you them attractive or fits their / your criteria.

The sex in the club is an emotional / physically transaction.

With prositution your paying for the sex. It’s a business transaction. Anything after that is secondary.

As I said they are not even remotely the same.

No the OP said paying to get into swinging clubs and paying a prostitutte are quite similar.

I’m saying they are not. Even thinking they are close is so wrong.

They are totally different approach’s to getting sex.

I get your point but in the OP's defence based on some of the threads I've seen on here from single guys complaining that they've paid £xx to get into a club and then not ended up playing, some guys do see it as similar to seeing escorts as they're parting with money for sex.

It's not the same at all but from certain people's point of view I can see how it could be similar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about put in some leg work, find a meet and book a hotel room instead. Far more fun for your money that way

Imo large majority of men are here are after a quick shag "

or a quick cum and go, or Bj LOL

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over a year ago

Quite similar !

WTF. are you out of your mind ?

They are about as sunilar as lying in a bath at home and being a drift in the Pacific Ocean. Both involve water but that’s it.

Swinging and prostitution are just TOTALLY different approaches to sex.

The BIG difference is your paying to enter a Private club not to have sex. The sex happens if someone finds you and you them attractive or fits their / your criteria.

The sex in the club is an emotional / physically transaction.

With prositution your paying for the sex. It’s a business transaction. Anything after that is secondary.

As I said they are not even remotely the same.

No the OP said paying to get into swinging clubs and paying a prostitutte are quite similar.

I’m saying they are not. Even thinking they are close is so wrong.

They are totally different approach’s to getting sex.

My approach is often different with each lady... Her position often determines it

The results are often the same... satisfied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me neither as both examples mean I have to pay definitely wouldn't pay to get in a club

Everyone pays to get into a club..... "
that's why I don't go

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over a year ago

"For me neither as both examples mean I have to pay definitely wouldn't pay to get in a club

Everyone pays to get into a club..... that's why I don't go "

what stops you?

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

"Ok, lot going on here. Mostly people's inability to be objective and defending swinging like I said it was prostitution. But hey, a lot of the population are dopes so I guess it's to be expected.

I'm no advocate of prostitution but I feel it falls into the same category as drugs and should be legal and regulated.

Who are you calling dopes?

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I do understand how different they are but at the same time they are quite similar.

Your Inferring ( or saying )going to a Swinging club and paying a prostitute are similar.

Think you need to remember what you typed or to read your own posts.

You keep changing your opinion like a leaf in the wind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say 25 for the swingers club coz you can still have a great time without a shag... even though I've never been to one.

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how do u know if u never been to one lol

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over a year ago

Quite similar !

WTF. are you out of your mind ?

They are about as sunilar as lying in a bath at home and being a drift in the Pacific Ocean. Both involve water but that’s it.

Swinging and prostitution are just TOTALLY different approaches to sex.

The BIG difference is your paying to enter a Private club not to have sex. The sex happens if someone finds you and you them attractive or fits their / your criteria.

The sex in the club is an emotional / physically transaction.

With prositution your paying for the sex. It’s a business transaction. Anything after that is secondary.

As I said they are not even remotely the same.

No the OP said paying to get into swinging clubs and paying a prostitutte are quite similar.

I’m saying they are not. Even thinking they are close is so wrong.

They are totally different approach’s to getting sex.

I also said they were very different. For a women it's prob a lot more like prostitution because it's almost a guarantee if you're not too picky.

You pay money, you have sex. You pay money, you go into a place where people go to have sex. All the socialising, liasing etc. Is kinda presumptuous that there is no social side to brothels. Not saying there is, but it looked like there was on 'a very British brothel'

Think this is turning into a quote mining conversation. I'll say it once more. It's more looking at why the exchanging of money makes sex so immoral? And also why it's ok if you record it?

I find swinging hard to define on here so this is always gonna be a contentious convo

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over a year ago

"Ok, lot going on here. Mostly people's inability to be objective and defending swinging like I said it was prostitution. But hey, a lot of the population are dopes so I guess it's to be expected.

I'm no advocate of prostitution but I feel it falls into the same category as drugs and should be legal and regulated.

Who are you calling dopes?

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I do understand how different they are but at the same time they are quite similar.

Your Inferring ( or saying )going to a Swinging club and paying a prostitute are similar.

Think you need to remember what you typed or to read your own posts.

You keep changing your opinion like a leaf in the wind. "

And so should you! It's how we grow

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By *ows the time 300Man
over a year ago

Rickmansworth

Or you could just visit a prostitute who's into swinging as well so you get the best of both worlds

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

Quite similar !

WTF. are you out of your mind ?

They are about as sunilar as lying in a bath at home and being a drift in the Pacific Ocean. Both involve water but that’s it.

