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Solo Safeguarding

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By *razymaybe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Truro

My wife and I play solo, have come up with what we think is a pretty conclusive safeguarding checklist.

Curious as to what other women playing solo do to try and stay as safe as possible....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet in a public place always let someone know where I am going and do not accommodate strangers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social meet first unless it’s a club

Always tell a friends details of when and where

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

As above. Social first. If I'm getting in a car I'll take a photo of the number plate and text it to a friend.

Also have what we call an opposite text. If the worse were to happen any k*dn*pper would ensure the text I sent was a positive text. So I send a text saying small cock, crap time. Then my friend knows I'm ok. If I send a positive text, they know something is wrong.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

When I met for sex I tended to speak to someone for a good while before I met to get a feel for them. By the time we did meet I was happy to invite the odd one to my home and never had any problems doing that.

If you up end meeting someone who will harm you they can do it at any stage,whether you meet at a pub first or after a few meets it doesn't matter where you are.

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASUREMan
over a year ago

plymouth

Social meet first in public place check the verifs out by messaging the peeps who give the verifs

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

I only meet in clubs now just easier

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By *razymaybe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Truro

Thanks for all the tips! Yeah we use most of them! We also have a tracking app which is really handy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As above. Social first. If I'm getting in a car I'll take a photo of the number plate and text it to a friend.

Also have what we call an opposite text. If the worse were to happen any k*dn*pper would ensure the text I sent was a positive text. So I send a text saying small cock, crap time. Then my friend knows I'm ok. If I send a positive text, they know something is wrong."

Great idea about the crap sex text.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I talk to them a lot before meeting and pass all full face photos/fab profile link/kik username/mobile number etc to my other half. I also say exactly where we’ll be and my other half tracks me on Find Friends to make sure. My watch has an SOS feature if I hit the buttons right which will also alert him and that watch never comes off.

I’ll also FaceTime him around an hour in (I move slowly ) so he knows everything is cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I met for sex I tended to speak to someone for a good while before I met to get a feel for them. By the time we did meet I was happy to invite the odd one to my home and never had any problems doing that.

If you up end meeting someone who will harm you they can do it at any stage,whether you meet at a pub first or after a few meets it doesn't matter where you are.

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This is the exact same way I feel about it.

Most times I text a friend the address and message her when I leave

But if a guy is psycho his true colours can show at any time

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