FabSwingers.com forum: Fab friends and non Fab friends.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I'm here looking for FWB's people who I am equally happy having a social drink with as well as playing together.

I'd be happy making purely social friends through here as well to be honest. I think the more friends you have who you can talk to about this side of life the better.

So my questions for you all are these. Do you ever find your Fab friends and non Fab friend groups mixing or do you try and keep the two friendship groups totally separate?

Have any of you ever had any problems arise from the Fab friends and non Fab friends groups mixing?

I'm just curious as I'm hoping to develop a circle of friends who indulge in the swinging world that I can spend social time with.

But at the same time I have a very good pre existing group of friends of whom the majority would not understand the world of swinging etc.

Does anyone find any difficulties in keeping this from certain friends and making time for two very different friendship groups?

For example I've got a lot of great friends I've known for over half my life, but I feel I can't tell a lot of them about this bit of my life. That really bugs me!

Genuinely interested to hear other people's thoughts as I'm still fairly new to the world of Fab and swinging myself.

Apologies for the rather rambling nature of the post.

By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I have friends we meet in the clubs ,we become good friends ! But they know my friends from work , college ,family . Don't know about my swinging life .

I have a few great girl friends a meet here , I am sure we can develop a great friendship . Is hard sometimes try to manage a group of different friends but I am happy to mix them up , but seat who knows who together.

In the clubs they always called me for my first name, but here I tend to call by the user name ! Which can be a problem ! ! But you need to choose wisely to don't come back on you . I never had an issue but meet people who did ! X

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We wouldn't mix the two sets of friends and find no difficulty in keeping them apart.

To be honest we've found that most of the people we meet have no desire to take it to friends level, especially the single men. Despite many people saying otherwise we feel the majority aren't interested in friendship. Of course it could be that we're so awful they don't want to be friends