Swinging and prostitution are just TOTALLY different approaches to sex.

The BIG difference is your paying to enter a Private club not to have sex. The sex happens if someone finds you and you them attractive or fits their / your criteria.

The sex in the club is an emotional / physically transaction.

With prositution your paying for the sex. It’s a business transaction. Anything after that is secondary.

As I said they are not even remotely the same.

No the OP said paying to get into swinging clubs and paying a prostitutte are quite similar.

I’m saying they are not. Even thinking they are close is so wrong.

They are totally different approach’s to getting sex.

I also said they were very different. For a women it's prob a lot more like prostitution because it's almost a guarantee if you're not too picky.

Think this is turning into a quote mining conversation. I'll say it once more. It's more looking at why the exchanging of money makes sex so immoral? And also why it's ok if you record it?

I find swinging hard to define on here so this is always gonna be a contentious convo"

You have no idea.

If you think a woman going to a swinging club is like a women working as a prostitutte your barking. Totally

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Quite similar !

WTF. are you out of your mind ?

They are about as sunilar as lying in a bath at home and being a drift in the Pacific Ocean. Both involve water but that’s it.

Swinging and prostitution are just TOTALLY different approaches to sex.

The BIG difference is your paying to enter a Private club not to have sex. The sex happens if someone finds you and you them attractive or fits their / your criteria.

The sex in the club is an emotional / physically transaction.

With prositution your paying for the sex. It’s a business transaction. Anything after that is secondary.

As I said they are not even remotely the same.

No the OP said paying to get into swinging clubs and paying a prostitutte are quite similar.

I’m saying they are not. Even thinking they are close is so wrong.

They are totally different approach’s to getting sex.

I also said they were very different. For a women it's prob a lot more like prostitution because it's almost a guarantee if you're not too picky.

Think this is turning into a quote mining conversation. I'll say it once more. It's more looking at why the exchanging of money makes sex so immoral? And also why it's ok if you record it?

I find swinging hard to define on here so this is always gonna be a contentious convo

You have no idea.

If you think a woman going to a swinging club is like a women working as a prostitutte your barking. Totally

Joseph smith he was a profit, dumb da dumb dumb dumb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Joseph smith he was a profit, dumb da dumb dumb dumb"

Is this a punchline to a joke, or did you mean prophet!? I am so confused!?!

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By *av_55Man
over a year ago

Club, every single time ,,

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over a year ago

Quite similar !

WTF. are you out of your mind ?

They are about as sunilar as lying in a bath at home and being a drift in the Pacific Ocean. Both involve water but that’s it.

Swinging and prostitution are just TOTALLY different approaches to sex.

The BIG difference is your paying to enter a Private club not to have sex. The sex happens if someone finds you and you them attractive or fits their / your criteria.

The sex in the club is an emotional / physically transaction.

With prositution your paying for the sex. It’s a business transaction. Anything after that is secondary.

As I said they are not even remotely the same.

No the OP said paying to get into swinging clubs and paying a prostitutte are quite similar.

I’m saying they are not. Even thinking they are close is so wrong.

They are totally different approach’s to getting sex.

I also said they were very different. For a women it's prob a lot more like prostitution because it's almost a guarantee if you're not too picky.

Think this is turning into a quote mining conversation. I'll say it once more. It's more looking at why the exchanging of money makes sex so immoral? And also why it's ok if you record it?

I find swinging hard to define on here so this is always gonna be a contentious convo

You have no idea.

If you think a woman going to a swinging club is like a women working as a prostitutte your barking. Totally

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By *JDDCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

What about meeting nice people and good company? If anything else happens it's a bonus!and better too!!should not asumme it's on a plate x respect for everyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Joseph smith he was a profit, dumb da dumb dumb dumb

Is this a punchline to a joke, or did you mean prophet!? I am so confused!?!

Joseph Smith he was a PROPHET dumb da dumb dumb dumb

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"What about meeting nice people and good company? If anything else happens it's a bonus!and better too!!should not assume it's on a plate x respect for everyone"

Respect for everyone should be the way, totally! But being a single guy in a club, I've experienced that glassy-eyed 'Oh no, not another single guy' look of disinterest, including the less than subtle turning of the head to avoid eye contact 'in case he comes over to talk to us', it really ramps up your excitement when you're already feeling like a square peg in a round hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about meeting nice people and good company? If anything else happens it's a bonus!and better too!!should not assume it's on a plate x respect for everyone

Dont tar women as all the same

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"What about meeting nice people and good company? If anything else happens it's a bonus!and better too!!should not assume it's on a plate x respect for everyone

Dont tar women as all the same"

I didn’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Joseph smith he was a profit, dumb da dumb dumb dumb

Is this a punchline to a joke, or did you mean prophet!? I am so confused!?!

