FabSwingers.com forum: Time wasters!

By *oehouse OP Man
over a year ago

maidstone

There should be a way in which you can let everyone know the people your chatting to could be time wasters.

I was chatting to a couple last night exchanged pics and arrange to meet. They sent me there address and I drove all the way to only find when outside the door they wanted to cancel.

Takes the piss. I see loads of people meaning about single guys wasting time but everyone does it!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Do you think maybe they looked through the window and didn't fancy you?

Maybe you don’t look like your pics and they think you are a time waster.

And that’s why a system wouldn’t work. Too many variables.

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASUREMan
over a year ago

plymouth

Social meets always best to start with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arranging to meet so quickly after first contact is always high risk. Particularly if you've not spoken to them

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I’m playing devils advocate by the way because it’s not nice, but I don’t see s system working because some people would make stuff up.

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

"Social meets always best to start with "

Agreed. Although I have got lucky with "come on over" scenarios.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Social meets always best to start with "

This. Absolutely spot on!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Social meets always best to start with

This. Absolutely spot on!

Definitely s them out as does talking on phone and cam first.

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASUREMan
over a year ago

plymouth

Thanks guys as we all know letting down someone with a drink and a chat is the best way manners cost nothing x

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Social meets always best to start with "

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Arranging to meet so quickly after first contact is always high risk. Particularly if you've not spoken to them"

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Only fools rush in. Couldn’t agree more on the social meet first aspect. What if you did go in their house, only to find you didn’t actually like them? You may have ended up being the time waster. Always best to build rapport first, then arrange a social over a beer/coffee, see if you all click and then arrange a play date. The journey can be as much fun as the destination. We may be old fashioned and boring to some but we don’t care, it’s how we roll. Good luck for the future anyhow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a woman give us the wrong house number..the road name was right but the number didnt exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social meets always and that way if your all honest with each, its your opportunity to say "thanks but not for me" or "shall we meet again" etc etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We had a woman give us the wrong house number..the road name was right but the number didnt exist"

Had that twice last year and that was after meeting social first grrrrrrrr

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