Joseph Smith he was a PROPHET dumb da dumb dumb dumb "

I still have no idea why we're talking about Joseph Smith!? He's the Morman right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Joseph smith he was a profit, dumb da dumb dumb dumb

Is this a punchline to a joke, or did you mean prophet!? I am so confused!?!

Joseph Smith he was a PROPHET dumb da dumb dumb dumb

I still have no idea why we're talking about Joseph Smith!? He's the Morman right?"

Yeah it's a South Park episode where they tell the true story of Joseph Smith. It's funny how people could believe that story. But yeah the episode has a song hence the dumb da dumb dumb dumb. I got bored of repeating myself so went lyrical

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Joseph smith he was a profit, dumb da dumb dumb dumb

Is this a punchline to a joke, or did you mean prophet!? I am so confused!?!

Joseph Smith he was a PROPHET dumb da dumb dumb dumb

I still have no idea why we're talking about Joseph Smith!? He's the Morman right?"

Did you google that or did you know who he was? I know who he is but don't think he's that well known. Me saying he was a profit then saying dumb da dumb dumb dumb... The irony eh?

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over a year ago

"Joseph smith he was a profit, dumb da dumb dumb dumb

Is this a punchline to a joke, or did you mean prophet!? I am so confused!?!

Joseph Smith he was a PROPHET dumb da dumb dumb dumb

I still have no idea why we're talking about Joseph Smith!? He's the Morman right?

Ah!

I haven't seen the South Park episode strangely, but yes I know of him. I used to enjoy getting into debates with the Mormons missionaries, who seem, for the most part, really nice people. They were always trying to foist the book of Mormon onto me, but I have enough recycling as it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which you going to go for?

1, £25 to get in a swingers club and have the 'chance' of sleeping with someone who's not the best aesthetically

Or...

2, £50 for a smoking hot prostitute to service you

Let's say for arguments sake they're both amazing shags"
my vote is for swingers club.. where she is willingly doing it just for fun.. but the otherway is doing for money where there is no feeling or happiness. while one would be doing she would still be thinking about next or your pocket lol i dint like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The difference between paying a prostitute or paying to get into a club is who gets the money, at the end of the night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The difference between paying a prostitute or paying to get into a club is who gets the money, at the end of the night. "
Most of they guys like it in swingers club rather than doing with a pimp..

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over a year ago

"The difference between paying a prostitute or paying to get into a club is who gets the money, at the end of the night. Most of they guys like it in swingers club rather than doing with a pimp..

Better people to socialise with after the fuck

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

2, £50 for a smoking hot prostitute to service you

LOL

For £50 they are going to be from the 'value' range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The difference between paying a prostitute or paying to get into a club is who gets the money, at the end of the night. Most of they guys like it in swingers club rather than doing with a pimp..

Better people to socialise with after the fuck

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yea, i am with you.. i like it and love to talk as wel, rather than just moving on and on .. it is so mechanical without and feel in it..

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"The difference between paying a prostitute or paying to get into a club is who gets the money, at the end of the night. "

You are guaranteed sex with a prostitute, whereas in a club you have no guarantee of anything

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over a year ago

"Joseph smith he was a profit, dumb da dumb dumb dumb

Is this a punchline to a joke, or did you mean prophet!? I am so confused!?!

Joseph Smith he was a PROPHET dumb da dumb dumb dumb

I still have no idea why we're talking about Joseph Smith!? He's the Morman right?

Ah!

Yeah I met a couple of mormons whilst in America and they were lovely. South Park made the point of who cares how crazy the story is if the people are good. Great the stuff you could get away with back in the day. Kinda racist religion towards the native Americans though so I don't like all aspects of the story. But that's probably why it was popular back then

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By *layfulAussieMan
over a year ago

Sydney

£25 for the club for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

2, £50 for a smoking hot prostitute to service you

LOL

For £50 they are going to be from the 'value' range"

I was just thinking double the first price. I have no idea how much prostitutes cost

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over a year ago

What club charges £25 for a single guy?

I attended 3 clubs last year. 2 in Birmingham and 1 in London. £60 was the cheapest entry whilst £70 was the dearest.

I should have just stayed home and had a wank instead. I found couples extremely clicky indeed and found it difficult to just talk to people. I didnt have high expectations but ive had 3 rather bad experiences that have put me off.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"What club charges £25 for a single guy?

I attended 3 clubs last year. 2 in Birmingham and 1 in London. £60 was the cheapest entry whilst £70 was the dearest.

Read further up and I’ve said about some clubs where it’s only £25

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over a year ago

"What club charges £25 for a single guy?

I attended 3 clubs last year. 2 in Birmingham and 1 in London. £60 was the cheapest entry whilst £70 was the dearest.

Read further up and I’ve said about some clubs where it’s only £25

Thanks hun,

I didnt read all the posts. Started with the first few and scrolled to the bottom for the most recent before posting.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"What club charges £25 for a single guy?

I attended 3 clubs last year. 2 in Birmingham and 1 in London. £60 was the cheapest entry whilst £70 was the dearest.

Read further up and I’ve said about some clubs where it’s only £25

Thanks hun,

I didnt read all the posts. Started with the first few and scrolled to the bottom for the most recent before posting.

Haha I tend to do that .. I’m a great advocate for clubs not charging the Earth for guys ... I’m a great believer that if they pay too much they tend to expect to get their money’s worth if you know what I mean

Keep it the same entry price as a couple and everyone’s a winner

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over a year ago

"What club charges £25 for a single guy?

I attended 3 clubs last year. 2 in Birmingham and 1 in London. £60 was the cheapest entry whilst £70 was the dearest.

Read further up and I’ve said about some clubs where it’s only £25

Thanks hun,

I didnt read all the posts. Started with the first few and scrolled to the bottom for the most recent before posting.

Keep it the same entry price as a couple and everyone’s a winner

Now that sounds like great business awareness. Why dont other club owners use your way of thinking? If only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just can't get aroused at the idea of parting with money for sex with someone who's obviously doing it for the money.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"What club charges £25 for a single guy?

I attended 3 clubs last year. 2 in Birmingham and 1 in London. £60 was the cheapest entry whilst £70 was the dearest.

Read further up and I’ve said about some clubs where it’s only £25

Thanks hun,

I didnt read all the posts. Started with the first few and scrolled to the bottom for the most recent before posting.

Keep it the same entry price as a couple and everyone’s a winner

Now that sounds like great business awareness. Why dont other club owners use your way of thinking? If only

Haha well any event I have ever held I stick to those rules for pricing

Ladies are charged a lot less but for a very good reason ... getting ladies to clubs is very very hard. Not many venture alone so charging a minimal amount or even free is an incentive

And before all the guys moan about that just think of there are no ladies there you would be disappointed so from a business sense and a moral sense it’s fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which you going to go for?

1, £25 to get in a swingers club and have the 'chance' of sleeping with someone who's not the best aesthetically

Or...

2, £50 for a smoking hot prostitute to service you

Let's say for arguments sake they're both amazing shags"
for me neither but for you the first choice is as you said ' chance ' so id opt for the prostitute but £50 really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club.

There's nothing attractive about the idea of having sex with someone who doesn't want to have sex.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"What club charges £25 for a single guy?

I attended 3 clubs last year. 2 in Birmingham and 1 in London. £60 was the cheapest entry whilst £70 was the dearest.

I’ve had 4 similar experiences, in 4 different clubs too mate, and it’s quite nice to discover I’m not alone in this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... being a single guy in a club, I've experienced that glassy-eyed 'Oh no, not another single guy' look of disinterest, including the less than subtle turning of the head to avoid eye contact 'in case he comes over to talk to us', it really ramps up your excitement when you're already feeling like a square peg in a round hole "
Ouch, not nice!

Can't say I've experienced exactly the same, but I have had people avoiding looking at me in clubs, couples, that was. Made me wonder if they would be more chilled around me if they knew I was straight. Hence, out of the bi-threesome bounds of the play.

But more often than not couples quickly ask the question about what am I into or what am I looking for. So, positive attention, you could say. Or at least they are not trying to avoid me or looking down when passing! And of course, I also pay a lot less as a single woman.

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over a year ago

" There's plenty of people on here like myself though who while not seeking a relationship or anything serious still need to connect with people on some kind of personal level.

For example I'd prefer to meet people from Fab that I can enjoy both the sexual and purely social side of things with.

What if she's a nice person, but a prostitute and only sleeps with guys she connects with?

Are you still pimping out the ladies of the night?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I’ve always accepted the premium cost of entry of being a single guy in a club, it’s not like anyone keeps it secret lol! Supply and demand, that’s just life. But I just wasn’t prepared for the ignominy of being looked down upon like a beggar in the streets by other club users

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over a year ago

"What club charges £25 for a single guy?

I attended 3 clubs last year. 2 in Birmingham and 1 in London. £60 was the cheapest entry whilst £70 was the dearest.

I’ve had 4 similar experiences, in 4 different clubs too mate, and it’s quite nice to discover I’m not alone in this

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this life is clicky you fit or you don't ,I try to inject humour ,you make a woman laugh and her knickers fall to the floor like she's been on a successful diet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would go for the club.

As for the looks...that is so not a determinant of how good sex will be. I slept with gorgeous women who were dead fishes in bed. And I slept with women who most would overlook but with whom I had the most mind blowing connection.

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